In every relationship, communication is very essential. Positively, if you’ve found yourself a man that loves cunnilingus and you just sit back, relax and enjoy the whole fun, there are some things guys have issues with.
So many guys don’t care and just want to eat you out, while some are more cautious and demanding of your genitals, below are things your man wish u knew before he goes down on you…
- Keep her fresh and presentable
Your man definitely wants you to be fresh down there. You should shower 2-3 times in a day especially after the gym; this is because sex might happen out of nowhere.
- The pubes
Most women think guys want their privates shaved or waxed. While most guys don’t really care (they are just happy to be in its presence), no one wants pubes stuck between their teeth. Keep that noise trimmed. And trust me you will also feel more comfortable in your underpants.
- Different strokes for different dudes
We have three types of dudes – dudes who refuse to eat out, dudes who oblige and dudes who LOVE it. And when I say LOVE it, I mean like a hobby. If you run into one of these guys, he wants nothing more to make you feel good. So if you are tense, it interferes with their work. Take deep breaths, play with your nipples or his hair. Don’t forget that a lot of guys are self-conscious about if they are actually pleasing you.
Help him help you!
- Some guys love being dominated
Probably every relationship or sex advice article you read is about communication. Guiding your partner to your extra special spots helps them help you. Some guys love being dominated, so commanding them to that little curve around your clit will turn them on even more.
So it’s time for you to know your sweet spots.
- Take it to a whole different level
Don’t be scared to introduce other things that will help spice up your relationship, everyone loves variety. A toy, a pillow under your hips, a little ass play, sitting on his face amongst other fun things, you don’t need to just sit back and let him do all the work. Give him a helping hand.
- The grand finale
Lots of guys would really be thankful if you let them know when you are about to climax. We ladies have a tendency to squeeze their heads with our thighs, buck our hips or what have you. Extra moaning, panting and cursing will give him the heads up and let him know he’s doing a good job.