Pastor Funke Felix-Adejumo has stated the importance of acknowledging sex in marriage.
According to the clergywoman in a snippet on Instagram, couples need to have sex in their union.
Emphasizing the importance of women embracing the sexuality during marriage, Adejumo in the trending video, said ‘’Who told us that women don’t like s#x. I like s#X. If I don’t like s#x, how will I have children? You are just pretending, you like s#x. African cultures have told you a woman should not show that she enjoys s#X oo! Otherwise, they would call her a prostitute.”
Challenging these notions, Adejumo urged couples, especially women, to shift their mindset.
“When the man is touching you, you’re happy. So, the first thing is to disbelieve those cultural restraints in your mind, otherwise, you’ll cause problems in your marriage. Tell yourself, sex is good. I want my husband,” she advised.
She further admonished women to be expressive during intimacy rather than remaining passive. The pastor demonstrated a stiff posture, as she cautioned against merely adhering to the traditional missionary style.
“Talk, moan, sex is good. You cannot believe that African mentality. Let’s change it. The devil is using it to destroy marriages because that’s the highest level of intimacy,” she asserted.
Adejumo continued saying, “Tickle your husband, touch him when he’s making love to you. When he’s done, tell him he did a good job.”
