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  • Oba Ewuare’s advice to selfish, sectional leaders – By Ehichioya Ezomon

    Oba Ewuare’s advice to selfish, sectional leaders – By Ehichioya Ezomon

    An Esan proverb says, “It’s in the mouth of an elder that the maize is strong.” That’s, it’s an elder – with farming experience – that can decide if the corn is mature to harvest.

    Figuratively, though, only the bold, courageous, and unwavering can broach what the lily-livered can’t contemplate.

    Fittingly, His Royal Majesty, Omo N’Oba N’Edo Uku Akpolokpolo, Oba Ewuare II, Oba of Benin, has lately admonished leaders to pursue the people’s collective interest.

    Like his forebears – from Oba Erediauwa I to Oba Akenzua II down the ages – Oba Ewuare seldom speaks in public. When he does, it’s to tell truth to power.

    It’s usually when that power is present, either at the Palace of the Oba in downtown Benin City, the capital of Edo State, or when the Oba pays a visit to the subject.

    If the subject visits the Royal Court, the Omo N’Oba will deliver his punch, as he formally responds to the subject’s reason for the courtesy. (If the Oba visits, the uppercut will rank in his address).

    It doesn’t matter if the subject touches on the theme of the Oba’s remarks. What’s apt is, the Royal Father seizes on the moment to tell the subject the home truth.

    Unlike most of his peer Royal Fathers, the Oba doesn’t massage visitors’ egos in public, and draw their ears behind the scenes. On matters of public interest, he’ll censure them in the open!

    On a thank-you-visit on June 20, former Minister of State for Budget and Planning, Prince Clem Agba, got a shocking appraisal from Oba Ewuare: He’d failed Edo people – on whose behalf he became Minister.

    Agba ought to reciprocate in kind, and service the three senatorial districts of Edo State, rather than pander to sectional interest.

    The Omo N’Oba noted Agba’s appreciation of his intervention – writing to former President Buhari for Edo State to have two cabinet slots – that Agba benefitted from.

    Yet, he said he couldn’t remember seeing Agba on more than two occasions, first at a visit when the Oba complained about the flood in Benin, and at the expiration of Agba’s tenure as Minister.

    Omo N’Oba declared: “I will keep certain things from the public domain. However, I am constrained to talk about them.

    “We interacted once in a while. It is true that my intervention to former President Buhari made you benefit from the office you held. We thank God for that.

    “But I was also wondering about many things, as you were a beneficiary of that office, Budget and Planning.

    “I was wondering if any of our people was also a beneficiary from your office! I am stating that they should thank you if anyone benefited from your being in the office.”

    Though he put Agba on the spot, saying he performed “below expectation,” Oba Ewuare’s posers were also directed at leaders with Agba’s kind of opportunity.

    He advised all Edo indigenes to use their “good offices” to attract development to the entire state, and to better the lots of the people.

    An obviously dumbstruck Agba couldn’t answer the pointed questions, or didn’t want to, to avoid countering the revered Monarch. Either way, it wasn’t a sign of good omen for Agba!

    Agba’s at the Palace to thank Oba Ewuare for his intervention that landed him cabinet appointment in 2019.

    He’s also to brief the Oba on his stewardship, and efforts made to ensure the Benin Royal Museum – a project the Oba’s very passionate about – got an allocation from the Federal Government.

    Agba began from the national level: “I have come here with some of my friends and brothers, to thank His Royal Majesty, for his love for Edo State and your love for this country, Nigeria.

    “You will recall that after the elections, a lot of people thought that the country would go on fire; but His Royal Majesty continued to organize prayers to ensure that there is peace in our country, Nigeria.

    “So… I thought it worthy of commendation that His Royal Majesty should be thanked for the prayers you offered to God and our ancestors.”

    On the homefront, Agba said: “You will recall that in 2016, Edo State had one Minister in the cabinet of immediate past President of Nigeria, but in 2019, His Majesty wrote to the then Mr President to consider and let Edo have two Ministers.

    “I became a beneficiary of that prayer, and I happen to have become the first Minister from Edo North since 1999. I have come to His Majesty for that privilege of his prayers to Mr President, for which I am a beneficiary.

    “So, having done my job for three and half years and I completed it; I thought it wise to come back to His Majesty and thank you for your prayers; for your support and the advice that throughout the three and half years, I was a Minister… So, I am indeed very grateful to His Majesty.”

    Agba took Oba Ewuare’s seeming rebuke with calmness, but some busybodies felt the Oba’s less charitable chiding Agba publicly, and denounced the Monarch.

    But Agba issued a disclaimer and a cease-and-desist to the media warriors, as they weren’t known to him, nor fighting on his behalf.

    In a “Disclaimer Notice,” Agba said: “I do not, I repeat, I do not, and I will not have any disagreements with His Royal Majesty, Oba of Benin Kingdom, on any matter whatsoever.

    “I would like to address some commentaries and articles that have come to my attention, purportedly in response to the questions I received from our esteemed Royal Majesty, Omo N’Oba N’Edo Uku Akpolokpolo, Oba Ewuare II, Oba of Benin Kingdom, about my stewardship.

    “Let me make it clear, without any doubt, that the commentaries and articles that have surfaced are neither sought nor sponsored by me. It is not my nature to join issues in public. He (Oba) is not only my father but also the father of all of us in Edo State.”

    Agba revealed that the Oba later granted him a private audience, where he clarified some of the issues raised by the Monarch.

    He said: “Unaware to most, later that evening, His Royal Majesty graciously granted me an opportunity to privately discuss and address those concerns, allowing me to provide clarifications and answers.

    “Especially regarding how the provision for the storage of the artefacts was captured in the Budget, for which I apologized and clarified that was not my intention.”

    Agba advised those, who insist on writing articles and commentaries, “attempting to politicize the situation,” to stop the “fruitless pursuit.”

    A timely disapproval, particularly as politicians can do with some benevolence – from the calibre of Omo N’Oba Ewuare II in the society – to put a word for them in high places!

    The Benin Monarch’s done it before with the two ministerial slots granted to Edo State on his intervention. He can do more to benefit Edo people and the state.

    Those crying more than Agba wouldn’t want to “use the Oba to scratch their teeth.” Or else, they lose all 32! They should respect Agba’s disclaimer, and halt fanning the flames of discord in Edo State!

  • Buhari acted on wrong advice over N500, N1000 notes – Keyamo

    Buhari acted on wrong advice over N500, N1000 notes – Keyamo

    The spokesperson for the All Progressives Congress Presidential Campaign Council (APC-PCC), Festus Keyamo, has said that President Buhari acted on a wrong advice to his directive on the naira swap policy.

    Recall that on Thursday, February 16, President Buhari in a national broadcast on the controversial policy, ordered that the old N200 banknotes remain in circulation till April 10, while the old N500 and N1,000 bills no longer serve as legal tender.

    The ensuing currency scarcity has led to protests across the country with several cases of ATMs destroyed, as well as banking facilities and property damaged.

    Speaking on Channels on Friday night, February 17, Keyamo said

    ‘’My view is that the President acted honestly without intention to slight the Supreme Court. But he may have acted on wrong advice. I did not give that advice; it is not my responsibility. I don’t know who gave that advice. I want to say this openly because tomorrow, people will ask me where I stood at this time.”he said

    The Minister of State for Labour stated that President Buhari’s speech acknowledged that there were certain matters in court and that the President believed he was playing safe by purportedly intervening to quell the growing tension across the country.

    “He thought he was playing safe by saying, ‘Before you decide this matter in court, may I just provide some middle ground so that country burning, there are riots everywhere, so let me just try and provide some succour to the people, whilst acknowledging the matters are in court.

    Now, if I were to advise him, I would have advised differently. I did not advise him. It’s not my responsibility; I don’t know who.”

    Asked what his counsel to the President would have been, Keyamo said it would be for him to “comply strictly with the terms of the order of the Supreme Court, [which is that] all the old notes should circulate for now side by side with the new notes because that is the order of the Supreme Court.”

    He added that by virtue of the constitution, “all authorities in Nigeria must obey the orders of the Supreme Court, “adding that anything to the contrary is “a descent to anarchy.”

  • Stop looking for ready-made husband – Charly Boy advises women

    Stop looking for ready-made husband – Charly Boy advises women

    Nigerian singer and activist, Charles Oputa has advised ladies to stop seeking ready-made husbands and start being supportive.

    In an Instagram post, Charly Boy said that ladies must be able to offer more than sex and start supporting their men in other areas of life.

    According to him, most relationships are cut short nowadays because many ladies only have sex to offer in their relationships and nothing more.

    He said: “Many girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused to give them sex. Some girls have even turned into sex toys just to keep a man. Let me be very open here, sex might not be the reason these guys walk away.

    “Remove sex from a relationship and you’ll see that most girls do not have anything else to offer their man.

    ” Aside from sex, what do you have to offer to a man. Can you support him spiritually? Can you support him physically and financially? How about mentally?”

    He urged ladies to stop spending unnecessarily on material things and plan for the future with their partners.

    “All you girls do is demand money for bags, shoes, phones, clothes, and outings. Making him spend unnecessarily. What are you even bringing to the table?

    “Have you ever sat him down and helped him plan for his future. Try to be a woman that a man will always regret losing for the rest of his life.

    “Be that woman that your man can’t afford to lose to another man. Build your man to your taste and stop looking for a ready-made husband when you’re not a ready-made wife,” he added.

  • How your relationship can last longer – Naira Marley advises ladies

    How your relationship can last longer – Naira Marley advises ladies

    Nigerian music star, Naira Marley has come out to advise ladies on how to make a relationship last longer.

    Naira, who is known to have one of the most controversial fanbase, in a recent tweet said ladies should endeavour to regularly source other females for their boyfriends.

    According to the Marlian president, by so doing, their relationship will last longer.

    “Try to dey give your boyfriend babes so the relationship go last longer”, he tweeted.

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  • Ruggedman reveals how to marry a good woman

    Ruggedman reveals how to marry a good woman

    Nigerian rapper, Ruggedman has shared his recipe for marrying a good woman.

    The veteran rapper took to his Twitter page on Monday, March 11, 2019, advising men who plan to marry a good wife to also be also responsible so as to be able to attract the right

    “When you pray to marry a good wife, also pray to be a good husband! You cannot wear Designer suit with bathroom slippers. Good morning twitfam,” he tweeted.

     

     

    Months back, veteran comedian and actor, Okey Bakassi also shared his own relationship advice

    In his words:For all the brothers who are planning to marry if you do not believe that a man and woman are equal then don’t bother to marry. If you are looking for a woman to serve and worship you, don’t marry an educated woman. If you are insecure and too jealous, don’t marry a woman who is beautiful.

    “But if you are looking a woman who will give and raise beautiful children with you, take you to the next level, support you in times of need, marry a beautiful woman who is hardworking and educated and has a mind of her own. If you don’t have the right tools and the right mindset to sustain a marriage, you can learn but nor carry person daughter punish am o,” he said.

  • EGRP: Bill Gates’ advice to Buhari on economy clearly ‘misunderstood’ – FG

    The Federal Government has said that the advice given by world renowned philanthropist and business mogul, Bill Gates on Nigerian’s economy was clearly misunderstood by the media.

    Recall that Gates had at the special and expanded National Economic Council, held in Abuja on Thursday, said the present economic template being used by the Muhammadu Buhari government does not have the ability to address the unique needs of Nigerians at present.

    The philanthropist and founder of Microsoft corporation said the Nigerian government’s Economic Recovery and Growth Plan (ERGP) identifies “investing in our people” as one of three “strategic objectives” but the “execution priorities” do not fully reflect people’s needs, “prioritising physical capital over human capital.”

    The philanthropist noted further that the most important choice Nigerian leaders can make is “to maximise the country’s greatest resource, which is the people.”

    The investor also advised the Nigerian government to shifts its attention from oil to the agricultural sector so as to make it a steady and alternative means of revenue generation for the country.

    However, In a swift response, the minister of Budget and National Planning, Udoma Udoma, in a statement on Friday said the media misunderstood the context in which Mr. Gates made his remarks and that he could not have faulted the Federal Government’s ERGP.

    It seems the context in which Gates made his remarks was not well understood.

    A close reading of his statement shows that the point Mr. Gates was making was that the human capital development should have been explicitly indicated as part of the execution priorities of the ERGP.

    This is not the same as saying that the ERGP does not address human capital development or that Mr. Gates faulted Nigeria’s economic plans as some newspapers put it.”

    Udoma said the ERGP prioritises human capital development, insisting that the priority areas of the ERGP have cross-cutting potentials which are all focused towards empowering the people and improving their general conditions.

    The ERGP rests on the three pillars of restoring growth, investing in the Nigerian people and building a competitive economy.”

    Recall that President Muhammadu Buhari had in April 2017 unveiled a four-year ERGP (2017-2020) to help propel the country towards the path of development and growth.

    ERGP is an economic plan that builds on the 2016 Strategic Implementation Plan (SIP), a short term plan aimed at tackling corruption, improving security and rebuilding the nation’s economy.

     

     

  • Direct your anti-war advice to Fulani herdsmen, MASSOB tells Sultan

    Direct your anti-war advice to Fulani herdsmen, MASSOB tells Sultan

    The Movement for the Actualisation of the Sovereign State of Biafra has faulted the advice by the Sultan of Sokoto, Alhaji Sa’ad Abubakar, that Nigerians should avoid acts that could plunge the country into another civil war.

    MASSOB said rather than making reference to the whole country, the Sultan ought to have directed his advice to Fulani herdsmen and Boko Haram insurgents.

    The Sultan of Sokoto had, during one of the programmes to mark the Rivers State’s Golden Jubilee celebrations, said Nigeria would not be able to survive another civil war, expressing the need to shun acts that might cause war in the country.

    The National Director of Information for the movement, Mr. Sunday Okereafor, who spoke in a telephone interview with our correspondent on Thursday, stated that MASSOB had never shown any act of violence in the struggle for a sovereign state of Biafra.

    Okereafor explained that while Fulani herdsmen had been killing and maiming people in the southern part of the country, Boko Haram sect had continued to perpetrate similar acts in the North-East.

    He stated that MASSOB would not stop its strategy of non-violence in the struggle for self-determination in spite of alleged crackdown on its members.

    The spokesman added, “We are not fighting any war this time around. MASSOB will remain non-violent and we will continue with the non-violent approach. This is the 18th year of the struggle by MASSOB. Despite the crackdown, all the killings, all the arrests and provocations, we still remain non-violent.

    “The Sultan should direct his statement to Fulani herdsmen and Boko Haram group, who are killing and maiming people in Nigeria. The Igbo are peaceful people.

    “How can Sultan of Sokoto be talking about civil war? They (North) are the people inciting violence.

    “Fulani herdsmen are from the North and they have been killing our people in our bush. They want to provoke us.

    “They know that MASSOB is non-violent, but they are using Fulani herdsmen to bring war so that we will react. But we are not interested in that.”

    Okoroafor stated that the Igbo people would have been decimated if they were people stealing cows in Nigeria.

    “They want to use the herdsmen to conquer us, but we are saying no to war. So, we are telling the Sultan of Sokoto to refer his statement to his brothers, the Fulani herdsmen,” he added.