Ivy Ifeoma, the new lover to one of the music duo- P Square, Paul Okoye, also known as Rudeboy, has urged those who feel hurt or peppered about her relationship with the singer to stop the hate and see their love affair and PDA as an inspiration.
Recall that Rudeboy had shared a video of his new lover, (Ivy Ifeoma) with a song that has ‘I found love’ as part of its lyrics.
Her post reads.“When you see someone doing well, rather than let your emotions become jealousy, rage and eventually leading to depression, see it as a form of inspiration, or a reason to keep going or do better.
“Nobody is trying to pepper you. You are the one seeing it that way. And you don’t know exactly what the person had to go through to get there.
“It is normal to feel bad about yourself when you feel stuck and it seems someone else is doing so much better. But after sulking and hating yourself, what exactly would that solve? That person is not your enemy,”
Rudeboy and his ex-wife Anita separated in August 2021 after an Abuja High court granted the couple divorce, and he revealed his new lover (Ivy Ifeoma).
TheNewsGuru.com (TNG) recalls that Anita, who got married to Paul in 2014, cited cheating, separation, being an absent father, fraud, and difficult experiences as her major reasons for seeking a divorce.
She requested a monthly settlement of $20,000 and a number of her husband’s mansions.
In the divorce petition signed by her lawyer, Ojonimi Akpe and Okutepa J.S at an Abuja High Court of the Federal Capital Territory, Maitama, Anita had earlier claimed that she contributed N10 million as an agreement with her husband that she would be granted space at the mall he had just completed in Lekki Phase 1, Lagos.
She, however, claimed Paul Okoye cheated her out of a deal.
The petition reads in part, “That I know as a fact that the petitioner founded a company called TannkCo in 2019.
“That the petitioner and the respondent agreed to build a mall where TannkCo would have its main offices, and the petitioner contributed N10,000,000.00 (Ten Million Naira) for the purchase of the land and the building of the mall.
“That I know as a fact that the respondent, upon completion of the mall, reneged on the agreement and failed to give TannkCo a space in the mall.”
However, Anita decided to withdraw the claims and opted to settle following alleged inability to prove all of the claims in her petition to the court.
The court, in ruling of the case, granted joint custody of the children to the parties on October 20, 2022.
