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  • A man who is a considerate cheat is manageable- Princess declares

    A man who is a considerate cheat is manageable- Princess declares

    Damilola Adekoya better known as Princess has said a man who is a considerate cheat is manageable.

    She made this known while sharing her opinion about unfaithful men in marriages as a guest on ‘Your View’, a talk show hosted on TVC.

    Princess made this statement against the backdrop a viral incident where a woman harassed her husband’s “side chick” at a mall in Ikeja, Lagos.

    According to Princess, cheating is in different stages, and a man who is a considerate cheat can be managed by his wife.

    “There are people who will drink soda if they find out who their husband is cheating with. Cheating is level by level, I am not supporting a cheat, but a man who is a considerate cheat is manageable,” she told Morayo Brown, the show host.

    TheNewsGuru recalls that Princess tied the knot with Jeremiah Adeshola, a talented Yoruba movie actor and producer, on May 8, 2013, at the Federal Marriage Registry in Ikoyi, while the ceremony held at Balmoral Events Centre, Oregun, Lagos.

    The union, however, hit the rocks months later due to “irreconcilable differences”.

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  • Women cheat more than men- Leo Da Silva

    Women cheat more than men- Leo Da Silva

    Big Brother Naija 2018 contestant, Leo Babarinde Dasilva has stirred controversy with a recent statement he made about the gender that cheats the most.
    The suave dude who has been linked romantically with Cee-C said women cheat more than men.
    Leo made this known via his Twitter handle. According to him, even when women are caught cheating, a lot of men don’t talk about it because of their ego.
    “Women cheat more than men, they barely get caught.Even If they get caught, a lot of men don’t tak about it because of their ego.
    His statement has elicited a myriad of opinions from Nigerians on social media.
     
    Read the reactions gathered by TheNewsGuru below
    @Doll: Not true Leo! Men do cheat more than women especially here in Africa kuz they always believe they can get away with it! And what “ego” are you talking about ??
    @Rich Daddy: Truer words have never been said!
    @Ped: Gbam! Their own na shop clean mouth…..serious cheaters.
    @Cajetan: Well some guys are like that and he ask and she eventually get angry they will beg to save the relationship because the guy may be better than him in bed or in pocket…but me i don”t try to beg if she don”t go down on her kneel with hands up she will no where she belong.
    @Genesis1: Right from the garden of Eden. Don’t ever trust a woman, just live with them. Adam never had any issues with God until mama showed up. The devil love the woman so much and the woman love flirting with the devil. Them sabi gossip…..that is how it got started
     

  • I will rather divorce than cheat on my partner- Folashade Shittu

    I will rather divorce than cheat on my partner- Folashade Shittu

    Rising Yoruba actress, Folashade Shittu, who is also an entrepreneur, may have spoken the minds of many women of today who would rather divorce than cheat on their partners.

     

    In a chat with TheNewsGuru, the talented actress bared her mind on what she would do If her man cheats on her.

    “I would rather divorce than cheat on my partner, I don’t support married women cheating”.

     

    On why she hasn’t been featuring in movies lately, Shade said she has been paying more attention to her business.

     

     

    “Why I took a break from acting is because of my event planning business you know to plan an event isn’t an easy task, you have to be fully involved in everything. My business pays more than acting,but business hasn’t been rosy lately”.

     

    When asked how far she can go to interpret a role, Shittu revealed that she can go any length as along as she doesn’t have to be naked.

    “I can go to any length to interpret a role, as long as I’m not being asked to be naked. That I can’t do”.

    The beautiful actress recently concluded the shoot of her movie, ’OWO KONIFE’ which features Damola Olatunji, Kemi Afolabi,Afeez Eniola, Yewande Adekoya and others.

     

  • Facebook romance turns sour, lover ends up in jail

    Facebook romance turns sour, lover ends up in jail

    The Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) on Thursday secured the conviction of a Facebook lover, Ikechukwu Elom Awoke.

    TheNewsGuru reports Awoke conviction was secured before Justice A. Y. Sanya of the Borno State High Court, Maiduguri on a 2-count amended charge bordering on conspiracy and cheating to tune of N350,000.00.

    He was sentenced to six months imprisonment with option of fine of N50,000 for conspiracy on count one and eighteen months imprisonment with option of fine of N50,000 for cheating on count two.

    The case was triggered by a petition dated August 16, 2017 by one Noami Wanya, who claimed she met the convict through Facebook, and in the process entered into a relationship with the aim of marrying each other.

    In the course of the relationship, Awoke fraudulently obtained N350,000.00 from the petitioner through his account domiciled in one of the old generation banks, prompting the victim to petition the EFCC.

    According to the EFCC, Awoke’s offence is contrary to and punishable under Sections 320 (a) and 322 of the Penal Code Law Cap 102, Laws of Borno State.

    Awoke pleaded guilty to the two counts and was convicted and sentenced by the court after a review of the facts of the case.

     

  • I won’t leave my man If he cheats on me- Amara La Negra

    ‘Love and Hip-Hop’ star, Amara La Negra says she won’t leave her man If he cheats on her. Amara who was recently on The Breakfast Club radio show shared her thoughts on relationships and infidelity.

    Hear her: “God forbid I were to be with a man, and he were to cheat or be with another woman. As long as I don’t know about it…what can I tell you? If I find my man and my man cheats on me, and I’ve invested time in you, and I gave you all of this, I don’t think I would just leave you. So I’m going to leave you so some other b***h can have you? [Laughs] Not! You’re going to wash it up and stay right here. You’re going to suffer with me.”

    She continued: “How do you think relationships last 50, 40 years? C’mon. So if you were to do it, I’m not going to let you go. I’ll let you go when I feel I’m ready.”

    The actress added that contrary to what many women believe, for some men, cheating is a mistake

    She said: “Honestly, I feel there are really good men out there. If you mess up one time, I don’t know, twice or something like that and you really are a good man, you’ve been good to me through the good and the bad, I don’t think because you [indecipherable], I should let you go. I would think about it. I’m going to make you miserable for a while, know that.”

     

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  • I am not in support of infidelity- IK Ogbonna declares

    Nollywood actor, Ikechukwu Mitchel Ogbonna, popularly know as IK Ogbonna, has reacted over the statement he made in a recent interview when he said cheating is not having sex with another woman as commonly perceived.

     

    The actor, who is married with a child to Columbian model, Sonia Morales, cleared the air via an Instagram post.

    According to him:” So normally I’ld see a post of myself and let it slide , but in this case I’ld address it coz it was represented in a way and manner that speaks contrary to everything I represent .

     

    “From my little understanding cheating (in general) is when someone acts dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain an advantage, especially in a game or examination or even a real life situation.

     

    “IF YOU GOT TO HEAR THE FULL INTERVIEW (not only 20 sec of it) you would understand that I am NOT in support of men or women having SEX with other people aside the one the call their own .

     

    “Firstly,sex with anyone that’s not ur wife or husband a sin against God . However,I was trying to say that Breaking a vow is worse than an act we would refer to as cheating(just casual sex), and when I say VOW I refer to a spiritual&emotional nut between two people.

     

    “The truth is, Sex in our age and time has been reduced to a recreational activity, and so sorry to say, has made it loose its value in so many ways because it’s easy to find and to get.

     

    “As much as possible I preach that we should build self-control and focus on one person but when we look at things from the rear view of reality having sex without being emotionally attached to the person can slide as a casual event (still 100% wrong) and still means you disrespected your partner (in) directly, you hurt his/hers feelings and worst of all: break the trust that y’all were building for so long. But in this case I was referring to people that invest emotions and feeling in some other person whilst their spouse falls into the disadvantage (wether you are having sex or not).

     

    “In this case the other person (your partner) suffers coz now you have to share your time, finance, and emotions that should be the sole rights of that one person you choose to build your life with. Bottom line, loyalty is a beautiful thing”

     

    READ ALSO: When you have sex with another woman, it’s not cheating-IK Ogbonna

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  • When you have sex with another woman, it’s not cheating-IK Ogbonna

    Nollywood actor, Ikechukwu Ogbonna, popularly known as IK Ogbonna has made a controversial statement that is generating different opinions on social media.

    He noted that cheating is not having sex with another woman as generally perceived.

     

    The actor, who is married with a child to Columbian model, Sonia Morales, said cheating is when there is indication of emotional attachment to someone else other than your wife.

     

    The actor gave a frank description of what cheating truly is. He made this known in a chat with BroadwayTV.

     

    “Cheating is when there is evidence of emotional attachment and feelings with someone else other than your significant other.

     

    “Cheating is not even having sex with a woman, that is one mistake people make. Cheating is when you find yourself developing feelings for someone.

     

    “Let me explain if a man finds himself in a situation where he sleeps with a woman for 30minutes and he’s done and dusted and then you move on with life.

     

    “That ceases to exist the second it ended. You only just broke your marital vows, that’s not cheating.

     

    “Cheating is when you start sharing the 100 percent of you with someone, am not talking about sex, am talking about giving the person extra time, chatting moments”.

     

    READ ALSO: I don’t enjoy kissing actresses, IK Ogbonna laments

     

     

     

     

  • ‘Don’t leave your man because he cheats’-Funke Adesiyan

    Funke Adesiyan is an actress that has become more popular for her Instagram posts than for acting roles. In a recent Instagram post, the outspoken actress urges women not to leave their husbands

    when they cheat on them because men are naturally disposed to cheat. The actress who once represented the People’s Democratic Party in the 2015 house of assembly election in Oyo associated leaving a man because he cheats to leaving Nigerian for America because it rains.

    Hear her:”Leaving a man because he cheats is like relocating from Nigeria to America because of rain. News flash: it rains everywhere. Find a good man who loves you and appreciates you.

     

    “Every other thing can be worked on. Men are naturally born to cheat. Look beyond this flaw and focus on how he treats you.”

     

    The said post generated a myriad of comments on her Instagram page which earned her condemnation from some of her fans.

    Reacting to the negative comments, she wrote:“I read many comments from my last post and I couldn’t stop laughing. It’s funny that it’s women who are answering for their men that the men don’t cheat on them.

     

    “My sisters, let the men answer for themselves. The truth is a bitter pill to swallow. You cannot answer for people. I stand by my position 100%.

     

    “I know that as modern women, we aim to break away from the norm and be as westernized as possible but believe me, it happens everywhere.

     

    “It’s only those who got caught that are referred to as offenders. Not many men can sincerely say they have been with only their partner for 10 years without “playing”. It doesn’t make them bad people, it just makes them men.”

     

     

  • ‘I can cheat on my man’- Dayo Amusa

    Nollywood actress and filmmaker, Dayo Amusa means different things to different people.While some people perceive her as a blunt controversial actress, others see her as one of the most enterprising actresses in Nollywood.

    The role interpreter was recently interviewed on Trybes TV where she was asked various questions ranging from her first kiss, when last she had sex and lot’s more.

    Speaking on her first kiss she said: “I really can’t recall my first kiss. I didn’t do it with someone I had feelings for”.

    On the issue of infidelity, she bluntly said she can cheat on her man, depending on the circumstance and situation.

    Hear her:” I can cheat on my man If I really want to be blunt. You never can tell what will make you cheat on your man, so I can. I wouldn’t know what will make me cheat on my man, it might not be material things. It might be something else, may be emotional things .I really can’t say”.

     

  • Unbelievable motives why husbands cheat on their wives

    Unbelievable motives why husbands cheat on their wives

    Getting cheated on is one of the worst experiences to get over with. Get some tips on why men cheat on their wives below.

    1. Disorder in the house

    When there are regular fights at home with his wife, which are left unresolved, a pattern sets in wherein he continues to be unhappy and ‘disturbed’. When he looks for an affair, he is looking to flee from dealing with the issues in the marriage, and be comfortable with that ‘other person’. It is telling oneself that the problems do not affect anyone and life can continue in a better way with a parallel support.

    1. Immaturity and Ignorance

    Young men often relate their virility and vigour with the number of women they’ve got up close and personal with. This is clearly immature as they don’t really value the importance of a relationship and cover up their so-called “maturity” with these inexplicit encounters. When this thought sits back in their mind, they take their relationship and marriage for granted.

    1. Unfinished Business

    In a marriage, there are so many things the couple takes for granted – something incontestable! So do their physical needs get drifted away? Therefore, for a creature like man, it’s often difficult not to experiment. While they try to complete their unfinished business, they forget that they’re on the verge of cheating on their wife.

    1. Sentimental Reasons

    Apart from not being satisfied physically, there is an equal possibility of being emotionally ignored. So a husband who isn’t emotionally fed may seek the same outside.

    1. Sexual Boredom

    While this may serve as an excuse for the majority of the men out there, it simply isn’t undeniable. Sexual boredom or dissatisfaction may lead to one of the spouse (especially men) desiring for something more than just normal.