Tag: depression

  • I once battled depression.- Tboss confesses

    Second runner up in the Big Brother Naija reality TV show, Tokunbo Idowu, better known as TBoss, has said she once battled depression. Tboss who was recently unveiled as the face of InstantPickup took to her Instagram page reacting to the shocking death singer, Chester Bennington reported

    Tboss who was recently unveiled as the face of InstantPickup took to her Instagram page reacting to the shocking death of singer, Chester Bennington reported to having committed suicide.

     

    She stated that the news of Chester’s death hit her really hard because she has been his super fan.

    In her words:”The news of the untimely demise of Chester Bennington hit me really hard because I have been a super fan since forever, his voice and songs really touched my soul and helped get me through a lot. That’s why I’m pained that he didn’t have anybody to help get him through his own pain.

     

    “Yes I have been through depression and it didn’t win. Depression is only just a bad patch, not a bad life. Yes, you will eventually get out of it. I’m way much stronger than even I give myself credit for; at this point, I don’t even get hurt by people’s words!

    “I will just be looking at you like- See this one trying to take away my smile. People need to realise that being mean to others honestly doesn’t profit them in any way! It’s not going to make you richer, prettier or a better person so be kind to each other, we are all dealing with our demons.Don’t be the reason a person’s demon finally wins the battle” she counselled.

     

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  • People judge celebrities when they are depressed- Omoni Oboli

    Depression is a serious illness that can happen to anyone, even people who seem to have it all. Your favourite celebs are not immune to depression. Nigerian record label owner, Ubi Franklin recently opened up about how he overcame depression.

     

    Nollywood actress, Omoni Oboli in her recent Instagram post noted that celebrities are judged when they seek help on depression. According to her Most people have chronic depression for various reasons. Depression is a very complex issue but it’s very real and society doesn’t help in anyway.

     

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    She puts it this way: ”People don’t always get the help they need especially celebrities because people judge you when you seek professional help. People immediately judge you as mentally ill when you come out and say you are depressed. The same is possibly true for everyone. You are afraid to be labeled but unfortunately, depression has resulted in an epidemic of suicides. There’s an increase in suicides and suicide attempts. The world and social media don’t cut you any slack. People tell you to ‘go and hug transformer’. In other words, ‘kill yourself’.

     

    “Most times depressed people look at death as an exit. They can’t bear to live life anymore. You feel you’ll finally be free and rid of all the sadness and that can be quite appealing.”

     

    The Okafor’s Law producer stated that death is not an option and advised her fans not to embrace that option.

    “But I’m here to let you know that you don’t want to kill yourself. Your life is too precious. Everyone has a God given will to live. Listen to it. The truth is your life doesn’t belong to you so it’s not yours to take. Think about the pain you’ll cause the people you leave behind. Cry out to the God who gave you life and let him show you the way”.

  • I almost committed suicide- Ubi Franklin

    CEO TrippleMG Ubi Franklin, dazed his fans on Thursday when he revealed that he almost took his own life.

    Franklin in a statement posted on his Instagram page disclosed how he struggled to overcome the pangs of depression that nearly made him commit suicide.

     

    He noted that during that period, his life took a turn for the worse and he practically lost control of his actions.The record label owner said he was in such a bad shape emotionally that he paid regular visits to the hospital in search of a cure for his depression.

    Franklin added that when his depression got out of hand,he decided to indulge himself by purchasing a state-of-the art car that he had always dreamed of. But the plan failed.

    The respected showbiz personality said his real cure came when he finally realized that he was carrying a “baggage” and all that he needed to do was pray his way out of depression

     

    Hear him: “I was quite depressed and it became so bad that my life began to deteriorate so much that I literally couldn’t eat nor sleep and other members of my family and my close friends became really scared.

     

    “I had thought that the depression would stop at this point, but, to my dismay, it didn’t. Even after I finished paying for my mortgage, it grew worse.

     

    “I was so scared and all I kept saying and asking myself was ‘Who will take care of my son? I got home and started acting in a funny manner. My security guard had already turned on the generator. I screamed at him to turn it off that I needed some peace and quiet. I was in that dark house all by myself and everything was falling part.”

     

    Admonishing his fans, friends and colleagues to fight depression with prayers, he wrote:“Brothers and sisters, I want to admonish you today to pray fervently. Don’t let anything or the Devil to break you. I assure you that some things won’t matter after some time.”

    Ubi Franklin’s depression must have been triggered by the breakup of his marriage to Nollywood actress Lilian Esoro and his separation from long-time friend and business partner ,Inyanya.

  • Over 9 million Nigerians suffering from depression – Psychiatrist

    Dr Daramola Tayo, Chief Consultant and Head of Behavioural Medicine, Karu General Hospital says an estimated nine million Nigerians may be suffering from depression.

    Tayo disclosed this on Tuesday in Abuja at a health talk on depression organised by the Public Health Department, Health and Human Services Secretariat, FCTA.

    The psychiatrist said depression could be described as a mental disorder resulting from long lasting low mood affecting one’s ability to do things, to have pleasure or have interest in activities one used to enjoy.

    “It also reflects on the loss of interest in sexual activities among others.

    “The prevalence has been put between five and 10 per cent with an estimated figure of 180 million populations, we actually have nine million people suffering from the burden of depression,’’ he said.

    Tayo, who noted that though individuals might periodically undergo ups and downs due to loss of loved ones among other challenges, such conditions or situations could not necessarily be attributed to depression.

    He explained that for depression to occur, mental disorder must have persisted for two weeks.

    The expert identified other symptoms that could be exhibited by patients suffering from depression as feeling guilty, weight loss, hopelessness and worthlessness, loss of confidence, which could result to the thought of self-harm or attempting suicide.

    “Other causes of depression are trauma, life circumstances, chronic and severe illness, hormones, lifestyle, among others.’’

    He said that the 2008 World Health Organisation (WHO) report stipulated that by 2030, depression would be the highest cause of death globally.

    ‘ ‘In view of the high prevalence in Nigeria and the worldwide figure, there is the urgent need for governments, individuals to redouble efforts in fighting the scourge to reduce its mortality rate,” Tayo said.

    Earlier, Mrs Alice Odey-Achu, the Secretary Health and Human Services Secretariat, FCTA said something urgent should be done to reduce the rate of depression.

    According to her, depression has resulted in one out of 10 causes of death among teenagers, young adults and adults in recent times.

    The secretary noted other consequences arising from the condition include impaired ability to carry out simple everyday tasks, breakdown in relationships with families and impaired ability to work and earn a living.

    Odey-Achu said that the conference was in commemoration of the World Health Day with the theme: ”Depression: Let’s talk’’.

    ”This year’s focus on depression is apt as this health condition is increasing in incidence and prevalence at an alarming rate.

    ”Just like any other disease, prevention is better than cure more so when most people suffering from depression, which is a mental disorder are reluctant to seek help because of stigma surrounding mental health.

    ”This informed the inauguration of a campaign by the Health Education and Promotion Unit of the Public Health Department to increase awareness on depression, how to recognise it, where to get treatment and most importantly how to prevent it.

    ”Researches have revealed that the best way to prevent illness is still through awareness creation and health education,’’ Odey-Achu said.

  • Toyin Abraham reveals battle with drug use, depression

    Toyin Abraham reveals battle with drug use, depression

    Nollywood actress, Toyin Abraham(formerly Aimakhu) has opened up about her battle with depression and drug use. Speaking In an interview with Broadway TV, the Alakada Reloaded actress said she didn’t plan for a broken home. According to her:” After my marriage, there were so many [negative things] I had to deal with depression and drugs, smoking, codeine! Codeine is very bad. All these things were empowering my negative energy. Sometimes, even when I do something very good and positive, there’s a way it would end up being negative. So I had to stop. I did not love myself enough, and I want people around me to love me” she said.

     

    Commenting on her failed marriage to Adeniyi Johnson and her subsequent relationship with Seun Egbegbe, she said: “I didn’t plan for a broken home. I didn’t plan for a broken marriage but when it came and after my marriage, there were so many negativity. I was emotionally carried away. I didn’t heal before jumping into another relationship, but I thought I was going to be healed through another relationship” .

     

    The bubbly actress has broken away from the shackles of depression and drug use . This happened the moment she realized she deserved better in life. “I realized I deserved more.I decided to change my habits.”

     

    Watch the rest of the interview below

     

  • ‘I just feel like killing myself’-TeeBillz opens up on suicide attempt

    Husband to music diva – Tiwa Savage, Tunji Balogun, popularly known as TeeBillz, has shared his depression story. Recall that the showbiz promoter, who at the height of a marital crisis with Savage in April 2016 tried to take his own life by jumping into the lagoon around the Lekki area of Lagos . The experience made him see life from a new point of view and now he is an entertainment life coach.

    Speaking in an interview with Linda Ikeji TV, Teebillz opens up about his battle with depression. According to him:” From my experience, it got to a point I didn’t want to be around people. I just wanted to be alone. I was so messed up in the head that I wasn’t myself. So not being myself, I didn’t want to be around no one and would be by myself a lot of times or I’m just trying to use things to get away in my own head. Alcohol can be one of those things that people run to, which was my best friend at one point in life. It was the only ‘person’ I trusted to get me going. It’s a difficult thing I must admit”.

    Speaking further TeeBillz said his depressive state made him lose his mind and he wasn’t himself. Hear him: “The Tunji of then was somebody that lost his mind. Sometimes when I reflect back to activities or things that happened back then, It’s hard for me to believe that that was me. The people that actually really know me knew then that something was wrong with this guy, but they could not figure it out. They were not informed or educated about mental health. They could not place it. I was able to pretend to do normal stuffs and pretend that everything is ok with me around normal people. Me not being able to keep it real with myself that something was wrong was the reason why I didn’t want to be with people. So I can just be locked up in my own world”.

    When asked how the suicidal feelings started, he said:” I think before 3-4 months before my incident. Everyone around me that are the closest people to me, they knew it. I even had a conversation with them that “Hey, I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I just feel like killing myself.” The people close to me didn’t know what to do, they were not informed or educated about it. For me, I can understand their mindset now. Yeah prayers will do it’s part but it’s not based on prayers only. You have to go get the medical treatment that you need and prayer can be the one to support it. Everyone that knows me know that I love myself. I don’t think anyone loves their self like I do, my confidence level was on 150%. I was fearless”.

     

     

  • ‘I never thought I will laugh again’- Teebillz reveals struggle with depression

    This time last year was a dark phase in the life of Tunji Balogun a.k.a Teebillz. The husband of pop star Tiwa Savage almost attempted suicide as a result of depression.The artiste manager took to his Instagram page to inspire individuals who are battling depression. Teebillz says he never thought he will have a reason to laugh again.

    Hear him: “When you are in a dark place, from my own personal experience I know it’s very hard to believe anything good and even the concept of God is questionable at that moment.

    “Trust me, God will definitely come through for you….. About a year ago I never thought I will have a reason to laugh again. But God’s Mercies and Grace are beyond human

    “TRUST in Him. Keep HOPE Alive. Have FAITH in God’s Faithfulness. He is your FATHER and His LOVE for you is Eternal and Unconditional.

    If you can see and believe this HELP is on the way.

     

    “Hopefully this picture can help someone out there that is poisoned by stress, under pressure, feeling pain or afraid of failure. Know this for SURE my God can fix every broken situation in your life….NEVER give up …Keep on Keeping on !!! You will ALSO LAUGH again.”

     

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  • Depression: Let’s talk” – By Francis Ewherido

    Francis Ewherido

    Yesterday was World Health Day, a day so designated and celebrated since 1950. Each year, the World Health Organisation, promoter of the World Health Day, chooses a topic to draw worldwide attention to a health issue of global importance.

    This year’s theme is: “Depression: Let’s Talk,” and talk we are going to do. Depression is not just a global issue; Nigeria has appropriated it and many Nigerians have bought into it. Our economy (some economists say the economy is recessed not depressed), with many aspects of our national life, including the health sector, is depressed, so are many Nigerians.

    I am not just talking of the cases of suicide and attempted suicide, depression is all around us in one form or another.

    These days when you drive, you have to be extra careful and look out for people who do not look before crossing the road, people who are lost in thought in the middle of the road and drivers who run into other vehicles before the force of the collision remind them they are behind the wheels.

    In some offices, you knock and go in and the occupant is still not aware he/she has company, lost in his/her thoughts. We can go on and on.

    Depression has given birth to children. The anger and frustration in the land are scary. An adversary can easily get you lynched in the streets by shouting, “ole, ole,” after you. Innocuous arguments lead to fisticuffs and sometimes the death of one party. There is a monumental lack of consideration for other road users.

    This anger has spread to churches and mosques. People, who just left the church, fight in the car park over right of way and who goes first, while some fight in the park over parking space before going into the church.

    What is depression? In simple language, it is a severe loss of hope, crippling low spirit, sadness and a feeling of worthlessness. We all feel low, sad and hopeless once in a while when our pursuits end in futility, when we are bereaved, when we lose something of value, when we are unable to meet up with our financial or marital obligations or when things are not just working out. These are temporary feelings, which wear away after a while, and it is perfectly normal because we are human. But when these feelings and symptoms linger for weeks, you have a case of real depression or what the medical people and psychologists call clinical depression. The medical people happily tell us it is treatable, but where and at what cost? That is where the medical challenge of the average Nigerian begins. Health professionals tell us that, “Health promotion is the process of enabling people to increase control over, and to improve, their health. It moves beyond a focus on individual behaviour towards a wide range of social and environmental interventions.”

    The decay in government healthcare institutions, which are the last hope for the average Nigerian, is numbing. The decay not only comes in form of poorly maintained and outdated healthcare equipment, but in the systems and processes. Many healthcare professionals are so used to morbidity that human life is meaningless to them. They forget that every patient who comes to the healthcare facility is somebody’s heartthrob, beloved parent, son, daughter, uncle, aunt, cousin or spouse, who is known personally and loved distinctively. The loved ones do not see him/her as part of a mass, like the medical personnel do, and so expect personalised care.

    A few days ago, I was reminiscing on the defunct Nigerian Music Award, an award that was of international standard in the 90s, and a brother and friend of over 30 years, Mike Adande, lamented that “Naija sha…sustaining good things difficult here, sha.” That has been our problem. I cannot remember any good public institution or initiative, including the health sector, which has endured and grown all round over the last 30 years.

    I heard that the Saudi king used to come to the University College Hospital, Ibadan, in the 60s for his medical checkup. Also leaders from Southern Africa, when South Africa was isolated due to its apartheid policy, came here for medical checkup. Now Nigerians spend billions of dollars on medical treatment abroad and you cannot blame them, except the ones who put us in this mess.

    Check out the mortality rate of routine medical procedures like normal childbirth and malaria treatment. The only Nigerians who patronise local medical facilities for serious health issues are mainly those who cannot afford the treatment abroad.

    So what happened to our health facilities? The same old story with our refineries, Nigerian Airways, Nigerian Shipping Lines, the railway, the power sector, we can go on and on. On a few visits to India, I took time to study the way their healthcare works. The difference with ours is just a conscious effort to make things work and improve their act. They have come up with systems to make topnotch healthcare, even in private healthcare facilities, affordable to the ordinary people. We have not been able to achieve that here. But they also grapple with some of the challenges we have here, like power cuts. All their healthcare facilities have standby generators, yet they are making progress.

    Happily, when it comes to issues of health like depression, I believe in the 80/20 Pareto Principle. You are 80 per cent responsible for your life; you better believe, imbibe and live it. Your state of mind is as important – if not more important than – as any medi-care in avoiding, managing and treating depression. In the midst of the seeming gloom, therefore, you must choose life, choose happiness and be positive. Learn valuable lessons from disappointments, rejections, failures and betrayers, but make light of them; do not dwell on them for long, lest you lapse into depression. Find reasons within you to breathe life into your daily living. Believe in humanity, but be weary of the unreliable human nature, lest you go into depression. Be in firm control of your mind; remember that whoever controls your mind controls your life.

    Do not personalise Nigeria’s problems; they can snuff the life out of you in a blink of an eye. Nigeria’s problems are everybody’s and we are all going to solve them when everybody, or at least many of us, do the right things, with the leaders in the forefront. Always remember you are 80 per cent responsible for your wellbeing, only 20 per cent is external. Eighty per cent is an excellent grade in school, so you can do excellently well with yourself sans the external environment. It is tough business, but it is achievable.

    Nigerians are resilient people, but I wonder why the World Happiness Report keeps listing us among the happiest people in the world with so much anger in the air. Maybe the 1000-people sample they use is not representative enough for 188 million people. Anyway, stay positive and stay happy. Happiness is the best prevention for depression

  • Scarce resources worsening depression cases

    Scarce resources worsening depression cases

    Dr Sunday Abidoye, the World Health Organisation (WHO) Coordinator in Lagos State, on Friday said resources to prevent, identify and treat mental health problems such as depression were very scarce in Nigeria.

    Abidoye made this known at a workshop held in Lagos and organised by the Mental Health Foundation in commemoration of the World Health Day (WHD), marked annually on April 7.

    The theme for the 2017 WHD is entitled “Depression: Let’s Talk’’.

    “In African region, there is critical shortage of qualified professionals with just one psychiatrist per one million people.

    “Mental health work force of psychiatric nurses, occupational therapists, social workers is woefully inadequate.

    “Lack of availability of psychotropic persons, proper information with well structures psychotherapy and other effective measures for primary healthcare services to treat depression is a cause for concern,’’ he said.

    The coordinator urged government at all levels and other partners to improve and support mental health with financial resources.

    He said that developing communities, paid services with focus on depression and condemning stigma would encourage more people to seek treatment.

    “This can be done by having conversation about depression and it will allow families to detect and prevent it, even among youths and loved ones.

    “Families, individuals, communities can take steps to help prevent depression by avoiding stressful situations and do not increase such by indulging in alcohol or drug abuse.

    “Maintaining a proper diet and physical activities can improve the wellbeing of an individual and prevent depression,’’ Abidoye said.

    Also speaking, a Consultant Psychiatrist, Federal Neuro-Psychiatric Hospital, Yaba, Dr Funmilayo Akinola, more advocacies on mental health should begin with practitioners.

    Akinola also urged parents who had children with mental illness and survivors to talk about it in order to reduce stigma associated with mental illness.

    “People should acknowledge that there are mental health disorders; acknowledging and reducing stigma will allow for government to create policies that will make treatment affordable and available,’’ she said.

    The Executive Director, Mental Health Foundation, Mr Emmanuel Owoyemi, urged the National Assembly to pass the Mental Health Bill so that mental health can be budgeted for.

    Owoyemi said: “There is not enough awareness and education among the populace about mental health.

    “The stigma is very high and based on that, people cannot access care; the cost of accessing care is too high and so many people are locked indoors for years without receiving treatment.

    “With the increasing economic challenges, security and climatic challenges, we should call a state of emergency when it comes to mental health.’’