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  • OMOLARA EULER-AJAYI: Empowering Futures: Opekete Foundation’s commitment to girls’ education in Nigeria

    OMOLARA EULER-AJAYI: Empowering Futures: Opekete Foundation’s commitment to girls’ education in Nigeria

    By Omolara Euler-Ajayi

    Globally, education is widely recognized as a basic human right and a critical driver of poverty reduction and economic progress.

    However, in Africa, many countries face significant challenges in delivering the educational attainment and skills necessary for economic advancement.

    In Nigeria, systemic issues such as limited investment, inadequate infrastructure, and entrenched cultural norms continue to impede access to education.

    As a result, millions of children and young people, particularly girls, are excluded from quality education. This exclusion not only stifles individual potential but also undermines the country’s ability to fully leverage its human capital, hindering prospects for sustainable growth and development.

    Addressing the educational exclusion of girls is an urgent priority, given the profound socio-economic benefits it can bring. The Opekete Foundation, (an independent non-profit organization registered in Nigeria), is dedicated to empowering women and girls through education.

    As it launches its 2024 FBM Scholarship for Women, the Foundation underscores the ongoing challenges facing girl child education in Nigeria, particularly the issues of limited funding and significant barriers to educational attainment in fields like nursing, teaching, and science, technology, engineering, and mathematics (STEM).

    Challenges & Imperatives of Financing Girl Child Education

    The African Union’s “Continental Education Strategy for Africa (CESA) 2016-2025” mid-term review reveals that, while some progress has been made, financing education remains a critical challenge.

    Across the continent, including in Nigeria, where education funding hovers around 8% of the national budget, many countries fall short of the recommended 20% benchmark.

    This chronic underfunding manifests in overcrowded classrooms, inadequate infrastructure, insufficient teaching materials, and a shortage of trained educators—perpetuating a cycle of low educational access and attainment, poverty and inequality.

    In Nigeria, 18.5 million children are out of school, with 60% being female, according to UNICEF. Girls are particularly disadvantaged by economic constraints and cultural norms that often prioritize boys’ education.

    However, investing in girl child education is not just a moral imperative; it is an economic necessity. Educated women are more likely to enter the workforce, earn higher incomes, and contribute to the economic and social development of their communities.

    The World Bank notes that each additional year of schooling can increase a girl’s future earnings by up to 20%. Moreover, educated women are more likely to prioritize their children’s education, creating a positive cycle that benefits future generations.

    Beyond Funding: Complex Challenges of Girl Child Education

    In addition to funding challenges, poverty, cultural norms, and stereotypes play a significant role in excluding girls from education in Nigeria.

    Gender-based violence, domestic responsibilities, early marriage, and insufficient sanitary facilities at school are just some of the barriers girls face. In sub-Saharan Africa, for example, 1 in 10 girls misses school during their menstrual period due to inadequate access to sanitary products.

    Societal expectations often discourage girls from pursuing careers in STEM fields, where women remain grossly underrepresented, with only 18% of STEM scholars in sub-Saharan Africa being women—significantly lower than the global average of about 35%.

    Economic hardship often forces families to prioritize boys’ education, viewing it as a more immediate return on investment. This financial strain causes many girls to drop out of school early, either to contribute to household income or because their families cannot afford school fees and associated costs, such as uniforms and textbooks.

    These challenges not only hinder school attendance and educational progress but also deepen gender disparities in education.

    The FBM Scholarship for Women
    Founded in 2015 by the late Mrs. Florence Bamidele Makanjuola, a pioneering teacher and nurse, the Opekete Foundation envisions a world where education and empowerment unlock limitless opportunities for all. Believing in the power of education to alleviate poverty, its mission is to provide children, youth, and women with sustainable access to quality education, empowering them to lead independent, economically productive lives.

    Aware of the poor access to quality education in government schools and the continued marginalization of women, the Foundation’s strategic objectives focus on educating, empowering, and advocating for the education of girls and the empowerment of women in disadvantaged communities.

    The Foundation also recognizes the critical role of trained teachers and healthcare workers, particularly nurses, in meeting Nigeria’s development objectives.

    To this end, it enhances teacher quality through development programs, with an emphasis on literacy and numeracy at the primary school level, and promotes STEM and financial literacy skills at both primary and secondary levels.

    Through interventions such as its flagship FBM Scholarship for Women and the Biennial Roundtable on Girl Child Education, the Opekete Foundation seeks to address educational and economic disparities by providing financial support to high-achieving indigent girls.

    This support, focused on nursing, teaching, and STEM, offers crucial financial relief to families and removes significant barriers to girls’ education.

    With the launch of the 2024/25 Scholarship cycle, the Foundation reaffirms its long-term commitment to empowering young women to pursue careers in fields where essential skills for societal development are lacking and where significant gender gaps exist.

    The Opekete Foundation’s ongoing efforts represent a powerful step toward a more equitable future, where girls are empowered to realize their full potential through quality education and contribute meaningfully to society.

    A Collective Call to Support Girls’ Education
    To ensure that every girl in Nigeria has access to quality education and the opportunity to reach her full potential, it is imperative that all sectors—government, private enterprise, and civil society—join forces in a coordinated and robust effort.

    Increased investment is urgently needed, not just in financial terms but also in the form of comprehensive policies and initiatives that address the root causes of educational inequality. This requires not only increasing funding for education but also implementing policies that actively promote gender equality and dismantle the socio-cultural barriers that prevent girls from reaching their full potential.

    The initiatives led by the Opekete Foundation and similar organizations highlight these critical issues, driving meaningful change in the quest for a more inclusive and equitable society.

    However, to maximize the impact of these efforts, it is essential to broaden and deepen collaboration among all stakeholders. By fostering partnerships across public and private sectors, we can more effectively address the core challenges that continue to hinder girls’ education in Nigeria.

    On this International Day of the Girl Child, Opekete Foundation calls upon governments, the private sector, and civil society to come together in a unified effort to support girls’ education.

    This collective action is not just a moral imperative—it is a strategic investment in the future of our country and our world. By empowering every girl with the education she deserves, we pave the way for a brighter, more equitable future for all.

    * Euler-Ajayi, Chairman, Opekete Foundation, writes from Lagos

  • APC Women Leader, Mary Alile announces scholarship initiative to empower 3,700 Girls across Nigeria

    APC Women Leader, Mary Alile announces scholarship initiative to empower 3,700 Girls across Nigeria

    The National Women Leader of the All Progressives Congress (APC), Dr. Mary Alile, has announced a scholarship initiative to empower 100 girls from each of the 36 states of Nigeria and the Federal Capital Territory (FCT) with opportunities in Information Technology, Project Management, Data Analytics, and other fields.

    In a statement signed on Sunday disclosed that the initiative is in collaboration with the Heart Bible University and Seminary in the United States.

    “The scholarship program aims to provide 3-year undergraduate scholarships to 3,700 girls in various courses, including IT Support, Project Management, Data Analytics, Business Administration, Cyber Security, UX Design, Counseling and Psychology.”

    It was further stated that the initiative is open to girls from each state who are seeking to strengthen their education and pursue their academic goals. Interestingly, males within the age bracket may also apply.

  • How my Ex-girlfriend left me- Spyro reveals

    How my Ex-girlfriend left me- Spyro reveals

    Nigerian music star, Oludipe Oluwasanmi David, popularly known as Spyro has recounted how his Canadian lover broke up with him after he kissed his female friend on the cheek.

    The ‘Who’s Your Guy’ crooner said the heartbreak was “quite painful” and made him harbor hatred towards Canada, as he recalled that he already bought an engagement ring to propose to her before the shocking incident.

    Spyro, however, said he is now completely over the incident after his pastor sent him a series of messages.

    He said,

    “Canada, I want to be honest today…

    “The reason why I have pushed this tour this far is because I was still healing from a serious heartbreak from one of your girls there.

    Quite painful as I saw a future with us, already bought a ring and all of a sudden, she ended it and for what, because a female friend pecked me after I bought her something she needed, and I wanted to be open, so I told her and that led to a series of events that ended the relationship.

    “Since then, I resented the idea of Canada and everything that surrounds it but now I am healed thanks to a series of messages from my pastor.”

  • “May you not miss your husband because of your boyfriend” – Moses Bliss prays for singles

    “May you not miss your husband because of your boyfriend” – Moses Bliss prays for singles

    Popular Gospel singer, Moses Bliss resorted to Instagram to offer prayers for individuals who are yet to marry.

    In a recent video, he pleaded for single women not to miss their husbands because of their recent relationships. Also, unmarried boys should not miss their wives because of their present girlfriends.

    “May you not miss your husband because of your boyfriend and may you no miss your wife because of your girlfriend” – Moses Bliss prayed.

     

  • Stop marrying girls that are hungry. – Daddy Freeze tells men

    Stop marrying girls that are hungry. – Daddy Freeze tells men

    Controversial media personality, Daddy Freeze, has advised men to do away with women who cannot place them on monthly allowances.

    He urged them not to desist from marrying “hungry” women, saying “enough is enough.”

    Daddy Freeze said men should be bold in demanding from women what they can offer them before deciding to marry.

    Speaking in a recent Instagram live session with fans, Daddy Freeze said: “Stop marrying girls that are hungry. Enough is enough! Before you marry a girl, ask her, ‘What are you going to do for me?’ Start asking. Start being bold. Ask her, ‘How much are you paying me as allowance monthly?’

    “Any woman that cannot give you a monthly allowance is not worth your time. Stop marrying beneath you. Adenuga’s child will marry Dangote’s child. Have you ever seen any Adenuga’s child marry a bricklayer? Do you know who Dangote’s daughter married? She married a former Inspector General of Police’s son.

    “Then you a whole man you’re going to marry someone that’s earning half of your salary or struggling to earn what you are earning. If you earn N10,000 per month, look for a woman that earns N30,000 per month. And the woman must be beautiful and curvy as well as good in the bedroom. Isn’t that how they rate us?”

     

     

     

     

  • I bring only girls above 21 on stage – Ruger

    I bring only girls above 21 on stage – Ruger

    Nigerian singer, Michael Adebayo Olayinka fondly called Ruger has disclosed that he only dances on stage with ladies over 21 years old.

    This comes after the singer was heavily criticised when he was seen on stage during his performance touching body parts of his female fans.

    The ‘Asiwaju’ crooner disclosed this in the latest episode of the Zero Conditions podcast.

    According to him, his crew members must make sure they verify the ID cards of the women he brings up on stage before asking for permission to dance with them.

    “I’m not the first to do it; lots of artists do it, maybe because it’s Ruger,

    “My team checks everyone’s ID to make sure they are over 21; if you are 18 or 19, you are not going on stage.”

    He also said he works out, prays and fasts, to prepare his spirit, body and soul before going on tours.

    Ruger added, “Before I kick off my America tour, I used to go to Eko Atlantic and run like four times, get back into my car and go home. So, it helps my energy. I make sure I ate well, slept well. Prayer too. Fasting and prayer just to be prepared spiritually.

    “I’m a Christian. I pray even before I go on stage to perform. It just works. We are allowed to party. It’s just like I’m partying. I’m not a bad person. The fact that I dance with girls on stage doesn’t mean I’m a bad.”

     

  • GIRLS’ MAGIC MOMENT: The Teenage stage – By Amarachi Favour

    GIRLS’ MAGIC MOMENT: The Teenage stage – By Amarachi Favour

    By Amarachi Favour

    The girl child is the most vulnerable yet venerable gender. Just as they are honored, celebrated, adored, for their strength and support in womanhood, they are as well criticised, looked down upon, seen as second class citizens in some African cultures. Their birth brings joy in some homes while to some, if there is no presence of a male gender as a child, the family is tagged “the home of girls”. Regardless of this misconception, every child is unique in their own way. The girl child is faced with the challenge of having to grow in modest manner in terms of attitudes, morals, home management, career wise and so on. This to a large extent forms how their upbringing is tailored. Strict measures are placed on them than their male counterparts. Having gone through these processes in childhood, they are faced with the reality of their magic moment.

    The girls’ magic moment is an exciting, pleasurable, enthusiastic, moment full of freedom yet a moment they are exposed to the realities of life. This moment is characterised by a lot of changes ranging from:
    M: Menarche/Misconception
    A: Admiration and attraction
    G: Go-getting
    I: Independence
    C: Comportment

    Menarche/Misconception: The period of their first menstruation comes with a lot of confusion, worries and uncertainty as some are faced with irregularity in their menstrual cycle and psychological effects such as mood swings and abdominal pains – cramps, excessive bleeding and so on. At this stage, they are faced with having little or no knowledge on how to trace and follow up with the accurate calculation of their menstrual cycle. Thus, bringing about anxiety on what to expect afterwards. In the case of irregularity in their monthly flow, they also become scared of pregnancy or infection but all these might be as a result of the changes the body is experiencing during this stage which will take time to adjust to the recent development. They are also faced with the mental questioning of how to go about it, and the consciousness to avoid teenage pregnancy is enacted.
    Admiration and Attraction: This moment is a precarious one. If not checked, they may be distracted and confused by the excitement and ecstasy of the gradual change and growth(physical appearance) they are experiencing in this phase of their lives. A lot of them become overwhelmed while just a few are able to marry everything going on around them simultaneously and still focus on their goals. It takes the grace of God, good parenting and self control to surpass this phase. Take for instance:

    Dating: this stage, they are fully exposed to being attracted to the opposite sex due to the secretion of sex hormones (oestrogen, progesterone) which is part of the changes they experience as teenagers. It is bound to happen naturally. I, as a teenage coach, usually make them understand that it is natural for them to feel so but one thing they need to know is that it causes distraction. Therefore, they should not be disillusioned. A lot is taken into consideration and involved during dating such as constant urge to spend more time privately together, chatting online, having fun with such person which in most case can get them indulge in romance and sexual activity. Girls in particular need to be extra cautious because they are prone to being vulnerable and emotional.

    Go-getting: one aspect of every man’s existence is being goal driven and to be a go-getter. The girl child is made to realise at this moment of their lives to choose wisely and pursue their dream career by setting goals and following it through. Notwithstanding, they are trained to combine home management ( cooking, doing laundry properly, washing the dishes, keeping their environment clean and so on) and academics. This might amount to pressure but it tends to build, prepare, make them focused and goal-oriented which will ultimately define their personality as they journey through their moments into adulthood.

    Independence: this is a significant and major attribute that every teenager craves and exhibits. This moment for the girl child occurs spontaneously. It is inherent in them to strap toys as a way of exhibiting the sense of responsibility of family life and care but the boys are wired differently. This fully reflects in their moment as the sense of responsibility and expectations begin to manifest alongside the changes they experience – menarche and self awareness.

    Comportment: there is something significant about the carriage of every teenage girl. Though it varies among them as a result of exposure, family background and the environment they find themselves, but the quintessential thing is the consciousness and self awareness of whom they are transcending into (womanhood) after this phase which culminates the overall perspective of how they perceive and project themselves. The teenage girl views herself and her body as someone/thing that is fragile; hence, she needs care and protection which in turn makes her conscious and cautious as this is part of the notion and upbringing she is made to believe and go through as she journeys in life. They are restricted to some certain things and are taught to be reserved and laconic. This is evident in some utterances such as “behave like a girl”, “don’t you know that you are a girl”? and many more. Gradually, this perception forms the consciousness of comportment in them which reflects in their carriage.

    All of the following stated attributes characterised as their magic moment cannot be achieved without adequate supervision and guidance from parents/guardians and adults surrounding them as the teenage stage for girls can be a tricky stage to navigate since adolescents are simultaneously treated as both children and adults. In other to achieve this, the girl child in her moment needs to be:

    Properly monitored

    Encouraged to take up extracurricular activities that she likes which will help her unwind while building focus on her goals.

    Personal hygiene should be communicated to them often as this will help them during their menarche.

    Enlighten them on sex education – noting that they need to be more logical than being emotional so as to avoid being vulnerable.

    Promote healthy relationship among friends including the opposite gender.

    The girls’ magic moment can be a difficult or quite taxing moment for the teenage girl and parents /guardians to navigate but it can be easily achieved through observance and open communication as they journey through this life changing phase into womanhood.

  • My husband hates me for giving birth to three girls – Wife tells court

    My husband hates me for giving birth to three girls – Wife tells court

    A divorce-seeking woman, Temilade Rasheed, on Wednesday told a Mapo Grade ‘A’ Customary Court in Ibadan that her husband, Adeboye Rasheed hates her for  giving birth to three girls.

    Temilade in her testimony before the court, while seeking dissolution of her marriage, urged the court to grant her application for divorce.

    ”My in-laws are pushing my estranged husband to leave me for producing three girls and one boy.

    “My lord, Rasheed no longer loves me because I gave birth to three girls. After my girls were born, he threw me like garbage and married another wife.

    “The only one Rasheed caters for is my fourth child, who is a male,” Temilade said.

    The petitioner further stated that her husband has turned her into a punching bag.

    She told the court that he has been responsible for the welfare of the three children.

    Temilade consequently prayed the court to grant her custody of all the children but to order Rasheed to be responsible for their upkeep.

    The Court President, Mrs S.M. Akintayo,  adjourned the suit until May 26 for the respondent to open his defence.

  • Niger Emir rescues 2 girls from forced marriage

    Niger Emir rescues 2 girls from forced marriage

    The Emir of Agaie in Niger state, Alhaji Yusuf Nuhu, has rescued two girls from their parents who wanted to force them into early marriage.

    Nuhu disclosed this to newsmen shortly after a sensitisation campaign on Gender-Based Violence (GBV) on Saturday in Agaie Local Government Area of Niger state.

    Nuhu said that the girls are currently in his custody and have refused to release the children to their parents until they allow the girls to marry men of their choice.

    “Here in my emirate, I preach against early and forced marriage, currently, I have two girls under my custody whose parents wanted to force into marrying men they didn’t love.

    “Until their parents agree to allow them marry the men they love, I will not release the girls. This is because if they are forced into the marriage, they might not live in peace as husbands and wives due to lack of love.

    “As parents, we must learn to respect the option of our children and we have been preaching on that which to some extent is yielding results,” he said.

    He described the sensitisation campaign as “key and timely” as it would complement the efforts of the council in sensitising members of the area against child abuse, early marriage and domestic violence.

    Earlier in her welcome address, Hajiya Mairo Mann, Chairperson of the state GBV Advocacy Committee, advised parents to open up on violence perpetrated against them and their children in order to get justice.

    She said the sensitisation campaign was to enlighten and educate parents and children on GBV and appropriate steps to take when confronted by such a situation.

    Mann advised parents and guardians to be up to their responsibilities by training their children on the right part as well as monitoring the peer groups their children associate with.

    Also, Malam Mustapha Yunusa, Director, Child Development in the state Ministry of Women Affairs, said the sensitisation was to educate parents on response and preventive steps to GBV such as what to do to help victims in terms of medical attention and financial assistance.

    In her remarks, Hajiya Tallatu Ekawu, Officer in Charge of Women Development in the Council, lauded the committee for bringing the sensitisation campaign to the area which had further expanded their knowledge and opened their eyes on what GBV is all about.

  • 13 women, girls die after falling into well during marriage celebrations

    13 women, girls die after falling into well during marriage celebrations

    An official on Thursday said 13 women and girls died when they fell into a well during a wedding ceremony in northern India.

    The incident took place on Wednesday night at Nebua Narangia village in Kushinagar district of Uttar Pradesh state.

    The victims were standing on a metal sheet covering a well in a courtyard while watching the haldi ceremony, one of the many rituals that were part of a Hindu wedding and during which turmeric is smeared on the bride or groom.

    The metal sheet collapsed under their weight and more than 20 people fell into the well, Kushinagar district Magistrate S. Rajalingam said.

    Eleven people died on the spot and 15 were rescued, but two of them died in the hospital.

    Prime Minister Narendra Modi said the deaths were heart-rending and that the district administration was doing everything possible to help the injured and the families of the dead.