Tag: girls

  • ‘Born again’ 2Baba, says I don change, I no de give girls belle again

    ‘Born again’ 2Baba, says I don change, I no de give girls belle again

    Apparently in a lighter mood, award-winning Nigerian singer, Innocent Idibia, popularly known as 2Baba in a trending video has said that he has stopped impregnating ladies.

    The father of seven said this during his performance at the Idoma International Carnival in December.

    In a video from the carnival that’s just trending, the artiste said, “Oh boy! I see say some babe they fear to shout for that side, abeg make una no fear to shout, I no dey give belle like that again, I don stop. Ask anybody they will tell you I am innocent, Innocent Idibia, I no dey do that kind thing again.”

    2Baba is married to actress, Annie Idibia.

  • Why many girls are single, lonely – Singer, Oxlade

    Why many girls are single, lonely – Singer, Oxlade

     

    Nigerian music star, Ikuforiji Olaitan Abdulrahman, popularly known as Oxlade has shared his opinion on why many girls are single and lonely.

    The singer made this known in a post via his Instagram story on Tuesday.

    He noted that a lot of girls are lonely and single because they over price themselves.

    According to him, they shove every single guy away while aiming for a perfect man that doesn’t even exist.

    “A lot of boujee girls are single, lonely and still waiting for that dream man.

    “They shove every guy away while aiming for what doesn’t even exist.

    “Now they are all alone because they over standardized themselves.

    “All they know how to do is fake small girl with a big God happiness on a regular,” he wrote.

     

  • One in four girls abused before clocking 18 years in Lagos – Commissioner

    One in four girls abused before clocking 18 years in Lagos – Commissioner

    The Lagos State Commissioner for Justice, Mr Moyosore Onigbanjo says that one out of four girls will be abused in the state before the age of 18.

    Onigbanjo, who is Chairman, Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Response Team (DSVRT), said this in Ikeja on Wednesday during a news conference commemorating September as the Domestic and Sexual Violence Awareness Month.

    ”Recent statistics conducted by the Lagos State Government in partnership with UNICEF reveals that one in four girls would be abused before the age of 18 years old.

    ”Also, one in 10 boys would be abused before the age of 18 years old,” he said.

    The DSVRT chairman said that due to the findings, the team had included ”Safeguarding and Child Protection Day”, as one of the activities for the Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Awareness Month in September 2021.

    According to him, it is of utmost importance that children are engaged timeously to prevent them falling prey to paedophiles and perverts in the society.

    Onigbanjo said that children would be engaged via an interactive workshop to combat the growing trend of sexual abuse.

    ”This would be an avenue to engage children drawn from both public and private schools on their rights and responsibilities.

    ”This programme would be led by trained peer educators, who have experience in gender relations, socialisation and sexual violence prevention.

    ”Asides from verbally engaging students on their rights and responsibilities, children would be equipped with relevant materials, textbooks and posters which can be displayed conspicuously in the school premises,” the commissioner said.

    He said that since 2015, the DSVRT had commemorated the Domestic and Sexual Violence Awareness Month, which had traditionally been in the month of September to coincide with the month the team was established in 2014.

    Onigbanjo said that the theme of this year’s activities was ”Institutionalising Our Reforms”.

    He said that this was based on the critical need to ensure that all the interventions made were institutionalised.

    The DSVRT chairman said that it was to ensure that systems were in place to ensure that the states response to sexual and gender-based violence was well structured and service delivery was fully optimal.

  • I don’t want to sleep around with too many girls-Rema

    I don’t want to sleep around with too many girls-Rema

    Afro-pop singer, Rema has said he doesn’t want to have sex with too many girls.

    The ‘Bounce’ singer took to his Twitter handle to share some of his opinions on some pertinent subject matter.

    ”I swear I just wanna love one girl and move on. I don’t wanna sleep around with too many girls, violating my energy and breeding disrespect because of sex, This d**k is GOLDEN how bout that!” he wrote.

     

     

     

    The singer also had a word for people who say his music is childish. He wrote

    ”“His lyrics are childish” Yes! I’m young fucking let me grow, if I start spitting all the bars now what will spit when I’m 30 years old, I barely write music let me have a collection of experiences and chat real shit from my heart! Many niggas sing about shit they don’t do!

    Producers don’t get enough credit, they are the backbone to any HIT song! At least give them the right royalty & publishing percentage, y’all niggas forgetting who took y’all vocals fr? y’all selfish. Yo let them eat! I give my producers what they deserve and that’s FACTS!

    How will an OG win awards one year and because he don’t win the awards the next year they say he’s falling off? Why? For not doing what he already done? That’s stupid. Niggas listen to that shit and kill themselves in the studio trying to prove what they already proved! Wake up!”

    Rema also counseled young people who are depressed and considering suicide because they are not rich and famous.

    ”Too many youths depressed and committing suicide because they want to be rich and famous early, pressuring yourself because if you’re not a success early you’re not a success at all! Be patient! Not everybody with money is HAPPY!

    I will repeat my clothes, I don’t care if I’ve worn it before, laugh at me all you want I bought it with my hard earned money, I’m rich you’re not and you’re judging me? Lol some of your favs are owing they stylist and that’s FACTS!” he wrote

     

  • Google earmarks $25m grant for girls in Africa

    Google earmarks $25m grant for girls in Africa

    Google.org on Monday announced that it had earmarked $25m grant funding for its new Global Impact Challenge (GIC) for Women and Girls in Africa.

    Juliet Ehimuan, Country Director, Google Nigeria, said at a virtual event to mark the International Women’s Day (IWD) that Google was also reinforcing its commitment to the empowerment of women and girls on the continent.

    She said building on their previous work in gender equity – with grantees like the National Domestic Workers Alliance, Laboratoria and GiveDirectly – Google.org was seeking applications from organisations in Africa and around the world.

    Ehimuan said that the GIC for Women and Girls, which would provide $25 million in overall cash grants to nonprofits and social enterprises, follows initiatives such as the 2019 Africa launch of Women Will, Google’s initiative to create opportunities for women, and Google’s #IamRemarkable workshop series.

    ‘’Grantees, who will be announced later this year, are eligible to receive funding ranging from $300,000 to $2 million, selected organisations will also receive capacity building support and mentoring from Googlers,’’ she said.

    The country Director said over the past five years, Google.org had given over $55 million in cash grants to non-profit organisations that support gender equity and access to opportunity for women and girls around the world.

    She said that empowering women and girls in Africa to reach their full economic potential, and to thrive, was more critical now than ever as they bear the brunt of the COVID-19 pandemic.

    Quoting the Foresight Africa report 2021, Ehimuan said it confirmed that the coronavirus has “exacerbated already-existing gender inequalities, laying bare serious fault lines in safety, physical and mental health, education, domestic responsibilities, and employment opportunities”.

    She said that despite decades of work aimed at achieving gender equality, the disparity between men and women not only remains – it is growing alarmingly, thanks largely to the global pandemic, the report warned.

    According to her, the GIC for Women and Girls was focused on changing the status quo, that job cuts, income losses and lack of education, were not simply side-effects of the pandemic, but would negatively impact the economic strides made by women and girls for many years to come.

    “As economies and societies rebuild, we need bold new ideas that will propel us forward. We cannot afford to go back to the way things were, and we certainly can’t do it alone.

    The country director added that we have a collective responsibility to ensure that generations of women and girls from all walks of life—no matter their race, sexual orientation, religion or socioeconomic status—live in a world where they are treated equally and can realise their full potentials.

    Ehimuan said when women and girls have the tools, resources and opportunities to turn their potential into power, this not only changes the trajectory of their individual lives, but also strengthens entire communities.

    ‘If we lift up women and girls, the rest of the world will rise, too,” Ehimuan said.

    She said organisations have until Friday, April 2, 2021 at 11:59pm GMT to submit their applications at g.co/womenandgirlschallenge.

    An all-female panel of expert Google executives and world / business leaders, including Phumzile Mlambo-Ngcuka, Executive Director of UN Women; Victoria Adejoke Orelope-Adefulire, Senior Special Assistant to the President of Nigeria on SDGs, among others, would preside over the application review and selection process once application closes, Ehimuan said.

  • As a mother, I’m worried about kidnappings of women, girls in Nigeria – Aisha Buhari

    As a mother, I’m worried about kidnappings of women, girls in Nigeria – Aisha Buhari

    The first lady of Nigeria, Aisha Buhari, has urged the President Muhammadu Buhari-led government to bring an immediate end to the incessant spate of abductions of women and girls in the country.

    “As a mother, I share the sorrow and agony of the victims and their families. I am also not unaware of the impact that these abductions could have in reverting many successes we have hitherto achieved, especially in terms of girl-child education and early marriages.

    In a message to mark the 2021 International Women’s Day, the president’s wife called on all stakeholders to continue to exert their different levels of influence and bring an end to the kidnappings.

    Her personally signed message which was titled “Message of the First Lady, Federal Republic of Nigeria, Dr. Aisha Muhammadu Buhari, on the occasion of the International Women’s Day 2021,” was published via Twitter on Monday.

    It read, “Today marks the 2021 edition of International Women’s Day. The day offers yet another opportunity for humanity to review and reflect progress made on issues of women and girls.

    “This year’s theme: Women In Leadership: Achieving an Equal Future in a COVID-19 World is a strong call to appreciate the efforts of women and girls in the fight against COVID-19 pandemic.

    “COVID-19 has had a huge impact on women; disrupted education and careers, lost jobs, descent into poverty, and proliferation of domestic violence. Many have also died or suffered due to lack of access to basic information on the pandemic, It is therefore important, not just to continue spreading the message of the COVID-19 protocol, but to remember and support those who have been affected negatively by the pandemic in one way or another.

    “Away from COVID-19, women and girls in Nigeria have continued to suffer abductions both in the hands of insurgents and bandits.

    “As a mother, I share the sorrow and agony of the victims and their families. I am also not unaware of the impact that these abductions could have in reverting many successes we have hitherto achieved, especially in terms of girl-child education and early marriages.

    “I call on all stakeholders to continue to exert their different levels of influence and bring these abductions to an end and to assure us that girls are safe anywhere they may find themselves.

    “My best wishes to women all over the world for their resilience, hard work, and commitment to the progress of humanity. Happy International Women’s Day.”

  • Girls Beware, Yahoo Guys are Desperate, By Michael West

    Girls Beware, Yahoo Guys are Desperate, By Michael West

    By Michael West

     

     

    Warn your girls! Wicked and desperate guys on the prowl for money rituals are on the increase. Warn your girls!

     

    How we got to this level of moral and spiritual decadence in which teenagers are now desperate to become overnight multimillionaires without any legitimate source of income is bewildering. I can’t understand why some parents rather than scold, expose and whip their children to the path of sanity, decency and morality have chosen to either look the other way or even facilitate the evil process for their ill-groomed children.

     

    I got piqued when I read in the media about mothers who were arrested for providing spiritual fortification for their sons who were into criminal activities of kidnapping and cyber crime. I have read about the spiritualists who work for such criminals, too. In the 1960s/70s, such metaphysical empowerment was being provided for highway robbers. That was when the likes of Oyenusi held sway. 1980s, it was extended to armed robbers and conmen. It was further extended to drug couriers and barons in 1990s. In the millennium, cyberspace criminals took it higher by using it to hypnotise their victims online. But in recent years, precisely since 2010 till date, the scale of money rituals by desperate Yahoo scammers otherwise known as “Yahoo plus” has become scary and crudely heartless.

     

    Recent happenings as seen on the social media call for a serious concern. Those boys don’t give a damn! All they want is money. It is in this generation that people want to be rich without working for it. Whichever way they get the money does not matter to them.

     

    There are obvious factors that encourage the inordinate and diabolical means to sudden wealth. I see parental failure or compromise, trendy social life as exemplified by the lyrical contents of hit songs of the moment especially the hip-pop stars, and perverted peer influence.

     

    The Holy Bible says if foundation is corrupted, what can the righteous do? Parenting is the foundation of every child. Train up a child the way to go, when he’s grown up he won’t veer off the track. What a child grows up to become in the society is a function of parental grooming. No successful person suddenly emerges without a great deal of work from home by the parents. The reality of life, in some cases, has shown that it is not every bad person that lacks good parental grooming from home. There are cases where some children become wayward on their own. This is where the company and association children keep become important. Besides parents, friends and acquaintances also have strong influence on children. This starts from their neighbourhood, school, vocational and playmates. Schools do offer more than academic studies. They are institutions of learning: moral, culture and academics. Patriotism is learned in the classroom before it is exercised or practiced in public. Guiding principles of hard work, decency, civic duties, religious and cultural ethos are major benefits of learning in schools back in the days. Students caught stealing or found in any unlawful acts would be disciplined in the school assembly to serve as deterrent to others just as those who make the school proud would be applauded and celebrated in the full glare of the school community.

     

    But the current generation of students are beating up their teachers, actively involved in cultism, political thuggery, hired assassination, rape, bully, hard drug peddling and consumption et al. Joblessness further makes crimes attractive to the youths.

     

    The glamour associated with the lifestyle of the affluent and celebrities is fascinating to them. The songs ruling the airwaves by some star crooners who sing on nothing than “kin sati lowo” – that is, ‘making money at all cost and by whatever means’ are not helpful at all. The songs of yesteryears centred on dignity of labour, values, godly and moral counsel. They sang love songs better than the transient blabbing of today’s lyrics that lack depth and message. The video clips of the songs do parade the semblance of their dream cars, houses and thereby cultivate the attitude of spraying money lavishly to announce their own ‘arrival.’

     

    The totality of the enticing lifestyle of celebrities and the privileged members of the society is what our jobless youths desperately want to attain in weeks or days, if possible. That’s why they end up going diabolical and ritualistic.

     

    I have watched a video of a young man making love to a cow whose meat he will share to others to eat at a causeless ceremony. I also watched some scary video clips where young girls were dancing seductively with their supposed lovers or boyfriends only to be slaughtered minutes later for rituals. These are common scenes on social media. I couldn’t believe watching some guys eating a fowl raw with its feathers and intestines as part of rituals for quick money. Similarly, There are those eating excreta with bread. Wow! How about a 24-year-old guy arrested by policemen in his mindless attempt to use his parents’ dresses for rituals? There is hardly a day without announcement of missing girls or young women. These boys are not joking at all. They want to be rich by force and by fire. They don’t love anybody deeply in their wicked hearts. They see every woman as a potential sacrificial item. Parents, warn your girls.

     

    It is more risky for women whose only deciding factor to date any man is money. Times are truly tough but be careful. These guys are merciless and mindless like bandits who have a zero value for human life. The question I need somebody to answer for me is that, can’t security agents go after those making these evil rituals for people? I’m aware that many powerful people in government, politics and business do patronise the same “powerful” juju men and women. I was told that some effective juju made for highly placed people involved human blood. True or false I don’t know but I want the security agents to beam a searchlight in that direction in order to reduce the incidence of missing girls.

     

    Before the EndSARS protests, SARS operatives were regularly raiding suspected cyber criminals but many of them were reportedly extorted and then let off the hook. As at today, several lives have been sacrificed for money rituals by men who pretended to be in love with the victims. Economic climate is getting inclement the more. I hope that hunger, desire for latest iPhone version and idleness will not drive our covetous girls into their early grave. Parents please warn your girls, guys are desperate to make money. Again, girls, be warned.

     

    From the Mailbox

     

    Re: DNA: Nemesis of Infidelity

     

    I take it that you suggest men should stop trying to know if children they are responsible for are truly theirs or not? Furthermore, you are implying that men should just overlook the wrongs of their wives and accept responsibility for other men’s children in their marriages so they could live long? Adoption is consensual but fathering an illegitimate child in a marriage is not, please. I guess that’s why women hide detals. – Richard Ogundele.

     

    Quote:

    It is more risky for women whose only deciding factor to date any man is money. Times are truly tough but be careful. These guys are merciless and mindless like bandits who have a zero value for human life.”

  • Most university girls accusing lecturers of sexual molestation are dullards – Ayade

    Most university girls accusing lecturers of sexual molestation are dullards – Ayade

    Ben Ayade of Cross River said university female students who accused their teachers of sexual molestation are ‘dullards’.

    He urged female students to study hard.

    “As a girl in the university, study hard and no one will take advantage of you because they know that you are worth your onions.

    “Some of the university girls that say they were sexually molested are dullards who visit lecturers privately to beg for marks,” he said.

    Ayade spoke Wednesday in Calabar at the end of a kilometre walk to commemorate this year’s “16 Days of Activism against Gender Based Violence (GBV)” in the state.

    The walk took off from Cultural Centre Calabar to the premises of the state Ministry of Women Affairs.

    Ayade told women in the state that being married is not a special qualification in womanhood as believed in some quarters.

    Ayade, represented by Ms. Tina Agbor, Secretary to the State Government (SSG), said society made women believe that marriage was a special qualification, making many of them to submit themselves to be hurt.

    “Because the society has told you that for you to be a complete woman, you have to be married, many women are holding on to very wrong and abusive relationships.

    “As a woman, you must add value to yourself for the men to respect you because when you reduce yourself to nothing, the men will kick you around.

    The 16 Days of Activism is an annual event organised between Nov. 25 and Dec. 10 to raise awareness on GBV and harmful practices against women and girls in the state.

    The theme of this year’s event is: “Orange the World: Leave No One Behind, End Violence against Women and Girls.”

    Ayade said while society was now preaching against GBV, women must refuse to be put down, adding that they could only be their own limitations.

    Ms Ann Awa, Chairperson, International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Cross River Chapter, said the state needed a well-equipped one-stop-shop where survivors of GBV could get adequate help.

    Awa called on the state government to domesticate the Violence Against Person Prohibition (VAPP) Act.

    She also appealed to the people of the state to report any act of GBV because, according to her, the life of a woman was more important than the ring on her finger.

    On her part, Dr Bassey Nakanada, Chairperson, Medical Women Association of Nigeria (MWAN), Cross River branch, appealed to government agencies and Civil Society Organisations (CSOs) to help in collation of data to make it easier for planning.

    Represented by Dr Helen Unuareokpa, Nakanda added that MWAN was a major stakeholder in the fight against GBV while encouraging everyone to be part of the process to stamp out violence from the society.

  • No ransom was paid on 26 kidnapped girls – Zamfara insists

    No ransom was paid on 26 kidnapped girls – Zamfara insists

    Zamfara government has maintained its position that no ransom was paid to secure the release of 26 girls kidnapped from Faskari local government area of Katsina State.

    Speaking at a media briefing in Gusau on Tuesday, Zailani Bappa, Special Adviser on Media to Gov. Bello Matawalle said: “we wish to make it categorically clear that the release of the 26 girls was made possible through peace initiative of the state government.

    “Right from the negotiation with the bandits who held the captives in Zamfara bushes to the time they were unconditionally released, the government of Zamfara felt it was saving the lives of Nigerians and not minding where they hailed from.

    “Fortunately some parents of the victims who were not happy with the information that N6.6 million was collected from them for the release of the girls are here to tell the press the truth,’’

    One of the victims’ parents who drove to Gusau along with seven of the girls to speak on the matter, Mallam Abdulkarim Musa said “we do not even know the man who addressed the press in Katsina on Monday claiming to be our village head and that we raised such a huge amount for the release of our children.

    “We shall ever remain grateful to the Bello Matawalle-led administration in Zamfara for saving our children over whom we had even lost hope after they were kidnapped from our village, Dan-Aji in Katsina State.

    “The gunmen killed people and burnt houses and properties when they invaded our village and took away the girls about 10 days ago, but thank God that they have all been saved now.’’

    The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that Gov. Matawalle announced rescuing the girls unconditionally from bandits last Friday.

    He subsequently directed the Zamfara Commissioner of Security and Home Affairs, Alhaji Abubakar Dauran to take and hand them over to the governor of Katsina State, Alhaji Aminu Masari.

    Thereafter, social media platforms were awash with claims that the victims were not rescued by Zamfara government which compelled the government to arrange Tuesday’s media briefing on the matter.

  • Boys, not girls more vulnerable to rape in Nigeria – NAPTIP

    Boys, not girls more vulnerable to rape in Nigeria – NAPTIP

    The National Agency for the Prohibition of Trafficking in Persons (NAPTIP) has revealed that presently young boys in Nigeria are more vulnerable to rape than girls.

    The Director General of agency Dame Julie Okah-Donli said this is because people tend to focus more on girls not realising that the rape of boys is on the rise.

    She said that it is really annoying the number of silly videos being shared and reposted of child pornography on the internet, promising that she will arrest anyone that shares such video or stigmatizes against victims.

    Okah-Donli added that she is not an advocate of capital punishments such as death penalty for rapists because it will make perpetrators more brutal, because they will not want to leave witnesses to their crimes.

    The DG said this Saturday in Abuja at the flagoff of the ‘Cover me’ campaign aimed at exposing at exposing perpetrators of child abuse, advocate for stricter punishment for rapists and advocate for stronger mechanism for preventing approach.

    She said, “I do not advocate for capital punishment of death sentence because it will make rapists become brutal because they will not want to leave witnesses and it will also encourage jungle justice with people using it to accuse and kill people falsely.

    “Boys are more vulnerable to rape because we tend to focus more on girls so we need to focus on all our children. Now you see a lot of silly videos with people sharing and reposting, If you send it to me I will arrest you for child pornography, anyone who stigmatizes against victims will be punished. We need to make people know that we are serious.

    “During the lockdown, a lot of things where revealed to us, we realized that most of the reports we got was from observant neighbors and not parents.”

    Coordinator Cover me project, Barr. Ugo Nwafor explained that his organization has set up a one million man online petition to implement capital punishment to stop rape, child defilement and child abuse in the country.

    He said that capital punishment if implemented an curb rape, defilement and abuse by 60%.

    He said that the cover me project will also embark upon the distribution of clothing items to children in rural areas all over the country because they believe that the contant nudity of little children in rural areas might also encourage paedophiles.