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  • You can rant rubbish about me, but can’t settle your home- Toyin Lawani condemns Fani Kayode

    You can rant rubbish about me, but can’t settle your home- Toyin Lawani condemns Fani Kayode

    Popular fashion entrepreneur, Toyin Lawani has condemned ex- aviation minister Fani Kayode for criticizing her nun outfit months back.

    TheNewsGuru recalls that in March, Fani Kayode had criticized Toyin’s racy nun photos. He called it tasteless and ghetto rubbish.

    Nine months later, Toyin Lawani decided to slam him with a reply.

    In the early hours of today, the award winning stylist wrote:”See this Rubbish man , you can rant rubbish about me but can’t settle your home , busy torturing a mother , taking her 4kids away from her , not allowing her see them for over a year , arresting the mother of your kids , pushing her to run around to one court or the other , heard you a bully that’s why everyone is not speaking up for her , it’s extremely sad everyone choose to use their voice and platform for some kids and not for some cause of who and who is involved, see mr , I sat down my own , you spoke about me , if you talk about me , I will talk about you , you no try , even if it’s under supervision let a mother see her kids , I don’t care what transpired between you people , drop that ego, drop that shoulder of yours and do the right thing”.

     

    She also urged well-meaning Nigerians to support the estranged wife of Fani Kayode who hasn’t had access to her four kids ever since their marital crisis began.

    “God knows I don’t know @snowhiteey and I hv never met her , but I have been crying for her , if someone stops me from seeing my kids I might hurt myself, when I couldn’t see my ist child for 5years while she was in America , I was quite depressed, everyone didn’t know my pains but it wasn’t a good one , I missed out on so many important moments, like her ist period etc , not to talk of the tender age those 4kids are right now ,they need their mother, let’s all standup and speak up for this lady , nothing wrong in doing so and people are calling out Bullies I’m wondering why your name is not number one on that list . If you are a mother and you know the pain of having kids pls tag every mother on this post to speak up for this lady”.

  • Raid on Justice Odili’s home politically motivated- Ozekhome

    Raid on Justice Odili’s home politically motivated- Ozekhome

    Human rights lawyer, Mike Ozekhome (SAN), has stated that the raid on Justice Mary Odili’s home, allegedly perpetrated by the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, could be politically motivated.

    Ozekhome, who visited Odili after the incident, also said that the judge did not resist the raid.

    He said, “She didn’t resist any search. I believe that they themselves would have found that they were committing terrible hara-kiri, that is, giving them the benefit of the doubt,”

    “The other theory which is also as powerful is that it is politically motivated, deliberately contrived as artifice and designed to embarrass this cerebral justice of the supreme court and to embarrass her husband.”

    TheNewsGuru reports that Justice Odili is the wife of a former governor of Rivers state, and chieftain of the Peoples Democratic Party, Peter Odili, who is currently on the watchlist of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission.

    Ozekhome said that the raid could have been carried to stoke fire ahead of the PDP National convention happening today in Abuja adding that the raid was an embarrassment for Nigeria.

    “Of course, the husband is a well-known PDP titan, and tomorrow is the PDP convention. Could it have been designed to rake up issues and make it look like they were trying to go after him so as to demoralise the delegates for tomorrow’s convention? That is another theory.

    “But whatever theory, one thing is clear to me, we are gradually moving towards the precipice of calling ourselves a banana republic. Nowhere in the world would secret agents just bump into the house of a justice of the supreme court and a former governor with an empty search warrant with no name written on it.”

    Meanwhile, the EFCC has denied the raid on the justice’s house claiming they were not involved.

     

     

  • [Devotional] IN HIS PRESENCE: A wise woman builds her home

    By Oke Chinwetalu

    Read: PROVERBS 31:10–31

    Meditation verse:
    “that our daughters may be as pillars, sculptured in palace style” (Psalm 144:12).

    A pillar is a tall vertical structure of stone, wood, or iron, used as a support for a building. Without a pillar, a building will crumble. We started noticing cracks in the walls of our home about a year and a half after we moved in. The cracks increasingly got worse; we knew we had to do something. We called in a structural engineer who discovered a massive structural defect. The master bedroom upstairs was sitting on the parlour downstairs, without any supporting pillar and it was giving way under the weight. We had to move out of our home so everything in the affected areas could be removed. When the wardrobe was removed, the walls behind had almost split in two. The defect was rectified by erecting two big pillars in the parlour to carry the weight of the room upstairs.

    “The wise woman builds her house, but the foolish pulls it down with her hands” (Proverbs 14:1). As a woman, you are a support structure in your home, community, or wherever you find yourself. And not just any kind of pillar; sculptured in palace style, standing out, beautifully adorned. Today’s reading portrays a woman who is a pillar in her home and community. She is a manufacturer, seamstress, importer, realtor, employer, manager, and philanthropist. She is focused on the welfare of her husband, children, staff, and community. She eschews laziness and idleness. Surprisingly, nothing is mentioned about the physical appearance of this woman.

    The value of something is not in its beauty but its usefulness. A vessel can be beautiful but completely useless, unable to hold down anything. Your worth is neither determined by your appearance nor the value of your car possessions, but by how useful you are to God and those around you. As gold is purified by passing it through fire, the challenges of life are designed to refine you. You are designed to be a polished pillar in your home, standing firm through the challenges and storms of life and emerging stronger. Are you appropriately positioned as a pillar in your home or, is your home in danger of crumbling?

    IN HIS PRESENCE is written by Dcns Oke Chinye, Founder, The Rock Teaching Ministry (TRTM)
    For Prayers and Counseling email rockteachingministry@gmail.com
    or call +2348155525555
    For more enquiries, visit: www.rockteachingministry.org

  • Kim Kardashian to get $60m home in Kanye divorce

    Kim Kardashian to get $60m home in Kanye divorce

    Kim Kardashian is set to get the $60million Hidden Hills Estate she shared with Kanye West as part of their divorce.

    Although the couple seemed to have reconciled in recent weeks, making people think the divorce was going to be called off, according to court documents filed on Tuesday the split is still on.

    TMZ reports that Kim and her children have been staying on the property since she filed for divorce in February.

    The couple bought the mansion in 2014 for $40million and Kanye took the lead in rebuilding it from the ground up.

    The report also indicates that the negotiation for the property was extremely cordial between Kim and Kanye.

     

     

  • Mob razes commissioner’s home, destroys district head’s properties in Sokoto

    Mob razes commissioner’s home, destroys district head’s properties in Sokoto

    A mob has razed the residence of the Sokoto State Commissioner of Career and Security Affairs, Colonel Garba Moyi.

    The house, located in Isa Local Government Area of the North West State, was burned down on Tuesday.

    Sokoto Police Command Public Relations Officer Sanusi Abubakar confirmed the attack on Wednesday, explaining that arrests have also been made following the incident.

    While narrating how the incident took place, the police spokesman said a peaceful gathering was organised by some residents of the area to discuss the way forward over security issues.

    The gathering, according to Abubakar, was organised in good faith and resolutions were to be forwarded to appropriate quarters for further action.

    However, he said some bad elements hijacked it for a protest that went violent, leading to the unfortunate incident.

    Sources in the area said after torching the commissioner’s home, the youths also stormed the residence of the District Head and Sarkin Gobir of Isa, Nasiru Ahmed, destroying vehicles and other items.

    Meanwhile, the Sokoto State Commissioner of Police Kamaludeen Okunola has ordered a full scale investigation to ensure those involved are prosecuted. He also warned residents of the state against taking laws into their hands.

  • Civil servants ought to own their own homes – Osinbajo

    Civil servants ought to own their own homes – Osinbajo

    Vice President Yemi Osinbajo, says every civil servant deserves to own a home; hence the need to reform the Nigerian Civil Service.

    Osinbajo’s spokesman, Laolu Akande, in a statement on Friday, said the vice president spoke after receiving a briefing on the Federal Civil Service Strategy and Implementation Plan 2021-2025 at the Presidential Villa, Abuja.

    The presentation was made by the Head of the Civil Service of the Federation, Dr Folashade Yemi-Esan.

    The meeting is a presidential level briefing of the reform process of the Federal Civil Service which has been on since 2017.

    The reform is being led by Steering and Implementation Committees with membership drawn from the public and private sectors with the engagement of development partners.

    According to Osinbajo, there is need to do something bold and big that will make a difference.

    “It is evident that perhaps, for the first time in a long time, some very serious attention is being paid to all of the various issues in our civil service.

    “I think that we should really do something that is bold, big and that will really make the difference in order to address some of the issues especially that of accommodation for civil servants.

    “We can do much more with mass housing; we have a target now of 300,000 houses under our Economic Sustainability Plan (ESP) social housing scheme.

    “CBN has allocated N200 billion, but we have seen that we can provide mass housing, and we can make civil servants beneficiaries of the scheme.”

    He said though the housing scheme was very modest, it was the kind of thing that could at least be done to begin to take into account, the fact that everybody who worked for the civil service deserves to live in their own home.

    Osinbajo said that there must be a strategy for giving everybody a place to live in.

    “It is a vital part of what we are trying to do; we must address it.

    “A civil servant ought to be able to own a home, and justify to his family the reason why he went for the job,” he said.

    Citing his experience while serving as Attorney General in Lagos State, Osinbajo said reforming the Lagos State Judiciary was done like fixing the welfare of federal civil servants. This was key to addressing challenges associated with productivity and corruption.

    Yemi-Esan also presented a report on the implementation status of the Federal Civil Service Strategy Plan 2017-2021.

    She identified staff welfare, particularly remuneration and housing, as areas that require better focus and urgent intervention by the Federal Government.

    The head of service appealed for improved support, particularly in funding the implementation of successive strategy and implementation plans to overhaul the service for better productivity.

    Yemi-Esan said the current reform in the Federal Civil Service had enabled government to save huge sums through the verification of personnel payroll and digitization of some operations, among others.

    She said that her office would continue to lead the reform process as the 2021-2025 plan went forward to the Federal Executive Council for approval.

    The meeting featured comments and observations on the proposed plan tabled on behalf of the Steering Committee, chaired by the Head of Service.

    In attendance at the meeting were the Attorney General of the Federation, Mr Abubakar Malami, Ministers of Labour and Employment, Dr Chris Ngige, and Finance, Budget and National Planning, Mrs Zainab Ahmed.

    Others were Ministers of State for Budget and National Planning, Prince Clem-Agba, and Works and Housing, Engr. Abubakar Aliyu.

    The Special Adviser to the President on Economic Matters, Dr Adeyemi Dipeolu, development partners, World Bank officials and the President of the Africa Initiative for Governance, Mr Aigboje Aig-Imoukhuede, also attended the meeting.

  • Going back home – Francis Ewherido

    Going back home – Francis Ewherido

    By Francis Ewherido

    About five years ago, the former editor of The Guardian, Abraham Ogbodo, told me he would return to his village once he retired from The Guardian. Retire to the village in your 50s? What will you be doing? Not many people do that, especially in Urhobo Land. I did not take him seriously.

    In those days, I remembered that some people who retired and relocated home died not long after and, of course, the predominant story then was that their relatives, who were witches and wizards, donated them in their coven. They were killed, cooked and eaten in the coven (please don’t ask me how). It did not matter that their deaths could just have been as a result of a change of environment or disruption in the routine the body was accustomed to for decades. So, I was wondering what Ogbodo would do to keep busy after over 30 years of active working life.

    Ogbodo kept to his words, he has since relocated to his hometown, Agbarha-Otor. His reasons for coming home were compelling. He wanted to engage in advocacy and community engagement. He felt the youths needed a new paradigm. Many of those they saw back home were people, who had nothing yesterday, and a year later, had palatial houses and fleet of cars. Consequently, many of the youths want to be politicians or yahoo-yahoo boys. Ogbodo wants to inculcate in them the virtues of patience and hard work; he wants them to learn that life is like a building, you lay one block at a time. He wants them to discover their purpose and spend the rest of their lives living it happily. He is still on the matter.

    When we spoke 10 days ago, he talked about the need for more interventions: He wants more prominent sons of Urhobo to come home to invest. He wants people to set up enduring businesses with good fundamentals and strong corporate governance, so that the businesses can outlive the founders. He wants partnerships, based on integrity and shared vision, so that the institutions can endure. The partnerships will also enable each partner to punch far above what s/he could have done individually.

    Last Thursday, Ogbodo’s words reverberated in my mind as I beheld a spectacle in Ovwodokpokpor-Olomu, Delta State. It was the grand opening of a resort and farms. The ultra-modern resort in the heart of a rural setting creates a pleasant contrast that inspires hope. It is a reality made possible by an audacious and courageous spirit; a product of a very creative mind. The venture is a stroll in a rural terrain where even angels would have a rethink before treading (some people have questioned the viability of such a project in a rural setting).

    Before Ogbodo relocated back home, an older friend, Olorogun Jacob Diedjomahor, did. After over 30 years spent mainly in Lagos and America, he retired as the exploration manager of one of the top three oil companies in Nigeria. Then he came home to start farming on a very large scale. About two years ago, he started this multimillion naira resort on a 50-acre land in his village, Ovwodokpokpor-Olomu. The grand opening was what took me to Ovwodokpokpor. It is an unbelievable sight and a massive upgrade for the community. Life will never be the same in Ovwodokpokpor.

    As I beheld the blend of nature and modernity, I thought of what will happen in Urhobo Land, Delta State and Nigeria, if at least one prominent son or daughter of each village came back home to set up a business that can bring some macro and micro economic transformation to his/her village? As if others were reading my thoughts, speaker after speaker (Ohworode of Olomu, HRM Richard Ogbon-Oghoro 1, Prince Austin Enajemo-Isire, Chairman of NSITF; VME Emmanuel Evue, Olorogun Edoreh Agbah, Engr. Alex Neyin and Engr. Mike Orugbo) spoke along the same line. More investments will bring down the crime rate and improve the standard of living, but most importantly, the young ones in the villages will have new sources of inspiration.

    There are many Urhobo sons and daughters outside Urhobo Land, who want to come home to contribute their bit towards making their homeland a better place, but do not feel encouraged by what they see. The issue has gone beyond the fear of witches and wizards. There is a lot of insecurity. One of the speakers spoke about how he abandoned a similar project in his village due to insecurity. Also, some people, who went home to set up businesses in the past were kidnapped. Some regained their freedom and a few unfortunate ones lost their lives. One of the speakers was kidnapped twice in his own local government, but he remains a homeboy due to his love for his people. There was also a man, who came back from the United States to start a business. He was intimidated, harassed, beaten up and illegally detained with trumped up charges by his own people. He lost millions of naira. He has gone back to the US. Will he come back? Time will tell.

    Sometimes, the problems come from the immediate families. Your brother, cousin or uncle abroad sends you money to buy a plot of land or build a house for him; you divert the money to personal use. Then, when he asks for progress report, you take photos of other construction sites and send to him. There was a story of one of such people, who came back to Nigeria to see his new property. In an attempt to cover up, the culprit murdered him. I cannot remember the part of Nigeria where this happened.
    In our discussions, I have asked Ogbodo about some of the concerns of these people. He feels that people should not wait for the weather to be clear before heading to the farm. He also feels that if everyone shies away, who would change the narrative. All the speakers last Thursday shared the same sentiments. That is why people like Diedjomahor are back home. In the large gathering of people at the opening of the resort on Thursday, the seed of coming back to do something in their communities may have been sown in some of them. This is just inevitable, seeing the splendour of the resort and how it has changed the narrative of Ovwodokpokpor.

    But I strongly feel that the kings and the presidents-general of the various kingdoms in Urhobo Land still have a lot to do. The development of a community should be understood to be what it is: deliberate human and physical capacity building. Deve or any form of extortion is a disincentive and should not be tolerated. It is deve that partly crippled Uvwie (Effurun) economy because it led to the exodus of many oil and oil servicing companies. The economy of Uvwie is yet to recover from the exodus. All hands must therefore be on deck to create an enabling environment for those who want to come home to develop their communities.

  • ‘Inordinate Desire Almost Ruined My Home’, By Michael West

    ‘Inordinate Desire Almost Ruined My Home’, By Michael West

     

    By Michael West

    September 11, 2020

     

    Streams of reactions to last week’s topic underscores the fact that there’s no life situation that is peculiar to one person. Somehow, other persons may have had similar or even more challenging experiences. Deliberately, I avoided wearying readers with legal nuances of such post-divorce reconciliatory process. The right and power to reunite after divorce reside with the couple involved. The court has no pleasure in dissolving marriages but when it becomes the last option, the request will be granted. However, where children are involved, the court would factor the welfare and wellbeing of the children into its decision.

     

    A particular reaction caught my attention and I decided to use the abridged version in this edition. The account is interesting and instructive as well as didactic.

     

    In the narrative, she explained how she had an obsessive clandestine plan to veer off the track of chastity to pursue the inanity of social life. Her proclivity to ‘feel among’ her peers was responsible for her near slip into obscenity. Read on:

     

    “My case is slightly different from the couple’s you published last weekend. I learnt my lessons in a similar way but I thank God I repressed at the nick of time. Otherwise, I would have lost my home by now.

     

    “Some years ago, I had two colleagues at work that we got so close as best of friends. We usually buy the same wears, jewellery, shoes, bags and even food stuff together. At some point, we muted the idea of letting our children attend the same boarding secondary school in order to entrench our friendship – those children are now university graduates. We do attend family events together even outside the town. One of the values I gained from the friendship was to earn my second degree because they already had theirs. They actually encouraged me to go for it so we could be at par in terms of excellence and status. That progressive idea made me to trust their opinions and judgments on virtually all issues. Likewise, my husband appreciated the friendship and would encourage me to sound my friends out on some knotty issues we seemed not to agree on.

     

    “Later, I began to feel inadequate because of the social life of their husbands. The men are members of a popular social club. Their membership had greatly enhanced their business prosperity and nexus. I admired their profiles based on the gist my friends shared about them. The only thing they were not happy to talk about was the philandering lifestyle of their men. They usually explained it away as a condition they must endure because, according to them, it is near impossible for men to have money and not play around with women. I began to feel very low among them because my husband is not the type that socialise in that sense. He hardly attends social events. Sometimes I have to cajole him like a baby before he could attend family functions. He is the type that enjoys the comfort of his home. He likes to play with his children, watch football matches and eat whatever he likes in his home. He does not disturb me from going out with my friends. Since the time they influenced my further studies, My husband developed a great respect for them. He acknowledged them as good women, which indeed, they are.

     

    “I began to feel angry within me that my husband does not belong to any social club. Whenever they mentioned opportunities or good things their husbands achieved through their club members, I felt a sense of inadequacy and backwardness. I began to think on how to persuade my husband to join any notable social club at least to make me feel good. I knew he won’t but all the same, I approached him with the idea. He bluntly rejected it. To be honest, he is doing very well in his business, too. He’s comfortable judging by Nigerian standard but I desired more. The stake for me is way higher than his level. That was the beginning of distraction for me. I wanted a more gregarious and modestly ostentatious man like my friends’.

     

    “I didn’t confess this to anyone but in my mind I was already muting the idea of having a relationship with someone that can fill the void for me. I got so weird in thinking just to have a man in that social class. All I wanted was a man that measured up to the calibre of my friends’ husbands. Though as if I was daydreaming, I knew this was not going to be possible. How will I explain myself to my parents, my in-laws and even my friends who, I later discovered were actually desirous of my kind of husband. I calmly allowed the inordinate urge to fizzle out though still unsatisfied.

     

    “One day, we had a naming ceremony at an estate very far from our office, surprisingly, he called to tell me that he would be picking me home from the venue. I didn’t tell my friends because I wanted his coming to be a surprise to them. Some other colleagues from our office were also sitting with us exchanging banters and jokes in the course of dinning and wining when my husband arrived. I didn’t noticed he had come until a woman said ‘wow! I like this man. He looks cool, simple but classy.’ As others were beginning to join her in assessing the Adonis of a man, I turned to catch a glimpse of the man in question, lo and behold, it was my husband. One of my friends had gone to welcome him and the other was standing to receive him. I was aghast at the reception.

     

    “Right there and then I realised that I can show him off. The next day, one of my friends said ‘You are so lucky, dear! Your husband is a complete gentleman. He is very calm and caring. I hope God will turn my playboy husband to become a homebody as your man.’ Till now, I didn’t confess the inordinate obsession I had with any of them. Sir, I would have regretted admiring what was actually a heartache to my friends.”

     

    From the Mailbox

     

    Re: Divorce: Any Hope for Reunion?

     

    This is similar to my story. The only thing is that I haven’t filed for divorce, but that is what I am ready to do now. It is over six years of separation instigated by my ‘ex-husband’, that is how I now refer to him. No man in his right senses will allow himself to be pushed around by anybody to the extent of putting away his wife. If the woman is still interested in the marriage, she needs to be sure that the man is ready to be a man in every sense of the word. How can the traits that endeared you to a woman later become the things that will make you put her away? Nonsense! I still don’t understand why most men feel insecure with women that are brave and valuable. They see such women as competitors instead of help meet. – Mrs. B. A. O.

     

    This topic is specifically mine. l guess l’m too strong-willed for my husband and the in-laws because they probably expected that by now I would be sending emissaries to beg them just to massage their ego. – Mrs. Anonymous, Lagos.

     

    Wonderful! Thanks to God for such a reunion. Thank you for your efforts too. God bless you. Mr. A. Caleb

     

    I wish I could speak with the woman over the telephone. She is a rare type. Please greet her on my behalf. Only a focused and responsible man will value her type. – Baba Eto, Ibadan.

     

    Quote:

    “I was already muting the idea of having a relationship with someone that can fill the void for me. I got so weird in thinking just to have a man in that social class.”

  • Migrating All-through; East or West, home is the best, By Prof. Godwin Sogolo

    Migrating All-through; East or West, home is the best, By Prof. Godwin Sogolo

    – Prof. Godwin Sogolo

    Introduction
    Since the beginning of this series of presentations, organized by the Centre of Excellence in Migration and Global Studies, the Vice-Chancellor of the National Open University of Nigeria, Professor Abdallah Mba Adamu, has been trying to educate us on the correct understanding of terms such as “mallam” and “almajiri” which he defines as meaning a person in search of knowledge. The VC believes that it is a misconception to tie these concepts specifically to poverty or begging. By his definition, we – all of us in NOUN – are mallams or almajiris, translated as academic migrants, insofar as we are not indigenes of Abuja.

    I had always wanted to tell the VC to speak for himself, but that would be impolite to the Head of our great Institution. The good thing is that the VC’s clarification has prompted me into a reflection on my own background and career history. And, from that introspection, he may well be right that we are all academic migrants. Anyway, what’s in a name, after all?
    Generally defined, migration is “the movement of people from one place to another with the intention of settling, temporarily or permanently”. It is a normal factor in the evolution of human society. Migration contributes to social, technological and human capital development, and promotes mutual understanding across cultures. It is, indeed, a global phenomenon and a social imperative embraced by all human societies. More important, the forces of migration have led to increasing globalization in the modern world, dissolving national identities and changing demographic profiles.
    What I want to do in this discussion is to share with you my experience in migration in such narratives as my memory can go. My story is special to the extent that I started migration, even before birth and, until now that I am speaking with you, I have been migrating without stop, and with no intention of stopping! The story is about my experience as a voluntary migrant from youth, through adolescent age to adulthood; it covers my sojourn in different parts of the country and then movement to foreign lands. As much as possible, I have tried to recount some of the memorable events at each of the locations of my experience. The story concludes by highlighting some of the major rewards and benefits of my experience, in contrast to the agonies and miseries of forced migration, in the past and in modern times. The discussion concludes by commending NOUN and the Centre of Excellence in Migration and Global Studies, CEMGS, for the academic focus on the complex issue of migration.
    Clarifications and key Distinctions
    I want to make two conceptual clarifications that I consider to be relevant to this discussion. The first one, is the distinction between a migrant and an immigrant, the former being temporary while the latter connotes permanent residency. And the second point is the difference between voluntary migration, meaning the movement undertaken by an individual on his own free will, and involuntary or forced migration, that which is forced on an individual or group by the prevailing circumstances. I should add that none of these distinctions is clear-cut.

    Born in Migration
    In Nigeria, the common practice, when asked to identify yourself, is to start with your name, followed by your place of origin. You already know my name; I am from Emevor in Isoko North Local Government Area of Delta State. The Isoko are a minority among the minority ethnic nationalities of the Niger Delta Region. In the 1940s, my parents migrated from Emevor to Ekoabetu, a remote village close to Benin City, in Ovia North East Local Government Area of Edo State. They were farmers who went there, literally speaking, in search of greener pastures. So, they were economic migrants. Well, whether they were migrants or immigrants depends on the conceptual definition just made. Suffice it to say that I was born there, in migration away from my hometown of Emevor. As to the exact date and circumstances of my birth, these were facts recorded only in the memories of my parents and close relatives, and they were never written anywhere. Anyone who wants to know how I came about the date of birth in my official records, should ask former President Olusegun Obasanjo and others how they got theirs.
    Like the Igbo, the Isoko are a migrant people, both in character and culture, and they see migration as a normal way of life. Of my three elder brothers, two sojourned to Oghareki, near Sapele and the other, brother Jeremiah, migrated to Warri, all within Delta State. I was too young to remember much of what happened in my birthplace of Ekoabetu, except that in the early 1950s, I, too, left my parents and migrated to join brother Jeremiah in Warri.

    Seeking Education in Migration
    The Warri phase of my experience as an internal migrant, within the Niger Delta, constituted the formative years of my life. Brother Jeremiah was married and I shared with the couple the one-room apartment that they rented. Could there have been a more humble beginning?
    Given our low-income status, going to school would been almost impossible. However, my brother took advantage of Obafemi Awolowo’s 1955 scheme of free Universal Primary Education in Western Region, of which we were a part at the time. That was how I was able to go to Sido Preparation Primary School in Warri.

    My first day at school was a memorable event. Brother Jeremiah had walked me to school and left me in the hands of Teacher Cecilia Agbatutu, an Urhobo lady, who wanted to know all my names: first-name, middle-name and surname, which I presented to her, as written for me on a piece of paper by my brother. She read through the paper and murmured something to the effect that the names did not sound nice and were too cumbersome to write or pronounce. There and then, Madam Agbatutu took a decision: she left out my first and middle (vernacular) names, as given to me by my parents, and made a pronouncement: “From today on, your name shall be “Godwin Sogolo”. She asked, if I liked it and I nodded in the affirmative, even when protesting from within. The atmosphere was simply too intimidating for a village boy like me to raise an open objection. And, surprisingly, when I reported the matter to brother Jeremiah, he saw nothing wrong with it!

    The only other major event that I can recall, during my primary school days, was my historic journey to Ibadan in 1956 or 1957, as one of the 17,000 school children who went to the city stadium to welcome Queen Elizabeth II to Nigeria.

    Dangers of Growing up in Warri Compared to Emevor and Ekoabetu, Warri was already a cosmopolitan city, even in the 1950s and 1960s.Therefore, the social ills of urban life were rampart and posed grave dangers to vulnerable youths growing up in the town. Of greater danger to the youths was the pervasive lifestyles in Warri, mainly by expatriate oil workers and other young men who were notorious in night-crawling, drunkenness and patronage of commercial sex workers. The luck I had was that brother Jeremiah was a strong disciplinarian who gave me little or no time to go out and mix freely with play mates, and so saved me from the misfortune of joining the numerous groups of mischief-makers, called “Burma boys” or “jagudas”, the equivalents of today’s “area boys” in Lagos.

    From Sido School, I went to Urhobo College, Effurun, a distance – away from where we lived – of some 10 kilometres in the outskirts of Warri. Due to financial constraints, I was a day student in my first two years at Urhobo College, meaning that I had to trek to and from school, covering some 20 kilometres every day. At school, I was, again, lucky to be under the watch of another disciplinarian, Principal M. G Ejaife, who gave good conduct equal rating as academic performance. Although Warri had all the trappings of modernity, the township, as it was called, and its environs, did not, at the time, have a single institution of higher learning – no college of education, polytechnic or university. Consequently, most secondary school leavers knew very little or nothing about higher education such that their career ambitions were limited to either working in one of the oil companies or joining any of the arms of the civil service.

    From Warri to Port-Harcourt
    When I left Urhobo College in 1963, I migrated, yet again, to Port Harcourt, as a staff of Shell Petroleum Development Company. Port-Harcourt, then, was under the defunct Eastern Region. My stay in Port-Harcourt was eventful, but there was one particular experience that stood out. I was a junior staff and worked with other young men and women, as Sedimentological Assistants, in the Geological Laboratory of the Company. It was the common practice, indeed, routine, that at lunch time on every working day, we – boys and girls – went together for lunch at the company canteen. That happened regularly for much of the year, until the summer months when the universities were on break and students came for vacation jobs in the Laboratory and other Departments. Having grown up in Warri where secondary schools were the highest institutions, I had little or no knowledge about universities. Now, here were the young undergraduates commanding the attention of all. Once they were around, the girls would abandon us and join them at lunch time – and would even behave as if they did not know us. Comfort Ajayi, one of the girls I thought fancied me, would, to my discomfort, join them! But as soon as the undergraduates returned to their various universities, the girls would come back to us, as if nothing had happened. To cut a long story short, that was the main factor that motivated me to seek admission to the university.

    From Port-Harcourt to Ile-Ife
    Just before the outbreak of the Civil War in 1967, the Biafran Leader, Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu, had ordered all non-Easterners to return to wherever they came from. I was, again, on the move. Fortunately, however, what the girls did to me and other young men in the Geological Laboratory, had yielded fruits. I had written entrance examinations and secured admission to two Universities: the University of Nigeria, Nsukka, and the University of Ife (now Obafemi Awolowo University). When I informed brother Jeremiah about the two options, and told him that I preferred going to Nsukka, he shouted in anger and warned me seriously not to dare! Why? Well, I have many Igbo friends, and I would rather not quote my brother. But, he was wrong. Even then, I still obeyed him and chose the University of Ife.

    My undergraduate days at the University of Ife were, as usual with students, exciting. I was admitted to read Accounting, under the discipline of Economics, in the Faculty of the Social Sciences where mathematics was one of the compulsory courses. However, in the examinations at the end of the First Session, I performed very poorly in mathematics. And, during the registration exercise for the Second Session, I had a very memorable encounter with the Dean of the Faculty of the Social Sciences, the legendary Economist, Professor Sam Aluko. We were many students on the queue waiting to register, and when it was my turn, Professor Aluko informed me that I had failed mathematics badly and, therefore, could not specialize in Accounting, but that I had done brilliantly in Philosophy, which was in the Faculty of Arts. He said he had discussed with the Head of the Department of Philosophy, Professor J. O. Sodipo, and that they had agreed to transfer me to that discipline.

    First, I had very little or no knowledge about Philosophy, even though I had performed so well in the subject and second, I had no idea what to do with a degree in Philosophy. But, I made the mistake of openly insisting that I still wanted to do Accounting to which the Professor, who was known for his bluntness, yelled and to the hearing of the crowd of students on the queue; “Mr. Sogolo”, he said, “you have failed mathematics woefully and you are insisting on doing Accounting? What is your reason, to steal money?” I could hear laughter from the crowd of students on the queue. I, instantly, accepted the proposed transfer to Philosophy and came out of Professor Aluko’s office, feeling humiliated and ashamed of myself.
    The circumstances of my birth, my Port Harcourt experience that took me to the university and the encounter with Professor Aluko, called to mind the philosophical issue of freedom and determinism. As human beings, are we truly responsible for our actions? In other words, do we choose from among alternative courses of actions and work towards planned goals? Or are events thrust upon us by fate such that we merely float along helplessly? Let us leave these questions for philosophers to grapple with.
    I cannot recollect nursing any particular career aspiration before I went to the university as an undergraduate. I chose to read Accounting but, with a failure in mathematics and the humiliating encounter with Professor Aluko, the prospects of my becoming an Accountant fell apart. However, God in His mysterious ways, intervened and it was the same Professor Aluko who advised me to read Philosophy, in which I made a distinction. And, it is Philosophy that has, not only taken me near and far, but also given me a very good life! It was at Ife that I met my friend, Professor Femi Otubanjo. He graduated a year ahead of me and was appointed Graduate Assistant. Graduate Assistants, in those days, were role models to students. They were bright and dashing young men and women, with cars on campus. Femi himself had a Volkswagen Beetle with open roof and many of us looked up to being like him. But, you must make a First Class or, at least, a Second Class (Upper Division) to be appointed Graduate Assistant. Making that grade became the highest inspiration for many of us in the final year.

    In 1972, I graduated, winning prizes as the best student, not only in Philosophy but also in the entire Faculty of Arts. On Convocation Day, I experienced yet another spectacular event in my life. As a prize winner, I was called upon to shake hands with the great Awo! And I did so, not once but twice! Those moments will forever remain indelible in my memory. And, after Convocation, I did not forget to visit Professor Aluko to thank him for his good mentoring.
    Migrating to the UK
    My performance at Ife was good enough for appointment as a Graduate Assistant and I was so appointed. However, I could not take up the offer for reasons complex enough to constitute another long story. My results at Ife were also good enough to secure admission for me to do a Ph. D at the Cardiff University of Wales in the UK. This was yet another phase of my adventure in migration.
    I was lucky to secure full overseas scholarship from the defunct Mid-West State Government and in 1973, I proceeded to Cardiff. My sojourn at Cardiff gave me the opportunity of getting closer and more intimate with Femi Otubanjo, with whom I shared the same supervisor, Vernon Pratt – from whom we imbibed the work ethics of serious and meticulous devotion to duty. In fact, Femi and I defended our Ph. D theses the same day and were examined by the same Panel of Examiners, with Professor Dorothy Emmet of Cambridge University, as External Examiner.
    While I returned to Nigeria in 1976, soon after securing the Ph. D, Femi who could afford the luxury of another post-graduate degree, proceeded to the London School of Economics (LSE) for a Masters Degree in International Relations. Lack of funds was not the only reason I returned to Nigeria. Indeed, I was so excited with my change of status, from “Mr.” to “Dr.”, that I wanted my people in Emevor, Ekoabetu, Warri, Port Harcourt (Comfort, if possible) and Ile-Ife, to know about my new status. One point of observation about migration is that successful migrants always feel the inclination to show-off, back home, that they have made it. I was very much driven by that urge.

    Career at the University of Ibadan
    I arrived Nigeria in 1976 to find that almost every teacher at the University of Ibadan, where I had been offered a job, as Lecturer II, had a Ph.D. Yet, that did not douse my excitement. On the contrary, that feeling of accomplishment almost became an obsession that threatened my career progression, as my first two to three years at Ibadan, were intellectually unproductive, in terms of research and publications.
    I was, however, able to overcome these initial challenges through the prompting of Femi, who had also joined the University’s Department of Political Science, after finishing from LSE. In 1978, Femi showed me a personal plan of research topics that he was working on as well as projected journal publications, and he advised me to do the same. I did and the result was a dramatic lift in my academic output. I should add that the same Femi advised me a few years ago, to ensure that I put some funds aside when I was still actively engaged, in preparation for very old age when earnings would ebb to zero. I also took this advice.

    Other Phases of my Migration Experience
    My 27 years of research and teaching at the University of Ibadan were punctuated by other migration experiences, within and outside Nigeria, mainly on sabbatical leave or leave of absence from Ibadan:

    A Taste of Lagos
    Between 1986–1991, I ventured into the world of journalism when I served, on part-time basis, as a member of the Editorial Board of the Guardian Newspapers. In 1990, I became the Managing Editor of the African Guardian Magazine, on leave of absence from Ibadan. That position required my stay in Lagos, and I moved to Lagos where I stayed for almost a year. My experience in Lagos confirmed the belief that anybody able to live in that complex city, can live anywhere in the world.

    To UNISA in South-Africa
    At intervals, between 1995–1996, I visited the Department of Philosophy of the University of South Africa (UNISA), the first Open and Distance Learning (ODL) University in Africa and one of the oldest in the world. I was invited to set up the African Philosophy Unit of the Department of Philosophy, which I did. I also wrote the course materials being currently used for the B.A Philosophy Degree Programme. In appreciation of my service, the University organized a series of Colloquia in my honour. In addition, an offer of appointment was made to me, which I was required to take up whenever it was convenient for me. However, one of the very few black UNISA staff, who knew about the offer of appointment, publicly attacked me at a seminar, saying that Nigeria needed me far more than South Africa and that I should stay in my country and not think of coming to South Africa to take up a job that rightly belonged to his people.

    Migrating to the USA
    My visit to the United States of America in 1996, on sabbatical leave from Ibadan, was a remarkable experience. I was employed as a Visiting Professor to the Institute for Global Cultural Studies of the State University of New York, at Binghamton. The Institute was headed by the renowned Professor of Political Science, Ali Mazrui, and I taught various courses, both in the Institute and in the Department of Africana Studies, headed by another renowned scholar, Professor Isidore Okpewho. On my first day at work in the Institute, I was given an office with a table, desktop, printer and reams of paper. There was an Institute Secretary but she was not there to serve lecturers who were expected to do their own secretarial work, including the production of documents – very much unlike what I was used to at Ibadan. With almost a zero background in ICT, this was a huge challenge. But, somehow, I survived it. As for teaching, I must confess that my heavy accent was a major handicap, as I had to put in extra effort in pronunciation to be understood by the students. One more thing; students in the US were more probing and more daring in their interrogation of the subject matter, compared to Nigerian students. For the first time in my teaching career, I was shown a copy of students’ assessment of my performance as a teacher. Their rating was higher than I expected.
    The University of Binghamton is located some kilometres away from Binghamton City where most lecturers and students live. But, there are University buses that convey both staff and students to and from the University. My experience was that on each working day, I would board the bus and, very often, to be greeted by my students, “Hi Godwin” to which I would reply “Hi Kevin”, “Hi Claire”, and that was all. It was the same with the staff of the Institute and Departments. Such was the degree of indifference; no staff or student cared about where or how I lived, as a visitor.

    Back to the UK
    From the US, I returned to my Alma Mater, the Cardiff University of Wales, in the UK, where I was employed as a Visiting Professor of Philosophy. As in Binghamton, the office allocated to me in Cardiff had all the provisions and ICT gadgets. Beyond that, I was on my own. Again, I managed to survive. Cardiff students were actively interactive and would take the lecturer to task on critical issues. What it means is that the teacher really needs to be prepared for drilling by students, unlike our students here in Nigeria who would swallow almost everything hook, line and sinker.
    Something else unique about my Cardiff experience was that the University provided me with a guest accommodation for the period of my stay. Among my neighbours in this modest and sparsely furnished guest house was the Vice-Chancellor of the University, very much unlike Vice-Chancellors of our conventional universities in Nigeria who live in luxurious mansions with scores of staff at their beck and call. In the morning, the Cardiff Vice-Chancellor would say “Hi Godwin” and off he went, riding a bicycle to his office, Incredible!
    The Vice-Chancellor’s simplicity is symptomatic of the lifestyle of academics in Europe and North America. We were, incrementally socialized into this lifestyle. As post-graduate students in Cardiff, we had to work as porters in train stations or dish washers in restaurants, to supplement incomes from scholarships, student loans and grants. In Nigeria, such jobs are usually considered by students as menial and unbefitting of their status.

    Peace Studies in Abuja
    The last location of my adventure in migration was Abuja where I was engaged as Director of Research and Policy Analysis of the Institute for Peace and Conflict Resolution, under the Presidency. The uniqueness of this experience was that it opened my eyes to the realities of practical life, both in the public and private sector, as against the theoretical perceptions from inside the academic walls of a university. Also, the advantage of being in Abuja at the time was that it offered me the vantage position of seeing all the aspects of life in Nigeria. It was from the Peace Institute that I came to NOUN, in continuation of my migration experience.

    Cumulative Experience and Lessons
    One of the moral lessons I have learnt from my migration experience, and exposure to Philosophy, is that character matters. This has been a guiding principle all my life, the basic element of which is the Kantian imperative that you treat others as you would want to be treated, meaning that human attitude is reciprocal. For example, people do not, normally, attack you unless you pose a danger to them or to their interests; if you are decent and nice to people, they reciprocate likewise, and if you are nasty to them, they tend to respond in the same manner. This is true of humanity in general, irrespective of race, nationality, colour or creed.
    I have no doubt that my interactions with individuals and cultures, other than those of Isoko, have enriched my own understanding of myself, others and humanity in general. Exposure to other social systems, values and beliefs, teaches us the diversity of mankind. More important, contact with others shows that there are always alternatives which ought to be accommodated, respected and tolerated. Very often, some of the personalities we meet become our role models. Indeed, the more we learn about heroes and men of great achievements, the more humble we become.

    On external migration, I believe that the years I spent in the UK, South Africa and the USA, helped in molding my attitude to and perceptions of a lot of issues. My attitude, for instance, to wealth accumulation and material possession has been influenced by my interactions with great personalities such as Bishop Desmond Tutu of South Africa, Professors Sam Aluko, Ali Mazrui, Michael Durrant and Robin Attfield. These men have utter contempt for opulence and excessive desire for wealth. Not only do they believe in these values, their lifestyles reflect every bit of them, such that whoever interacts with them is bound to develop the same attitudes. That is how my migration experience has helped in shaping my attitude to life.

    Some Negatives of my Experience
    In spite of the benefits of my adventure in migration, there are negatives worth emphasizing. Every community has its own culture, beliefs, values, customs, etc., making up the people’s worldview, the totality of which is encapsulated in their language. The Isoko Community is no exception. Unfortunately, having left home in my formative years, I lack proficiency in the Isoko language. It is true that I understand and can speak some Isoko, but it is not sufficient for use in an elaborate conversation or discourse such this one. An Emevor elder scolded me the other day, saying that my lapses in the Isoko language had serious implications for the survival of our culture. I, politely, declined to contest his query.

    The other negative, indeed, an extrapolation from the same language deficiency, is my total failure in linguistic acculturation, by which I mean my inability to master the language of any of my host communities, other than English. For instance, I was born in Edo land and lived there for some years before migrating. Yet, I lack proficiency in the Edo language. I worked in Port Harcourt for years but unable to speak any of the indigenous languages there; nor can I speak a word of Yoruba, even after living in that part of the country for over thirty years.
    Yet, my wife, a British-American, who spent far less number of years in Yorubaland and children with less experience, are able to speak some Yoruba, no matter how little. While I hold myself responsible for these lapses, globalization might also have been a contributing factor, as the English language has increasingly become the universal vehicle of communication. In whatever variations, all the places I visited in my many years of migration, spoke the English language.
    The same language deficiency might have been the reason why, after such a long stay abroad and in the university system, my heavy Isoko accent remains largely unaffected, unlike many of my colleagues at Ibadan who returned with the “Queen’s original” or Americanized English.

    Migration Not Always a Jolly Ride
    Migration, whether voluntary or forced, is a fact of social life – in the past and in modern times, nationally and internationally. I have had the good fortune of experiencing voluntary migration all my life and that, itself, is a blessing. It was my choice, for the most part, when and where to migrate. And, pleasant circumstances determined, for me, the trajectory of my migration story. I was fortunate to enjoy hospitality from the host communities of most of the places I visited. Indeed, there would have been no problem, if everybody’s story were like mine. But, as history has shown, migration is not always a jolly ride.

    It would be totally wrong – indeed, delusional– to paint a rosy picture of my migration, whether within Nigeria or abroad. Hostility, hatred, discrimination and resentment are features commonly experienced, especially in the United States of America, UK and South Africa. I could not have been insulated from these social vices in the years that I moved from one culture to another. Recent reports of xenophobic attacks on Nigerians in South Africa show the dangers faced by migrants and immigrants abroad.
    A large number of migrants suffer the misfortune of forced or involuntary migration, which is an undesirable, inevitable and uncomfortable movement away from their comfort zones. Globally, wars, famine and natural disasters have been the recurrent causes of migration, on a large scale. They come with harrowing experiences, indeterminate journeys, hostile receptions, sharp reversals of fortunes, and even deaths.
    The story of the movement of the Jews from Egypt, after 400 years in slavery, depicts, the ordeals of forced migration. Pursued by Pharaoh and his army, miraculously saved by the parting of the Red Sea, the Jews wandered for forty years in the desert, battered, along the way, by pestilence, poisonous snakes, thirst, hunger, violent attacks by hostile communities and deaths. Much later, the same Jews, fleeing Hitler’s pogrom, were luckier; yet, the consequences of their forced migration still persist in the world, today – 75 years after the end of the Second World War – in the form of an intractable Middle East Crisis.
    Thus, to date, mass migration remains a common feature of world history; and it has continued unabated in the contemporary international system. The war in Syria unleashed a massive flow of migrants into the more stable nations of the Western world and forced them to pay attention to this relentless human tragedy.

    Back home in Nigeria, the Boko Haram insurgents have caused painful dislocations in the North East and forced vulnerable families and communities out of their homes into refugee camps of Internally Displaced Persons (IDPs), with untold hardship and sufferings. These new trends in migration, both internal and external, demand academic focus which, I believe, is the reason for the establishment of CEMGS. It is my hope that the Centre will help to provide theoretical and practical insights into this great force of history.
    Conclusion
    My experience in migration has been an enriching one: from Emevor in my mother’s womb to Ekoabetu; from Ekoabetu to Warri, then Port Harcourt, Ile-Ife, Cardiff, Ibadan, Lagos, Binghamton and finally to Abuja, first at the Institute for Peace and Conflict Resolution and then at the National Open University of Nigeria.

    In traversing these lands and cultures, I have interacted with a diversity of individuals, various traditions, customs and different ways of doing things. Exposure to diversity, not only humanizes, it also humbles the mind. That may be why I try as much as possible to avoid the arrogance of claiming superiority over other colleagues who are less exposed, and why I believe firmly that our indigenous systems, although different, are not qualitatively inferior to foreign ones. Developing such an attitude is one of the benefits derivable from exposure to diversity.
    I should, finally, add that the greatest blessing of my migration experience is my precious multi-national family of a husband of Nigerian nationality; wife of English-American nationality; two children of Nigerian-English-American nationalities; two grandchildren of Nigerian-English-American-Australian-Singaporean nationalities, and still counting. How wonderful! `
    In spite, however, of the huge benefits of my kind of migration experience, the comfort zone of every human being is his or her home community. That is where he feels most secured, most protected and most loved. No matter the amount of welcome we receive in a foreign land, it never marches the filial cordiality enjoyed at home. Hence the saying that “East or West, home is the best”.
    Godwin Sogolo, FNAL, fspsp, Emeritus Professor of Philosophy, National Open University of Nigeria, Abuja. Distinguished Professorial Discourse on Migration and Globalization, Centre of Excellence in Migration and Global Studies (CEMGS), August 2020, Abuja.

  • Majek Fashek’s family solicit financial support to fly him home for burial

    Majek Fashek’s family solicit financial support to fly him home for burial

    The family of Late Majekodunmi Fasheke, popularly known as Majek Fashek has made a public plea for financial assistance to fly home the deceased reggae legend who died on June 1, 2020 in New York City, United States of America.

    Former member of the House of Representatives, representing Egor/Ikpoba Okha Federal Constituency and music enthusiast and owner of U&I Records, made the call on behalf of the family on Friday.

    Agbonayinma described Majek as a legend and Africa’s pride and thus cannot be allowed to be buried like an ordinary mortal.

    He added: “ With the support of the family, the children, we are looking at how we can bring him to Nigeria to be buried. This is going to cost quite a lot of money, especially with the challenge of COVID-19. So, we are trying to raise funds. The only account we have right now to be donated to, is the senior son’s account, Randy.

    “Making this public is not my decision alone, some people came and said we should set this up. They said we should set up accounts in America and Nigeria. We want him to be buried here in Nigeria, his fatherland and not in some foreign land like a chicken. In Nigeria, we are still trying to decide which account to use but the American account of the first son is ready and people are already paying into it. I must commend the response has been encouraging but we need more funds.”

    He said that there is a committee being set up to take charge of setting up the Nigerian account.

    “In the meantime, people can pay to the American account of the son. We just have to bring Majek home for proper burial,” he reiterated.

    The eldest son’s American account is:

    Citi Bank

    Name on Account : Randy Fashek

    Routing # 021000089

    Account #6799745106

    Bank Adress – 00122 Laguardia place New york NY 10012

    Bank Phone # 7184041275

    Cash App: $ranfashek

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