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  • Police parade woman for arranging husband’s kidnap, receives N2m ransom

    Police parade woman for arranging husband’s kidnap, receives N2m ransom

    The Police Command in Akwa Ibom on Friday paraded a 40-year-old woman, Mrs Joy Emmanuel,  for allegedly arranging the kidnap of her husband, Mr Emmanuel Ebong.
    The Commissioner of Police, Mr. Olatoye Durosinmi, told newsmen that Joy and the kidnappers collected the sum of  N2million as a ransom for her husband’s release.
    Durosinmi said that the police command in the state would leave no stone unturned to stamp out criminals and criminality.
    Speaking to newsmen, Joy said that circumstances forced her to plan the kidnap of Ebong, an indigene of Ntak Obio Akpa in Oruk Anam Local Government Area.
    She said that her husband did not only starve her of sex but also refused to provide for the family.
    ”I did menial jobs to fend for the family. I arranged his kidnap because I needed money to take care of the family.
    ”Unfortunately I was not given the ransom money after the abduction was successful,” she said.
    Joy mentioned one Udo Moji, now at large, as the leader of the gang she engaged  for  her husband’s abduction.
    She said, ”They collected the money from me and never gave anything to me.  Some members of the group who were arrested while spending the money mentioned my name to the police.”
    Also speaking, Ebong said that he was kidnapped at about 8.30 p.m., on July 21 shortly after entering his house.
    “They took me out of my compound in a mini bus. They kept me for four days and demanded the sum of N2million as ransom.
    ”They took me me to Etinan where they caged me. I am very fortunate that the police came on a rescue operation.
    ‘They collected N2million from me. The police later recovered about N500,000 from them,” he said.
  • Court sentences woman to 3yrs jail for attempting to cut off husband’s pen*s

    Court sentences woman to 3yrs jail for attempting to cut off husband’s pen*s

     

    A woman who attempted to cut off her husband’s penis while he was asleep earlier this month has been sentenced to three years in prison.

    The court heard how Jimmy Ngulube, from Kapiri Mposhi in Zambia, woke up at midnight on August 4 with a sharp pain in his groin.

    He saw his wife Given Chilufya standing over him with a bloody knife and threatening to kill him.

    Before they went to bed, Chilufya, 37, had accused her husband of cheating on her and this led to a blazing row. She had then woken up in the night and decided to take her revenge.

    Jimmy, 43, called his brother who took him to the hospital where doctors managed to repair the worst of the damage.

    Local police were also notified and Chilufya was taken into custody.

    On August 26, last Friday in court, Kapiri Mposhi Resident Magistrate Arnold Kasongamulilo sentenced Chilufya to three years behind bars for unlawfully wounding her husband.

    Chilufya begged the court for leniency, but the magistrate maintained that by attacking and wounding her husband as she did, she had shown clear intent to kill him.

  • My husband is too lazy, businesswoman tells court

    My husband is too lazy, businesswoman tells court

    A businesswoman, Tawakalitu Sanusi, has asked a Mapo Grade A Customary Court in Ibadan to dissolve her 15-year-old marriage to her estranged husband, Olaide whom she described as ‘’too lazy.’’

    Sanusi said she is further frustrated by her husband’s alleged ineptitude when he barred her from having access to their three children.

    “My lord, Olaide stubbornly turned down all available job opportunities provided by my father due to his pride.

    “After losing his white collar job, I pleaded with him times without number to learn a trade or get a lesser job, but he was only interested in an office work.

    “For instance, I got him a security job at the University College Hospital (UCH), but he told me that he cannot withstand staying awake in the night.

    “Also, my father got him a job as a driver, but Sanusi bluntly refused,” Sanusi said.

    She said she attempted to travel to Saudi Arabia to work as a domestic so that she can provide for him and their children.

    “In order to keep the home going, I travelled to Abuja and Lagos to hustle and I regularly send money to my husband and the children.

    “However, he has now denied me access to the children. He threatened to kill me if I ever go to his house to see the children again,” she alleged.

    Olaide denied some of the allegations leveled against him.

    “My lord, my wife constantly accuses me of bringing bad luck to her.

    ”When she got a visa to travel to Saudi Arabia, I supported her with N100,000. She kept me in the dark, believing that I will bring her misfortune.

    “She decided on her own that she was no longer interested in the marriage when she filed this suit,” Olaide said.

    He consequently prayed the court to grant him custody of the three children.

    After the couple testified, the court’s President, Mrs S.M Akintayo adjourned the matter until Sept. 30 for judgment.

    Akintayo, however, advised the petitioner and the respondent to maintain peace and order.

  • My husband spread charm on bed to kill me – Wife alleges

    My husband spread charm on bed to kill me – Wife alleges

    A businesswoman, Maria Yakubu, on Friday dragged her husband, Gana Yakubu, to a Customary Court sitting in Nyanya, for allegedly spreading charm on her bed.

    The petitioner said this in a divorce petition she filed against her husband at the court.

    “Since we finished building our new house and moved in, I and my husband started having misunderstanding, whenever I come back home, it’s always one problem or the other.

    “Sometimes my husband will come home with another woman. Just to get me angry, I never reacted, it was not easy but I kept trying not to react.

    “On one faithful day, I came back home and entered my room, and saw charm on my bed, I confronted my husband and he denied, then I involved the police. My husband later confessed that he was the one that spread the charm.”

    The petitioner further begged the court to grant her divorce, saying: “I don’t want to die in this marriage.”

    The presiding judge, Shitta Abdullahi, however, adjourned the matter until Aug. 8 for defense

  • Alleged homicide: Court steps down Osinachi husband’s case

    Alleged homicide: Court steps down Osinachi husband’s case

    The alleged culpable homicide suit against Peter Nwachukwu, husband of the late gospel singer, Osinachi in a Federal Capital Territory High Court on Monday, was stepped down in order for his lawyers to align themselves to represent him.

    When the matter slated for hearing before Justice Njideka Nwosu-Iheme came up, the Prosecution Counsel, Aderonke Imana, informed the court that the matter was for hearing and that they were ready to proceed.

    A. Ogbonna also announced his appearance as watching brief of the nominal complainant.

    The counsel that represented the defendant during his arraignment, Victor Abakpa, however prayed the court to adjourn the matter until Tuesday, as another lawyer from a different chamber just informed that he was taking over the case.

    He further stated that he was equally served additional proof of evidence in the court just before the court started the day’s proceedings.

    I.A Aliyu on his part informed the court that he was briefed by the defendant on June 18 to take over the case.

    The court therefore stepped down the case to 11am in order for counsel to align themselves and come proper before it.

    During Monday’s proceeding, family members of the deceased singer, Osinachi were in court.

    Prominent amongst the family members were her two children, mother and twin sister.

    The matter which was adjourned until June 16, could not go on due to the absence of the judge.

    The defendant was earlier arraigned on June 3, and was remanded in Kuje Correctional Centre after he pleaded not guilty to the alleged homicide charge filed against him by the Attorney -General of the Federation.

    He was therefore remanded pending the hearing and determination of the
    23-count charge bordering on domestic violence and homicide instituted against him.

    Nwachukwu was arrested by the Nigeria Police after his wife died on April 8 following wide spread allegations by their children, family and colleagues that he battered her leading to her death.

    According to the charge, the crime he allegedly committed contravenes Sections 104 and 379 of the Administration of Criminal Justice Act, (ACJA) 2015, Section 221 of the Penal Code and the Violence Against Person’s Prohibition Act (VAPP) 2015.

    The charge read in part: “That you Peter Nwachukwu, 56, male, on the April 8 at Aco Estate, opposite Police Station, Lugbe, Abuja, FCT, within the jurisdiction of this court, did commit an offence to with: culpable homicide punishable with death in that you caused the death of Osinachi N.

    “This was caused by your various acts of violence and aggravated assault with the knowledge that her death would be the probable consequence of your act.

    “Particulars of offence: That you, Peter Nwachukwu, male, sometime between Nov. 14, 2009 and April 2022 at Aco Estate, opposite Police Station, Lugbe, Abuja, FCT, within the jurisdiction of this court, did commit an offence to wit: emotional, verbal and psychological abuse on Mrs Osinachi Nwachukwu (deceased).

    “This was caused by humiliating her and making utterances like ‘you are smelling,’ ‘you are mad,’ to her in the presence of her music crew members.”

    The statement of offence bordered on emotional, verbal and psychological abuse contrary to Section 14(1) of the Violence Against Persons (Prohibition) Act, 2015 and punishable under the same section of the Act.

    The late gospel singer was popularly known for her song “Ekwueme”.

  • “There is no love in marriage, love is in people” – Dr. Helen Paul

    Iconic Nigerian entertainer and academic, Dr. Helen Paul, has said “there is no love in marriage, love is in people.”

     

    While eulogizing her husband on Instagram moments ago, the entertainer revealed that there is no love in marriage but her husband, Femi is her love and home and that she loves how he lets her have his ATM card even though she can never let go of hers.

     

    In her words: “there is no love in marriage. love is in people, and people put love in marriage. you are my home @femi_bams you are so conscious and mindful of me.

     

    “i have never heard you call me helen or mama gbenro, but sweet names. (sweetheart etc) na me just spoil dey always call you with your name and children name. i can never let go of my atm, but you let go of yours. once in a while o…(special guy)lol i am really trying to be romantic, and my playful nature is not allowing me o… i love you sha. @femi_bams”

     

    TheNewsGuru.com (TNG) reports that Helen had been appointed as a lecturer at the Heart International Bible University, United States of America.

     

    In a video posted on her Instagram page, the school’s Chancellor, Donrnett Mcintosh, could be seen announcing her induction as the Head of the Department of Arts, music and Entertainment.

     

    Expressing joy at the new appointment, Helen said: “Whatever one does in one’s line of work will help one’s career growth. For instance, Nike Davies-Ekundaye of Nike Art Gallery is a beautiful woman and is one of my mentors. Her talent speaks for her both home and abroad to the extent of her getting recognised in universities globally.

     

    “Also, I learnt that Prof Lamidi Fakeye of Michigan University, USA, got promoted on the strength of his artistic works (wood structure) at the Institute of African Studies, Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile Ife, Osun State, in the 1980s. This shows that talent works as well.”

     

    Helen also stated that bagging a Ph.D. three years ago at the University of Lagos was a plus for her. She said, “First, professorial positions are about what experiences one has had in terms of talent and research works, one’s PhD, and active and consistent engagement in a university.

     

    “It is not really about furthering one’s studies. Rather, it is about being promoted by virtue of one’s pedigree and contributions to academia and humanity in general.

     

    “In addition, the Ph.D. I obtained in the prestigious University of Lagos is the key to my being relevant in a university or academic circle. For a while, I have been actively involved with teachings and affiliations with universities across the globe, using entertainment as a tool. Also, many of my performances are case studies for my research works.”

     

    Helen also stated that though the new appointment comes with challenges, she was prepared to take them head-on.

     

    She said, “I feel very humbled and pray to have the energy, tenacity and capacity for the huge tasks ahead. I know it comes with very huge responsibilities, expectations, discipline, endless studying and a critical mindset to initiate ideas, analyse and evaluate positions and contribute meaningfully to both the academic community and society at large.

     

    “The field is essential in performance appreciation, ethics and theories with a spice of comedy and its related forms. I thank Nigerians for celebrating their own.”

  • BREAKING: Court remands Osinachi’s husband in prison over alleged wife’s death

    BREAKING: Court remands Osinachi’s husband in prison over alleged wife’s death

    The Federal Capital Territory High Court in the Wuse area of Abuja has remanded Peter Nwachukwu, husband of the late gospel singer, Osinachi, in the Kuje Correctional Facility.

    Mr. Nwachukwu will be in prison pending the hearing and determination of the homicide-related suit instituted against him by the Attorney General of the Federation.

    The presiding judge, Justice N.K. Nwosu-Iheme gave the order on Friday after he pleaded not guilty to 23 charges bordering on domestic violence and homicide, among others.

    She ordered that the suspect be remanded at the correctional facility while the trial was adjourned to June 16 and June 17.

    The gospel singer died on April 8, and many of her colleagues had accused her husband of subjecting the victim to domestic violence, which led to her death.

    Following the incident, the Nigeria Police arrested Nwachukwu and he has since been in detention.

    The Federal Government claims that he contravened Sections 104 and 379 of the Administration of Criminal Justice Act, 2015, Section 221 of the Penal Code, and the Violence Against Person’s Prohibition Act (VAPP) 2015.

  • Now that husbands are scarce commodities – By Michael West

    Now that husbands are scarce commodities – By Michael West

    A woman approached her pastor for prayers concerning marriage because she’s agitated as delay in getting a man was no longer taken lightly. While on her knees, the pastor asked why she wanted to marry. The question was rather funny as the woman and I burst into ribs cracking laughter. He went further to say “Why do you want to enter into ‘problem’ while you’re doing well on your own? Are you not aware that several married women are planning to exit their marriages because of daunting challenges they’re facing in it? You better stay calm and serve God peacefully as a single and satisfied woman. Don’t complain to me later about whatever you meet in marriage.” Meanwhile, the pastor spoke just to prank her. The truth is that every woman deserves and desires marriage!

    The hue and cry for husbands again has become increasingly louder. Gone are the years when women were shy to talk about their need of men to marry. The facade has disappeared and the reality has set in.

    It is no surprise that women have stepped up their game in search of husbands. In recent times, I have seen beautiful women advertising themselves on social media. “You can see my boobs, they’re moderate in size. See my butt (she turned her back to the camera), it is not bad. I’m light in complexion, average in height and nicely slim. I’m a single mother of one girl. That’s all I can say for now. If you are interested in me, please dm me. I’m available for a serious and responsible man only.” That’s one of the videos I have watched online.

    Another model-like single woman danced her while her profile was running on the screen all through. She looks clean in her natural beauty. In my encounter with some of such ladies, they demonstrate maturity, patience and courtesy. They appear welcoming and hospitable. So far, none has portrayed herself as being desperate even as they fling open their flanks to entertain potential suitors.

    Last week, star actress Eucharia Anunobi-Ekwu, 56, who was rumoured to be having a romantic affair with a 27-year-old man, told whoever cared to listen that she’s in need of a “complete man for marriage urgently.”  The urgency is what underlines her need. But I think rather than messing around with young boys and in order to safe her image from avoidable scandal even now she claims to be a gospel minister, she desperately needs a man to fill the void and satisfy her emotional need and sexual urge.

    Is it that there’s paucity of single men who are ready for marriage and the available ones are not enough to go round? A number of factors are responsible for why men appear to be in short supply. Economic factor is key. Financial ability of men to meet up with the responsibilities associated with marriage is a major factor. Besides all that is involved to fulfill rites and demands of wedding, the resources to finance the home in form of paying the bills, caring for the in-laws, feeding, family projects like owning a property, provision for children’s education and other vital obligations are the determinant factor.

    In this age, men are no longer the sole financiers of their homes. It has become shared responsibilities with their spouses. Many of the single and searching women are engaged in businesses and paid jobs. It is one thing to be productive and gainfully employed or having thriving businesses but it is a different thing altogether for such women to be supportive in marriage. Some women don’t trust their men enough to invest their resources with them for fear of infidelity and irresponsibility. They argue that there are men who will never be transparent in their financial dealings with their spouses. “They will tell you cock and bull stories to explain their financial inadequacy to meet their obligations at homes whereas they have started having extramarital affairs. One day information will reach you that your husband has a child or children outside. At the end of the day, you have no choice than to live with the reality that he’s no longer ‘my husband’ but now ‘our husband.’

    Men, too, have their fears. Not a few men will not be transparent to their women not only in financial matters but also in some plans and vital decisions. They justify their actions based on their experiences. They are of the opinion that “women would not relent until they make sure that the money they are aware of is spent to the last penny. Besides, they don’t joke with their own money. They won’t let you know even when they have. They are fond of saying their own money is solely to theirs but husbands’ money is ‘our money’. They taught men how to be secretive. They are selfish and could be unpredictably mean.” This speaker, a man of 42 years experience in marriage and who has been married twice acknowledged that his statement does not apply to every woman. “I want to agree that it is an individual habit,” he said.

    Obviously, trust is a major issue in marriages where unity of purpose and operating one purse is lacking. Be that as it may, intending wives must be fully abreast of what it takes to run a successful family life. Some of the things they must factor into their plans include:
    • Severance of every link with their ex-lovers that could lure them into extramarital affairs. If the ex has value and respect for matrimony, they could maintain a decent family relationship with their spouses fully in the know.

    • They must determine to make their marriages work. Knowing full well that challenges and attitudinal differences would occur. The ability to manage the situation by not allowing it to get out of hand requires patience, tolerance and understanding their weaknesses.

    • They should focus more on the strengths than weaknesses of their men. Recalling past misdeeds would rather refresh old wounds and create disaffection in the home.

    • Mutual respect, trust and appreciation are needed tonic for bonding. Besides satisfactory sex and culinary ability, she must be accommodating especially to her in-laws and family friends.

    • She must go into marriage with a man she truly loves and with whom she enjoys great confidence and friendship. When children come on the scene, her attention for the man must not be utterly affected. Such emotional neglect and distancing are silent issues rocking some troubled marriages.

    There’s no doubting the fact that men that are prepared for marriage are not many in number compared to those who want women for casual relationships. Most of the single men (single dads inclusive) are willing to settle down if they can muster the economic strength to function as husbands and if their women are willing to cooperate with them to build the home together.

    Men should not be intimidated by any display of class by women especially on social media. Many of what you see are mere packaging and tricks to marketing themselves to attract the best they can have. Natural beauty adorned with good character based on moral values are some of the indicators of a good wife-to-be. May you encounter your good match this weekend. Amen.

  • I need a husband urgently – Eucharia Anunobi cries out

    I need a husband urgently – Eucharia Anunobi cries out

    Popular veteran Nollywood actress, Eucharia Anunobi has cried out, saying she needs a husband urgently.

    TheNewsGuru.com (TNG) reports Eucharia to have said, “I need a man that will marry me urgently”.

    The veteran Nollywood actress made this known in a recent interview with BBC Igbo.

    Recall that the 56-year-old screen diva was married to her ex-husband, Charles Ekwu for nine years but the marriage crashed in 2009.

    Their union produced a son, Raymond, who sadly passed away in 2017 from sickle cell related complications at age 15.

    Speaking about her need for a husband, Eucharia said, “Please, I use this opportunity and tell the world that I want to marry urgently. A great man should show himself and put a ring on this finger of mine.

    “My specification is a man who is God-fearing and handsome. He must be up to the task, having everything that makes a man male. You must be complete, that’s all I can say”.

    Despite stiff denial, a video of Eucharia with her alleged lover, Lucky Oparah recently surfaced on social media.

    It was alleged that she sent Oparah poetic love messages via text and Whatsapp, expressing her deep feelings, fuelling the rumoured relationship between them.

    The message reads; “HAPPY BIRTHDAY my love. I hope you have a wonderful birthday today. You have made my life interesting and special. Thank you for being in my life, I love you always my love. Your birthday card is below and your gift is in your bank. Love You Lucky”, she reportedly wrote to him on his birthday”.

    However, in one interview, the veteran actress denied she was in love with Oparah.

    Following the interview, the video of Eucharia resting her head on the young actor made rounds on social media. Oparah was seen in the video making inaudible sounds into Eucharia’s ears.

    The actress was seen sitting side by side with the young actor who had his hands around her while having a conversation with her.

  • Be ready for your wife to cheat on you – Paul Play tells men

    Be ready for your wife to cheat on you – Paul Play tells men

    Veteran singer, Paul Play Dairo, has shared his opinion on men who cheat in their marriages

    He warned men who hide under tradition to cheat to beware of women of today.

    He wrote on his Instagram: “If you are ready to CHEAT on your wife, be ready for her to CHEAT on you, tradition ko !trabaye ni.

    “The Bible says love your neighbor as yourself . If you think you can hide under tradition and start behaving anyhow . Today’s woman no send you . You go hear am!”