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  • Suspected assassins kill husband, wife in Jigawa

    Suspected assassins kill husband, wife in Jigawa

    The Police in Jigawa have confirmed the murder of husband and wife in Malammadori Local Government Area of the state by suspected assassins.

    ASP Lawan Shiisu, the Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO), Jigawa Command, confirmed the incident in Dutse on Monday.

    Shiisu said that the incident occurred on Nov. 13, at about 2:30 a.m., when suspected hoodlums stormed the residence of the deceased in Kebberi village and shot them dead.

    He alleged that the suspected assassins shot dead the deceased, identified as Alhaji Musa and his wife, Hajiya Adama.

    The PPRO added that the suspects did not steal or take anything from the residence of the victim, who was the Manager of Three Brothers Mill, Malammadori.

    “That on Nov. 13, at about 0230hrs, unknown hoodlums stormed and trespassed into the house of one Alhaji Musa, Manager, Three Brothers Rice Mill, shot him and his wife Hajiya Adama all of Kebberi village in Malammadori LGA,” the PPRO said.

    According to him, two handset packages were recovered as exhibit from the scene, adding that five suspects are being interrogated.

    Shiisu added that efforts were on to arrest the fleeing culprits and bring them to book.

  • Edo: Wife kills husband who caught her cheating in their matrimonial home

    Edo: Wife kills husband who caught her cheating in their matrimonial home

    A man simply identified as Abdulateef has been stabbed to death by his wife.

    The woman was said to have harmed him after he caught her with another man in their matrimonial home.

    It was gathered that the incident happened around 3am on Sunday in Jattu, Etsako West Local Government Area of Edo State.

    The woman reportedly stabbed the deceased when he came home at about 3am and met her with another man in their bedroom.

    A source said: “The man was living with two wives in his house, but had to rent an apartment for his first wife in a different location to allow peace to reign while staying with the junior one in his house.

    He said the deceased visits the first wife and spends the night there, but there has been a rumour that another man visits his second wife every night when he is not at home.

    He said the deceased came home that night from his first wife’s rented apartment only to meet a man with his junior wife in their bedroom.

    According to him, the deceased allegedly got hold of the visitor and in the process, the woman stabbed him twice on his stomach apparently to pave way for the alleged lover’s escape and make it look like a robbery attack.

    He said the deceased died as a result of the injury, adding that the quick arrival of the police saved the suspect from being killed by a mob.

    He said the suspect has been arrested by the police.

    Efforts to get a response from the Edo State Police Command’s Public Relations Officer were unsuccessful as calls and text messages to his phone were not answered and replied to.

  • Omoni Oboli, husband celebrate 21st marriage anniversary

    Omoni Oboli, husband celebrate 21st marriage anniversary

    Nollywood actress and filmmaker, Omoni Oboli, on Thursday celebrated her husband, Nnamdi, on their 21st wedding anniversary.

    The gorgeous role interpreter took to her verified Instagram page to announce the good news and reaffirm her love to her husband.

    Sharing a picture of herself and her husband, the actress wrote, “Do you know what today is? It’s our anniversary. 21 years don waka. We still dey carry go, nobody waka, nobody go solo! Baba God na your grace. I love you Nnamdi today, more than the first day.” (sic)

    Celebrating the couple, actress Ufuoma Mcdermott wrote:”There will always be love in your home baby. ❤️❤️❤️Love you two madly”

    The 43-year-old filmmaker and her husband, 51, are blessed with three sons, Gozi, Chizi, and Tobe Oboli.

    Nnamdi has been supportive of his wife’s career and also doubles as her manager.

    He is also a producer and has co-produced blockbusters with his wife, Omoni. Such movies include “Being Mrs Elliott” and “Render to Ceasar.”

    Asides movie-making, Nnamdi Oboli is also an optometrist, having studied optometry at the University of Benin.

  • ‘My Husband Torments Me, But I Need Him Badly’ – Michael West

    ‘My Husband Torments Me, But I Need Him Badly’ – Michael West

    By Michael West

    A 44-year-old woman is at the verge of quitting her marriage because her husband is tired of continuously “wasting his time, energy and body fluids” without any child to show for it. Getting him to sleep with his wife who is desperately and anxiously waiting on God for the fruits of the womb is said to be an arduous task.

     

    According to the woman, “my husband is adding to my sorrow and frustration as a waiting woman. Only God knows what is actually responsible for needy situations like mine. I have tried all I could in terms of medical and spiritual solutions but it appears nothing is forthcoming. The last few months have become more difficult for me. I feel like doing the unthinkable because my husband has become more of an added problem to me than a fellow yoke bearer.

     

    “We have both gone through series of medical examinations and we were given a clean bill of health. Since he was certified fit and virile, he began to torment me by denying me his time, presence and sexual obligation. For him to sleep with me once or twice in two weeks, it will take me constant pleadings, weeping, fasting and praying especially targeting my ovulation periods. It is over six years now and discouragement is setting in. Meanwhile, we were advised to maintain regular sexual intimacy but he’s not forthcoming about that.

     

    “Another problem I noticed recently is his weak erection. To save face, he hinged his poor sexual performance and reluctant attitude on tiredness. The truth is that we need to keep meeting because we don’t know which one will click. As a man, he may choose to try his luck elsewhere but it is not easy for any woman to try such. I’m getting fed up and I wish God can remember me like He did in the days of old. (She weeps).”

     

    She said her man may not be willing to speak with me because he is a very discreet and private person who does not like to involve outsiders in his family or private affairs. “Even his family members are not fully aware of what we go through except what is known to everyone that we are waiting on God for the fruits of the womb,” she explained. However, it would have been better to know why the man behaves that way beyond what his wife claims to know. Men do conceal their pains and keep to themselves what they ought to share with trusted friends and close family members. I wish to know his reasons and personal issues that provoked his attitude to his wife. While it is commonly psychological, some people’s own might be spiritual or emotional. Unknowingly, economic factor might equally be responsible.

     

    As if this development is a wave, last weekend, I counselled four different families on the same issue of waiting. One of them said she had a miscarriage a few months ago but was planning to quit her marriage still. Another said she had given herself a deadline after which she will abandon her husband and relocate elsewhere. A particular woman is not waiting but she has to constantly be on her knees begging her husband for sex; and she will be lucky to have him once or twice a month. “Sometimes for four months we do share the same bed without touching each other. I can’t confirm whether he has extramarital affairs or not because I have no such time to police a man all over the place when there are more important things to do with my time. Men do what they like. Monitoring or trailing them could be counterproductive sometimes. I don’t believe in stalking my man at all. When he is through with whatever he’s doing outside, he will return home.” The visibly angry woman explained.

     

    Waiting period is not an easy time. It is a trying and about the most stressful time any married woman would pray not to experience. Apart from deluge of advice from different quarters, diverse thoughts do come to mind. Only those who experience it could tell their stories. It is a double jeopardy if a waiting woman’s husband is experiencing erectile dysfunction. And sadly, such is the case with many homes. A research says about 70 percent of couples in marriage do experience sexual health issues from time to time. Apart from common narrative of poor lifestyle, diets and health conditions as basic causes of sexual problems, psychological issue is more pronounced in erectile dysfunctional cases. Reasons for this could be many.

     

    According to Olubukola Adediran (aka Sister Bukky), a counsellor and an online Christian minister, “Waiting period for a woman is not a tea party. That is when she needs her man the most; but hey, such a situation do reveal the real man. The reality is that many people didn’t marry their choices. It is during testing and challenging periods that they discover who their spouses truly are. Those who married their choices or dream spouses will never abandon their wives in times of needs. They will go through it together. The thought of seeking alternative arrangement outside of their wives won’t fly with them. That’s the crux of the matter. It is when you remain affectionate with your spouse that you will be sexually active and responsive whenever you desire to meet. Everything boils down to the choices people make.”

     

    Sister Bukky however alluded to the fact that in several cases of delayed conception, men are actually responsible while heaping the blame on their wives. “Such men hide their true health condition and medical records. They prefer to apply coercion, intimidation and threats to sow guilt into the mind of their wives. Some men are not truthful whereas they are the problem but they divert attention elsewhere to feel blameless. This is unfair. I’m not saying women don’t have issues of their own that could actually be responsible for their situation. It is both ways. To isolate women for blame in every situation is what I object to.” She added.

     

    I want to add that marital relationship needs to be spiced, renewed and reinforced with friendship, sweet talks, flirting and hanging out. Love language should be employed by couples to improve poor emotional attraction and to overcome boredom and sexual weakness. It is understandable why romantic attraction gets relaxed and drained to a zero level over the years in marriage. Married men suffer erectile dysfunction more because of monotonous nature of living with the same sex partners everyday for many years especially in monogamy. Findings show that men in polygamy experience much lower level of erectile dysfunction probably due to availability of options and variety of partners.

     

    Meanwhile, the use of romantic words and gestures can only be effective if the couple are at peace with each other and are the best of friends. Like Sister Bukky rightly observed, it is difficult to flow with a spouse you married just because he/she was the available option and not the real or desired choice. Talking romantic requires the right mood. The atmosphere at home must be conducive, warm and friendly. They have to be gist mates, giving sufficient attention to each other and become witty in their conversation. A high degree sense of humour, understanding and mutual respect are basic to building a lasting conjugal relationship. Men should cast aside ego and relate with their wives as friends and lovers in order to enjoy fulfilling sexual intimacy that would strengthen their matrimony.

     

    The most daunting situation in marital life is to experience a prolonged waiting for the fruits of the womb with a man afflicted with erectile dysfunction. As common and familiar these challenging issues are, there’re medical solutions to them. Don’t give up, fight on until you win!

     

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    Re: Mixed Blessings of ‘Hired’ Spouses, In-Laws and Parents

     

    The point is this, has he started sleeping with the elder sister? If he has, then his goose is cooked. In a business arrangement, sex should not be involved. But men take advantage of everything. – Otunba Sade Olukoya, Ijebu Ode

     

    It looks very pathetic for the man to ask for the hands of the lady’s younger sister in marriage. It will cause a great problem among the two sisters which could result to death. I advise the man to forge ahead with the marriage until he achieves what he wants. Maybe later, he can go for divorce. The same problem happened to my uncle but he used wisdom to overcome it. As we speak, he’s married to the woman of his choice. Wisdom of God is the best solution to it. – Julie Madike, Enugu.

     

    He had better win the heart of the senior babe and stay married to her. He should shake off the idea of getting the younger sister. Prayers for the senior babe, some sweet talks, patience and understanding will help instead of looking for a way out. He is God’s answer to the senior babe. She will grow to love and respect him. And he will also win the respect of the family. – Dr. (Mrs.) Anonymous

     

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  • Husband dies of poison after fight with wife in Adamawa

    Husband dies of poison after fight with wife in Adamawa

    A 29-year-old man, Vandu Weida, has committed suicide by drinking herbicides.

    The incident occurred at Mildu Central, in the Madagali Local Government Area of Adamawa State last Tuesday.

    Vandu, a father of three, had a misunderstanding with his wife, which degenerated into a fight.

    An eyewitness said during the fight, Weida told his wife that he was fed up with her and the world and preferred to die in order to leave her with the children.

    After the fight, the man, who could not control his temper, allegedly went and drank the chemical, and was later found on the ground gasping for breath.

    He was rushed to the Mubi General Hospital, where he was confirmed dead, as the substance had already damaged his intestines.

    He had yet to get back to our correspondent as of the time of filing this report.

  • Road from infamy to fame, Tega’s misadventure on BigBrother House

    Road from infamy to fame, Tega’s misadventure on BigBrother House

    By Francis Ewherido

    I stopped watching Big Brother after the episode where Ebuka Uchendu featured. He was not notorious and carried himself with dignity throughout his stay in the Big Brother House. He did not win the prize money, but he is arguably the most successful of the lot in that episode.

    This shows you do not have to be notorious to get viewers votes. I stopped watching the show when I got to a point and I felt that it did not suit my spiritual wellbeing. Moreover, as I grow older, my interest is shifting to issues relating to physical wellbeing and health, not forgetting life in old age and retirement, God willing. In addition, as my children were growing older, I also felt the contents were not good for their formation.

    For over a year now I have even stopped my subscription to DSTV. It started as a personal observance during Lent, then Arsenal inconsistent miserable performances in the premiership enforced it before my children met and came to me that they do not want DSTV again that I should just add money to the subscription money and give them 24 hours internet subscription. I obliged and that was the end of DSTV in my house, at least for now.
    So, my narratives on the Tega and Boma saga in the Big Bro House are from press reports, not eyewitness account.

    So if you see any misrepresentations, pardon me. According to the reports, Tega, a married mother of one, went under the sheets with Boma. What truly happened here is only known to the two of them, but that is inconsequential. What is consequential is that it should not have gotten to that extent. The handshake clearly went beyond the elbow. When a man gets to that stage with a woman, his brain has gone on recess and the only thing that can bring him back to his senses and give him satisfaction is sex and ejaculation. So those arguing that Boma went under the sheets and nothing happened have a lot of convincing to do.

    The reports said Tega was also in the mood and when iron and magnet connect what happens? Her earlier acts in the house do not help matters. The reports also said that she once brought out her breast for another male housemate to suck! But she has since come out to say there was no sex, by which I guess she means no vaginal penetration. I am not moved. She went beyond boundaries by going under sheets with Boma.

    In truth, what attracted me to the story was the name, Tega, an Urhobo name. My mind went to stories I heard when I was growing up and what I saw. Erivwin (consequences of abominable acts) was very strong in Urhobo land. A married woman must report to the husband if another man held her hand or waist (inappropriately, I guess), my mum’s relative lost two children to erivwin because the wife committed adultery.

    The deaths would have continued and subsequently consumed her if she had not confessed. The most story of bizarre erivwin my mum told me was a housewife going on her own. She was pressed and wee-weed by the side of the road. She did not know her admirer who was obsessed with her was stalking her. After she left the spot, the secret admirer got to the spot. He brought out his penis and used it to touch the spot where the woman wee-weed, consoling himself that if he could not have sex with her, at least let his penis touch her wee. Weird?

    Anyway, the woman fell ill. She was told to confess. She said she did not commit adultery. So, they performed some rituals for her. If she was guilty she would die, if not, she would survive. Of course, she got well, but the stalker became ill and bloated and started dying gradually until he confessed and that was how the story became public knowledge. The man was fined a goat and other items that were used to make sacrifice to “appease” the gods. That was Urhobo culture before Christianity and modernity diluted it.

    Even though, Tega was born and grew in a liberalised era her actions still did not make sense to me. Now some Urhobo people are denying her that she is not Urhobo, but only adopted the name. Does it matter? Even if she adopted the name, she is one of us. If she had done a glorious thing, we would have said she is Urhobo.

    But whether or not Tega is Urhobo, she crossed the boundary. I do not think any culture in Nigeria accepts such irresponsible behaviour. That she was voted out with Boma confirms that. Nigeria is still a very conservative and traditional society, even if it is tainted with a huge dose of hypocrisy.
    There has been hue and cry from Christian and Muslim groups about banning the show. I do not share that view. We are too hypocritical. We condemn “specks” publicly and do “logs” privately.

    Nigeria is a secular country. Moreover, it is your choice to watch or not to. If watching Big Brother becomes a personal problem, deal with it privately. I exercised my freedom by stopping my DSTV subscription. Exercise your freedom. DSTV has aver 100 channels. You can continue to subscribe and avoid Big Brother channel. If you do not have the discipline, suspend your subscription while Big Brother is running.
    Some people also say that married people should be stopped from participating in Big Brother.

    It is up to couples to decide, but if you want your spouse there, then you must be ready for the consequences of your decisions and your spouse’s actions in the house. Many housemates behave like Nigerian politicians after getting into government. They forget where they are coming from until they leave government and reality hits them.

    There was one Richard, a housemate with a monster dick in the Big Brother House in those days. He was close to a female housemate from Namibia called Titiana. They were suspected to also have had sex under the sheets. Once the show was over and he came out of the house, he started shouting I want to see my wife.
    My late brother, Sen. Senator Pius Ewherido, always said that no matter how strong-willed your wife is, if she is a student, let her stay in the female hostel with the other girls. You do not put her in the male hostel no matter how righteous because what can go wrong will go wrong. All humans have a limit of endurance. Tega went to house with the consent of her husband. I have no sympathy for him. He was simply naïve, foolish or both. They put fame and fortune ahead of their marriage. He should go and mend his marriage. This too shall pass. Worse things have happened in other marriages. They should withdraw from the public scene for now and their story will stop trending soon. Nigeria is dealing with many issues and stories hardly trend for long.

    For others coming behind, infamy and nudity might have brought Kim Kardashian and a couple of others in the local scene fame and fortune, but the road from infamy to fame is filled with landmines. I do not recommend it for anyone.

  • ‘How my husband slept with my sister’

    ‘How my husband slept with my sister’

    A 57- year-old trader, Mrs Chima Udemi, told an Igando Customary Court in Lagos on Wednesday that her husband, Tobechukwu, was an unrepentant adulterer who has slept with her sister.

    Udemi was responding to a suit filed by Tobechukwu, who had accused her of infidelity when she stated this.

    “Tobechukwu is a serial womaniser, he sleeps with my younger sister and my friends.

    “He once abandoned me and our seven children and relocated to his mistress’ house.

    ”He is an irresponsible husband and father. I struggled, doing unpleasant jobs to feed my children.

    “He lives with me in the house I single-handedly built, eats my food, drinks my water and still frustrates my life.

    “If my husband insists on divorcing me, he should be ready to move out of my house,” she said.

    The mother of seven urged the court to grant her husband’s request for the dissolution of their marriage.

    “When I die, he should not come for my burial. And I can assure you that when he dies, I will never attend his burial,” she said.

    The petitioner, Tobechukwu, prayed the court to dissolve his 33-year-old marriage accusing wife of onfidelity.

    “My wife is having an affair with a man from her village. She also abandoned me and the children for 10 years.

    “She deserted her matrimonial home to unknown destination for 10 years, she just returned in 2020,” he said.

    After listening to both parties, the President of the Court, Mr Adeniyi Koledoye, directed the estranged couple to maintain peace.

    Koledoye adjourned the case until September 21 for further hearing.

  • [VIDEO] I’m sad, broken, husband of evicted BBNaija housemate cries over wife’s affair on live TV

    [VIDEO] I’m sad, broken, husband of evicted BBNaija housemate cries over wife’s affair on live TV

    Embattled Big Brother Naija ‘Shine Ya Eye’ star, Tega’s husband has poured out his heart following the backlash that his wife has been receiving since she left the reality TV show.

    Recall that Tega who was evicted from the show on Sunday September 5, had an ‘affair’ with fellow BBNaija housemate, Boma, who was also evicted from the show on the same night.

    Speaking a day after his wife’s eviction, Ajeboh Krislawrence, who is popularly called AJMoney said his wife of four years, Tega had told him she was going to do “everything” in the BBNaija house but said he objected to the idea and warned her to behave represent her true self as a married women and not act against the belief system of Nigerians.

    He said he was shocked and broken to see his wife spending time with another man (Boma) in the house. He also said they haven’t spoken since she was evicted from the show yesterday as she hasn’t called him yet.

    He said he feels “broken, terrible, sad, and like his ego has be tampered with.” He said can’t leave his house because of what people have been saying about his wife.

    He concluded by saying his wife has been a “good and God-fearing” woman so he doesn’t know why she did what she did in the BBNaija house. He added that he wants the Tega he used to know back.

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  • BBNaija: I miss my husband, says evicted Tega after cheating on Live TV

    BBNaija: I miss my husband, says evicted Tega after cheating on Live TV

    BBNAIJA Married female housemate, Tega on Sunday said she missed her husband heavily while she was in the BigBrother House.

    Tega made the remarks while answering questions during a live show programme upon her eviction today (Sunday).

    Asked how her husband will feel about some of the cozy moments she shared with another housemate, Boma… Tega replied ‘My husband is a bad guy, he will understand; it is all good…”

    Recall the internet is flooded with footages of Tega and Boma (one of the male housemates) having cozy moments under the duvet in the BBNaija house; in fact netizens have concluded that the duo had sex.

    In fact, Tega while discussing with other housemates in the BBNaija house, had declared that she is unbothered if her marriage ends after the show as result of the controversial moments.

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  • Tonto Dikeh cheated in our relationship, wanted to commit suicide — Prince Kpokpogri

    Tonto Dikeh cheated in our relationship, wanted to commit suicide — Prince Kpokpogri

    Tonto Dikeh’s former lover, Prince Kpokpogri, has reacted to rumours of cheating on the actress while they were together.

    According to him, the recent revelation showed that men needed to be wary of “Helen of Troy” (Dikeh) who had an ulterior motive all along.

    Kpokpogiri dared those claiming that he paid money over the evidence that was dug up against him to come forward or “remain silent forever”.

    Insinuating that he is the victim of a blackmail, the businessman also claimed there is a plot to pull down men.

    While stating that people have been asking him to maintain his silence, he noted that he will be doing Dikeh’s future potential victims a favour by speaking up as this has become a pattern for her.

    The businessman disclosed that they dated for three months and also alleged that Dikeh cheated right from the start of their relationship, begged for a second chance and threatened to kill herself if he didn’t forgive her.

    He wrote: “We dated for barely three months and it was more less a living hell.

    “So much has happened in such little time that I overlooked for the sake of the so-called relationship and my personal sanity

    “However, I will be releasing evidence on how aunty cheated right from the start of the relationship where she went to Lagos to open her leg like Lekki toll gate and how she cried and begged for a second chance and even threatened to commit suicide if I didn’t forgive her.”

    Meanwhile, Kpokpogri’s earlier shared a post on his IG where he hailed Dikeh’s ex-husband, Olakunle Churchill.

    It was reported in August that Kpokpogri was cheating.

    However, Dikeh has remained silent about the cheating allegations levelled against her new man.