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  • Actor Yul Edochie speaks on Infidelity issues rocking entertainment space

    Actor Yul Edochie speaks on Infidelity issues rocking entertainment space

    Controversial Nollywood actor, Yul Edochie has reacted to infidelity scandals that is rocking the Nigerian entertainment space.

    TheNewsGuru.com (TNG) reports that Davido, and Banky W were accused of cheating on their spouses.

    Reacting, Edochie who was heavily criticized for marrying a second wife earlier this year, said many hid their extramarital affairs and judged him.

    Slamming the hypocritical attitude of some celebrities, the thespian said no one is perfect.

    In a recent Instagram post, he wrote; “Nobody good pass. Nobody holy pass. Everybody just hide their own, dey judge me since.”

    Recall that Yul’s marriage to second wife, Judy has generated a lot of controversies from Netizens in the country.

  • Infidelity: Cardi B replies hubby, says he’s the guilty one

    Infidelity: Cardi B replies hubby, says he’s the guilty one

    Popular  American female rapper, Belcalis Almanzar, professionally known as Cardi B, has responded to allegations of infidelity leveled against her by husband Offset.

    Recall that Offset had in a now deleted post on his Instagram claimed that his wife cheated on him with a member of his “gang”.

    However, in her reaction to the allegation on Twitter on Monday, she stated that Offset was accusing her of having sex with another man because he already had sex with another woman.

    Cardi B also urged her fans not to give a listening hearing to Offset.

    She said: “You can’t accuse me of the things you know you are guilty of and I see that it’s easy for you to blame everything on me.

    “Don’t pay attention to that country man you all.

    “Come on now, I’m Cardi B and I think motherfuckers forget I’m Cardi B. If I was giving out my body to anybody, it would be out. I’m not just anybody.”

  • How I caught my boyfriend pants down with another girl – Beauty Tukura

    How I caught my boyfriend pants down with another girl – Beauty Tukura

    Reality TV star, Beauty Tukura has narrated how she once caught her boyfriend pants down with another woman.

    Beauty disclosed this while speaking on the most recent episode of the Doyin’s Corner podcast but did not mention the name of the boyfriend.

    She admitted that she had been worried about her boyfriend’s infidelity during the relationship so she was not really shocked by the discovery.

    According to her, she woke the boyfriend from his sleep but he was too stunned to believe her presence and went back to sleep.

    “I have actually walked in on my boyfriend and a girl naked in bed before. Let me even burst your head, they were sleeping.

    “The thing is, I was already suspecting him and her. I mean, at the time when I saw them, they were even asleep. They’ve already had sex.

    “I saw his boxers on the floor. I stood at the door for like five/ten minutes. I’m so dramatic. I turned the mood light into normal light, but they didn’t notice. I turned it off again, they still didn’t notice. I was just looking at them.

    “Then I called his name, this nigga actually woke up. He saw me and went back to sleep. I could swear that he did not believe. This thing I’m telling you is a real story,” Beauty narrated.

  • FACTCHECK: Did Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor divorce his wife over infidelity?

    FACTCHECK: Did Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor divorce his wife over infidelity?

    There has been speculation that the 25-year-old marriage between the founder of the Word of Life Bible Church and former President of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor and his wife Helen has packed up over allegations of infidelity.

    It was reported that Helen whom the former CAN President married in 1997 after the death of his wife Stella, moved out of the matrimonial home and relocated to the United Kingdom.

    A top source close to the family confirmed to PM News that Oritsejafor had truly parted ways with Helen over a protracted disagreement.

    How True is this Claim?

    A Facebook user @nwunyeegombute1 had published the report on Sunday and wrote: “Ex CAN president Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor divorces wife after 25 years of marriage over infidelity. What is going on? Why?”

    But in a statement released on Monday, Mrs Helen described the report as fake, malicious and the handiworks of “the devil and his agents” to dent her character and good works, reiterating that she remains married to her husband.

    “I am a wife, a mother and a woman of God, and I uphold the tenets of my Christian faith and marriage. My family and home is the most important part of my life.

    “I therefore appeal to everyone to put our interest and that of our lovely kids, above the need to profit from this baseless endeavor. My Husband and I are not divorced, unless people get divorced on social media and I have never been unfaithful to my husband, whom I love very dearly.

    “Over the years, I have committed my time and resources towards reaching out to the needy, providing support to widows and giving scholarships to orphans. I have also taught and mentored a lot of young women on the principles of building and living happily with their spouses through my various platforms both on and offline. I cannot go against my own beliefs,” she said.

    She noted that the baseless rumour was not only malicious but punishable under the law of the land and that she had briefed her lawyers and all necessary legal actions were being taken to seek redress.

    Wife of the Word of Life Founder further urged the public to give her family the privacy it needs and disregard cheap attempts to dent her image.

    The former CAN President is, however, yet to respond to the allegation.

    Verdict: The report accusing the wife of the Founder of the Word of Life Church of infidelity which allegedly resulted in the crash of their 25-year-old marriage is unfounded and should therefore be disregarded by the public.

  • Move on as I have – Kaffy’s ex-husband advises her

    Joseph Ameh, the ex-husband of dancer Kaffy, has advised his ex-wife to move on as he has.

     

    He denied sleeping with her best friend while married to the dancer.

     

    Ameh made the statement in an Instagram post on Sunday while reacting to Kaffy’s claims that he slept with her best friend and was abusive.

     

    In an interview, Kaffy said she stopped sleeping with her husband three years before they finally ended their marriage.

    Kaffy

     

    Sharing his own side of the story, Ameh admitted to making silly mistakes in his life and marriage and takes full responsibility for his actions.

     

    However, Ameh, popularly known as Papii J, said he never slept with Kaffy’s best friend.

     

    He also advised his ex-wife to move on as he has.

     

    Kaffy got married to Joseph Ameh in 2012 and they have two children together.

     

    She announced their divorce in an Instagram post in January 2022.

     

    TheNewsGuru.com (TNG) reports that the Nigerian dancer, Kafayat Oluwatoyin, popularly known as queen Kaffy, had revealed her reasons for divorcing her husband after nine years of marriage.

     

    The 41-year-old dancer took to Instagram to announce for the first time that her union with her husband, Joseph Ameh, a music director and drummer, is over.

     

    On June 2, 2012, the lovebirds married and have two children.

     

    Ameh is a famous singer, drummer, and producer. He is a former drummer for Psquare’s musical band.

    Reasons for divorce

    Although the couple is successful in their own right, Kaffy said the divorce gave each other a chance to grow. She said: “Taking the chance to break off our marriage was also to see that we both grow to become what we are supposed to be.”

     

    Kaffy explained that her marriage did not work out the way she wanted; it did not give her room to start reacting to the problem.

     

    According to her, sometimes, the person complaining might be the problem.

     

    “Marriage is supposed to be an alignment of destiny, that’s, for couples to drive to a place God wants for them. And mine didn’t work out that way. And rather than looking at someone as the problem, sometimes, you could be the problem of that person.

     

    “So, you know, being an enabler of someone not being able to do what they’re supposed to do can also be that you’re not supposed to be in that space,” she stated.

    Lessons

    In advising her supporters and disclosing lessons she learned from the marriage, Kaffy urged everyone to understand that life isn’t all about reacting to the world and everything happening inside it.

     

    “So, there was a lot to learn, and there is still a lot more to learn. I want to express that and motivate you to understand that life is not all about reaction to the world; it is not about reacting to what want you to say or what the world wants to hear; what the world wants you to be or what the world wants you to wear; what the world wants you to look like or get married,” she added.

     

    Kaffy was thrust into the limelight In 2006 when she led her dance group to break the Guinness Book of Record for “Longest Dance Party” after they danced for 55 hours and 40 minutes.

     

    She is currently a choreographer, dance instructor, and fitness coach. She is also the founder and owner of Imagneto Dance Company.

  • Instagram blogger accuses Peruzzi of sleeping with dancer Korra Obidi during her marriage

    Instagram blogger accuses Peruzzi of sleeping with dancer Korra Obidi during her marriage

    A renowned Instagram blogger, Cutie Julls, has accused Nigerian singer and songwriter, Tobechukwu Victor Okoh, professionally known as Peruzzi, of sleeping with dancer Korra Obidi while she was still married to Justin Dean.

     

    The American Chiropractor and father of two, Dr. Justin Dean recently revealed that he is divorcing his wife and popular Instagram dancer Korra Obidi after accusing her of narcissism, cheating, and lack of accountability.

     

    According to the blogger, the extra-marital affair has been confirmed, but Korra might not have cheated on her husband, Justin because she used a condom.

     

    In her words: “Sad but no news in every happening corner of Lagos that DMW’s Peruzzi was gbensing Korra even as Mrs Dean. This news is beyond confirmed. I don confirm taya.

     

    “But in all, we can’t say Korra cheated on her husband because they might have used condom.”

     

    Meanwhile, despite being separated, Justin Dean has continued to accuse his wife, Korra Obidi of infidelity.

  • Fani-Kayode’s former wife arraigned for cyberstalking

    Fani-Kayode’s former wife arraigned for cyberstalking

    Ex-wife of former Aviation Minister, Femi Fani-Kayode, Precious Chikwendu, was on Thursday arraigned before Justice Obiora Egwuatu at the Federal High Court, Abuja, for cyberstalking.

     

    The judge admitted Chikwendu, an ex-beauty queen, to bail in the terms of the administrative bail earlier granted her by the police and adjourned the matter until June 7 for commencement of trial.

     

    During Chikwendu’s arraignment, she pleaded not guilty to the charge after it was read to her.

     

    Following her not guilty plea, the prosecuting counsel, Victor, prayed the court for a date to commence trial and also prayed the court to remand Chikwendu in the Correctional Centre in Kuje.

     

    He said the defendant should be remanded pending the hearing and determination of the matter.

     

    However, counsel for Chikwendu, Alex Ejesieme, SAN, opposed the application, describing it as funny.

     

    “I am surprised that counsel is making this funny application,” Ejesieme said.

     

    The senior lawyer told the court that he had filed an application for bail and that the prosecution had been served.

     

    He said the prosecution only served him their counter affidavit on Wednesday and he had replied with a further affidavit and a reply on points of law.

     

    He claimed that the late service of the counter affidavit by the prosecution was a ploy to have his client remanded in prison.

     

    Ejesieme argued that the prayer that Chikwendu should be remanded in prison was uncalled for since she had never breached the terms of the administrative bail granted her by the police.

     

    “That is why I am saying it is funny since the defendant has been on administrative bail,” he said.

     

    He further argued that Chikwendu was a mother of four and urged the court to admit her to bail based on the earlier administrative bail granted her by the police.

     

    Okoye prayed the court to refuse the bail application filed by Ejesieme on behalf of Chikwendu.

     

    He argued that she had conducted herself in a way that undermined then Administration of Criminal Justice Act, citing paragraphs 5 to 9 of his counter affidavit.

     

    The prosecutor said that even when the charge was already in court, the Chikwendu had been making publications to suggest that the criminal administration act was biased.

     

    He urged the court to exercise its discretion in favour of the prosecution.

     

    He described Chikwendu’s averments as extraneous, especially the matrimonial claim.

     

    According to him, most of the 16 paragraphs in the affidavit attached to the bail application were false and misleading.

     

    The officer argued that contrary to paragraph 8 of Chikwendu’s affidavit, she failed to appear in court on Jan. 24 when the case was slated for arraignment even though she had been served with the charge.

     

    “Moreso, the defendant is suspected to still be engaging in criminal activities in the similitude to the one she is charged with herein necessitating further investigation into her activities,” Okoye said.

     

    Okoye posited that refusing the bail application would not impair the defendant’s preparation for her trial in the case as she would always have access to her counsel.

     

    He urged the court to refuse Chikwendu’s bail plea, saying that the prosecution was ready to prosecute the case expeditiously as all the witnesses are within jurisdiction.

     

    Justice Egwuatu, however, said that he found no reason to deny Chikwendu bail.

     

    In her words: “I have painstakingly read the opposition to the bail application and I have not seen any reason to deny her bail.

     

    “On the contrary, the defendant has deposed that she will not jump bail and that she was granted administrative bail by the police and she never breeched the terms.”

     

    Recall that Chikwendu, on Feb. 14, was arraigned before Justice Inyang Ekwo for attempted murder of her former husband, Fani-Kayode.

     

    In a charge number: FHCABJ/CR/1/2022 filed by the Commissioner of Police, FCT Command, against Chikwendu and three others, she was said to have attempted to stab Fani-Kayode with a kitchen knife on Nov. 24, 2018 at Asokoro.

     

    Others arraigned alongside Chikwendu in the 13 counts dated and filed Jan. 7 were Emmanuel Anakan, Prisca Chikwendu and Osakwe Azubuike as 1st, 3rd and 4th defendants l, while others were said to be at large.

     

    They, however, pleaded not guilty to all the charges.

     

    Justice Ekwo had fixed April 27, April 28 and April 29 to begin trial

     

    It was gathered that Chikwendu, who was accused of infidelity by the former minister, was also said to have withdrawn various civil cases filed against Fani-Kayode.

     

    The former minister said Chikwendu had always been given access to her children under close supervision due to her alleged mental challenges which could result to hurting the children.

     

    The former minister had also alleged that Chikwendu stopped calling the children on telephone for about seven months now contrary to her habit in the past.

     

    An Abuja Magistrate Court in Wuse Zone 2 had, also recently, restrained the ex-wife from making comments that could lead to the identification of the children whose custody issues had been submitted before it for determination.

  • Alleged infidelity: Mercy Aigbe’s ex-husband reacts after blowing her love affair open

    Alleged infidelity: Mercy Aigbe’s ex-husband reacts after blowing her love affair open

    Asiwaju Lanre Gentry, former husband to Mercy Aigbe has reacted after the Nollywood actress revealed her latest darling.

    Mercy had earlier on Sunday put the viral rumour of her love affairs with Kazim Adeoti to rest.

    Asiwaju Gentry took to his official Instagram handle later in the day to share an old photo of himself and Mercy, and the actress’ new love interest.

    “At last, I thank God the truth is out. This is just one out of many. To God be the glory,” Gentry captioned the photo he shared on Instagram, insinuating infidelity on the part of Mercy.

    TNG reports the actress was formerly married to the top hotelier, but left the marriage in 2017 on allegations of domestic violence and infidelity.

    In 2021, the movie star shared a photo where she wore an engagement ring before celebrating her new man, Adeoti as he is about to mark his birthday.

    “It’s my Boo’s birthday in a bit. Cc @kazimadeoti thank you for being amazing. I can’t wait to wish my best friend a happy birthday,” she wrote on Instagram.

  • Infidelity, Rivalry: Killer Wives on Rampage, By Michael West

    Infidelity, Rivalry: Killer Wives on Rampage, By Michael West

    By Michael West

     

    Men are dying again!

    While thinkers and strategic planners seem to be in the works to address the issue of increasing number of unmarried women because men are grossly in short supply, some women are sending their husbands to early grave on account of rivalry and infidelity.

     

    The reported cases of spousal murder which became rampart in Nigeria a few years ago, a resurgence appears to be horizon again. In recent months, the figure is rising daily; and the dastardly act can only be stopped through tougher and possibly capital punishment for the offenders.

     

    Last weekend, a junior wife was reported to have stabbed her husband to death because the deceased allegedly caught her with another man in their matrimonial bed. It was reported that the deceased held the lover boy tightly from escaping but the wife, desperate to save face and free her lover, was said to have stabbed her husband twice in his stomach to allow her lover to escape. Unfortunately the husband died before help could come his way. The incident took place at 3am last week Sunday.

     

    The murder suspect is said to be the second wife. The late husband, according to reports, separated his two wives with each of them living far apart from the other at different locations within Jattu, Etsako West local council area of Edo State. He did that to ensure peace in his marital life. The younger wife who killed him thought he was not coming home that fateful night thinking he would pass the night with the first wife. Only God knows why the man decided to return home at 3am to meet the shock of his life which eventually terminated his life prematurely.

     

    A similar incident happened in Ikorodu area of Lagos State in which a woman, in the fit of anger, stabbed her husband to death over what she claimed to be an act of infidelity. She alleged that husband was dating another woman and because she disliked double deal in her marital relationship, she said though she didn’t mean to kill her husband but to scare him and probably make him confess, apologise and desist from the act. But unfortunately, the man bled to death before he could be rushed to the hospital. As you read this column, her case is still in court while she is being reminded in prison custody. She has since regretted her action while her two children are left in care of her neighbours.

     

    Previously, we had been inundated with scary tales of spousal murders in the media. The dastardly act cut across every strata of the society. The rich, the poor, the educated and the illiterate are involved in the homicidal crime. It is a violent reaction from emotional outburst that could not be tamed. It has earned some perpetrators death sentences while the lucky ones got life jail terms in the court of law.

     

    In the past, the phenomenon of spousal murder is largely alien to our society. In advanced countries, the United States and United Kingdom in particular, it has been a major problem. Reported cases of the wife cutting off her husband’s genitals while he slept; that of a woman who poured boiling water on her husband while asleep; those who attacked their men with acid, poison and the worse of all organized murder through hired killersdominate their social space.

     

    Men are not the only victims of spousal murder cases, but recent data showed a decline in cases involving men as killers. Most of such men killed through gunshots, strangulation and hard beating. As gruesome as spousal murder is, the guts and brazen effrontery to execute the heinous homicide is satanic. It is the maddening height of fury that becloud their sense of humanity and sanity. Killing fellow beings is so despicable that I cannot believe that human life can cheaply lose value like we currentlyexperience it in Nigeria.

     

    Beyond the organised crimes of banditry, kidnapping and terrorism as witnessed in recent times, genocidal attacks by foreign mercenaries with their internal collaborators had further devalued human life as there’s no single day in the last four years without bloodshed thereby turning Nigeria to a killing field. Adding domestic violence and civil strife that claim life on daily basis to the established crime which a pressure group in the United States tagged “State sponsored terrorism”, society needs help.

     

    I have written in the past to address some knotty marital issues that do result in the untimely and painful death of many spouses. Initially, only women were usually the victims of domestic violence. Somewhat, the hunter has now become the hunted as wives now do hack their husbands to death in the course of fighting or as reprisals.

     

    Our media is daily being inundated with sour news of one form of spousal death or the other. Since the June 24, 2011 case of Akolade Arowolo who stabbed his banker wife, Titilayo, to death, over a score of such dastardly spousal murder cases had been reported. This is aside the unknown or covered-up cases especially in the remote places. An autopsy report revealed Titilayo was stabbed 76 times. However, the culprit did not escape the full weight of the law. He was sentenced to death February 21, 2014.

     

    The new lethal fad these days seems to be spousal killings perpetrated by the wives. The Nigerian Police confirmed the arrest of Maryam Sanda for stabbing her husband BilyaminuHaliru Bello to death in 2018. Reports claimed she killed her husband by stabbing him multiple times after seeing text messages in his phone which suggested that he was engaged in an extra-marital affair.

     

    Also, there’s the case of a lawyer, Mrs Udeme Odibi, who, after stabbing her husband to death in his sleep, cut his genitals and placed them in his right hand while his stomach ripped open with the intestines spilling out. These are just a tip of the soaring cases of spousal murders dotting our marital landscape these days.

     

    I keep wondering what usually go wrong in loving, sweet, and honey-like affairs that now end in tragedies. Does it mean that sweet words and ecstatic moments of romance are superficial? Despite costly wedding ceremonies, how come this sad end? I hereby offer a four-prong suggestions as a way to stem this mournful scourge:

     

    i. The parental roles must be reactivated right from the platonic (nonsexual) friendship level as parents must care to know who their children are moving with. In the ages past, parents often determine which families their children would marry from. Customarily, they will investigate the would-be in-laws’ lineage to know if there’s any illness, mental case, premature death, poverty, bareness, marital failure, spiritual issue or social stigma that was common in the family. More often than not, children rarely reject the choices of their parents because they knew parental decisions were in their best interest. Virtually all the marriages midwifed by parental arrangements in that era endured. Despite challenges, the marriages survived the odds because the parents were the ‘sureties’ and arbiters at every point of need or crisis. Respect for parents, desired to be responsible couples, fear of stigma in case of divorce, protection of children and family names or reputation were pivotal to the success of marriages at that time. Regrettably though, Titilayo’s father, Mr. Oyakhire confessed that the Arowolos’ marriage had been characterised by violence and abuse but he never envisaged it will end in the death of his daughter. Keeping people together in hostile relationships or marriages will ultimately end in regret. Parents must get involved henceforth!

     

    ii. The Church or religious leaders must find a solution to these murderous tendencies in the society. I want to suggest that fathers of faith should replicate what the Apostles did in Jerusalem (Acts 15) when they met to resolve the doctrinal issues bothering on circumcision. As Holy Spirit-filled oracles of God, decisions should be reached as to how long warring or violent partners should stay together to avoid untimely deaths. Pretending not to allow separation in the name of being sanctimonious is an act of cowardice. Couples that die during assaults or physical combats might not make heaven because they die in bitterness and wrong frame of mind.

     

    iii. The society should stop stigmatizing separated or single parents. This wrong perception do ‘force’ couples to remain in abusive or acrimonious relationships. Neighbours and people around disputing couples should please wade in quickly to avoid stories that touch the heart. For instance, before lawyer Odibistabbed her husband to death, her neighbours confirmed that Mr. Odibi had earlier alerted his friends and his mother that his wife threatened to kill him which eventually happened. Police should have been invited immediately Odibi raised the alarm. Perhaps the story would have been different today. Please let’s be our brothers and sisters’ keepers.

     

    iv. Disputing couples should seek help from relationship counselors. Family and friends should encourage them to do so in order to salvage the families in crises and thereby stop the mournful incidents of spousal murders in our society.

     

    • West wrote via mikeawe@yahoo.co.uk

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  • ‘How my husband slept with my sister’

    ‘How my husband slept with my sister’

    A 57- year-old trader, Mrs Chima Udemi, told an Igando Customary Court in Lagos on Wednesday that her husband, Tobechukwu, was an unrepentant adulterer who has slept with her sister.

    Udemi was responding to a suit filed by Tobechukwu, who had accused her of infidelity when she stated this.

    “Tobechukwu is a serial womaniser, he sleeps with my younger sister and my friends.

    “He once abandoned me and our seven children and relocated to his mistress’ house.

    ”He is an irresponsible husband and father. I struggled, doing unpleasant jobs to feed my children.

    “He lives with me in the house I single-handedly built, eats my food, drinks my water and still frustrates my life.

    “If my husband insists on divorcing me, he should be ready to move out of my house,” she said.

    The mother of seven urged the court to grant her husband’s request for the dissolution of their marriage.

    “When I die, he should not come for my burial. And I can assure you that when he dies, I will never attend his burial,” she said.

    The petitioner, Tobechukwu, prayed the court to dissolve his 33-year-old marriage accusing wife of onfidelity.

    “My wife is having an affair with a man from her village. She also abandoned me and the children for 10 years.

    “She deserted her matrimonial home to unknown destination for 10 years, she just returned in 2020,” he said.

    After listening to both parties, the President of the Court, Mr Adeniyi Koledoye, directed the estranged couple to maintain peace.

    Koledoye adjourned the case until September 21 for further hearing.