One week after marriage, Aisha Dannupuwa, who got married in Zamfara State, has pleaded with a Sharia court in Samaru, Gusau Local Government of the State to dissolve her marriage due to the size of her husband’s manhood.
Narrating her experience, she disclosed that sexual intercourse with her husband on their nuptial night was horrible.
Aisha Dannupuwa, said: “When he came, we had sex, but the experience was a nightmare. Instead of enjoying the sex, it turned out to be something else because his penis was too big.
“Two days later, when he came to visit me, we had sex again, but the experience was too much to bear. It was then I knew that I could not continue with the marriage because of the size of his penis.” Her husband, has however, accepted the wife’s decision and agreed to the divorce.
Nancy Chidera, a certain lady who accused Mercy Johnson, the Nollywood actress, of using thugs on her daughter’s teacher for alleged bullying, has apologised over her allegation.
On Friday, Mercy had ranted o social media where she alleged that a teacher of Chrisland School, Victoria Garden City, Lagos bullied Purity, her 8-year-old daughter.
But Chidera had instantly accused the actress of assaulting the teacher and bringing her thugs afterward to cause more harm.
In a follow-up live video, Mercy filmed the head teacher to deny the accusations that she unleashed thugs on the staff.
In a now-viral video, the lady said her initial post was because she was misinformed. She also revealed that she had no first-hand details of what transpired.
“The events of the past few hours have been very traumatizing for me and I just came on here to apologise to Mercy Johnson Okojie. I was misinformed and I didn’t have first-hand information of everything,” she said.
“I believe what I saw over what may have transpired before I got there. So, I based my judgment on that. I’m very sorry for whatever issues I may have caused her family and whatever trauma I may have caused them through at the end of today, I really hope she finds it in her heart to forgive me.”
The lady also claimed that she had been getting death threats since she made the post while pleading with fans of the actress to forgive her.
“I’ve been receiving several death threats in the past hours and it’s disturbing to me, so I came here to apologise to everyone,” she added.
“I have great love for Mercy and I will never wish her or her children bad. Next time, I would be more informed before making comments.”
Popular actor and comedian, Jigan has recounted how he felt when a lady rejected his love advances.
In his words:”There was this lady I liked so much. One day, I walked up to her and the next thing she did was to call my friend and tell him to warn me never in my life I should talk to her again. When my friend asked her why she said so, she said it’s because of my disability. I felt terribly bad”, he told The Sun.
Jigan also noted that he uses his story to inspire others.
“I have been using myself to pass a message every now and then, especially to people living with disabilities, not to look down on themselves, because there is ability in disability. I also encourage them that if I can make it, they can also make it, all that is needed is to go out there and mingle with people, and showcase their talent to the world”.
The Commissioner of Police in Enugu State, Mr Lawal Abubakar, has ordered an immediate investigation and possible disciplinary sanction against a policeman seen engaging a lady in an altercation and physically assaulting her.
The incident, spotted in a viral video circulating on social media, purportedly occurred while some police operatives were on duty at a checkpoint in Obeagu-Awkunanaw near Enugu, along Agbani Road, on Sept. 8.
The CP’s order was contained in a statement issued by the state’s Police Public Relations Officer, ASP Daniel Ndukwe, and made available to the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) on Saturday in Enugu.
The commissioner condemned the conduct of the policeman as shown in the viral video, while warning police personnel against unprofessional conduct or disrespecting the fundamental human rights of citizens in the performance of their duties.
He said: “Anyone found wanting, in this kind of shameful incident, will be made to face maximum disciplinary sanctions.
“I also appeal to the assaulted lady and eyewitnesses to the incident to visit the State Criminal Investigation and Intelligence Department (State CIID), Enugu, to volunteer their statements, in order to facilitate meticulous and swift conclusion of investigation”.
The commissioner also called on residents to promptly report police officers found conducting themselves in an unprofessional manner to the nearest police station.
“Residents can call the command’s emergency hotlines on: 08032003702, 08075390883, 08086671202 or 08098880172 or alternatively send an Email to: contact042ppro@gmail.com,” he added.
A certain lady identified as Esther, has died after lodging with her boyfriend, Emmanuel Isibor, at the T1 Suites in the Festac area of the Amuwo Odofin Local Government Area of Lagos State.
TheNewsGuru gathered that the lovers visited the hotel to spend the night together.
While in the room, it was learnt that Esther suddenly fell sick and in the process, foamy substances began coming out from her mouth and nostrils.
Shaken by the turn of events, Isibor was said to have sought help by calling the manager of the hotel to rescue his girlfriend.
In a bid to resuscitate her, it was gathered that Isibor and members of staff of the hotel quickly rushed Esther to a nearby hospital, but she died on the way.
A source said that the doctor on duty at the hospital certified that Esther was brought in dead, adding that the manager of the hotel proceeded to the Festac Police Station to report the sad incident.
“What happened on May 31, 2021 was that around 11.30pm, the manager of T1 Suites, Obijomi Adedeji, reported that one of the lodgers, Emmanuel Isibor, came with his girlfriend, Esther.
“But around 11pm, Emmanuel Isibor called on the manager for assistance as the lady developed a sudden ailment, which caused foamy substances to come out from her mouth and nostrils.
“She was rushed to the First Line Hospital, where a doctor pronounced her dead” the source recounted.
A certain Nigerian lady identified as Ajima Ogbole has demanded justice after AZ Sint-Jan, a Belgian general hospital, allegedly cut off her cervix wrongly while also leaving her sister-in-law paralysed.
In a video wherein she recounted her trial, Ajima said she had visited the hospital in Bruges to seek a solution to her fertility struggles when she was diagnosed with fibroids.
She added that she was advised to undergo a myomectomy, the surgery to take out the fibroids before trying to conceive.
Ajima also revealed that she had the surgery in November 2017 and returned for a checkup, only to be told by her doctor that her cervix — the narrow end of the uterus that connects with the vagina— couldn’t be found.
“He asked us to come back so he could put me under anesthesia and try to find the cervix. We returned with my husband. When I woke up, I saw I had four holes on my tummy and I was wondering if it was the IUD. He was supposed to put the IUD (intrauterine device) as he felt my cervix was blocked. He later came in to tell us that he couldn’t find my cervix and so he didn’t perform the laparoscopy. He was going to refer me to KU Leuven,” she said.
“We met a professor in Gynecology, which was the best to recreate my cervix. The professor told me that, for the purpose of a pregnancy, a cervix has never been recreated and he hopes for my sake that there was a little hole through which my period will be able to flow out. So he performed investigations and did ultrasounds to see if he could see my cervix, but he couldn’t. So he ushered my husband and I back into his office.
“He explained that the cervix is a muscle that holds the weight of the baby until you’re ready to push and also protects the fetus from infection. He then told me that I couldn’t get pregnant naturally or artificially because the connection between the vagina and the uterus was gone. It was at that point we realized the intensity of the situation. My husband and I then traveled to Nigeria to consult another Gynecology professor and another fertility specialist.”
Speaking further, Ajima said she underwent laparoscopy a second time in 2018 in a bid to try out reconstructive surgery possibilities to recreate her cervix so there would be a passage through which her period flows can exit her system. She added that the surgery was abortive.
To avoid any complication from having her body absorb back her period, the doctor suggested a second procedure.
“We came back to Belgium and had an appointment with a gynecology professor at the University of Ghent who is specialised in reconstructive surgeries. We saw him and he offered to perform surgery but it was going to be a 20 percent chance of success. By success, he meant to recreate the whole cervix and not for the purpose of getting pregnant if that was successful. I agreed. I had a laparoscopy again sometime in August 2018,” Ajima continued.
“A catheter was put for 10 days. We went back after then and he removed it. We then came back two weeks later for an IUD to be inserted. I was put under anesthesia. And by the time I woke up, his assistant came to inform us that the surgery wasn’t successful. He was still in surgery so he couldn’t see us himself. So he gave us an appointment in two weeks to discuss what I wanted to do and also that my body absorbing back period wasn’t good for my health.
“It can lead to some complications like endometriosis or probably even cancer of the blood. And so we left and when we came back, he offered to try one more surgery. But I wasn’t so sure as my body was exhausted. And I felt a drain psychologically, physically, and emotionally. After some thought, he told me to go and think about it and tell him what I wanted. We came back and I decided to have another surgery which was somewhat successful.”
With no cervix to support natural conception, Ajima said numerous gynecologists advised that they opt to have a child through surrogacy, an arrangement where a woman carries the child for another who can’t.
After a while of looking for a surrogate who must be legally qualified to bear the child for her and her man, Susan Ogobole, Ajima’s sister-in-law, who was to come to Belgium for her studies, volunteered since she was a resident.
Ajima declined the US due to cost considerations and went back to the hospital where her error was allegedly made.
“I began to have my period but, after a while, it stopped again. I was supporting and at the point, I had to decide my life was more important than cutting myself and twisting the hand of fate because I wanted to get pregnant by all means. We started to research the process of surrogacy. We found our best option was America. But we couldn’t afford it because it was expensive between $150,000 to $200,000. In Belgium, surrogacy is complicated,” she said.
“It’s a grey zone and hospitals meet the law on who they take as a surrogate and who they shouldn’t. My sister-in-law here who is Susan was then coming to Belgium to study. So she offered to be our surrogate because she was resident in Belgium. It was already easy for us because, for you to be a surrogate in Belgium, you have to be legally resident in Belgium. So when she came again, we started looking for hospitals, but no hospital will take us.
“We came back to the AZ Sint-Jan in Bruges, where my error was made. After embryo creation and a week to the embryo being transferred in Susan, the hospital backed out. They said they wouldn’t be proceeding and no reason was given and we had to transfer, which we did in the first week of February and then moved back to Belgium.”
Ajima said Susan had the baby on the 15th of October 2020 through cesarean section but became paralysed later.
Recounting her ordeal, Sussan said she had felt discomfort when her epidural was administered. In epidurals, an anesthetic is injected in the space around the spinal nerves of one’s lower back to block the pains from labour contractions.
Susan also said that the pain later stopped but she started having leg spasms in the evening after she had birthed the child. This was followed by a partial paralysis from her waist down, where she can neither defecate nor urinate by herself.
“I had to the baby on the 15th of October 2020. I opted for a cesarean and I was told I had to take an epidural. I had wanted general anesthesia but they said in Belgium I had to take the epidural for safety. So I reluctantly obliged and signed the consent form because I didn’t want any complication to happen with the baby. So I went into the theater and I was administered the epidural. In the process of the epidural, I felt pain on the left side of my back,” she said.
“I kept telling the doctor, ‘Oh, I feel pain.’ She kept telling me, ‘Be calm. I’m trying to get the good spot.’ She kept twisting the needle or something else. It felt like a round device. At some point, she found the point she claimed she was looking for. I didn’t feel the pain anymore. So the surgery was carried out successfully. But after I got back into the ward the following day, I was told the epidural pump had to be removed. They did and, at about 8:00, I sat.
“Everything seemed okay but my legs were having spasms. I was told it would wear off. In the evening, I couldn’t feel my legs anymore. They had to look for a neurologist to come and check. She came and said I have to go for an MRI. I’ve had four MRIs. The first two, they said, ‘Oh, we didn’t see anything.’ After the third, they said I had to have a lumbar puncture. I was seeking a lumbar puncture. They said they saw a bacteria but don’t know what it is.
“One of them even suggested that maybe it’s a disease from Africa, tuberculosis, malaria, or cerebral meningitis. They carried out all the tests, yet, didn’t see anything. So the question was, where did the bacteria come from? Was it in the process of administering the epidural it entered my system as a result of not scrubbing me very well? Or is it that the person who administered the epidural didn’t sterilize her equipment properly? Nobody gave an answer.”
According to her, it was after a meeting with the doctors involved that she discovered it was a third-year resident that administered her epidural while the supervisor claimed she just stood by the side.
Concluding, Ajima said the hospital failed to tender a formal apology and cater to their medical bills on request. She also stated that AZ Sint-Jan slowly took one week to send Susan’s medical files when she needed a transfer.
“The neurologist hasn’t even stopped by Susan’s room. It’s after we realized all this they brought a rehabilitation doctor, who is black, for us. Why? I feel they dragged him into this for damage control. And also how can two family members of the same race have two rare complications in the hospital. Why was a resident also used in my surgery? These are questions. We even said okay, no apologies. Let’s sit and have a conversation,” Ajima further narrated.
“How do you make our lives easy? What happens to Susan’s medical bills? How can they ruin the two lives of two sisters and nobody is showing any remorse. Nobody feels like we deserve an apology. At first, we thought it was subtle racism but it’s not even subtle. It’s glaring racism. Nobody even comes to us. They feel maybe we’re asking for too much. If it was a family member of one of these doctors, they would have gone above and beyond.
“Even when her file was supposed to be sent to UZ Gent. We kept on pushing. It was sent after a week. We kept on asking them, ‘have you consulted other doctors to find a solution? Have you done this?’ They say, ‘no, can they do it?’ How can you ask a patient? We don’t think the bacteria was involved. I believe her nerve roots were damaged.
“If not, why haven’t they seen the bacteria? They try to blame it on malaria, meningitis, or tuberculosis. We’re lucky Susan did not have a bit of malaria in her blood. They would have held on to that. They told us that it’s a bacteria not found in Caucasians or Europeans. It’s a bacteria found in Africa. Is this not all racism? If everything was done perfectly, why is my sister-in-law in a chair? We feel that this hospital deserves to be investigated. We need justice.”
A certain Nigerian lady identified as Otomee has recounted how her uncle was able to reclaim his child eight years after the mother claimed that he wasn’t the baby’s biological father.
The lady made the revelation in a Twitter thread on Saturday while adding her voice to discussions focusing on DNA tests..
Otomee said her uncle started a relationship with the lady while he was still working as a chef at a foreign restaurant in Warri, Delta state.
She said about six months into the relationship, the lady claimed she was pregnant for her uncle– a development which made the pair to begin their wedding arrangement.
Otomee also said that a month after, her uncle lost his job. She added that shortly after he lost the job, the lady informed her uncle that the pregnancy does not belong to him.
She said while her uncle was still dealing with the trauma of losing his job as well as his relationship, the lady tied the knot with another man who was working at Chevron.
Otomee revealed that in 2018 about eight years after the incident her uncle got a call from the lady’s new husband to inform him that the child (a boy ) was sick.
She added that the husband had thereafter requested for a DNA test upon realising that her uncle also dated the woman before he married her.
According to Otomee, the results of the test showed that the child belongs to her uncle.
She added that her uncle would later accept the lady despite what transpired against the wish of the family.
Otomee said a few months after welcoming the lady back, she dumped her uncle again.
She also enjoined people in a relationship to always consider DNA tests when the paternity of their children is in doubt.
“Worst part of everything was that my uncle accepted her, everyone in the family was against it, they told him to accept his child and do away with her but he didn’t listen,” she wrote.
“Few months later she ran off again. Don’t let anyone blackmail you with trust, run that test!”
Some soldiers attached to the Oyo State joint security outfit codenamed Operation Burst have been imprisoned for allegedly assaulting a lady at Beere area of Ibadan, the Oyo State capital, last month.
Operation Burst Commander, Captain Usolo, revealed this on Monday. It was gathered that the lady in question was beaten by some soldiers in the security team over allegations of ‘indecent dressing.’
The video of the assault, which went viral over the weekend, shows the soldiers beating the lady with horsewhips in the presence of residents of the area.
Residents of Beere community have accused the soldiers of assaulting some of them on weak excuses in recent times.
While answering questions on a popular radio programme, FRESH FM Situation Room, on Monday, Usolo apologized to the families of those assaulted in the course of their operation.
The Commissioner for Youths and Sports in the state, Mr Seun Fakorede, also said on the programme: “My ears are full with news of the unlawful activities of some soldiers of the Nigerian Army, over the weekend. ”I reached out to the Commandant of the Operation Burst and I have been assured that the men involved in this distasteful operation have been arrested and taken to the barracks. They will be dealt with accordingly.”
A video of a Nigerian lady turning down the proposal of her boyfriend, has triggered diverse comments on social media.
The fiance had gathered his friends and family to witness the moment he would ask for his fiance’s hand in marriage.
However, in the viral video, the man is seen on his knees, asking for her hand in marriage.
The lady surprisingly rejected his proposal.
TheNewsGuru reports that the occurrence took place on Wednesday 5th of August, however as at the time of filing this report, no one knows where it happened.
Juliana Olayode, a Nollywood actress better known as Toyo Baby, has narrated how a female acquaintance she had met at an event had asked her out.
TheNewsGuru had earlier narrated how she was sexually molested at 17, noting that she had wept while under the weight of a clergyman who had carnal knowledge of her as a teenager.
In a video shared on her Instagram on Wednesday, she said she had gone to visit a deluge of fans when a bevy of ladies kept complimenting her body features, but a particular woman had approached her.
“Some said they liked my eye. But one particular lady walked up to me; complimented my eyes, nose, mouth, everything. I thanked her and didn’t suspect a thing as she’s female like me,” she said.
“As I wanted to take my leave, she asked me to give her my digits. That’s how this aunty phoned me later and I was convinced that giving her my number was the worst mistake I had made.
“She talked and I asked her where we were taking this conversation to. She then asked that she and I start dating each other. What? I hung up. I didn’t know that this thing is now rampant here.
“It was like I was drenched in cold water. I was shocked. It was just man-to-woman relations I knew. I had never seen woman-to-woman before. What’s bad is bad.
“I do not condemn anybody. And I do not judge anybody. A lot of people are on the fence on this matter, the truth that I know about this is that God is against it and so am.”
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