Tag: Lesbianism

  • My girlfriend told me she’s a lesbian – Nigerian singer, Omah Lay

    My girlfriend told me she’s a lesbian – Nigerian singer, Omah Lay

    Nigerian hip hop artiste, Stanley Omah Didia, popularly known as Omah Lay, has revealed his girl friend’s shocking secret.

    Omah Lay revealed that his girlfriend told him that she’s a lesbian.

    The budding artiste made this revelation via his Instagram page on Monday morning.

    “My girlfriend just opened up that she has a girl,” Omah Lay wrote.

    Recall that a few months ago, the Port Harcourt-born recounted his struggle with depression and how it worsened after he slept with his therapist.

    He sang about his depression in a track titled ‘Soso’ in his debut album ‘Boy Alone’, released last year.

  • TikTok Creator, Avery Cyrus  breaks up with girlfriend after 3 months of dating

    TikTok Creator, Avery Cyrus breaks up with girlfriend after 3 months of dating

    The Nickelodeon mogul, JoJo Siwa ,19, and her TikTok creator partner, Avery Cyrus, 22, who first announced they were officially dating back in September, are no longer together,

    Cyrus revealed in a comment on a TikTok post on Saturday.

    Sharing a video from a tropical getaway, Siwa can be seen in the video telling Cyrus, “This is my sorry for breaking up with you present.”

    In the comments section, one fan wrote, “Now I just want to know why,” to which Cyrus responded: “We decided that we are better off as friends! We are both so young and still just trying to figure our stuff out.”

    The former couple first sparked romance rumors after they filmed a TikTok video alongside each other on Aug. 5. The duo was seen mouthing the words to a voiceover by Scott Disick and Kourtney Kardashian.

    “We’re friends,” lip-synced Siwa. “Purely platonic,” mouthed Cyrus — prompting Siwa to laugh.

    Cyrus and Siwa continued to appear in each other’s social media posts in the weeks that followed, while also leaving flirty messages in each other’s comment sections.

    On Sept. 13, Cyrus and Siwa made their relationship official with a TikTok video that showed the two kissing in a Chuck E. Cheese photo booth. Two days later, the couple made their red carpet debut.

    Then, in October, Siwa revealed that she was officially off the market, posting an Instagram photo dump that included one of a “JoJo Be My GF?” sign made by Cyrus. She then gave proper confirmation in a YouTube vlog.

    “We’re girlfriends now. I’m so happy you said yes. I knew you weren’t gonna say no, I was just nervous,” Cyrus said, to which Siwa replied: “I’d be insane if I said no, you’re the best girlfriend in the world.”

  • America and Gay, Lesbianism, Others, By Carl Umegboro

    America and Gay, Lesbianism, Others, By Carl Umegboro

    By Carl Umegboro

    United States President, Joe Biden a moment ago launched a campaign towards shielding lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, intersex and queer (LGBTIQ) people with directives to embassies to ensure that violence and discrimination against the group are resisted, and with sanctions to noncompliant nations. Biden further directed all agencies to come up with protective plans within 180 days. This controversy which began from his former boss, Barack Obama but suffered severe setback under Donald Trump, incidentally resurfaces despite criticisms from many quarters particularly religious bodies.

    In his memorandum, Biden emphasized; “All human beings should be treated with respect and dignity and should be able to live without fear no matter who they are or whom they love”. This statement no doubt reflects the position of the UN Charter on Human Rights which many nations are signatory to, and domesticated in their respective laws. The Catholic Pontiff, Pope Francis has also overtly jerked against discriminations against LGBTIQ people. The Pontiff argued that they are humans, possibly born with the traits and therefore unfair to castigate them over a trait acquired from birth without their freewill, and perhaps beyond their control. This has continued to dominate as major argument coupled with the fact the acts ostensibly harm nobody or jeopardize lives.

    Logically, Biden, a Christian is holding a public office, thereby leading people of diverse beliefs, but his office is governed by positive laws than morality or religious beliefs. A critical question is; should an occupant of such office enforce religious doctrines above laws – laid down rules particularly human rights considered above other laws. This is where the problems begin. If a political leader succumbs to be guided by religious doctrines, what would be the fate of the society when a successive government imposes anyone it chooses? This is the danger of arbitrariness.

    For instance, some predominantly Muslims countries prohibit drinking of alcohols publicly or women openly associating with men. And the battles to quash the barbaric laws have continued without positive outcomes. In the same vein, Christian doctrines prohibit premarital sex known as fornication in the Bible as immorality, nonetheless, the act is not a crime under the laws provided the adults indulge with consents. Without consent and backed by an essential element – penetration, a rape may be established.

    In other words, while premarital sex is forbidden in Christian doctrine, it is legalized under the laws. It therefore implies that positive laws alone do not shape the society. Not all acts prohibited in religious circles constitute crimes as the present situation on LGBTIQ. Among acts forbidden for Christians include idolatry, adultery, fornication, masturbation, homosexuality, covetousness, theft, extortion, envy. In the list, only ‘theft and extortion’ are criminalized in the laws of most countries. The rest is overlooked. But does their legality imply they are expedient as acceptable norms in the society, not at all. Incidentally, they are all protected by Right to Privacy enshrined in the UN Charter on Human Rights, and domesticated in Nigeria.

    Section 37 of the 1999 Constitution, FRN provides “The privacy of citizens, their homes, correspondence, telephone conversations and telegraphic communications is hereby guaranteed and protected.” The Bible foresees the colossal conflicts and thus admonished Christians in first Corinthians 6:12 – “All things are lawful for me; but not all things are expedient. All things are lawful for me; but I will not be brought under the power of any”. (American Standard Version). It suggests some conducts may not constitute crimes in law, nevertheless destructive and offensive. Instructively, for any act to qualify as a crime in law, it must be enforceable. Conducts or deeds that do not pass enforceability test cannot constitute crimes and also, must not be in any conflict with fundamental human rights.

    Suffice to say that the battle to eradicate or transform LGBTIQ people falls majorly on religious bodies; not by pressure but preaching and persuasion. If done with force, it is no longer within the ambit of the law. Besides, they are mostly done in private, and therefore, would amount to infringement to peoples’ privacy when interfered. For example, Sorcery (witchcraft) is a known terrific act but not recognized as a crime in law, however, typically dealt with at religious atmospheres. It is hard to prove demonic activities in law despite the fact societies including law-officers recognize their existence.

    Again, it should be noted that premarital sex which often led to abortion and deaths arising from sundry complications is not prohibited as a crime, yet, many keenly abstain from it on account of preaching, evangelization. Thus, though America openly protects LGBTIQ people on account of human rights, nobody is enthused to indulge in them. Obama, Biden are happily married to ladies. America’s position shouldn’t therefore be misconstrued to bidding to LGBTIQ. Its goal as a leading nation is to protect human rights vis-à-vis discrimination and violence same way it promotes contraceptives including condoms; indirectly endorsing premarital-sex or extramarital affairs – but on principles.

    Another point is that adults that bid for uncharacteristic lifestyles should bear responsibility provided it poses no harm to next persons. Measuring LGBTIQ from this angle, it could be said that homosexuals, lesbians, others harm nobody but merely wasting valuable times on unproductive, filthy activities. And the actors that pose as matrimonial couple knowingly deceive themselves as none has lasted after flings, thus merely for shows. Also, no ‘wife’ of the same-sex union has ever changed surname or ‘husband’ paid dowry which is a basic requirement in a marriage, thus, a self-deceit.

    Thus, grownups that knowingly choose the bush in place of pathways should personally face the consequences. Nonetheless, America should, advisably desist from pushing LGBTIQ too far with sanctions as a model. The manner it is hard-pressed is unconsciously, giving the outlandish conducts undeserved promotion albeit the goal, without doubt, is for preservation and protection of human rights against violence and discrimination.

    Umegboro, a public affairs analyst, and Associate, Chartered Institute of Arbitrators (United Kingdom) writes via: Carl@CarlUmegboro.com (+234) 07057101974-SMS only)

  • Lesbianism allegations trail Beverly Osu over controversial pictures

    Former Nigerian BBA contestant, Beverly Osu is under fire over a controversial video and pictures she shared online. She had a timeout with her girlfriend, Maria a Namibian ex-BBA contestant. In the video, the duo shared a brief kiss and some romantic moments which has been fueling lesbianism reports.

    However, Nigeria actor Uche Maduagwu has condemned the video and pictures, accusing her of being a lesbian.

    In his words:” The kind of “pikins” born now a days are a complete mistake. They are generations of wastefulness. I understand that some of our celebrities were molested at tender ages, I feel so sad about that because I am against child molestation.

    In fact, I believe anyone who molest a child should be locked up in a maximum prison for at least 200 Years with hard labor. But let us face the fact, just because your Uncle sexually molested you when you were a little child doesn’t mean you should turn yourself into something else. I understand the trauma and pains, the agony of being abused.

    I understand the physical, psychological and emotional pains that a young girl goes through, but becoming a lesbian in broad day light is not something a good woman should indulge in.

    I know most of our female celebs struggle with lesbianism, its like a secret habit many of them have been trying to come out of but can’t. We are Africans, let us behave like one and not behave like imbeciles, the funny thing is that even the lower animals don’t practice this devilish act, a female dog will always mate with a male dog, same goes for Pigs, goats just to mention but a few…

    But its crazy that grown up female adults stoop so low as to sleeping and mating with each other. Please if you have no shame, remember you have so many kids looking up to you as their role models. Practice your lesbianism indoors, and stop advertising your foolishness in public. Anyways, i will be having series of prayer sessions for your soul, because you are a beautiful woman with so much potential, but if you allow the devil to steal away your grace, you will be miserable for a very long time.”

    Beverly Osu’s manager who was reached out to,said she cannot comment on the issue on behalf of her client.

    “I can’t answer this kind of questions on my client’s behalf. Thank you”

    In the same vein,Maria has taken to her social media page to complain, saying she cannot even kiss her friend in peace again.