Tag: Mistress

  • Why ‘side-chicks’ remain in business – Benin residents

    Why ‘side-chicks’ remain in business – Benin residents

    Some residents in Benin, the Edo capital, have said that some men would continue to keep mistresses, popularly called ‘side chicks’, due to their perceived benefits and strong grip.

    The respondents’ submissions arise from the growing reports of infedility in the lives of men, especially the highly placed and celebrities in society.

    Some men who spoke with the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) on Friday in Benin claim that wives might never be able to compete with the side-chicks in terms of allure, attention to details and penchant for romance.

    Mr Ojefia King, a businessman, revealed that most men had side-chicks for the fun of it.

    According to him, side-chicks, most times do not have to expect anything except trips and sex from a man, whether married or single.

    “Some side-chicks go after men because they are wealthy,while some others do it to meet their needs,” he said.

    Also, Mr Larry Sideso, a Disc Jockey (DJ), said that men are attracted to the side-chicks because they had less stress and were always obedient and understanding of their needs and desires.

    “I am married and I have a side-chick; she knows her place, no crossing of boundaries.

    “My wife is aware of my side-chick.

    “Like I said earlier, everybody knows their place. I don’t carry different ladies. I just have my wife and a side-chick.

    “I love my wife so much. I won’t trade her for anything else, but my side-chick is only assisting,” he said.

    Similarly, Mrs Ivie Idolor, a teacher, said that side-chicks were always answering the call of nature for men.

    “If you study the creation of men critically, you will notice men have longer reproductive period than women.

    “A man can still impregnate a woman even at 75 years of age, but a woman can’t give birth at such age.

    “Thus, the sperms in a man can produce many children, which simply means when God said dominate and replenish the earth specifically means men’s duty to reproduce double.

    “Men cannot help it, that’s what hormones have programmed them to do. So, when a guy has had enough of his main chick, he moves on and forgets about loving his main chick again,” she said.

    On his part, Mr Richard Amekpa, a fashion designer, said men had side-chicks to get sexual satisfaction.

    “Love, care, romance and sex are very important in a relationship or marriage.

    “If a wife cannot satisfy the husband with that, he will definitely have someone else that will take her role.

    “Total attention is very key to see the real beauty of a relationship.

    “If a wife refuses to give the husband full attention, she is definitely opening the door for a side-chick,” he said.

    However, Mr Isreal Osamuyi, a clergy, advised men to upgrade their wives to the standard they admire in other women.

    Osamuyi said that most women hardly took care of themselves because they had one need or the other to take care of.

    “Women that are married and have children always have one thousand and one responsibilies to attend to.

    “So, there is little or no time at all to buy clothes, makeup and visit drinking bars or roam around with friends.

    “I am not in support of men having side-chicks; but if I really want to peep into their world by trying to understand why, I think it’s purely because of insecurity,” he said.

  • Ogun woman burns husband’s mistress to death

    Ogun woman burns husband’s mistress to death

    A 32 year-old housewife, Kehinde Abdul Wasiu, allegedly set her husband’s mistress, one Tosin Olugbade, ablaze.

    Mrs Wasiu a mother of three allegedly poured petrol on the 23-year-old mistress and subsequently set her ablaze, leading to her death.

    The Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO) of the Ogun State Police Command, Abimbola Oyeyemi, confirmed the incident, saying the suspect has been arrested.

    According to Oyeyemi, the suspect was arrested following a report lodged at Onipanu divisional headquarters, Ota area of the state, by the husband of the deceased, one Fatai Olugbade.

    The husband told the police that he and his wife had been separated, saying, “I suspected her of having extra marital affair with one, Ismail Wasiu and I confronted her, but to my surprise, she packed out of the house and moved to the house of her concubine.”
    The husband stated further that, on the 14th November, his wife and Wasiu’s first wife had an argument “and Wasiu’s wife poured petrol on her and set her ablaze.

    “She was rushed to the hospital by her family members, but later gave up the ghost while receiving treatment.”

    Oyeyemi explained that, following the report, the DPO of Onipanu division, CSP Bamidele Job, mobilised his men and moved to the scene where Ismail Wasiu who had told the suspect to run away was arrested.

    “The case was transferred to homicide section of the state criminal investigation and intelligence department for discreet investigation.”

  • TRENDING: How Super TV CEO, Michael Usifo Ataga met death in hands of ‘killer’ mistress

    TRENDING: How Super TV CEO, Michael Usifo Ataga met death in hands of ‘killer’ mistress

    The internet is abuzz over the death controversial death of the CEO of Super TV, Mr. Micahel Usifo Ataga.

    Fresh reports indicates Ataga met his death in hands of a ‘killer’ mistress in Lagos.

    Earlier a report published by StreetJournal, claimed Ataga, who resided at Banana Island had ealier in the week been reported missing by concerned friends and family after all efforts to reach him proved abortive.

    “Checks at his Victoria Island office showed he wasn’t there either and this put everyone in a panic mode including his wife and children who reside in Abuja.

    “Unfortunately, his lifeless body has been found in a flat at Lekki phase 1 with multiple stab wounds after several suspicious withdrawals were made from his account.” The medium said.

    Speaking on the incident, Lagos police commissioner Hakeem Odumosu told newsmen that efforts were on to arrest the fleeing suspect (a female), adding that the victim and the suspect had been lodging in the apartment.

    The apartment did not have CCTV camera. Though it was gathered the manager of the facility is being questioned by the police.

    Mr Odumosu stated that the victim met the suspect in the apartment, adding on the day of the incident, the victim was scheduled to travel to Abuja to celebrate his birthday with his family.

    They murdered my son, mother laments

    Meanwhile, Sylvia Ataga, mother of the deceased had innocently taken to Facebook on 17 June, to celebrate the 50th birthday of her son.

    “Happy golden birthday to my son Usifo. My son who gives me joy. May the rest of your life remain golden & all your lines fall in place. You are loved beyond measure & my prayer for you today is that God will take control of all your endeavours. The son who makes me happy! Congratulations on this milestone & God’s blessings always”.

    When the mother who is based in Benin City, wrote this, she got no fewer than 56 comments sharing in her joy of being alive to mark the golden jubilee of her son.

    However, unknown to her she was celebrating a son who had already been dispatched to the great beyond.

    She was celebrating a son whose death would bring her great pain and sorrow in her old age.

    It was on the same 17th June in Lagos, that the body of Usifo was found in an Airbnb facility, a vacation rental, in Lekki One.

    When asked to verify the grim news, by one of her followers:

    ‘Yes’, Sylvia replied.

    “True I was not aware of his demise when I posted this. It is the same Usifo! They murdered my son”.

    HOW USIFO MET HIS DEATH

    According to an undisclosed source quoted by StreetJournal, Usifo who would have been 50 years old on the 17th had met a girl about two weeks ago and they began a relationship. This despite the fact that he was married to a manager in Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation, NNPC.

    Usifo who felt more comfortable meeting with his side chic outside his home and hers, to prevent nosey neighbours from prying, rented an Airbnb in Lekki, Lagos where they both checked into before the unfortunate incidence.

    Following his disappearance, a combined team of concerned friends, family members, the police and DSS operatives all the way from Abuja, through the concerted efforts of the wife, tracked down the owner of the Airbnb, who received payment from the side chic’s bank account into which Ataga had previously made a transfer to.

    The apartment was broken into and that was where he was found dead with multiple stab wounds in his neck, chest and thigh.

    The murderers withdrew N5 million from his account after they killed Ataga.

    Apparently, the side chic is suspected to have carried out the murder after she must have drugged him as the security guards at the rentals said no 3rd party came visiting Ataga and the side chic besides a dispatch rider who brought somethings for the girl.

    The lady who was last seen on Tuesday when the murder happened, was equally tracked down and arrested alongside the owner of the Airbnb.

    Many of Ataga’s friends have expressed shock as to how the side chic was able to pull the dastardly act all alone as Ataga was said to have been an amateur boxer who was very strong.

    According to others sources, after the side chic left the apartment, following the gruesome death, money began to disappear from Ataga’s Guaranty Trust Bank account and it didn’t stop until an email from Ataga’s email address asked for a change in his account details, did the withdrawals stop.

    With thiis, GTBank put an embargo on the account to prevent any further withdrawal.

    Investigations is still on and the case is still unfolding, our security sources indicated.

  • Sad! Mistress dies in married man’s house in Imo

    Tragedy transpired in Imo state on Thursday as a lady died in the house of her married man’s friend. The sad incident occurred at the MCC Road area of the state.

    A source who preferred anonymity said that the man brought his mistress to his matrimonial home after taking his wife and children to the village for the new year celebration.

    According to the source, the man brought the mistress to his house after they attended an event together.

    The source said, “The man took his family to the village and returned home. He attended an event with his mistress and took her home. The mistress later died in his house at midnight. The man has been arrested and the corpse evacuated.”

    The police representative in the state, Orlando Ikeokwu, confirmed the incident. He said that investigation had begun to unravel the cause of death.

     

  • 56-year old man, mistress found dead in Lagos apartment

    56-year old man, mistress found dead in Lagos apartment

    The Police in Lagos have recovered the corpses of a 56-year old man and his mistress at an apartment in Ejigbo area of Lagos, Southwest Nigeria.

    According to the Police Public Relations Officer, PPRO, Bala Elkana, on 20th June, 2019 at about 8.00am, one Akorede Balogun of Area 2, Igbehindun Estate, New Heaven, Iba, reported at the Iba Police Station that her husband, one Rasaki Balogun, 56 years old of No, 16, Taiwo Oke Victory Estate, Ejigbo was found dead with his mistress in his sitting room.

    He said a team of detectives, led by the Divisional Police Officer, Ejigbo, visited the scene and that the corpses of the man and his mistress were found in the pool of their blood with the woman laying on a knife.

    According to him, the man was said to be living alone in the house while his family lived in a different place, saying that the iIdentify of the mistress was yet to be established as he was said to have picked her about two days to the incident from unknown location.

    “The Crime scene was sealed off for forensic analysis while the corpses were evacuated to Hospital for autopsy. Homicide detectives from the State Criminal Investigation Department, Yaba have taken over the case on the instruction of the Commissioner of Police, Lagos State, CP Zubairu Muazu. Investigation is ongoing to unravel the circumstances surrounding their death,” he said.