Tag: Mother

  • How Davido’s mum died

    How Davido’s mum died

    Nigerian singer, Davido has revealed that his dear mother, Veronica Adeleke, died of cardiac arrest on his father’s birthday.

    Davido brought this revelation to light during a recent chat with Ebuka Obi-Uchendu, popular media personality.

    TheNewsGuru recalls that Veronica had passed away on March 6, 2003 at 39 .

    According to Davido: “I was about 10 to 11 years old when she died. She died on my father’s birthday. Honestly, it was just cardiac arrest. Even if it was going to happen, I would not have known,” he stated.

    Speaking further, the ‘Fem’ sensation said:“I was about 10 or 11 years old. She was not really sick. She used to get sick once in a while.

    “But it was nothing serious. I often say that I see my mother in Chioma. I did not grow up with my mother. I can hardly remember what happened when I was that young.

    “One thing I always wish for is that she should have been alive. I would have bought her a lot of diamonds and houses but she knew that I was going to be great.

    “My mother was from Benin. I think I’m like her; I inherited her agility. She helped so many people to date, I go to some places and people would tell me what my mother did for them.

    “Before my mother died, I was a mummy’s boy because my father was always busy. He was working and always traveling to places like China.

    “I was a mummy’s boy; so, imagine her just being taken from me, my best friend, the only person in the world I loved being taken from me without caution.”

     

  • Man goes berserck kills own mother, two children in Anambra

    Man goes berserck kills own mother, two children in Anambra

    A 47-year-old man has reportedly killed his two children and his 85-year-old mother in Anambra State.

    The incident happened in Nnewi, in the Nnewi Local Government Area of the state on Thursday night.

    He also injured three of his children who were said to be in critical state in a hospital. The suspect reportedly attacked the victims in their sleep with a machete.

    The Police Public Relations Officer in the state, Haruna Mohammed, who confirmed the incident on Friday, said the suspect had been arrested.

    The PPRO said, “On Thursday at 11.55pm, police operatives attached to Nnewi Division arrested one Emeka Ezimadu, 47, of Okpuneze Uruagu in Nnewi North Local Government Area of Anambra State.

    “The suspect allegedly ran amok in a circumstance yet-to-be ascertained; attacked and killed two of his biological children namely Ifechukwu Ezimadu, 9, Mmeso Ezimadu, two years, and his own mother one Agnes Ezimadu, 85, of the same address allegedly with a cutlass while they were sleeping.

    “The suspect equally used the same weapon and injured his three other children namely Nonso Ezimadu, 12, Chinaemerem Ezimadu, one, and Ngozi Ezimadu eight.”

    Mohammed said detectives visited the scene and rushed the victims to the Akwudo hospital, where the two children and their aged grandmother were confirmed dead by a medical doctor.

    Mohammed said the victims’ corpses had been deposited at the hospital’s morgue for autopsy, adding that the case had been transferred to the State Criminal Investigation and Intelligence Department, Awka, for discreet investigation.

  • Family sacks’mother of 8-year old rape victim for seeking justice

    Family sacks’mother of 8-year old rape victim for seeking justice

    Ifeyinwa Ezukamma, a 40-year old mother of five has been chased out of her matrimonial home by her husband’s family, for insisting on justice for her 8-year-old daughter, raped by her tenant.

    Ezukamma told newsmen that the incident took place in their country home, Ogidi, Idemili North Council Area of Anambra.

    She said though she caught the suspect, who claimed to be 57 years old in the act on July 23, she claimed the man had been violating her daughter since March.

    The woman, who had since packed to her relatives’ home, alleged that her husband had been compromised, and therefore warned her not to pursue the matter because it would bring disgrace to their family.

    “I noticed an unusual noise and movement in the bathroo. So out of curiosity I went to check if everything was normal, to my amazement, it was a tenant in our house, an old man was having sex with my daughter.

    “I called my daughter and asked her what happened, she said the old man had been raping her for some months and had threatened to kill her if she told anybody about it, that was why she did not tell me,” she said.

    Ezukamma alleged that her husband collected money and asked her to do same, and her travail started when she refused, insisting that she would get justice for her daughter.

    She said the family chased her and took away her teenage daughters from her for insisting on bringing disgrace to the family and reporting the matter to a child rights organisation, after the matter was reported at a police station.

    “It was my insistence to pursue this matter that led to my husband and his family asking me to leave my matrimonial home, taking my children away from me.

    “I said I will not collect money to stop pursuing justice for my little daughter that was raped,“ she said.

    Preliminary reports from Iyi-Enu Mission Hospital, Ogidi, where the child was taken to on Aug. 4, and examined, showed that there was penetration, but noted that the private hospital where she was taken to on the date of the incident, did not carryout physical examination of the child.

    The document signed by Dr Madubuike Chinelo said the history was sturdily suggestive of sexual abuse.

    “The episode had happened up to five times prior to the most recent encounter.

    “The examination done in the presence of a chaperon showed there was hypereamia of the vaginal mucosa, no obvious vaginal discharge and a hymen, that had already been tampered with, the client was placed on some drugs for the vaginitis,” it stated.

    Child Right Brigade International (CRIB), an NGO said the matter was reported to its office on Aug. 12.

    CRIB vowed to resist any cover up; and would ensure that the suspect was charged to court and prosecuted.

    Obiora Nnaemeka, Coordinator of CRIB in Anambra, said the information the organisation gathered was that the father of the victim, Mr Alex Ezukamma, collected some money to get strike out the case from the police.

    Nnaemeka said CRIB had written the Divisional Police Officer at Ogidi Station to effect the arrest of the suspect and the father of the child, and bring up the matter for investigation and prosecution.

    He said this would serve as deterrent for other would-offenders and stem the tide of rising rape and pedophilia in the society

    On his part, the father of the victim, confirmed to newsmen that his daughter was raped and that the man had been arrested, detained and granted bail.

    He added that the suspect had also been warned not to return to the house.

    Ezukamma denied collecting any form of gratification for his raped daughter, saying though he was a pagan, he would never touch such such money, but would prefer to do some cleansing.

    He said his family were not in support of the wife’s push for prosecution because of the shame it would bring to the family and the stigma it would leave on his daughter.

    “She disobeyed me, and my elders and junior ones order not to drag our family name into the mud, and the shame it will bring to us and our daughter, that is why I asked her to leave my house.

    “My wife can go to any length she wishes, but our name must not be involved,” he said.

    When contacted, CSP Remigus Ekuri, DPO, Ogidi, confirmed the incident and said the matter would be charged to court as soon as the medical report was available.

  • BBNaija: Nengi  breaks down in tears, pays tribute to late mother

    BBNaija: Nengi breaks down in tears, pays tribute to late mother

    Fans of BBNaija housemate, Nengi broke down in tears on Thursday while paying tribute to her mom with other housemates during the sixth wager task.

    TheNewsGuru recalls that Nengi, who lost her mom at the age of 17 .She couldn’t control her tears as she recounted some unforgettable moments she had with her.

    Speaking at the presentation, Nengi revealed her late mom was a fan of Big Brother Africa and would have auditioned for this year’s show.

    “She felt she could have done better if she went to school and my mum was young at heart and had always wanted to audition for Big Brother Africa, BBA.

    ‘’I’m sure if she was alive she would have auditioned for BBNaija this year but I know she’s happy that I’m here”.

  • BBNaija: Kiddwaya’s mother breaks down in tears-[VIDEO]

    BBNaija: Kiddwaya’s mother breaks down in tears-[VIDEO]

    Mother of popular Big Brother Naija housemate, Kiddwaya, has urged fans to vote for her son, Kiddwaya.

    In a video which has gone viral on social media, Kiddwaya’s mother said his good attitude in the house has brought tears to her eyes.

    She expressed astonishment at her son’s discipline in the house.

    She said: “I’m so overwhelmed right now and happy. I’m so happy for Kiddwaya and the discipline in the house.

    “He has not forgotten where he’s from and that brought tears to my eyes and I wanted to share this very moment with you all.

    “Thank you all. I’m so overwhelmed. I might be looking strippy right now but I’m just so grateful to God.”

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    She further pleaded with viewers to vote for him, adding that he has blown her mind off with his attitude in the house.

    Kiddwaya is up for possible eviction this week alongside 11 other housemates.

     

  • Bizarre! Mother throws new born baby inside pit toilet [GRAPHIC PHOTO]

    Bizarre! Mother throws new born baby inside pit toilet [GRAPHIC PHOTO]

    Officers of Anambra Police Command have arrested a woman who killed her newborn son by throwing him into a pit toilet.

    Franca Udokwu, 30, from Obuba Obofia Nkpor Community in Idemili North LGA of Anambra State, was arrested on Saturday (today), August 22 following a tip-off.

    Upon interrogation, the suspect led police detectives to the pit toilet inside her house where she dumped her baby.

    The baby was recovered and taken to Iyi- Enu Mission Hospital for medical attention but was confirmed dead on arrival by a medical doctor.

    According to SP Haruna Mohammed, PPRO Anambra State Police Command, the baby’s corpse has been deposited at the hospital mortuary for autopsy.

    He also said the case is under investigation after which the suspect will be charged to court for.

  • They are burden to me, mother who killed her two children with rat poison speaks

    They are burden to me, mother who killed her two children with rat poison speaks

    A 28-year-old mother at Tema New Town, Ghana has killed her two children after giving them rat poison.

    The mother has been arrested by the police.

    The children were aged three and one-half years.

    They were killed with rat poison on Wednesday night, 29th July 2020 and she confessed the following morning to her neighbours.

    According to a young man, Eric who reported the news to Adom News, the lady used to say the children were a burden to her.

    It was gathered that she had threatened to kill them with rat poison, but was not taken seriously as she appeared sane.

    “The lady rushed out of the room after killing the children to tell us what she had done,” he said in a report by Ghapage.

  • Mother fakes daughter’s kidnap, demands N2m ransom

    Mother fakes daughter’s kidnap, demands N2m ransom

    Katsina A housewife, Fatima Bishir 22, is now in the Police net for faking the Kidnap of her five-year-old daughter in Katsina.

    SP Gambo Isah, the katsina Police command spokesman (PPRO) disclosed this on Thursday while parading the suspect before newsmen in katsina.

    He said the suspect also faked the Kidnap of her daughter to implicate the woman her husband is planning to re-marry.

    According to him, on 5/07/2020 at 0800 hours, the suspect falsely reported at Mashi Police Division that her little daughter was missing and strongly suspected the ex-wife of her husband.

    He added that the suspect further lied that, the said ex-wife once threatened her that she will revenge the death of her daughter who died under her custody.

    “She mischievously then planted the clothes of her alleged missing daughter in the house of the ex-wife where the police recovered a red pant and canvas shoe belonging to the missing child to implicate her”.

    After thorough investigation, the police PPRO said the suspect confessed to being the originator of a text message sent to her husband, Bishir Isyaku. The suspect in a text message threatened the father of the kidnapped girl to either pay the sum of two million naira or risk his daughter being killed by the kidnappers.

    Similarly, the suspect also confessed to have sent another threat text messages to the elder brother of the said Aisha, one Sani Musa, 28, and her ex-husband one Auwalu Halilu alias Al-Jazira aged 40 both of the same address implicating them to be among the kidnappers of her daughter.

    He revealed that, during further investigations, the suspect confessed to have taken her daughter away from Mashi LGA in katsina state to hid her at Kano state through the aid of her housemaid to perfect the fake kidnap plot.

    Gambo added that, however, luck ran against the suspect when she took the said kidnapped baby girl in the company of her housemaid to Dutsi LGA of Katsina state where she was arrested by the police trying to abandon the child at the house of the mother of the ex-wife with an attempt to implicating her.

    The PPRO said that the police are currently investigating the matter with the aim of finding the truth before taking her court.

  • My mum’s energy will always live in me – Ezekwesili

    My mum’s energy will always live in me – Ezekwesili

    Oby Ezekwesili, former presidential candidate, Oby Ezekwesili who recently lost her mother has paid her tributes on social media.

     

    Mrs Ezekwesili announced the death of her mother on Monday evening, saying she died late Sunday.

     

    Tweeting in her memory on Tuesday, the former education minister said her mother’s energy would always live in the family she left behind.

     

    “Nnem. Nnem. Cried to see you go, but rejoicing that it is a peaceful & glorious return to our Lord Jesus whom you loved so much,” she wrote.

     

    “You gave us & everyone who you met in life the kindest, most sacrificial love. Your energy will always live in us & keep us believing. Godspeed Nnem❤️”

     

     

    Nnem. Nnem. Cried to see you go, but rejoicing that it is a peaceful & glorious return to our Lord Jesus whom you loved so much. You gave us & everyone who you met in life the kindest, most sacrificial love. Your energy will always live in us & keep us believing. Godspeed Nnem”

     

    Madam Ujubuonu, who had only clocked 78 in April, died after years of battling with cancer.She breathed her last in the arms and home of Ezekwesili in Abuja.

  • Adisa Oluwafunmilola and the drowning of her baby: Looking beyond shadows – Ozioma Onyeweaku

    Adisa Oluwafunmilola and the drowning of her baby: Looking beyond shadows – Ozioma Onyeweaku

    By Ozioma Onyeweaku

    Recently, the story of Adisa Oluwafunmilola who drowned her baby girl of one year and nine months old in a bucket of water has elicited a lot of reactions from many people. While quite a few have pitied her, many have called her names, and called for her head.

    “She is heartless”; “She is wicked!” “May she rot in jail” “She does not deserve to be called a woman” I was shedding tears as I watched the interview of Adisa Oluwafunmilola (22). As I listened to her in that interview I wept as I could see the monster that snatched away Baby Adisa, and denied Oluwafunmilola the fruits of her endured labour.

    This is a monster that lurks around so fiercely and gaining momentum by the day in our country with no one taking note. No one is being educated about it. It is ignored as if it is not even there. Yet it rages on.

    World Health Organization, WHO, says that 20% of mothers in developing countries encounter this monster after childbirth; and a study says that there are more than 1.5 million cases of it per year in Nigeria. It is Postpartum Depression.

    How many of us are aware of it? Postpartum depression is said to be a depression that occurs after childbirth.

    Signs or symptoms of Postpartum Depression include loss of appetite, intense irritability, depressed mood, loss of pleasure, feelings of worthlessness, hopelessness, and helplessness, and difficulty bonding with the baby, and more particularly, thoughts of death, suicide or thoughts of hurting oneself or someone else.

    Within the postpartum depression is a more serious depression called Postpartum Psychosis. It is a very serious illness that can affect new mothers; it can happen quickly, more often within the first three months of childbirth.

    The sufferer can lose touch with reality, could start having auditory hallucinations, and having a feeling of agitation and anger; could start having strange feelings and behaviours such as thoughts of killing her baby or herself.

    And the medical advice is that a new mother should, as a matter of urgency, be taken to hospital for professional assistance once she starts having thoughts of harming herself or her baby. Research shows the following to be at the risk of having postpartum depression: 1.

    Those with history of depression prior to becoming pregnant, or during pregnancy 2. Those having a history of depression or premenstrual dysphoric disorder 3. Those with limited social support 4. Those who live alone 5. Those having marital conflict 6. Young age at time of pregnancy; the younger, the higher the risk.

    Looking at the factors that can increase the risk of PPD, one can see clearly that Adisa Oluwafunmilola is a good candidate for postpartum depression. She had relationship issue having been denied and abandoned by the man that impregnated her; with no financial power, missing her admission, having social condemnation rather than social support, and being barely 19 years of age at time of pregnancy; all these groomed her for postpartum psychosis.

    When Funmilola kept telling her sister that she was going to kill her baby, if Oluwafunmilola’s sister, and all their family relations and their pastor she called knew about postpartum depression, they would have discharged the only duty they owed Oluwafunmilola at that time, which was rushing her to the hospital for professional assistance. Usually, postpartum patients are kept away in the hospital because of risk of hurting themselves or someone else particularly their baby.

    There is insignificant awareness of this problem called postpartum depression among the Nigerian populace. Postpartum depression is treatable and can be managed, and harm and death prevented if properly diagnosed on time. Like World Health Organization, WHO, recommends, with each postnatal visit, mothers should be asked about their emotional wellbeing, what family and social support they have and what strategies they have in place for dealing with day-to-day matters given the stress level in our system.

    There is urgent need to sensitize the populace on issue of postpartum depression and its management. This is, therefore, a call for health institutions and health caregivers to make postpartum care of new mothers a priority; and for such care to be readily available in order to always ascertain the psychological wellbeing of the new mothers with a view to assessing factors in their environment that can trigger postpartum depression among them. We already, generally, have enough factors right on ground now to trigger depression in anyone at anytime; more reason we need to pay particular and special attention to new mothers. I feel your pains Adisa Oluwafunmilola. I grieve with you.