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  • I lost my child, mum, business to Libya – Nigerian Returnee

    “It has not been easy at all. I had a flourishing hairdressing business before I went to Libya. But, I have lost everything. I also lost my mother and my 11-year-old son, while I was away. When they could not connect with me, my mother died of heart attack, while my son died because there was nobody to take care of him. But, I thank God I came back alive. I will start all over again; I believe I will make it in Nigeria. No more going out of the country,” Naomi, 30, narrated her ordeal of the journey to Europe through Libya.

    I lost my child, mum, business to Libya - Nigerian Returnee
    Jubilant returnees at the reintegration training programme in Lagos. Photo source: themigrantproject.com.

    Naomi was participating in a reintegration training programme in Lagos sponsored by the European Union (EU) and International Organisation for Migration (IOM) in collaboration with the Federal Government of Nigeria. She and other participants shared their experiences about reintegrating to life in Nigeria after being deported.

    Most Nigerians who embark on irregular migration to Europe imagine that their lives will be greatly improved once they reach their destinations. Unfortunately, the reality for most is vastly different. Many lose their lives during the journey. Those who do make it to their destination usually face all manners of difficulties and wish to return home, but end up feeling stranded and trapped in a foreign land. Others are summarily deported.

    Like Naomi, many deported migrants had thriving businesses in Nigeria before they embarked on the journey, but left behind a solid livelihood for the promise of a better life that never materialized and often ending up penniless or in severe debt.

    Once back in Nigeria, deported migrants often face additional frustrations and find it difficult to fit into communities they had chosen to leave in search of something better.

    Thirty-two-year-old Ubo from Akwa Ibom State said life had become so unbearable since he returned to Nigeria that he had even contemplated suicide.

    “I came back on May 11, 2017, and since then life has been very tough. I was at the verge of committing suicide. I wanted to end it once and for all because I didn’t know where to start again. I came back with nothing; I lost everything,” he said.

    According to the IOM, over 8,000 Nigerians in Libya have voluntarily returned to home between January and May 2018 due to cases of inhuman treatments, human trafficking and slavery, rape and death.

  • I wish I had become a mum earlier- Bimbo Thomas

    I wish I had become a mum earlier- Bimbo Thomas

    With her bubbly and vivacious demeanour, unique role interpretation and mastery of her craft, Bimbo Thomas has earned acclaim and ovation for her work.

     

    Passion, mastery of her craft and an uncanny ability to light up her roles are the trademarks that have seen her work with the best in the Nigerian movie industry.

    Bimbo who shot to limelight via the movie ‘Omo Ghetto’ is one actress who has been able to make her mark in the Yoruba sector of Nollywood.

    In this chat with TheNewsGuru, the creative arts graduate opened up on her passion for acting, motherhood, BBNaija , among other issues

     

    BIMBO THOMAS

    You’ve been off the movie scene for a while, are you fully back?

    Yes, I was away. I’m fully back.

     

    What are you currently working on?

    I am working on a lot of stuffs, businesses and film productions. I am also working on a movie from my stable.

     

    You act with so much passion and conviction, what is your staying power?

    I’m going to take that as a compliment. I shouldn’t be doing less because as a true thespian, I’m expected to be that and more. Apart from God’s grace, it’s been staying true to who I am and what I can be. I’m dedicated to what I do.

     

    What would you say shot you to limelight?

    My ability, the raw talent and realness. I will always say thank you to Funke Akindele for the opportunity I was given to be me in the movie ‘ Omo Ghetto’

     

    How has motherhood changed your perception about life?

    Being a mother is a life changing experience. I don’t know how to state this now but I must say I’m enjoying every bit of been a mum. Motherhood you know is an institution, no mum actually graduates from the institution of motherhood. I love my mum and appreciate her more now. It’s no longer about just me anymore; I have a son to care for. I feel more responsible, more concerned, more security conscious and a whole lot more. I consider my son in all that I do now. I’m learning new skills in mastering being a mum, a career woman and an entrepreneur.

     

     

    Are you really fulfilled as an actress?

    Well, I can say to the glory of God I’m on the ladder to greatness. No one can say they have it all. I love my career and it’s paying my bills.

     

    Why do you take your private life off the public glare?

    Private right? It should be kept private, absolutely private.

    What do you think about BBNaija?

    Though BBNaija has been going on for a while now, but I became a fan from last year’s edition. I can say there is a lot to the show than the immorality people talk about. The show isn’t as bad as people perceive it to be. My opinion is that the organization behind BBNaija is focused on building the talents of young Nigerians . Anyone who uses the platform can become great from there

     

    When you see actresses dress almost nude. How does that make you feel?

    I see it as a choice, just like the saying “dress the way you want to be addressed” . I believe in moderate dressing though.

     

    What would you advice celebrities to do in order to keep their marriages?

    Keeping one’s home takes a whole lot and above all God has to be the captain of that ship. It is important. We need to really learn how to balance being a wife, husband and all other activities outside our home.

     

    Do you still run your wineries business?

    Absolutely. But I moved from my Ikeja shop. Our location will be unleashed soonest.

     

    Is marriage plans coming up soonest?

    Watch this space

     

    Do you think sex is overrated?

    I can’t categorically say a thing now, because I don’t want to be misconstrued.

     

    If you were to start all over what would you do differently?

    I wish I had become a mum earlier, by now I would have been done making babies. I also wish I am more informed , I would have been more famous by now

  • I am happy my mother found love again- Simi

    I am happy my mother found love again- Simi

    Nigerian singer, Simi has an unusual relationship with her mother. Simi whose mother recently remarried after the demise of her father years back, noted that she is happy her mother found love.

    Simi who was her mother’s chief bride’s maid at the wedding said: “I am very happy for my mother and her marriage, I am happy she has found love and I wish them a lifetime of happiness,” she told Punch.

    When asked how she feels about her mum being active on social media, she affirmed she actually opened an Instagram account for her.

    According to her: “I was the one that created an Instagram account for my mother but I did it to canvass for votes for a particular project at the time. She never used it after that and she never really had the password, so I do not know how she got a hold of the account. My mother is a very funny person and the life of every party. I have always known this about her but everyone around me is just noticing that about her. Most times, I don’t see her posts on time so my friends would call my attention to something she must have posted. I feel it is cool that everyone is seeing that side of her. My mum has always been active on Facebook, so I am not surprised that she is now active on Instagram. She is a very funny person,” she said.

     

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  • Hillary Clinton updates Twitter bio after session with Chimamanda Adichie

    Hillary Clinton updates Twitter bio after session with Chimamanda Adichie

    Following her promise to Chimamanda Adichie at the PEN World Voices Festival, former US secretary of State Hillary Clinton has updated her Twitter bio. This comes after the organisers of the 2018 PEN World Voices Festival, rated Nigerian writer, Chimamanda Adichies session as their most popular.

    Themed “Resist and Reimagine” the festival held last week in New York where Adichie had a dialogue with American Lawyer and Politician Hillary Clinton on “The future of Women and Girls around the world”

    In a statement, Suzanne Nossel, CEO of Pen America wrote “We want to thank Chimamanda Adichie for making the closing evening of our 2018 PEN World Voices Festival so memorable and so moving. We put on hundreds of events each year and have been privileged to host many luminaries, but that night was an absolute stand-out along every dimension. “

    “We cannot imagine anyone else who could have shared a stage with the legendary Hillary Rodham Clinton with as much poise and grace. Her warmth and openness was met in kind, giving us a glimpse of Secretary Clinton that few are fortunate enough to see. “

    “We have been inundated with emails from those who attended and were so thankful to witness what has become our most popular and thought-provoking session. When we need the very best that the literary community has to offer, we are grateful we can turn to Chimamanda, and she never disappoints.”

    Adichie’s session went viral on social media when she questioned why Hillary Clinton chose to lead her social media bio with her personal accomplishments. Adichie said she wanted to know if it was Clinton’s choice to first identify as wife.

    Clinton’s Twitter bio now reads: “2016 Democratic Nominee, SecState, Senator, hair icon, Mom, Wife, Grandma x2, lawyer, advocate, fan of walks in the woods & standing up for our democracy.”

  • Tears as Olamide loses mum on son’s birthday

    Indigenous rapper, Olamide has announced the death of his mother, Mrs Adedeji.

    The ‘Wo’ crooner who took to his Instagram page to celebrate his son’s birthday earlier today has taken to his Instagram page once again, to share the sad news.

     

    Olamide lost his dad in 2015 when he released his 5th album ‘ Eyan Mayweather’. He also dedicated the popular hit song ‘Anifowoshe’ to him.

    As at the time of this report, the cause of her demise is yet to be

    May her soul rest in peace.

     

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  • Pomp, pageantry as Simi’s mum remarries[Video]

    History was made on Saturday as mother of popular Nigerian singer, Simi got married at Daystar Christian Center, Lagos. The mother of the singer, who is over 50, looked radiant and happy in her butter colour wedding gown.

    Amazingly, Simi her daughter acted as her chief bridesmaid at the intimate wedding ceremony. The identity of her Simi’s new step-dad is yet to be known.

     

    Ms Ogunleye during a testimony session at the December 31st 2017 Cross Over service of her church revealed that her daughter had often advised her to attend programs at other churches since Daystar was majorly a youth church.

    Ms. Ogunleye, who is a widow contributed immensely to the success of Simi’s music career.

     

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  • How my mum sacrificed as a single parent-Simi

    Nigerian songstress, Simisola Ogunleye a.k.a Simi has revealed how her mum sacrificed for them as a single parent.

     

    The award winning singer noted that her mum was so strong and never made excuses.

    “She was so strong, she never make excuses like I don’t have this or that. She would do whatever to make sure we were okay. We weren’t hungry, we went to really good schools, so she went to the end of the world for us. My mum doesn’t know how to do tough love. When she loves, she loves completely, she loves like she can see you are the bad egg and yet she would love you like you are the best egg”.

     

    When asked how her childhood was like, she said: ”I was stubborn as a child and I have never been quiet. However, I wasn’t stubborn because I wanted to, I was about pushing my ideas. If I had an idea in my head, I would like to follow through regardless of what everybody says or anything”.

     

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  • What my mum told me about sex education- Simi

    Nigerian songstress, Simi Ogunleye a.k.a Simi has said that her mum is the biggest supporter of her music career. She also revealed how her mum educated her about sex, rather than passing the wrong message to her.

     

    According to her:”We are very close. She is my biggest supporter, she prays for me and there is almost nothing I cannot tell my mum. She is always watching out for me, we are friends. I don’t tell her everything, but I tell her most things. Even while growing up, we never really had secrets, she never shut me down even when I have an opinion. I think that is one of the reasons why I was never timid as a child because she always let me talk”.

    Speaking on how her mum educated her about sex, she said:”My mum told me how pregnancy actually happens. You know some people, they would say If you hold his hands, you would be pregnant and all that. But my mum told me what I was supposed to know, she used to tell me to be careful when I was much younger. She told me not to sit on any boy’s laps”.

     

  • Orits Williki loses mother

     

    Nigerian reggae star, Rassam Wiliki, popularly called Orits Wiliki has lost his mum to the cold hands of death a couple of days. The emotional singer who shared a close bond with his mother before her death shared a touching message on social media.

    According to him:”Woke up yesterday praying that everything that happened the day before is just a nightmare or another bad dream but lo, the phone conversation between my wife and another proved me wrong. Really, l was so sure l will soon wake up until l saw the ambulance.

    “Nana or Malejoh, that’s what l call you. Should this be that dream that never ends? Male, you were a loving, charming and a happy mother that every child would love to have and to cherish. I will encourage the rest to cry only but a little because there is a greater joy knowing that you died in the truth serving Jehovah with all you have. l am certain in my heart that we shall meet again. Sleep on Malejo till we meet to part no more.”

  • ‘I haven’t done enough for my mum’- Jaywon laments

    ‘I haven’t done enough for my mum’- Jaywon laments

    Oluwajuwonlo Iledare a.k.a Jaywon is one artiste who has achieved much for himself in a short while. His ever green song, This Year continues to thrill fans across the nation. Jaywon doesn’t only love music, he loves his mum. He talked about her glowing qualities in a recent interview with The Sun.

    He said his mum understands his career even much more than his siblings. According to him:” I cannot say one in particular. Everything that comes from me to her is always well appreciated. I cannot readily tell you one. You can even send some money to my mum and she would send it back to you and say, “…Look, I know you don’t have enough on you. Just keep it.” I have decided to do a lot for her and that is why it still disturbs me that I have not been able to complete the house I am building for her due to some constraints but that would be fixed soon.

    “ I am happy to have her as my mum. She seems to understand what the business of music is all about. Even my siblings don’t understand as much as my mum does. Imagine, how many ladies will you send money to and they will send it back to you? She knows I am working very hard. She is so comfortable with all she has. She is the best and I feel that I have not done enough for her. I want to be able to do more”.

    When asked what he misses about her now that he doesn’t live with her anymore, he said: ”Definitely, I miss everything about her. One thing about her is that whenever she has the slightest opportunity to send something to me from the village, she wants to send the whole world to me. She even sends the smallest things she knows I like. I miss talking to her one-on-one and I also miss her cooking.

    You know, all my life, I have watched her struggle very hard to care for us because I lost my dad very early in my life. I watched my mum fend for us all in life and I think I learnt that from her. I would say she is a sort of disciplinarian. I’d love to marry a woman like her. She’s just the best I know right now. I think I want a hardworking, God-fearing and understanding woman like my mum”.