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  • How to make office romance work for you

    Is it possible to be in an office with someone you find attractive without having any feelings for such person? It is a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ answer because office romance has worked for some people and ended up being a disaster for others.

    Notwithstanding, “business with pleasure” can sometimes be very pleasant.

    So, how do you get the attention of your love interest in the workspace? Looking good, wearing nice perfumes, seductive eye contacts and a little flirting now and then can get you that attention you really crave for in the workspace. How do you make office romance work for you?

    1. The Boss’ crush

    Office romance can lead to you being sacked if you are ‘Loving up’ with someone your BOSS likes. You need to exercise caution when it gets to that level. One of you may need to leave the job if things don’t work out. If things do work out, one of you may have to go, because it might be against the company policy to date fellow employees.

    2. Getting in a relationship with your subordinate

    If you become involved with someone in your department and you receive a promotion. Now you’re in a relationship with your subordinate. This opens up the possibility of blackmail. And what happens when it comes to conducting reviews and disciplining your ‘Sweetim’. Do you get the picture?

    3. Play safe

    If you are still thinking of dating a co-worker you better start popping extra vitamins and heighten your sense of discretion. You’ll need a lot of energy and concentrated effort to keep your office romance just between the two of you. And when co-workers eventually find out, you may be the subject of ridicule and suspicion like: “I can’t believe he’s going out with her or she’s going out with him”.

    4. Respect other co-workers

    This might be a private affair, but I don’t think it is. You should think it through if your romantic involvement will impact your co-workers directly if you sit together in the company’s cafeteria, will people now feel they should give you privacy? Will they exclude you from certain conversations because they don’t know what you’ll relay to your new office love?

    Your relationship may influence decisions that can make it more difficult for your department and it depends on your position, your company and if you will be able to operate effectively.

    5. Avoiding Harassment

    Here comes the H word and all it can entail. If your relationship ends badly, will your ex-love tell HR you were making unwanted advances? Think about how a harassment suit will impact your career.

    If you still feel your co-workers are responsible for your misery, what do you do? If you work for an immense company, get a transfer to another department or branch. If that’s not an option because of your profession or company size, get yourself a new job.

  • 6 Things your man wants you to know when he goes down on you

    In every relationship, communication is very essential. Positively, if you’ve found yourself a man that loves cunnilingus and you just sit back, relax and enjoy the whole fun, there are some things guys have issues with.

    So many guys don’t care and just want to eat you out, while some are more cautious and demanding of your genitals, below are things your man wish u knew before he goes down on you…

    1. Keep her fresh and presentable

    Your man definitely wants you to be fresh down there. You should shower 2-3 times in a day especially after the gym; this is because sex might happen out of nowhere.

    1. The pubes

    Most women think guys want their privates shaved or waxed. While most guys don’t really care (they are just happy to be in its presence), no one wants pubes stuck between their teeth. Keep that noise trimmed. And trust me you will also feel more comfortable in your underpants.

    1. Different strokes for different dudes

    We have three types of dudes – dudes who refuse to eat out, dudes who oblige and dudes who LOVE it. And when I say LOVE it, I mean like a hobby. If you run into one of these guys, he wants nothing more to make you feel good. So if you are tense, it interferes with their work. Take deep breaths, play with your nipples or his hair. Don’t forget that a lot of guys are self-conscious about if they are actually pleasing you.

    Help him help you!

    1. Some guys love being dominated

    Probably every relationship or sex advice article you read is about communication. Guiding your partner to your extra special spots helps them help you. Some guys love being dominated, so commanding them to that little curve around your clit will turn them on even more.

    So it’s time for you to know your sweet spots.

    1. Take it to a whole different level

    Don’t be scared to introduce other things that will help spice up your relationship, everyone loves variety. A toy, a pillow under your hips, a little ass play, sitting on his face amongst other fun things, you don’t need to just sit back and let him do all the work. Give him a helping hand.

    1. The grand finale

    Lots of guys would really be thankful if you let them know when you are about to climax. We ladies have a tendency to squeeze their heads with our thighs, buck our hips or what have you. Extra moaning, panting and cursing will give him the heads up and let him know he’s doing a good job.