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  • Incredible ways to get your partner to dominate during sex – Sarah Babs Uncensored

    Welcome to another edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, a column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship.

    Today’s hot topic is on ways to get your partner to dominate you during sex. The idea of being dominated for some women is a huge turn-on. Having your partner pin you down and ravish you is hot (little forbidden fruit, anybody?).

    The issue arises when a woman wants to give her partner permission to dominate her in the bedroom without compromising who she is as a person—sometimes it can be hard to remember who we are in bed is not always who we are in life. You may have a high-paying job, be a badass boss but this doesn’t mean you are excluded from sexual domination.

    However, your partner may be the sweetest, most nurturing person you know—but that doesn’t mean he or she doesn’t have a little secret Dominant under the surface. Just remember to be empathetic to possible nerves. It’s a scary thing to explore the taboo.

    Below are ways to get your partner to dominate you during sex…

    Have a light conversation outside of the bedroom

    If you want your partner to get into some domination, don’t expect him or her to be into choking you out sporadically during sex. These types of fantasies need to be talked about beforehand, outside of the bedroom.

    Obviously, this can get a little awkward, but if you’re in a trusting and healthy relationship, there’s no reason why you can’t have these types of discussion. Allow your partner to voice his or her concerns, especially if this is an out-of-character way for them to behave, as they may be a bit apprehensive.

    Tell your partner about a fantasy you’ve had. Do you simply like the idea of your partner throwing you onto the bed and spanking you?

    Talk about what you’d like to try. Ask your partner for some input about his or her own fantasies. You don’t have go to a dungeon or do anything crazy—always do what makes you comfortable. It’s an avenue of sexual adventure you can explore together!

    Explore some porn together

    If your partner is down to explore, but you don’t really know where to begin, watch some porn together to get some ideas. Obviously, porn is not a representation of real life sex, but it can certainly act as a turn on. You can also explore a full range of erotica and pornographic books together. Because anything you use to get the steam rising is a good start.

    Talk about your fantasies, get some inspiration, and enjoy yourselves. Sometimes all it takes is permission from someone, whether it be you or the porn you’re watching, to unlock someone’s inner Dominant.

    Start slowly and use simple gear

    Remember, even if your partner is super into this idea, he or she may not be great right off the bat. Likewise, you may not know how you feel about this type of play once you take it from inside your head out into real life.

    Go slowly. Start with your partner pinning your hands above your head. Perhaps you can utilize a tie to create handcuffs or a sleep mask to act as a blindfold. As you feel more comfortable, you’ll feel more at ease with pushing the boundaries.

    Always remember to check in and see how both you and your partner are feeling before, during, and after sex.

    Boost your partner’s ego

    One thing that will really get your partner going and into this new, dominant role is by boosting his or her ego. Make it a point to tell him or her how hot it is when he or she chokes you, spanks you, or pins you down.

    This too can feel a bit awkward, but if you want to live out this sexy fantasy, you’ve got to be willing to get your partner into the right headspace.

    Ask your partner to say the things you need to hear as well. If you want him or her to call you a dirty slut, ask for it! There is nothing wrong with sexual degradation between two consenting adults (as long as it’s something you want).

    Your sexual adventure should be fun and exciting, this is because exploration is what keeps things sexy and i am certain you don’t like boring.

     

     

  • 5 Lazy Saturday Morning Sex Styles – Sarah Babs Uncensored

    5 Lazy Saturday Morning Sex Styles – Sarah Babs Uncensored

    Welcome to another edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, a column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship.

    Today’s hot topic is on sex styles for a lazy morning in bed. We all know there’s nothing sweeter than you waking up in bed all sleepy-eyed and cuddly with your significant other. Next weekend, instead of leaping out of bed to Get Stuff Done, hang out awhile and spend a sexy morning in bed.

    However, if you are thinking on how to max out the feel-good factor in a variety of low-effort sex moves, below are incredible tips for getting off during sleepy midnight delights or lazy Saturday mornings…

    It’s a lazy Saturday affair

    Instead of shower sex, try a leisurely bath. Bring tea, toasts, and take your time soaping each other up. Sit between your partner’s legs, lean back against their chest, and let them rub you to orgasm. Once/if you recover, switch places and do the same for them.

    Awesome snuggle f**k

    In order to enjoy this perfectly, face your partner and get yourselves all tangled up. Gently grind against each other, wrapping a leg around to guide their thrusts. Slide the other hand down between your bodies for extra stimulation if straight-up penetration isn’t gonna quite do it for you. Take your time and notice how lucky you are to both be in bed enjoying this nowhere-else-to-be moment together.

    The inverted missionary

    The bottom can thrust their hips upward to assist in pleasuring your partner. It’s a great one for intimacy, since the partners can look into each other’s eyes, hold hands, and let hands and fingers wander all over each other’s bodies.

    Wake-up call

    Whisper in their ear that you want your mouth on their (whatever-you-call-their-genitals). If yes — or hell yes — kiss your way down their body while they float between wakefulness and sleep. Lift their legs over your shoulders, and use your mouth and hands in a slow, sleepy rhythm. And if things get too slippery, messy, etc. — the shower’s right there.

    Snooze alarm

    Avoid morning breath issues by facing the other damn way. Your partner enters from behind while you’re lying on your stomach, then adjust your legs so theirs are outside of yours. For a (too) well-endowed dude, tilt your hips forward; for a smaller guy, press your legs tightly together and tilt back for deeper penetration.

     

     

  • TNG Unscripted: Love, money and sex, which is most important in relationship? [Video]

  • Nigeria values relationship with China – Buhari

    President Muhammadu Buhari has stated that the nation values its relationship with the People’s Republic of China.

    This was revealed in a statement signed by Mr Abiodun Oladunjoye, a Deputy Director (Information), Presidential Media Office, Abuja, on behalf of Mr. Femi Adesina, the special adviser on media and publicity to the president.

     

    Oladunjoye said Adesina stated this when he received the Vice Minister of Information of State Council, People’s Republic of China, Mr Guo Weimin who was on an official visit to Nigeria.

    According to Adesina, the fact that the Nigerian President cherishes the cooperation between Nigeria and China automatically means that there will always be areas of mutual cooperation between the two countries.

    Adesina explained that media organisations from the two countries should profit from the mutual cooperation.

    The presidential aide reiterated the readiness of the presidential media team to build on the existing mutual relationship while also exploring other areas of cooperation.

    He assured Weimin that the presidential media office would work closely with the Chinese Ministry of Information to explore areas where agreements were signed during the visit.

    Adesina expressed optimism that such agreements would enhance the interests of the Nigerian media in particular and the Nigerian Government in general.

    Earlier, Weimin said the delegation, comprising officials of the Chinese Government was in Nigeria to explore areas of exchange of ideas toward deepening the relationship between the Chinese and the Nigerian media industry.

    He identified New Media, transparency in governance, broadcast communication and socio-cultural values as areas in which the delegation hoped to share ideas with their Nigerian counterparts.

    The vice minister, who said Adesina had had a big role to play in deepening the relationship between the two countries solicited his cooperation.

    Weimin disclosed that his delegation had interacted with a broad spectrum of Nigerian media professionals, to get the first hand information from them on their expectations from the visit of the delegation.

     

     

     

    NAN

  • Don’t spend money on women in order to date them- Joro Olumofin

    Controversial relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin has urged Nigerian men to stop spending money or projecting wealth to any lady they are interested in. He said the first stimulus you present in an experiment If pleasurable must be repeated or continued If you want to keep your test subjects interests remaining intact.

    In his words:”These same men later complain that ladies ask them for money too much, these ladies present them with a reservoir of requests & when there’s no money or gifts there’s nothing to talk about. FRIENDSHIP SHOULD COME FIRST BEFORE SPENDING MONEY. The major problem with our generation regarding relationships is that ” sex ” is now synonymous with “money”. Men believe that if they don’t spend money or show off their assets, house, cars ladies won’t pay them any attention which is TRUE and also ladies because of peer pressure, unavailability of jobs, recession mentality, hardships believe that money shows love & caring. Being broke to some ladies is a crime which warrants insults or derogatory names.

     

    “Fellas, don’t spend 1 kobo on her first, take her on dates, play snake and ladder, play ludo with her, take her to have drinks or movies. Don’t start with materialistic things. Let’s put a stop to Money before Love. Love should come before money”.

     

    Many recognize Joro as a 21st-century love guru who has built an impressive presence on social media. Adejoro Olumofin, became popular for his interactive approach to controversial topics on Instagram. According to reports, he receives about 800 emails weekly from people who desire relationship advice.

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  • I don’t like to talk about my failed marriage- BBNaija star, Gifty

    Ex BBNaija housemate, Gifty Powers was bashed on several occasions as a result of her utterances during BBNaija.

    The actress and model has been busy trying to maintain her relevance after BBNaija. Known for her flamboyant sense of style, the outspoken entertainer said she doesn’t love to talk about her failed marriage.

    According to her: “I’ve actually discussed this in so many interviews and I’ll still maintain my ground that I wish not to talk about my marriage, because it’s actually a dark part of my life that I wish not to ever visit again. All what I can say is that I was 19 to 20. I was quite naive. I didn’t know what to do. I wanted to do what other girls were doing; get married, flaunt rings and all that. What matters is that I’m a survivor. I’m strong and I’m standing and I have a name”.

     

    Gifty who has been romantically linked with Mr2kay said she is not in a romantic relationship at the moment.

    Hear her:” The thing is that I’m not into any relationship. What I would say is that, right now, I’m focused on business. Whether men come or not, it’s fine by me. What I’m focused on right now is how to build a strong foundation, how to build a strong name for myself and my future kids, my family. Marriage would come but I’m not in a hurry”.

  • 5 Unbelievable tips to improve your relationship right now

    5 Unbelievable tips to improve your relationship right now

    You’ve got to keep things fresh, find time for each other, and come up with ways to navigate the tricky ups and downs every partnership faces.

    That all sounds a lot easier than it really is, so we’ve come up with 5 unbelievable tips to improve your relationship right now and ways to make your relationship even better.

    See tips below…

    1. Listen

    It might sound obvious, but when you really allow yourself to listen—and ask questions about—what your partner says, it not only leads to better conversations, but also better communication.

    1. Take a few days apart

    Missing each other is a great way to reconnect. Try grabbing some girlfriends for an overnight or a weekend getaway every few months.

    1. Find a support team

    Have a handful of great friends or family members you can call so your significant other doesn’t have to hear every small grievance going on your life.

    1. Put away your phones

    One of the biggest relationship tips is to give your undivided attention when your partner is speaking. It’s is one of the most important things you can do.

    1. Volunteer together

    Giving back is a great way to keep perspective of how great your relationship is, and how lucky you both are.

  • Techlationship: Tech tips to maintaining long distance relationship

    Techlationship: Tech tips to maintaining long distance relationship

    Relationships are taking different dimensions in our world today given especially the advancement of technology; and given that certain types of jobs means people travel and be away for a long time or even travelling for educational purposes or to seek greener pastures, long distance relationships then become an issue.

    It’s difficult to balance your friendships and your career with any romantic relationship, let alone one in which you don’t get to see the other person whenever you want. Plus, while romantic relationships can be wonderfully fulfilling, they are work as it is.

    Factor in time differences, busy schedules, and miles apart, and you could really start feeling the strain of a long distance relationship. Let’s face it: long distance relationships can be rough. If you’ve been there, you know it all too well.

    But, thanks to technology, maintaining a long distance relationship these days is easier than ever. Here are tips to maintaining your long distance relationship:

    Use the tools

    No matter how archaic you might be, if you want your long distance relationship to work out, you must learn to adopt tools technology has presented in these times for connection, communication and collaboration.

    Using technology tools such as WhatsApp Facebook Messenger video calling or Snapchat, Skype, or FaceTime can certainly make that distance gap feel narrower. Being miles apart can be great for your sext life and improve your phone sex skills that keeps relationships burning like hot coal.

    These apps are basically free; what you will need is a Smartphone and a data bundle, and your relationship is tickling like you two are actually in one place together.

    Maximize the power of video calling; do virtually everything together at all places, even when you are in the toilet. There would be no reason for a partner to think the other is cheating.

    Avoid distractions

    With so many devices and notifications, it can be really, really easy to get distracted when you’ve got screen time with your loved one, especially when the video lags and it doesn’t feel like you’re having a conversation.

    Make a concerted effort to spend one-on-one time the way it was meant to be spent: one-on-one.

    Close any programs and any windows that aren’t your video chat app of choice.

    Go old school

    >>Also read: Techlationship: Useful tips for online dating

    Yes go old school!

    There’s nothing quite like a letter in your mailbox but sometimes it’s not possible to send a letter or it takes too long to deliver.

    Emails are wonderful and so fast… but there’s something special about being able to see the other person’s handwriting, not just uniform letters on a white screen.

    So, send a digital love letter instead. Use a pen and write a letter on paper, draw some coloured hearts, snap using your Smartphone’s camera, and forward to your love one, email address or WhatsApp line.

    Its a beauty to behold those fowl scratched handwriting you know.

    It’s easy to do with a tablet.

    Say “I love you”

    Too much of “I love you” won’t kill your relationship. Say “I love you” to your partner across all channels at every opportunity possible and impossible; and mean it.

    Talk raw and don’t be vague… nothing is wrong with spilling your soft side out with your gal. Say “I love you,” and keep saying it. There’s no such thing as saying it enough, if you mean it.

    Know technology’s limitations

    Be patient. The nuances of face-to-face communication are lost when you’re forced to connect online and over the phone. Don’t dwell on what your partner “meant” by something if you think there are two ways to interpret a text, or an email, or whatever. Whatever you “thought” they meant won’t matter tomorrow. Consider video to text to diminish miscommunication.

    When you cant get your partner on the line, don’t let negativity set in.

    Turn off tech

    Dear technology, we love you, and we hate you. Turn the tech off to make time for yourselves. Be social from time to time, but also be conscious of nurturing what matters most to you guy – your relationship.

    Technology can’t augment the human experience; so turn off the tech, and meet face to face.

    And sometimes, doing nothing at all is most fun. Consider time your partner spends at the office or hustling or time at school and all that.

    And when you finally meet again, the fire consumes more, and the heat more than 100 degrees.

     

    Have any tech tips to maintaining long distance relationship? Share it with everyone by leaving a comment below.

     

  • Techlationship: Useful tips for online dating

    Techlationship: Useful tips for online dating

    We can’t ignore the fact that technological advancement has made life easier for us, and one of the products of technological advancement is social media.

    The social media has given room for online dating, and as such people from different walks of life have come to embrace online dating due to different reasons.

    Due to this, there is a need for people to know how to go about dating online to prevent stories that touch the heart.

    Therefore, below are tips for dating online.

    Honesty

    Be completely honest in your profile; don’t put down wrong details about yourself. Online dating has been seen as a place for scammers, so there is a need for you to come out plain. Don’t build up a relationship on lies because it won’t end well.

    Compatibility

    Look for someone who shares the same interest with you. Go through his or her online profile, get to know if this person is really who you will love to develop a conversation with and if you share the same interest. This will make the conversation to flow easily and from there you will be able to talk better and chip in what you want.

    Safety

    Never provide your surname, full address, financial information for someone you have never met before. Also be careful about anyone that constantly ask you for money all the time to solve one issue or the other. This person probably sees you as an ATM where he or she can fetch money from at any time.

    Desperation

    Get to know and talk with the person online before meeting the person. Don’t ever be in a hurry to fix a date with someone you just met. Ladies, this act will only make you look desperate for a man. Also, before you meet in person, move the conversation from online to phone call. During a phone chat, you’ll get a better picture of who the person really is. When you finally decide to meet the person for the first time, make sure it is in an open place e.g. a pack, busy restaurant, coffee shop etc. Make sure you keep your meeting short. Also, make sure someone else is aware of your movement.

    Shrewdness

    >>Also read: Techlationship: Tech tips to maintaining long distance relationship

    Pay attention to some tiny details. Sometimes, these tiny details can actually give you a hint to who the person really is. Look out for consistency in behaviours and answers to your questions. Also, pay attention to warning signs that someone might not be genuine. Does the person just go offline for days and comes back with some excuse? Has the person refused to give you details about his or her life but always want to know about your life? All these and more can stand as a red flag for you.

     

    Online dating can be so much fun and people also find love through this medium. Therefore, it is imperative to use this carefully and be security conscious when dating online.

     

    Have any useful tip to make online dating best? Share it with everyone by leaving a comment below.