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  • 5 Amazing sex moves to try over the holidays – Sarah Babs Uncensored

    Welcome to another edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, a column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship. Today’s hot topic is on 5 Amazing sex moves to try over the holidays. Although some people may not be in the mood because of stress or extra house guests, sex is the ideal cure to help shake you out of your mood.

    Sex is a great way to relieve stress, reconnect with your partner, and help boost your mood. Try to steal away moments when you can.

    However, you choose to get naughty this holiday season, I wish you a happy orgasm.

    The Coital Alignment Technique

    This is missionary with a twist. CAT or coital alignment technique is another great position for intimacy and female orgasms. Both partners have maximum skin contact and hands are free to touch and explore. You are also able to kiss and look into your partner’s eyes.

    While in the missionary position (the woman on her back with the man on top), have your partner pull their body up toward your head so that their pelvis is slightly higher up your body than usual. The real twist? They should try grinding against your pelvis instead of relying on the traditional in-and-out thrusting. The key to this position is to have the perpetrators pelvis slightly above the woman’s which will maximize the friction and pressure on the clitoris.

    The Chair Ride

    If you’ve been with your partner for a long time, this kind of spontaneous sex is a throwback to your younger days, and will help the two of you create a fun (and naughty) holiday memory — and it might even become a tradition.

    Pick a sturdy, but comfy, chair (ideally one that’s not creaky). Have your partner sit down before you straddle them and then position yourself on your partner, using your feet to help ground you. All that’s left is to wrap your partner in a tight embrace and enjoy the ride.

    Spooning

    Spoon style sex is a great way to create intimacy and is the perfect position for your post [holiday] feast. It is great for shallow thrusts and is comfortable for both parties as one person is not squishing the other.

    For starters, both of should be lying on your sides and facing the same direction. The little spoon should bend forward at the hip and lift your top leg, allowing your partner to enter (or simply touch) you from behind. Don’t be afraid to lube up — this position can create good-feeling friction.

    Sidelines

    With this position, you get all the benefits of spoon-style sex, but with the added front-to-front bonus of sexy eye contact. Locking eyes with a partner during sex — or even better, during orgasm — is super intimate, and can make sex even more passionate, which is perfect for the cuddly holiday season.

    Lie down on the bed (or the floor, if you prefer) facing each other. For women, your pelvis should be higher than your partner’s on the bed, then wrap your top leg over them, using it to help pull you closer together while guiding them inside of you.

    Woman-On-Top

    The best thing about woman on top sex is its flexibility: you can lean down for more skin-to-skin contact, or sit up straight and put on a show. Woman on top is a great position for female orgasm, because it lets you control the pace and adjust to make it work for you, and provides eye contact galore. If you’re able to cowgirl your way to a great orgasm, what other gift could you need?

    While your partner is on their back, straddle them, with your legs on either side of their body. You can sit up straight and bounce up and down, or lean forward and prop your body weight on your elbows so you can grind against your partner. Whichever way you choose, enjoy the ride and be confident as you take charge of the pace.

  • 3 Unbelievable reasons women orgasm – Sarah Babs Uncensored

    Welcome to another edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, a column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship. Today’s hot topic is on 3 unbelievable reasons women orgasm. However, before i go any further on reasons women orgasm read some facts below…

    The female clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings – double the number in a penis. Sorry, guys!

    One in 20 women have never had an orgasm – and 40% of us admit to faking them

    Orgasm is the sudden discharge of accumulated sexual excitement during the sexual response cycle, resulting in rhythmic muscular contractions in the pelvic region characterized by sexual pleasure.

    In women, as you become aroused, blood rushes to your genitals. A huge number of nerve endings in your pelvis, buttocks and thighs tense up, and when you climax your body releases the tension in a series of pleasurable waves at 0.8 second intervals. A big orgasm might consist of 10-15 waves; a small one 3-5.

    Meanwhile, your brain focuses entirely on the sensation, in an altered state of consciousness. No other natural stimulation is capable of creating this level of intense concentration – during an orgasm we lose our awareness of sounds and smells around us.

    While the male climax is tied in with ejaculation, it’s unclear what the exact purpose of the female orgasm is.

    So below are 3 reasons women orgasm…

    Baby Making process

    The vaginal contractions experienced help to draw semen towards the cervix, good news for baby making.

    Releasing Hormones

    In prehistoric women, the hormones released during climax caused their ovaries to release an egg. Hundreds of thousands of years later, women have evolved to ovulate independently.

    Reinforcement in Relationships

    Orgasms evolved as a bartering tool for positive reinforcement in relationships. It would keep partners coming back for more.

  • Ways to help your partner figure out what gets you off -Sarah Babs Uncensored

    Welcome to another edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, a column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship.

    Today’s hot topic is on ways to help your partner figure out what gets you off. Letting your body do the talking is helpful in the beginning of a relationship when you haven’t yet cultivated the trust you need to voice your needs and desires. It is also great in long-term relationships when a certain touch or toy isn’t getting you off like it used to.

    Our bodies are complicated machines and what makes them feel good can change over time. Or maybe your partner has never quite gotten to your hot spots and needs a little guidance? Whatever the situation, here is how to help your partner figure out what gets you off.

    Gently move your partner’s hand/mouth

    If you want to show your partner exactly how you like to be touched, you don’t need to aggressively shove their hand in the right direction. Gingerly reach down and guide your partner’s hand into place.

    You want to lend a helping hand rather than give the impression that your partner doesn’t know what he or she is doing (even if that is the case).

    Place your hand over their hand and maneuver them into the right motion, pressure, and speed. He or she will get the message.

    Lean into what feels good

    You can talk with more than just your mouth. When something feels good, lean into it, literally. If your partner is going down on you and hits the right place, tilt your hips forward. This will let your partner know that what they’re doing is working for you.

    If he or she is touching you the way you want, grab his or her shoulder, butt, back (or whatever body part is closest) and bear down to signal pleasure. You want to send silent messages that say, “I am so into this. Don’t stop.”

    Make a little noise

    You are not in a library—make some noise! Get into it! When your partner is doing the right things, make sure you vocalize. Get a little louder as he or she gets closer to the right spots and then make it very clear when they’ve hit the target.

    You don’t have to go crazy and fake some porn-star level moaning, but vocal encouragement is a fantastic way to get what you need to orgasm.

    Of course, this also means quieting down if what your partner is doing doesn’t work for you. Don’t moan if it’s not working. Do not, I repeat, do not fake an orgasm. This sends the wrong signals and ensures that your partner will keep doing the wrong stuff.

    Bring up the high points later

    Be sure to tell your partner what worked for you during your last sex session. Bringing things up during sex can get lost in translation; it’s better to take those conversations outside of the bedroom. Over a dinner at home try, “You know the other night when you were doing [insert X thing]? I really loved that. It was so sexy.”

    You want to really hammer in the things that you enjoyed so your partner can take mental notes and repeat the same moves next time. Be open to his or her feedback as well. The more you learn about each other’s bodies and the more you communicate the better the sex will be.

  • Incredible ways to get your partner to dominate during sex – Sarah Babs Uncensored

    Welcome to another edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, a column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship.

    Today’s hot topic is on ways to get your partner to dominate you during sex. The idea of being dominated for some women is a huge turn-on. Having your partner pin you down and ravish you is hot (little forbidden fruit, anybody?).

    The issue arises when a woman wants to give her partner permission to dominate her in the bedroom without compromising who she is as a person—sometimes it can be hard to remember who we are in bed is not always who we are in life. You may have a high-paying job, be a badass boss but this doesn’t mean you are excluded from sexual domination.

    However, your partner may be the sweetest, most nurturing person you know—but that doesn’t mean he or she doesn’t have a little secret Dominant under the surface. Just remember to be empathetic to possible nerves. It’s a scary thing to explore the taboo.

    Below are ways to get your partner to dominate you during sex…

    Have a light conversation outside of the bedroom

    If you want your partner to get into some domination, don’t expect him or her to be into choking you out sporadically during sex. These types of fantasies need to be talked about beforehand, outside of the bedroom.

    Obviously, this can get a little awkward, but if you’re in a trusting and healthy relationship, there’s no reason why you can’t have these types of discussion. Allow your partner to voice his or her concerns, especially if this is an out-of-character way for them to behave, as they may be a bit apprehensive.

    Tell your partner about a fantasy you’ve had. Do you simply like the idea of your partner throwing you onto the bed and spanking you?

    Talk about what you’d like to try. Ask your partner for some input about his or her own fantasies. You don’t have go to a dungeon or do anything crazy—always do what makes you comfortable. It’s an avenue of sexual adventure you can explore together!

    Explore some porn together

    If your partner is down to explore, but you don’t really know where to begin, watch some porn together to get some ideas. Obviously, porn is not a representation of real life sex, but it can certainly act as a turn on. You can also explore a full range of erotica and pornographic books together. Because anything you use to get the steam rising is a good start.

    Talk about your fantasies, get some inspiration, and enjoy yourselves. Sometimes all it takes is permission from someone, whether it be you or the porn you’re watching, to unlock someone’s inner Dominant.

    Start slowly and use simple gear

    Remember, even if your partner is super into this idea, he or she may not be great right off the bat. Likewise, you may not know how you feel about this type of play once you take it from inside your head out into real life.

    Go slowly. Start with your partner pinning your hands above your head. Perhaps you can utilize a tie to create handcuffs or a sleep mask to act as a blindfold. As you feel more comfortable, you’ll feel more at ease with pushing the boundaries.

    Always remember to check in and see how both you and your partner are feeling before, during, and after sex.

    Boost your partner’s ego

    One thing that will really get your partner going and into this new, dominant role is by boosting his or her ego. Make it a point to tell him or her how hot it is when he or she chokes you, spanks you, or pins you down.

    This too can feel a bit awkward, but if you want to live out this sexy fantasy, you’ve got to be willing to get your partner into the right headspace.

    Ask your partner to say the things you need to hear as well. If you want him or her to call you a dirty slut, ask for it! There is nothing wrong with sexual degradation between two consenting adults (as long as it’s something you want).

    Your sexual adventure should be fun and exciting, this is because exploration is what keeps things sexy and i am certain you don’t like boring.

     

     

  • 5 Lazy Saturday Morning Sex Styles – Sarah Babs Uncensored

    5 Lazy Saturday Morning Sex Styles – Sarah Babs Uncensored

    Welcome to another edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, a column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship.

    Today’s hot topic is on sex styles for a lazy morning in bed. We all know there’s nothing sweeter than you waking up in bed all sleepy-eyed and cuddly with your significant other. Next weekend, instead of leaping out of bed to Get Stuff Done, hang out awhile and spend a sexy morning in bed.

    However, if you are thinking on how to max out the feel-good factor in a variety of low-effort sex moves, below are incredible tips for getting off during sleepy midnight delights or lazy Saturday mornings…

    It’s a lazy Saturday affair

    Instead of shower sex, try a leisurely bath. Bring tea, toasts, and take your time soaping each other up. Sit between your partner’s legs, lean back against their chest, and let them rub you to orgasm. Once/if you recover, switch places and do the same for them.

    Awesome snuggle f**k

    In order to enjoy this perfectly, face your partner and get yourselves all tangled up. Gently grind against each other, wrapping a leg around to guide their thrusts. Slide the other hand down between your bodies for extra stimulation if straight-up penetration isn’t gonna quite do it for you. Take your time and notice how lucky you are to both be in bed enjoying this nowhere-else-to-be moment together.

    The inverted missionary

    The bottom can thrust their hips upward to assist in pleasuring your partner. It’s a great one for intimacy, since the partners can look into each other’s eyes, hold hands, and let hands and fingers wander all over each other’s bodies.

    Wake-up call

    Whisper in their ear that you want your mouth on their (whatever-you-call-their-genitals). If yes — or hell yes — kiss your way down their body while they float between wakefulness and sleep. Lift their legs over your shoulders, and use your mouth and hands in a slow, sleepy rhythm. And if things get too slippery, messy, etc. — the shower’s right there.

    Snooze alarm

    Avoid morning breath issues by facing the other damn way. Your partner enters from behind while you’re lying on your stomach, then adjust your legs so theirs are outside of yours. For a (too) well-endowed dude, tilt your hips forward; for a smaller guy, press your legs tightly together and tilt back for deeper penetration.