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  • 5 Amazing bedroom styles your partner doesn’t want you doing this weekend

    When it comes to sex, being dynamic and unpredictable wins every time.You can rejuvenate your sex life this weekend by learning the 5 amazing bedroom styles your partner does not want you engaging in.

    1.Sticking to one kissing style.

    Some people are into deep, passionate kissing, others enjoy having their partner’s shove their tongues down their throats, and other people prefer light, sweet pecks. Whatever your or your partner’s style, you should take some time to figure it out.

    A bad kisser is a big turn off in erotic encounters. It’s not to say you’re a bad kisser, but if you’re roughly kissing someone who prefers tenderness, it can be perceived this way.Therefore, you need to learn new kissing techniques in order to revive your sex life

    2. Refusing to carry your partner along

    Sex is a team sport.It takes two to enjoy sexual pleasure.Wehn trying a new style during sex, It is important to carry your partner along.If you’re not taking your partner’s comfort into consideration, you could be pissing them off without realizing it.

    That being said, you don’t need to ask your partner if everything is alright every second—it kinda kills the mood (if that’s something you’re worried about).Just say in a sexy voice, “Does this feel good?” or “Are you liking this,” or “Is this too much?” It shows that you care and are thinking about your partner’s feelings.

    3.The 69 position

    According to Wikipedia, 69 is a group of sex positions in which two people align themselves so that each person’s mouth is near the other’s genitals, each simultaneously performing oral sex on the other.The participants are thus mutually inverted like the numerals 6 and 9 in the number 69, hence the name.This position can involve any combination of sexes.

    Before you simply go for the 69 every time you get naked, ask your partner if this is a position they’re interested in. If they are not, perhaps you can compromise and only do it on special occasions.

    When it comes to sex positions in general, you need to talk about the things that turn you on, and the things that do not.

    4.Unprompted dirty talk.

    One of the most nerve-wracking things during sex is working up the nerve to talk dirty. Though it can be super hot, one of the things that causes dirty talk to go awry is forgetting to prepare your partner beforehand or not starting slowly.

    Some people are very turned on by filthy, dirty, raunchy dirty talk; others find it highly unappealing. Start by asking your partner if they enjoy talking dirty and let them know your feelings on the subject.

    5.Skipping foreplay.

    “It’s particularly important for women to have successful foreplay because it takes a woman a longer time [than a man] to get up to the level of arousal needed to orgasm,” says “Dr. Ruth” Westheimer, EdD, a psychosexual therapist, professor at New York University, and lecturer at Yale and Princeton universities.

    If you’re letting your mind run away with you and are jumping right into sex, you could wind up with some tearing and discomfort during penetrative sex.

    Lubrication is the key to pleasure for many women. Focus on the clitoris. Take the time to warm your partner up, and let your partner know what you need to be ready for sex. Don’t push foreplay aside. It is the key to satisfying sexual experiences. If done with care instead of rushed annoyance, it can be the hottest part of sex.

  • 5 Amazing sex moves to try over the holidays – Sarah Babs Uncensored

    Welcome to another edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, a column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship. Today’s hot topic is on 5 Amazing sex moves to try over the holidays. Although some people may not be in the mood because of stress or extra house guests, sex is the ideal cure to help shake you out of your mood.

    Sex is a great way to relieve stress, reconnect with your partner, and help boost your mood. Try to steal away moments when you can.

    However, you choose to get naughty this holiday season, I wish you a happy orgasm.

    The Coital Alignment Technique

    This is missionary with a twist. CAT or coital alignment technique is another great position for intimacy and female orgasms. Both partners have maximum skin contact and hands are free to touch and explore. You are also able to kiss and look into your partner’s eyes.

    While in the missionary position (the woman on her back with the man on top), have your partner pull their body up toward your head so that their pelvis is slightly higher up your body than usual. The real twist? They should try grinding against your pelvis instead of relying on the traditional in-and-out thrusting. The key to this position is to have the perpetrators pelvis slightly above the woman’s which will maximize the friction and pressure on the clitoris.

    The Chair Ride

    If you’ve been with your partner for a long time, this kind of spontaneous sex is a throwback to your younger days, and will help the two of you create a fun (and naughty) holiday memory — and it might even become a tradition.

    Pick a sturdy, but comfy, chair (ideally one that’s not creaky). Have your partner sit down before you straddle them and then position yourself on your partner, using your feet to help ground you. All that’s left is to wrap your partner in a tight embrace and enjoy the ride.

    Spooning

    Spoon style sex is a great way to create intimacy and is the perfect position for your post [holiday] feast. It is great for shallow thrusts and is comfortable for both parties as one person is not squishing the other.

    For starters, both of should be lying on your sides and facing the same direction. The little spoon should bend forward at the hip and lift your top leg, allowing your partner to enter (or simply touch) you from behind. Don’t be afraid to lube up — this position can create good-feeling friction.

    Sidelines

    With this position, you get all the benefits of spoon-style sex, but with the added front-to-front bonus of sexy eye contact. Locking eyes with a partner during sex — or even better, during orgasm — is super intimate, and can make sex even more passionate, which is perfect for the cuddly holiday season.

    Lie down on the bed (or the floor, if you prefer) facing each other. For women, your pelvis should be higher than your partner’s on the bed, then wrap your top leg over them, using it to help pull you closer together while guiding them inside of you.

    Woman-On-Top

    The best thing about woman on top sex is its flexibility: you can lean down for more skin-to-skin contact, or sit up straight and put on a show. Woman on top is a great position for female orgasm, because it lets you control the pace and adjust to make it work for you, and provides eye contact galore. If you’re able to cowgirl your way to a great orgasm, what other gift could you need?

    While your partner is on their back, straddle them, with your legs on either side of their body. You can sit up straight and bounce up and down, or lean forward and prop your body weight on your elbows so you can grind against your partner. Whichever way you choose, enjoy the ride and be confident as you take charge of the pace.

  • 3 Unbelievable reasons women orgasm – Sarah Babs Uncensored

    Welcome to another edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, a column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship. Today’s hot topic is on 3 unbelievable reasons women orgasm. However, before i go any further on reasons women orgasm read some facts below…

    The female clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings – double the number in a penis. Sorry, guys!

    One in 20 women have never had an orgasm – and 40% of us admit to faking them

    Orgasm is the sudden discharge of accumulated sexual excitement during the sexual response cycle, resulting in rhythmic muscular contractions in the pelvic region characterized by sexual pleasure.

    In women, as you become aroused, blood rushes to your genitals. A huge number of nerve endings in your pelvis, buttocks and thighs tense up, and when you climax your body releases the tension in a series of pleasurable waves at 0.8 second intervals. A big orgasm might consist of 10-15 waves; a small one 3-5.

    Meanwhile, your brain focuses entirely on the sensation, in an altered state of consciousness. No other natural stimulation is capable of creating this level of intense concentration – during an orgasm we lose our awareness of sounds and smells around us.

    While the male climax is tied in with ejaculation, it’s unclear what the exact purpose of the female orgasm is.

    So below are 3 reasons women orgasm…

    Baby Making process

    The vaginal contractions experienced help to draw semen towards the cervix, good news for baby making.

    Releasing Hormones

    In prehistoric women, the hormones released during climax caused their ovaries to release an egg. Hundreds of thousands of years later, women have evolved to ovulate independently.

    Reinforcement in Relationships

    Orgasms evolved as a bartering tool for positive reinforcement in relationships. It would keep partners coming back for more.

  • 3 Amazing ways to get ‘saddled up’ -Sarah Babs Uncensored

    When It’s been a While…

    Welcome to another edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, a column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship.

    Today’s hot topic is on 3 amazing ways to get saddled up. If you are having a bit of trouble getting your groove back when it comes to bedroom skills, you definitely have nothing to worry about. Now that you’re ready to hop back to it, it’s time to refocus that anxious energy onto your own pleasure, exploration, and play.

    So, below are 3 tips to get you started…

    Seduce, masturbate, repeat

    Figuring out what you like and where you like to be touched will make it easier to communicate that to your partner. And the more you know what you like, the more confident you’ll be in the bedroom. So have fun exploring yourself! Wear something that makes you feel sexy. Run a bath, explore new toys, feathers—anything to pamper yourself.

    Get some inspiration

    Whether it’s porn, erotic short stories, or 5o Shades of Grey, a good visual is always helpful. Look at it as research—trial and error if you will. Observe what gets you turned on and go with it!

    Remember, sex is about both of you

    Yes, you want to please your partner, but make sure that you’re thinking of yourself too. Most men say that there’s nothing hotter than a woman who is authentically enjoying herself. They’ll also take it as a direct reflection of their own skill in bed, and a little stroke of the ego never hurt anyone. So although you want to wow your partner, let them wow you back.

  • Ways to help your partner figure out what gets you off -Sarah Babs Uncensored

    Welcome to another edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, a column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship.

    Today’s hot topic is on ways to help your partner figure out what gets you off. Letting your body do the talking is helpful in the beginning of a relationship when you haven’t yet cultivated the trust you need to voice your needs and desires. It is also great in long-term relationships when a certain touch or toy isn’t getting you off like it used to.

    Our bodies are complicated machines and what makes them feel good can change over time. Or maybe your partner has never quite gotten to your hot spots and needs a little guidance? Whatever the situation, here is how to help your partner figure out what gets you off.

    Gently move your partner’s hand/mouth

    If you want to show your partner exactly how you like to be touched, you don’t need to aggressively shove their hand in the right direction. Gingerly reach down and guide your partner’s hand into place.

    You want to lend a helping hand rather than give the impression that your partner doesn’t know what he or she is doing (even if that is the case).

    Place your hand over their hand and maneuver them into the right motion, pressure, and speed. He or she will get the message.

    Lean into what feels good

    You can talk with more than just your mouth. When something feels good, lean into it, literally. If your partner is going down on you and hits the right place, tilt your hips forward. This will let your partner know that what they’re doing is working for you.

    If he or she is touching you the way you want, grab his or her shoulder, butt, back (or whatever body part is closest) and bear down to signal pleasure. You want to send silent messages that say, “I am so into this. Don’t stop.”

    Make a little noise

    You are not in a library—make some noise! Get into it! When your partner is doing the right things, make sure you vocalize. Get a little louder as he or she gets closer to the right spots and then make it very clear when they’ve hit the target.

    You don’t have to go crazy and fake some porn-star level moaning, but vocal encouragement is a fantastic way to get what you need to orgasm.

    Of course, this also means quieting down if what your partner is doing doesn’t work for you. Don’t moan if it’s not working. Do not, I repeat, do not fake an orgasm. This sends the wrong signals and ensures that your partner will keep doing the wrong stuff.

    Bring up the high points later

    Be sure to tell your partner what worked for you during your last sex session. Bringing things up during sex can get lost in translation; it’s better to take those conversations outside of the bedroom. Over a dinner at home try, “You know the other night when you were doing [insert X thing]? I really loved that. It was so sexy.”

    You want to really hammer in the things that you enjoyed so your partner can take mental notes and repeat the same moves next time. Be open to his or her feedback as well. The more you learn about each other’s bodies and the more you communicate the better the sex will be.

  • Incredible ways to get your partner to dominate during sex – Sarah Babs Uncensored

    Welcome to another edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, a column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship.

    Today’s hot topic is on ways to get your partner to dominate you during sex. The idea of being dominated for some women is a huge turn-on. Having your partner pin you down and ravish you is hot (little forbidden fruit, anybody?).

    The issue arises when a woman wants to give her partner permission to dominate her in the bedroom without compromising who she is as a person—sometimes it can be hard to remember who we are in bed is not always who we are in life. You may have a high-paying job, be a badass boss but this doesn’t mean you are excluded from sexual domination.

    However, your partner may be the sweetest, most nurturing person you know—but that doesn’t mean he or she doesn’t have a little secret Dominant under the surface. Just remember to be empathetic to possible nerves. It’s a scary thing to explore the taboo.

    Below are ways to get your partner to dominate you during sex…

    Have a light conversation outside of the bedroom

    If you want your partner to get into some domination, don’t expect him or her to be into choking you out sporadically during sex. These types of fantasies need to be talked about beforehand, outside of the bedroom.

    Obviously, this can get a little awkward, but if you’re in a trusting and healthy relationship, there’s no reason why you can’t have these types of discussion. Allow your partner to voice his or her concerns, especially if this is an out-of-character way for them to behave, as they may be a bit apprehensive.

    Tell your partner about a fantasy you’ve had. Do you simply like the idea of your partner throwing you onto the bed and spanking you?

    Talk about what you’d like to try. Ask your partner for some input about his or her own fantasies. You don’t have go to a dungeon or do anything crazy—always do what makes you comfortable. It’s an avenue of sexual adventure you can explore together!

    Explore some porn together

    If your partner is down to explore, but you don’t really know where to begin, watch some porn together to get some ideas. Obviously, porn is not a representation of real life sex, but it can certainly act as a turn on. You can also explore a full range of erotica and pornographic books together. Because anything you use to get the steam rising is a good start.

    Talk about your fantasies, get some inspiration, and enjoy yourselves. Sometimes all it takes is permission from someone, whether it be you or the porn you’re watching, to unlock someone’s inner Dominant.

    Start slowly and use simple gear

    Remember, even if your partner is super into this idea, he or she may not be great right off the bat. Likewise, you may not know how you feel about this type of play once you take it from inside your head out into real life.

    Go slowly. Start with your partner pinning your hands above your head. Perhaps you can utilize a tie to create handcuffs or a sleep mask to act as a blindfold. As you feel more comfortable, you’ll feel more at ease with pushing the boundaries.

    Always remember to check in and see how both you and your partner are feeling before, during, and after sex.

    Boost your partner’s ego

    One thing that will really get your partner going and into this new, dominant role is by boosting his or her ego. Make it a point to tell him or her how hot it is when he or she chokes you, spanks you, or pins you down.

    This too can feel a bit awkward, but if you want to live out this sexy fantasy, you’ve got to be willing to get your partner into the right headspace.

    Ask your partner to say the things you need to hear as well. If you want him or her to call you a dirty slut, ask for it! There is nothing wrong with sexual degradation between two consenting adults (as long as it’s something you want).

    Your sexual adventure should be fun and exciting, this is because exploration is what keeps things sexy and i am certain you don’t like boring.

     

     

  • 5 Easy Tantric Sex Positions to Try Tonight – Sarah Babs Uncensored

    Welcome to the first edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, the new ‘Sextacular’ column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship. It promises to be your irresistible Saturday tonic.

    Are you looking for something to really up the gamble on your sex life that doesn’t involve putting on a sexy maid outfit? Meaning, are you looking for a way to boost orgasms and connection in a way that is passionate and connective? Try out tantric sex.

    Tantric sex is a slow, sexy, emotional form of sex that practitioners and gurus believe has the ability to breed intimacy between partners. But it can be a little complicated.

    Below are 5 easy tantric sex positions for beginners. Remember, the key to all of these positions is to go slowly and set the mood with dim lighting and slow jams.

    Lotus

    Known in Tantra as Yab Yum, the Lotus is amazing for female orgasm. It gets you up close and personal for deep, passionate kissing and right against your partner’s pubic bone for carefree clitoral stimulation.

    Have your partner sit on the bed or couch and straddle him or her, face-to-face. Rock back and forth. This position is super intimate and sexy, which is probably why it is the most famous Tantric sex position of all.

    Comin’ Cobra

    This take on the classic cowgirl gives you much needed clit access as well as face-to-face intimacy. Get on top of your partner. Once he or she is inside of you, swing your legs back so that you’re lying flat against your partner.

    Your bodies should be perfectly aligned. Rest on your forearms on his or her chest for extra lift. You’re essentially in a baby cobra position, only with your partner (or toy) inside of you.

    Keep in mind this position is not always comfortable for everyone. Do what feels good for you.

    Reverse seated

    I don’t know about you, but reverse cowgirl can actually be a pain. The reverse seated position takes all of the thigh burn out of it and adds in some much needed skin-on-skin action with your partner.

    Have your partner kneel and lower yourself while backwards. He or she can wrap his or her arms around you, like a backward hug. Rock in a rhythmic motion for soothing love making.

    No Frills Cunnilingus

    One of the things that make two people feel emotionally close during sex is serious attention to foreplay. If your partner can give you truly spectacular cunnilingus, he or she is on his or her way to being a Tantra pro already.

    Tantra involves getting in on every one of your senses, including taste and smell. Meaning, some eye-opening head is on the table. Lie on your back and have him or her go to town, only slowly. You want to practice edging; the longer you can tease out your orgasm, the more connected you’ll feel in your body (and to your partner).

    Flat Standing Doggy

    This position gives you all the deep g-spot stimulation of doggy style, with much more intimate connection. Lie across the bed, stomach face down and feet on the floor. Have your partner stand behind you and enter you from behind.

    Turn your head for sexy, erotic kisses. Have your partner lace his or her hands into your hair for extra control.

     

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