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  • ‘I haven’t had sex in 5 years’ -Kayamata seller, Jaruma

    ‘I haven’t had sex in 5 years’ -Kayamata seller, Jaruma

    In a viral instagram video, Sex promoter and aphrodisiac seller Jaruma opened up about the last time she had sex.

    The kayanmata producer said she hasn’t had sex in 5 years and would want to get down again.

    Jaruma held a dildo and asked whosoever wished to have sex with het to get to her in 7 mins or wait for another opportunity in 4 days. She claimed she would help herself with the object since no-one was forthcoming.

    Few days ago, a voice note surfaced online and she was heard negotiating a sex deal with a male client, the man had offered her 10 million naira to sleep with her but she demanded far more than that.

    According to Jaruma, 10million naira is too small for her to take for a whole night. She stated that she charges N280 million per night from her clients.

    However, she appealed to the client to make it 50 million for the night, and she would consider his request.

    Sharing the video via Instagram, Jaruma who shared the news on her verified Instagram page in her voice quizzed her fans if she should consider it or not accepting the 10 million naira or not.

    Recall that Jaruma still has a pending court case over her impasse with Regina Daniels and hubby, Ned Nwoko.

  • How sex before bed can improve your relationship this Valentine’s Day

    How sex before bed can improve your relationship this Valentine’s Day

    Sex before bed might be the answer you’ve been waiting for without even realizing it. There is plenty of debate over when the best time of day is best for sex, but right before shuteye has results backed by science.

    We’re not suggesting you skip the afternoon delight, but simply make having sex before going to sleep a priority. Sex is an important part of relationships. With busy schedules and countless responsibilities to attend to, sex often takes a backseat. This isn’t good for your overall happiness.

    Instead of getting down, make sex a part of your daily activities. Here is why sex before bed can help to improve your sex life and relationship this Valentine’s Day.

    It will bring you closer

    The old saying goes, “Never go to bed angry.” We think you should go to bed sexually satisfied. Orgasms are a one-way ticket to sound sleep.

    After an amazing sex session and orgasm, your brain releases a cocktail of feel-good hormones such as serotonin and oxytocin. Oxytocin, also known as the “Love Hormone,” creates feelings of pair bonding. Studies have shown that oxytocin is a key component in the creation of feelings of love.

    Additionally, cuddling breeds closer relationships. When you are feeling close to your partner post-orgasm, you get more of that skin-to-skin contact that we humans need and crave to feel safe.

    It gives you something to look forward to each day

    Make sex before bed part of your daily routine: Coffee, work, gym, dinner, sex, bed.

    Think about it: sex is only around 20-30 minutes of your entire day. Is it really that difficult to squeeze it in?

    Adding sex into the regular routine will allow it to stop being cumbersome and make it exciting. It will give you something to look forward to at the end of a hard day, which will make you excited to see your partner. When the two of you have this intimate activity on the books a few nights per week, it will bring you closer to each other.

    You can even up the ante by designating one night to “trying something new;” Whether it be handcuffs, looking at erotic material, or trying a new sex position. Sex right before bed might be the thing that keeps your marital groove alive.

    Sex before bed will reduce your stress levels

    Marriage isn’t easy. It takes work. Therefore, doing everything you can to ease the growing pains is helpful. Sex before bed might be just the thing you need. Among its many other benefits, orgasm reduces production of the body’s natural stress hormone, cortisol. Reducing stress before bed can improve your relationship by setting you on a course for better days to come.

    We make associations to places and objects by way of memory. You want your place of rest to be as least stressful as possible. If you make your room a place that induces feelings of pleasure and relaxation, you’ll be more likely to enjoy going to your room. Less stress, more sex. It’s been the antidote all along.

    Sex improves sleep

    Sex at any time of day is wonderful, but it is particularly useful right before bed because of its sleep benefits. Recent studies have shown that our old pal oxytocin does more than create feelings of closeness, it can drastically improve your quality of sleep.

    A study showed that 64% of participants who achieved orgasm before bed saw an improvement in their sleep. That’s a significant percentage. Just be sure both you and your partner both climax to reap the benefits.

    Too tired for intercourse? Try a masturbation session together. It requires less energy and is actually quite kinky (because of its lack of mainstream attention). It may sound a bit unorthodox, but there is no wrong way to experience sexuality. It’s about taking time to be with your partner and enjoy each other’s pleasure.

  • 5 Amazing bedroom styles your partner doesn’t want you doing this weekend

    When it comes to sex, being dynamic and unpredictable wins every time.You can rejuvenate your sex life this weekend by learning the 5 amazing bedroom styles your partner does not want you engaging in.

    1.Sticking to one kissing style.

    Some people are into deep, passionate kissing, others enjoy having their partner’s shove their tongues down their throats, and other people prefer light, sweet pecks. Whatever your or your partner’s style, you should take some time to figure it out.

    A bad kisser is a big turn off in erotic encounters. It’s not to say you’re a bad kisser, but if you’re roughly kissing someone who prefers tenderness, it can be perceived this way.Therefore, you need to learn new kissing techniques in order to revive your sex life

    2. Refusing to carry your partner along

    Sex is a team sport.It takes two to enjoy sexual pleasure.Wehn trying a new style during sex, It is important to carry your partner along.If you’re not taking your partner’s comfort into consideration, you could be pissing them off without realizing it.

    That being said, you don’t need to ask your partner if everything is alright every second—it kinda kills the mood (if that’s something you’re worried about).Just say in a sexy voice, “Does this feel good?” or “Are you liking this,” or “Is this too much?” It shows that you care and are thinking about your partner’s feelings.

    3.The 69 position

    According to Wikipedia, 69 is a group of sex positions in which two people align themselves so that each person’s mouth is near the other’s genitals, each simultaneously performing oral sex on the other.The participants are thus mutually inverted like the numerals 6 and 9 in the number 69, hence the name.This position can involve any combination of sexes.

    Before you simply go for the 69 every time you get naked, ask your partner if this is a position they’re interested in. If they are not, perhaps you can compromise and only do it on special occasions.

    When it comes to sex positions in general, you need to talk about the things that turn you on, and the things that do not.

    4.Unprompted dirty talk.

    One of the most nerve-wracking things during sex is working up the nerve to talk dirty. Though it can be super hot, one of the things that causes dirty talk to go awry is forgetting to prepare your partner beforehand or not starting slowly.

    Some people are very turned on by filthy, dirty, raunchy dirty talk; others find it highly unappealing. Start by asking your partner if they enjoy talking dirty and let them know your feelings on the subject.

    5.Skipping foreplay.

    “It’s particularly important for women to have successful foreplay because it takes a woman a longer time [than a man] to get up to the level of arousal needed to orgasm,” says “Dr. Ruth” Westheimer, EdD, a psychosexual therapist, professor at New York University, and lecturer at Yale and Princeton universities.

    If you’re letting your mind run away with you and are jumping right into sex, you could wind up with some tearing and discomfort during penetrative sex.

    Lubrication is the key to pleasure for many women. Focus on the clitoris. Take the time to warm your partner up, and let your partner know what you need to be ready for sex. Don’t push foreplay aside. It is the key to satisfying sexual experiences. If done with care instead of rushed annoyance, it can be the hottest part of sex.

  • 5 Amazing sex moves to try over the holidays – Sarah Babs Uncensored

    Welcome to another edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, a column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship. Today’s hot topic is on 5 Amazing sex moves to try over the holidays. Although some people may not be in the mood because of stress or extra house guests, sex is the ideal cure to help shake you out of your mood.

    Sex is a great way to relieve stress, reconnect with your partner, and help boost your mood. Try to steal away moments when you can.

    However, you choose to get naughty this holiday season, I wish you a happy orgasm.

    The Coital Alignment Technique

    This is missionary with a twist. CAT or coital alignment technique is another great position for intimacy and female orgasms. Both partners have maximum skin contact and hands are free to touch and explore. You are also able to kiss and look into your partner’s eyes.

    While in the missionary position (the woman on her back with the man on top), have your partner pull their body up toward your head so that their pelvis is slightly higher up your body than usual. The real twist? They should try grinding against your pelvis instead of relying on the traditional in-and-out thrusting. The key to this position is to have the perpetrators pelvis slightly above the woman’s which will maximize the friction and pressure on the clitoris.

    The Chair Ride

    If you’ve been with your partner for a long time, this kind of spontaneous sex is a throwback to your younger days, and will help the two of you create a fun (and naughty) holiday memory — and it might even become a tradition.

    Pick a sturdy, but comfy, chair (ideally one that’s not creaky). Have your partner sit down before you straddle them and then position yourself on your partner, using your feet to help ground you. All that’s left is to wrap your partner in a tight embrace and enjoy the ride.

    Spooning

    Spoon style sex is a great way to create intimacy and is the perfect position for your post [holiday] feast. It is great for shallow thrusts and is comfortable for both parties as one person is not squishing the other.

    For starters, both of should be lying on your sides and facing the same direction. The little spoon should bend forward at the hip and lift your top leg, allowing your partner to enter (or simply touch) you from behind. Don’t be afraid to lube up — this position can create good-feeling friction.

    Sidelines

    With this position, you get all the benefits of spoon-style sex, but with the added front-to-front bonus of sexy eye contact. Locking eyes with a partner during sex — or even better, during orgasm — is super intimate, and can make sex even more passionate, which is perfect for the cuddly holiday season.

    Lie down on the bed (or the floor, if you prefer) facing each other. For women, your pelvis should be higher than your partner’s on the bed, then wrap your top leg over them, using it to help pull you closer together while guiding them inside of you.

    Woman-On-Top

    The best thing about woman on top sex is its flexibility: you can lean down for more skin-to-skin contact, or sit up straight and put on a show. Woman on top is a great position for female orgasm, because it lets you control the pace and adjust to make it work for you, and provides eye contact galore. If you’re able to cowgirl your way to a great orgasm, what other gift could you need?

    While your partner is on their back, straddle them, with your legs on either side of their body. You can sit up straight and bounce up and down, or lean forward and prop your body weight on your elbows so you can grind against your partner. Whichever way you choose, enjoy the ride and be confident as you take charge of the pace.

  • 3 Unbelievable reasons women orgasm – Sarah Babs Uncensored

    Welcome to another edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, a column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship. Today’s hot topic is on 3 unbelievable reasons women orgasm. However, before i go any further on reasons women orgasm read some facts below…

    The female clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings – double the number in a penis. Sorry, guys!

    One in 20 women have never had an orgasm – and 40% of us admit to faking them

    Orgasm is the sudden discharge of accumulated sexual excitement during the sexual response cycle, resulting in rhythmic muscular contractions in the pelvic region characterized by sexual pleasure.

    In women, as you become aroused, blood rushes to your genitals. A huge number of nerve endings in your pelvis, buttocks and thighs tense up, and when you climax your body releases the tension in a series of pleasurable waves at 0.8 second intervals. A big orgasm might consist of 10-15 waves; a small one 3-5.

    Meanwhile, your brain focuses entirely on the sensation, in an altered state of consciousness. No other natural stimulation is capable of creating this level of intense concentration – during an orgasm we lose our awareness of sounds and smells around us.

    While the male climax is tied in with ejaculation, it’s unclear what the exact purpose of the female orgasm is.

    So below are 3 reasons women orgasm…

    Baby Making process

    The vaginal contractions experienced help to draw semen towards the cervix, good news for baby making.

    Releasing Hormones

    In prehistoric women, the hormones released during climax caused their ovaries to release an egg. Hundreds of thousands of years later, women have evolved to ovulate independently.

    Reinforcement in Relationships

    Orgasms evolved as a bartering tool for positive reinforcement in relationships. It would keep partners coming back for more.

  • Get dirty in a totally new way: Sex questions that will turn you both on

    Making your relationship fun and exciting is crucial if you want something everlasting. It’s not just important for making sure that your man stays attracted and faithful, but also for making sure that YOU, yourself, don’t get bored!

    The purpose of the questions is for both of you to discover new things and curves about each other in a way that’s fun and interesting. It’s also a great way to show your man how adventurous you are.

    You’ll find that you don’t necessarily have to get wild and nasty when coming up with your own. Some of the best dirty, sexy questions you can ask your man are actually quite tame while at the same time hinting at something naughty or kinky.

    Also remember, these work great for phone sex sessions or as sexy messages for sexting.

    Below are 25 dirty questions to ask a guy for a fun sex game. But don’t just use these questions on him during dirty talk! Try to also come up with your own based on the ones you’re about to read.

    1. When was the last time you had a dream about me?
    2. What is your best kept intimate secret?
    3. Guess what colour of underwear I’m wearing?
    4. What’s your most hard-core fantasy?
    5. Have you ever said someone else’s name during sex, instead of the girl you were with?
    6. What’s the most sensitive part of your body?
    7. Have you ever dated two girls at the same time?
    8. Have you ever been caught masturbating?
    9. Have you ever had sex outside?
    10. Have you ever used a sex toy in bed?
    11. When was the last time you masturbated?
    12. If you could only have one type of sex for the rest of your life, what would you choose: oral, anal or regular?
    13. Hair down there or all bare?
    14. What’s your favourite sex position when I’m on top?
    15. What’s your favourite position when you’re on top?
    16. Do you prefer me wearing makeup or none at all?
    17. When was the last time you went to a strip club?
    18. Do you think you could give me an orgasm by only touching my breasts and kissing me? Would you like to try?
    19. Do my feet turn you on?
    20. Do you still have feelings for an ex?
    21. What do you think when you first met me?
    22. Do you love quickies?
    23. What would be your best reason to break up with me?
    24. Do you regret going out with me?
    25. Ever had sex in a car?