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  • More than 25,000 Nigerians held in slave and sex camps Lybia in 2017-NAPTIP boss

    The Director General of the National Agency for the Prohibition of Trafficking in Persons(NAPTIP), Julie Okah-Donli, has disclosed that more than 25,000 Nigerians have been held in slave and sex camps in Lybia.
    Okah-Donli made this known while defending the agency’s 2018 budget before the Senate Committee on Judiciary, Human Rights and Legal Matters on Tuesday.
    She said of the figure, about 5000 of the victims were repatriated within the period.
    ”A large number of Nigerians have also been returned from other countries in Europe and Africa.
    ”All these people need to be properly received, profiled and assisted.
    ”NAPTIP has been working in conjunction with other governmental and non governmental agencies such as NEMA, International Organisation for Migration (IOM) and others to provide help to these unfortunate Nigerians,”she said.
    She lamented that in spite of the evils of human trafficking not so much attention was focused on the menace.
    She said the recent trend which marked the resurgence of slave trade was more alarming and required the attention it deserved.
    According to her, the task before the agency is enormous while budgetary allocations have been comparatively low.
    ”It is my honour and privilege to raise a cry for help in this hallowed chamber on behalf of the most vulnerable members of the society, especially women and children.
    ”In recent months the odious and perverse consequences of human trafficking and irregular migration were forcefully brought to our television screens with gory tales,”she said.
    She said if human trafficking was to be reduced or eliminated, massive public awareness as well as behavourial change campaigns must be sustained from the grassroots to the national level.
    The NAPTIP boss further said many victims of trafficking needed to undergo skills acquisition training or formal education.
    The NAPTIP bossm however, commended the Federal Government and other stakeholders for their support in the wake of recent slave trade of Africans.
    ”I wish to place on record my deep appreciation to President Muhammad Buhari for consistently putting the issue of human trafficking at the centre of global discourse at various international for a.
    ”In the aftermath of the recent crisis stemming from the inhuman treatment of Nigerians in Libya and elsewhere, both the Presidency and National Assembly came out strongly with statements band actions to to strengthen national response to irregular migration, ”she said.(

  • Wanted : A Ministry of Leisure, Pleasure, Enjoyment and Happiness -Owei Lakemfa

    By Owei Lakemfa

    The combustive human enthusiasm between the establishment of Spain’s Ministry of Sex and the Ministry of Happiness and Couple Fulfillment in Imo State, is only tempered by Saudi Arabia’s Committee for the Promotion of Virtue and Prevention of Vice. The Saudi contraption is a dampener monitoring whether women are properly dressed so as not to attract men; if men go to mosques for the regular prayers and whether bacherlors and spinsters are segregated.

    All these seek to negate the intention of the Spanish Ministry which is partly to ensure that citizens are so attracted that they can copulate freely and produce plenty babies for the future of their country. This is more so when there are migrants especially from Morocco all over the place copulating, procreating and populating. This is why marches like the braless ones, or those that want women to dress any how it pleases them without repercussion, are not uncommon. This is real freedom.

    I had wandered about the Spanish kindergarten, learning social studies and being taught about Ministries. Supposing the kid asks what is sex and why it deserves to be part of government structure? I suppose the kid will be told the truth; that sex is the physical activity between mummy and daddy or aunty and uncle. I suppose that will be catching them young. That surely will be better than the modernist culture of homosexuality and same-sex marriage.

    My favourite Governor, Rochas Okorocha of Imo State has by thinking out of the box and doing the uncommon, already put Nigeria on the world map of unique governance. But he needs to follow the logic of the Spaniards; you cannot have a Ministry of Happiness and Couple Fulfilment or its new nomenclature of ‘Purpose Fulfillment’ without factoring in the implied work of a Ministry of Sex. He needs to understand that generally, for happiness and fulfilment, you need to start with leisure which has given birth to the ‘Thank God It’s Friday’ Movement. Then leisure will be followed by pleasure which culminates in happiness. So properly speaking, it should be the Ministry of Leisure, Pleasure, Enjoyment and Happiness.

    One good move Rochas made was to appoint his beautiful sister as the Honourable Commissioner for Happiness. This is putting a round peg in a round hole; a beautiful lady that can inspire happiness hormones and trigger the process. The Spaniards should emulate Rochas by appointing the appropriate person to head any given Ministry. For instance, the Minister of the Sex Ministry should be a public housewife; an expert who knows about it both as pleasure, and a business.

    I have read a number of reactions to Rochas ingenuity; some so rude as to label him a ‘madman’ This is taking the freedom of expression and democratic license too far. Even if their false claim that Rochas needs see a doctor is correct, I can confidently argue that there is a method to the alleged ‘madness’ which means he is in full control of his faculties. He did not just wake up one morning to create the new Ministry. He had always thought about creating happiness in the face of want, deprivation and unpaid salaries. So in August 2016, he reduced the weekly work days from five to three. It meant that workers in the state would go to work from Monday to Wednesday and start the weekend from Thursday; being off work four days weekly. That was real enjoyment. He extended the enjoyment to children by giving them pocket money. Some grumbled that he was teaching the children bad habits as they could claim any money found with them was part of the Rochas pocket money. Yet when he stopped, Imolites began campaigns that he was not sincere in the first place, saying that he is a leader of the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC) with the true acronym of the party being ‘All Promises Cancelled’

    Then the great Rochas went spiritual deciding to build chapels in the 27 Local Governments in the state, and he was criticized for building houses for God instead of human beings. Can you see how the devil works? When he destroyed the Imo State Library and replaced it with a church, people were also angry. They preferred the acquisition of human knowledge to that of The Almighty.

    In his unique style, Rochas has carried out massive demolition of structures including an ancient market, a culture which angered many who would want him build rather than destroy. But Rochas forgives the people for they know not what they are doing or what he is doing. His Commissioner for Information, Tourism and Public Utilities, Chief Vitalis Orikezie Ajumbe belaboured himself explaining the Rochas Philosophy which is that: “destruction leads to development…if you don’t destroy, you won’t develop” In simple English; you must destroy in order to build.

    When Rochas the Great, as part of a Nigerian delegation took a photograph with President Barack Obama, he turned it into a huge bill board in the state which the people can behold with pride, smile and be happy. He was attacked for such a noble gesture just as he was attacked for meditating at a meeting in Washington between President Mohammadu Buhari and World Bank President, Jim Yong Kim. The claim was that he slept through the meeting.

    Governor Rochas has since moved on to higher callings; where he travelled to visit Presidents, now he invites them and builds statues in their memory. South African President Jacob Zuma came, and saw, as did Liberian President Helen Sirleaf. At least when Imolites look at Zuma’s bust, they will know that their state is backed by the South African Rand and gold. The statues, Roachas explained, are to educate the people. Before the end of his tenure, we look forward to more of these visits and statues; at least sculptors in the country have a patron.

    Despite his best efforts, the Governor has not succeeded in putting Nigeria in the Guinness Book of Records as far as governance goes. But he can do that by creating the highest number of Ministries. The record 52 cabinet Ministers is held by President Mahinda Rajapaksa of Sri Lanka. To create a new record, he can create many more Ministries and there can be no shortage of names; Spain for instance has a Ministry of Equality and another Ministry of Territorial Policy. Governor Rochas holds a promise for Nigeria; when he declared: “by the time I leave office, my successor will be jobless” I believe him, and I think you should also.

  • I tie my husband up and lash him during sex- Stephanie Benson

    I tie my husband up and lash him during sex- Stephanie Benson

    Whenever most entertainers are asked to talk about sex, they often evade the question. Stephanie Benson, a UK based Ghanaian singer does not belong in that league.

    The daring singer has revealed her sexual preference in an interview with Jocelyn Dumas.

     

    Benson said she likes to tie her husband up and lash him a few times during sex.

     

    According to her, it is a nice feeling and is really cool anytime she does that. She added that she is a dominatrix as well.

     

    A dominatrix is a woman who takes the dominant role in BDSM activities. In other words, Stephanie Benson likes being in charge when it comes sex.

     

    Hear her: “Yes I am. I am dominatrix actually – I like to tie my husband up and lash him a few times. It’s really cool”, she revealed.

     

  • [See photo]Married woman, lover die inside car during sex

    Panic gripped residents in Ogba, Ikeja area of Lagos on Sunday following the mysterious death of two lovers inside a car.

    According to a witness, the man and his alleged mistress, said to be a married woman with kids, were engaging in sex when the sad incident occurred.

    The duo were reported to have driven to an area behind the Nigeria Institute of Journalism, NIJ, to engage in sex.

    By the time passers-by saw them, the car engine was still running and the air conditioner was on and working, indicating they did not die of suffocation.

    The witnesses raised alarm and reported to the police area command in the area whose officials arrived promptly.

    When contacted, the Lagos State Police Command Public Relations Officer, Olarinde Famous-Cole, said the corpses had been taken to the mortuary.

    “Yes it is true,” he said of the incident. “And when information got to the area command, our men raced to the scene, and conveyed the corpses to the mortuary.”

    When contacted, Mr. Famous-Cole said the police have commenced further investigation and an autopsy would be carried out on the corpses.

  • The bible does not condemn premarital sex- Daddy Freeze

    Outspoken On Air Personality (OAP), Daddy Freeze, has said that premarital sex is not forbidden in the bible. The light skinned media personality said that there is nothing wrong with having sex everyday in as much as both parties enjoy it

     

    Freeze made these statements in reaction to a statement credited to Amber Rose where she admitted demanding sex everyday from her 21-yrs-old boyfriend.

     

    Daddy Freeze wrote on Instaram: “This post raises 2 fundamental questions:

     

    “1: can you have sex every day?

     

    “Well, the answer is yes, there are people who are highly sexed and enjoy sex everyday, some several times a day.

     

     

    “So if you are one of these people don’t be ashamed or embarrassed to ask your partner for it, it’s what they signed up for.

     

    “2: Is it ok to have premarital sex. Now this is not so straightforward. According to the ancient Jewish system based on the Torah, once a couple is betrothed, they can have sex, but cannot live together until the final marriage contract is sealed.

     

    “Scroll through various screenshots I put up and do your personal research both historically and biblically if you have any doubts.

     

    “Unfortunately there are no ‘hard and fast’ rules regarding betrothal and sex inside the Bible, but we are adviced against sexual immorality.

     

     

    “What exactly is sexual immorality? Abraham, Solomon, David, Jacob and Moses all had concubines. Now a concubine is not a wife, neither does she share the status of a wife and nowhere in the Bible were concubines expressly annulled either by Jesus or by our first pastors; the disciples.”

  • I demand sex from my boyfriend everyday –Amber Rose

    Sexy American model and socialite, Amber Rose got many talking when she opened up about what people hardly know about her sex life.

     

    In a short interview with TMZ, she stated that sex is like vitamins … you need both at least once a day.

     

    According to her: “I demand sex every day from my boyfriend, absolutely. It’s very healthy”.

     

    Recall that the ex-wife of Wiz Khalifa had spilled the details of her sex life in an interview.

     

    When asked about her sexual preferences, she said: “Not like, missionary (position), (but guys) assume that I’m into threesomes and that I’m into kinky things, and I think all those things are really great if that’s what you’re into; it just has never been my thing, just personally… I’m not really that freaky.

     

    “People think that I’ve had threesomes. I’ve never had a threesome. I’m a very selfish lover; I like to be with one person and focus on that person. I’m an extreme lover… I don’t like casual sex. I’ve never had anal (sex). And I don’t play with toys. I wouldn’t say I’m lame, but I’m very traditional. I’m very open to talking about it and that’s not to say I would never do those things, but I just haven’t yet.”

     

    READ ALSO:What masturbation does to Amber Rose

  • 2face gives sex advice at concert

    2face gives sex advice at concert

    2face’s much anticipated concert, Buckwyld n Breathless may have come and gone but fans will not forget in a hurry how he gave X-rated advice to men about unprotected sex.

    Music lovers came out en masse to witness the pop star’s 30 minutes long performance which was one of the high points of the concert.

    He started by asking if ‘these small children don sleep’, apparently referring to his two daughters Isabella and Olivia who came to the show with their mother Annie.

     

    ‘If you want to fuck make you use condom….’ 2Baba crooned.

    READ ALSO:How Annie Idibia surprised 2face on birthday

    Watch the video below

     

    https://youtu.be/f5ujeFNLD9E

  • 6 Amazing reasons married sex is best

    Think married sex is boring, think again! Just like your relationship, your sex life will take work too. Commit to giving it your all though, and you’ll find you’re ultimately satisfied in more ways than one, we promise you.

    Below are 6 of the greatest perks of married sex.

    There’s a new level of intimacy.

    After all, you did just make one of the biggest commitments of your life, vowing to be with your now husband or wide (ah!!) until death do you part. It’s true marriage brings you closer both in and out of the bedroom, that is, if you’re willing to continue putting the effort in. In other words, you gotta set aside time to “do it.”

    Read more here…

  • I don’t want lack of sex to be a problem in my marriage- Oritsefemi

    Afropop singer, Oritsefemi has said lack of sex destroys marriages and he doesn’t want it to destroy his marriage.Many were shocked when the wedding pictures of the singer went viral.No one saw it coming.

    The Ajegunle born singer known for his high pitched voice has however opened up on the importance of sex in a marriage.

     

    Hear him: “Marriage is something that you have to be very diplomatic about. You have to be very careful and know what you are doing because it has its ups and downs. No marriage is perfect. Some people think that marriage is all about money but it is not. It takes God and the couple to understand each other. Some people talk about cheating in marriage and that is why I sang in my song, ‘Igbeyawo,’ that women should not starve their husband of sex. If you do that, it would bring problems in your home. I don’t want lack of sex to be a problem in my marriage.

     

    “Any time my wife wants to have sex, I would always give it to her, at any time.Sex should not be the problem. Money could cause problems but don’t let sex be the problem. Get close to your wife and try to understand when she needs it. As a wife, you also need to know when your husband needs to have sex. It pains me when I hear that lack of sex is the cause of some people’s marital crisis. I would rather hear a woman say that she wants her husband to work harder.”

     

    READ ALSO: Oritsefemi dumps baby mamas as he ties the knot

     

  • Incredible ways to get your partner to dominate during sex – Sarah Babs Uncensored

    Welcome to another edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, a column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship.

    Today’s hot topic is on ways to get your partner to dominate you during sex. The idea of being dominated for some women is a huge turn-on. Having your partner pin you down and ravish you is hot (little forbidden fruit, anybody?).

    The issue arises when a woman wants to give her partner permission to dominate her in the bedroom without compromising who she is as a person—sometimes it can be hard to remember who we are in bed is not always who we are in life. You may have a high-paying job, be a badass boss but this doesn’t mean you are excluded from sexual domination.

    However, your partner may be the sweetest, most nurturing person you know—but that doesn’t mean he or she doesn’t have a little secret Dominant under the surface. Just remember to be empathetic to possible nerves. It’s a scary thing to explore the taboo.

    Below are ways to get your partner to dominate you during sex…

    Have a light conversation outside of the bedroom

    If you want your partner to get into some domination, don’t expect him or her to be into choking you out sporadically during sex. These types of fantasies need to be talked about beforehand, outside of the bedroom.

    Obviously, this can get a little awkward, but if you’re in a trusting and healthy relationship, there’s no reason why you can’t have these types of discussion. Allow your partner to voice his or her concerns, especially if this is an out-of-character way for them to behave, as they may be a bit apprehensive.

    Tell your partner about a fantasy you’ve had. Do you simply like the idea of your partner throwing you onto the bed and spanking you?

    Talk about what you’d like to try. Ask your partner for some input about his or her own fantasies. You don’t have go to a dungeon or do anything crazy—always do what makes you comfortable. It’s an avenue of sexual adventure you can explore together!

    Explore some porn together

    If your partner is down to explore, but you don’t really know where to begin, watch some porn together to get some ideas. Obviously, porn is not a representation of real life sex, but it can certainly act as a turn on. You can also explore a full range of erotica and pornographic books together. Because anything you use to get the steam rising is a good start.

    Talk about your fantasies, get some inspiration, and enjoy yourselves. Sometimes all it takes is permission from someone, whether it be you or the porn you’re watching, to unlock someone’s inner Dominant.

    Start slowly and use simple gear

    Remember, even if your partner is super into this idea, he or she may not be great right off the bat. Likewise, you may not know how you feel about this type of play once you take it from inside your head out into real life.

    Go slowly. Start with your partner pinning your hands above your head. Perhaps you can utilize a tie to create handcuffs or a sleep mask to act as a blindfold. As you feel more comfortable, you’ll feel more at ease with pushing the boundaries.

    Always remember to check in and see how both you and your partner are feeling before, during, and after sex.

    Boost your partner’s ego

    One thing that will really get your partner going and into this new, dominant role is by boosting his or her ego. Make it a point to tell him or her how hot it is when he or she chokes you, spanks you, or pins you down.

    This too can feel a bit awkward, but if you want to live out this sexy fantasy, you’ve got to be willing to get your partner into the right headspace.

    Ask your partner to say the things you need to hear as well. If you want him or her to call you a dirty slut, ask for it! There is nothing wrong with sexual degradation between two consenting adults (as long as it’s something you want).

    Your sexual adventure should be fun and exciting, this is because exploration is what keeps things sexy and i am certain you don’t like boring.