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  • Your statement is bad and sad – Solomon Buchi tackles Pastor Jimmy Odukoya over appearance remark

    Your statement is bad and sad – Solomon Buchi tackles Pastor Jimmy Odukoya over appearance remark

    Relationship coach Solomon Buchi has expressed strong disagreement with Jimmy Odukoya, senior pastor of Fountain of Life Church, over his recent statement that outward appearance doesn’t matter.

    Odukoya had urged his congregation to refrain from judging others based on their physical appearance, citing Instagram influencer Richie the Barber as an example.

    Richie, despite having multiple tattoos, preaches about Jesus, Odukoya noted.

    However, Solomon Buchi via his verified X handle,  denounced Odukoya’s statement as “bad and sad,” sparking a heated debate on social media.

    Netizens have also shared their own opinion as regarding the preaching.

    Here are some of the reactions:

    @isleofskincare “If Richie the Barber had those transformations before he met Christ, I’d understand. Now as much as he preaches Jesus, the evidence of Christ Jesus in us, in our heart is lives changed and it will show in our conducts and behaviors even in our outward appearance. 

    @Paul_bem reacted: “I was in a public bus many years ago as an undergrad. A lady with a cropped top stood up to “share the word,” and an elderly man in the bus shut her down. That which Jesus does she want to preach? A Jesus who would not teach her how to dress decently is not worth listening to.”

    @mberambo17 wrote: “The transformation must show outside for only then will people know you have been with JESUS. You can come to Jesus as you are but you cannot stay in Him or with Him as you are, you must be transformed and it will show outside.”

    @GImokhuede commented: “It’s disgusting to watch, when you see a person who did not pass through the process of discipleship it’s easy to know.”

    @Iamrich1256 stated: “We can wear pant and bra and preach Jesus on the street, no problem. At the end, God will separate goats and sheep. This is bad, and sad.”

    @DaveOnchar84302 noted: “Matthew 7:21. Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.” 

  • Why Christian couple shouldn’t be watching p0rn to learn s*x – Solomon Buchi

    Why Christian couple shouldn’t be watching p0rn to learn s*x – Solomon Buchi

    Controversial self-acclaimed life coach, Solomon Buchi, has argued that Christian couples shouldn’t be watching p0rn to learn about s*x.

    In a post shared on his X handle, Buchi opined that Porn is ‘’demonic” and that any couple that watches porn would be destroying their marriage.

    According to him, watching porn is infidelity.

    He said, “A Christian couple shouldn’t be watching porn to learn sex.You can’t learn sex in its sanctity from depraved expressions. You can’t learn to please God from the devil.

    ” Porn is demonic; it is the perversion of sex.You’re destroying your marriage,and that’s infidelity.”

     

  • Buchi to single ladies: Not every broke guy is good

    Buchi to single ladies: Not every broke guy is good

    Popular relationship expert, Solomon Buchi has sent a message to young ladies who are choosing life partners.

    Solomon Buchi said on the widespread notion that a person’s character and suitability as a spouse are only determined by their financial situation on his now-X Twitter profile.

    He noted that having a bright future or being a decent person are not always correlated with being broke.

    The relationship expert argued that poverty should not be associated with virtue.

    According to Buchi, women should exercise caution when selecting a life partner, whether considering a broke guy or a rich one.

    In his words: “Not every broke guy is good.
    “Not every broke guy has a great future.
    “Not every broke guy has a vision.
    “Not every broke guy will make a wonderful husband.
    “Be careful when choosing a broke guy like you would when trying to choose a rich guy. Poverty is not another name for virtue.”

     

  • Mohbad: Many popular Nigerian artistes are cultists’ – Solomon Buchi

    Mohbad: Many popular Nigerian artistes are cultists’ – Solomon Buchi

    Popular writer and social media influencer Solomon Buchi has posited  that most influential Nigerian musicians are cultists.

    Buchi made his position known following the raging controversies surrounding the death of Nigerian singer Mohbad, who was formerly signed to Marlian Records.

    Recall that Mohbad died on Tuesday, September 12, 2023, in a controversial circumstances.

    Naira Marly, the owner of Marlian Records, and his associate, Sam Larry, have come under heavy criticisms on social media after a series of documents and videos of the duo subjecting the late singer to relentless bullying for leaving Marlian Records surfaced on the internet.

    However, in his reaction,  Buchi said : “I’ve been under the pages of books researching about Mohbad, his music boss, Naira Marley, and other parties that were involved in his life until his unfortunate demise. This has reinforced my belief that the Nigerian music industry is a cesspool of cultism, gangsterism, diabolical politics, and abysmal moral values.

    “I listened to very few of his songs and noticed the pain in his voice, the sonorous and sober tone, and his poignant lyrics that often expressed the difficulty of life. His music mirrored his deepest struggles and his hope to overcome them. It got me thinking about the rot, evil, and darkness that exist in the realm of entertainment.

    “Almost nothing to be exemplary of Naira Marley, Mohbad’s boss, who rose to fame by subliminally endorsing fraud and other negative vices. Now, he’s roped into this situation with strong and believable allegations of Mohbad’s death on him. And most of our youngsters listened to him and praised him until just before Mohbad’s death.

    “Generally, the Nigerian music industry is a game of dirty power, gang rivalry, and shady deals. Most popular Nigerian musicians are cultists. Through their music, dressing, videos, lingo, and fraternal phrases, they are easy to identify. And what do they do? Of course, they don’t kill mosquitoes or keep peace—it’s a cycle of chaos. RIP Mohbad.”

  • Buchi counters Daddy Freeze, says sex before marriage is sin

    Buchi counters Daddy Freeze, says sex before marriage is sin

    Solomon Buchi, a life coach expert has countered Daddy Freeze’s position on sex before marriage, noting that sex before marriage was tacitly and explicitly referred to as a sin in the Bible.

    Recall that, Daddy Freeze in a piece shared on his Instagram page, argued that the scripture never considered it sexual immorality for a couple who are betrothed to have sex before marriage. He used several verses in the bible to back up his claim.

    He made the claim in reaction to model Fancy Acholonu’s disclosure that her ex-fiance, actor Alex Ekubo, was never intimate with her for five years. According to Fancy, Alex hinged his decision not to have sex with her on the grounds of religious beliefs.

    In countering Daddy Freeze’s claim, Solomon Buchi argued on his Twitter page that Sex before marriage is a sin.

    His Tweets reads; “Dear Daddyfreeze, you made a post stating that sex before marriage isn’t a sin. My rejoinder: – Sex before marriage was tacitly and explicitly refered as a sin in the Bible. The first marriage in the scriptures was between Adam and Eve. Let’s critically look this.”

    “And Paul states in the preceding chapter that a man who sleeps with a whore is united and becomes one with her because “the two shall become one flesh.” Isn’t it clear? Sex before marriage is a sin. Simple. If sex must happen, it should consummate marriage.”

    “You also said in your piece that there’s nothing wrong in sampling who you wanna marry as a Christian. No. Sex was created for marriage, and sin is abuse of order. Once sex happens out of marriage, many repercussions abound. Shalom.”

  • Relationship tips: How to stay faithful to your partner

    Relationship tips: How to stay faithful to your partner

    Popular life coach and relationship adviser, Solomon Buchi has shared some relationship tips on how to stay faithful to your partner.

    Buchi stressed cheating in many cases is the end point of a lot of loose boundaries, and therefore, advised people in relationships to learn to keep boundaries.

    Although Buchi’s advice mainly targeted the male folks, the tips are applicable for the female folks as well, married and single alike.

    7 tips to stay faithful to your partner

    1. Be a faithful boyfriend first

    Many single men live outrageously randy lives with multiple girlfriends, side chics, etc and expect to be one content & faithful husband in marriage. Nah

    Discipline breeds discipline. You will not become a man you’ve not practiced. Faithfulness is a habit; start with your dating relationships, because if you can’t be a faithful boyfriend, you most likely won’t be a faithful husband. Simple.

    2. Stay away from pre-marital sexual experiences as much as you can

    Nothing justifies cheating, however, some men cheat because they expect their wives to be a combination of the Chioma, Fatima, Sandra, Ronke, who they’ve had different sexual escapades with.

    You see, we cannot be wiser than God. Even from a psychological standpoint, abstinence makes sense. Too many premarital sexual encounters end up in unhealthy comparisons in marriage. You love your wife, but she doesn’t moan like Yemi. She doesn’t do this like an ex.

    3. Avoid friends who are not faithful in their relationships

    If you’re a man with noble values and you roll with corrupt men, one day you’ll want to get a taste of what they do. Keep close friends who are faithful, pride in it and encourage it. It’s easy to be what you see.

    4. Learn to build boundaries

    Listen, everyone can cheat! If you’re in a highly vulnerable and compromising corner, you will cheat. That’s why some call it a mistake, because it wasn’t intended, but was a result of recklessness and lack of boundaries.

    Don’t trust yourself too much! Build boundaries with people. They can’t call you at some times, they can’t talk to you about some things. You know why Joseph ran away when Potiphar’s wife came for him? He didn’t trust himself! He ran! Set boundaries like you don’t trust you self

    Cheating in many cases is the end point of a lot of loose boundaries. So avoid conversations, people, and things that will even put you there. Tighten the screws of your boundaries and be unapologetic about it.

    5. Be open to your woman about everything

    EVERYTHING! It’s easy to be faithful when you’re not hiding anything. When secrecy creeps into a relationship, unfaithfulness is bound to happen, because sin thrives in secrecy. Let your woman/wife know everything.

    It doesn’t have to be big secrets please. Things as little as how your female work colleague complimented you in an unusual way or how some random girl sent you an innocently mushy message on IG. These little things help a great deal.

    6. Communicate your needs with your partner

    Unmet needs should lead to more communication not jumping out to get them met. The sex isn’t so pleasing? Speak to your wife. They don’t say the things you love to hear? Speak to your wife. Learn together!

    7. Be ready to adjust and adapt

    If you’re not ready to adjust in some ways, stay single. Relationships require adjustments and adapting, of course in a healthy way. “This is how I am” doesn’t cut it. You’re dating someone else and you need to satisfy their needs, or just date yourself.

    In addition, always remember what you stand to lose when you cheat. A relationship/marriage that you’ve built for years is not worth ruining it with some minutes of pleasure – pleasure your woman can actually give you (for married folks).

    If it’s possible, have older faithful couples that you are accountable to. Couples who you’ve seen walk and work in faithfulness. Surround yourself with as many as possible.

    And finally, yield yourself to the Holy Spirit. He kills fleshy desires in us.

  • Popular life coach, Buchi narrates ugly experience in hands of police

    Popular life coach, Buchi narrates ugly experience in hands of police

    …they took our ATMs, withdrew our money – Buchi

    …I can’t even talk, I’m traumatized – Buchi

    Life coach, feminist and TEDx speaker, Solomon Buchi has narrated an ugly experience he was made to suffer in the hands of men of the Nigeria Police Force (NPF).

    TheNewsGuru.com (TNG) reports Buchi as saying the ugly incident occurred on Tuesday in the Federal Capital Territory (FCT), Abuja.

    According to the life coach, his Automated Teller Machine (ATM) card and that of his kid brother were taken from them and funds withdrawn from their bank accounts by the yet to be identified police officers.

    Sharing the ugly experience via Twitter, Buchi tweeted: “I and my kid brother were kidnapped by the Police in Abuja around Wuse 2 couple hours ago, after eating at Kilimanjaro at Ruby Center. They swiftly doubled crossed our bolt ride, brought out guns and asked us to follow them into their car which wasn’t a police vehicle.

    “On getting in, they asked where we’re from, I stated that were Igbos from Imo state, they immediately said that we’re members of IPOB, they squeezed us into their car, they were 5 police men! They started harassing us, at this point, I had a severe panic attack.

    “I asked them to please give me water to take my meds(thankfully I was with it) they asked what I do for a living, I told them I’m a writer, and they stated that I’m a yahoo boy. They said we should get ready to get to the station, I told them that I wanted to call my lawyer.

    “They were furious. They asked if I’m based in Abuja, I told them I came for the holiday, and they asked where I stay and how much I am paying, I told them I stay at a shortlet apartment and well, they ransacked my phone and saw the convo with my manager and saw how much I paid.

    “They asked how I could afford such amount of money. All these while, they’ve taken us to outskirts of Abuja. By the way, they handcuffed us and pushed us into the boot. I nearly choked because I am claustrophobic and I had to take double dose of my meds.

    “They wanted to tase us. They ransacked my brothers phone and called him a yahoo boy because of his crypto ish. They drove so far from Abuja, I mean, two hours! I was so scared because these guys had guns and threatened to kill us.

    “They began asking how many accounts we have and how much in there. They forced us to open our bank apps, and told me to bring 1.5m. I was already having severe panic attacks and needed to take my other meds at home. I told them I didn’t have that amount of money.

    “Long story short, they took our ATMs and withdrew 500,000 Naira out of 617000 that I had in my account. They withdrew my kid brothers 50K. I begged them that it was my upkeep money for my stay but they went physical on me, slapped me and asked me to use the 117K for myself.

    “By the way, they stopped at a junction, and one took off his police uniform and went to withdraw the money using a POS! They also wanted to transfer our crypto. Man, I can’t even talk. I’m traumatized. After everything, they drove us back to town (Utako where I stay…)

    “They looked for a dark place, unlocked the handcuffs and gave us our phones and cards. They took my new AirPods and valuables. Phew. This wasn’t the plan at all. I felt so invaded and highly abused.

    “500K out of 617K in my account. Just like that? I was squeezed in the boot; I nearly passed out. They threatened to kill. They said they work for the IG of police. When the dropped us off, all I saw BWR 127Q0 as plate number. Not sure of the last two letters though.

    “They were actual policemen, they had their walkie-talkie and I could hear security comms, but I think it was planned because they paid my Bolt driver off and told him to go and kidnapped my kid bro and I. I have never experienced anything close to this. I’m literally shaking.

    “I have no words, I need time to understand this. My hard earned money. I was abused on all fronts”.

    TNG reports the NPF was yet to address the matter at the time of filing this report. Efforts to reach the Force Public Relations Officer, Frank Mba on the matter proved abortive.