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  • What I will do if I caught my partner cheating – Tolanibaj

    What I will do if I caught my partner cheating – Tolanibaj

    Ex- Big Brother Naija housemate, Tolanibaj has sparked a debate on social media as she revealed what she will do if she caught her partner cheating.

    The controversial reality TV star in a recent “Bahd and Boujee“ podcast episode, which she co-hosts with actress Moet Abebe, stated that she would cheat back if her partner cheats on her, irrespective of her love for him.

    She revealed that she would not really have to check his phone, but would have to let him know her stance on infidelity.

    However, Tolanibaj admitted while many may see her mindset as toxic, she doesn’t really care as that’s what works for her

    Her words:

    “If you cheat on me, no matter how much i love you I will cheat on you back. I promise you. Maybe I will not go through your phone, but at the beginning I will let you know”.

     

  • Tolanibaj accuses Nigerian elites of exploiting influencers

    Tolanibaj accuses Nigerian elites of exploiting influencers

    Former housemates of the Big Brother Naija reality TV show, ‘Lockdown’ edition, Tolanibaj, has accused people in power of taking advantage of male and female influencers for s3xual favors.

    The reality TV star made the allegation on the latest edition of the Bahd and Boujee podcast.
    However, Tolanibaj said she would not judge or blame anybody doing certain things for money because the Nigerian economy is stifling many citizens at the moment.

    She said: “There are some people in power; they’re some powerful people in power that are taking advantage of influencers for sexual favours. Lets just put it like that, both men and women.

    Even there are some young guys too who are influencing those who are doing certain things that they are not proud of for money. Let’s just leave it like that.

    ‘‘I don’t know anything in particular, right? that’s why I don’t want to mention names because I dey fear handcuff? I dey fear Tbaj enemy arrested by…… I don’t want to do that,but just know that the economy is hard and I will not judge or blame anybody doing certain things for money in this economy.

    ‘‘But I will advise, put your pride first and just respect yourself more.”

  • Why I didn’t do BBL – Tolanibaj reveals

    Why I didn’t do BBL – Tolanibaj reveals

    Ex-BBNaija housemate, Tolani Shobajo, popularly known as Tolanibaj, has revealed the reason she didn’t undergoes a Brazilian Butt Lift (BBL) surgery.

    According to her, she changed her mind for the fear of dying in the process.

    She disclosed this in a recent episode of the Bahd And Boujee Podcast co-hosted by her and actress, Moet Abebe.

    In her words: “There was a time I wanted to do BBL but I was scared of dying. I said, ‘If my enemy should die right now is it going to be because I went under the knife? Does that make sense?’ I really tried to convince myself. I was like, ‘Okay, I would do bumbum but is it truly because of me or because I want to track more men?”

    Her co-host, Abebe inferred: “To be honest, I’m tired of seeing SpongeBobs, a lot of girls that look like ants with big bumbums and skinny legs.”

    Tolanibaj added: “Is it by force to do BBL? If you are going to do BBL, go to a good doctor and spend that money. Don’t be cheap about it.”

     

  • I had my first sexual experience at 24 – Tolanibaj

    I had my first sexual experience at 24 – Tolanibaj

    The controversial reality TV star, Tolanibaj has disclosed that she lost her virginity at the age of 24.

    The BBNaija star made this revelation in the recent episode of the Bahd and Boujee podcast which she co hosts with media personality, Moet Abebe.

    She revealed that she didn’t explored in her early 20s and she got quite curious at the age of 24.

    Tolanibaj said that she finally had her first sexual experience at 24 because people had been talking much about it and she wanted to find out herself.

    In her words: “I didn’t explore enough in my early 20s. In fact, I lost my virginity very late. I was like 24. And I lost it out of curiosity. I could have been 30 and still be a virgin.

    “I just wasn’t eager to see what people were talking about until I turned 24. I had sex and I was like, ‘So this is even it”

     

  • Despite dating 7 men, none of them married me – Tolanibaj

    Despite dating 7 men, none of them married me – Tolanibaj

    Ex-Big Brother Naija Housemate,  Tolanibaj has said she had dated seven and thought every one of them was her future husband, but they always left her. 

    Speaking in the latest episode of the Bahd And Boujee Podcast, co-hosted by her and On-Air Personality, Moet Abebe, She said all the men she had dated in the past ended up not marrying her.

    In her words, “I feel like in the dating pool, we are left with remnants. The good ones are married. We hopped on the train too late. I have dated like seven guys, and I thought they were the ones…”

    The guest on the podcast, actor Daniel Etim-Effiong, inferred: “Tbaj, the problem cannot be all these seven guys. Maybe the problem is you.”

     

  • Daniel Effiong reveals why male actors beg online

    Daniel Effiong reveals why male actors beg online

    Nollywood star, Daniel Etim Effiong has revealed why male actors beg online than actresses.

    According to Effiong, society is designed in a way that favours women more, especially in the area of standing up to responsibilities.

    He said men are quick to rise to women’s needs compared to when the men have problems and need help.

    Daniel said rather than ask women for help they would solve the problem on their own till they finally cannot but turn to social media to seek financial support.

    Effiong added that a woman’s money is largely for herself but a man’s money is for his entire family.

    The actor was recently featured on the Bahd And Boujee Podcast co-hosted by actress Moet Abebe and reality star Tolanibaj.

    Effiong said: “Traditionally, in the society that we all exist in, women have been largely men’s responsibility. So whenever there is a problem with the woman, men are quick to rise up to the occasion and meet that need or solve that problem.

    “Whatever culture you come from in Nigeria, it would be a taboo to the men when the women in that culture have a problem and the men are not solving it. So, if you flip that, the converse of that is when the men have issues, the men need to solve the issues. Women are not going to rise up to solve the issues for men largely. Men have to sort themselves out. And when a man reaches a point where he cannot solve his problems, he is not going to go to a woman, he is going to go to the world and be like, ‘Guys, I’ve reached my limit. I cannot help myself, come help me.’”

     

  • How my parents’ divorce affected my life – TolaniBaj

    How my parents’ divorce affected my life – TolaniBaj

    Big Brother Naija reality TV show star, Tolani Shobajo, aka TolaniBaj, has disclosed how her parents’ divorce affected her life.

    TolaniBaj, who is a disc jockey (DJ), disclosed her parents’ divorce changed every aspect of her life.

    She claimed that if her parents were still together, she would not have become a superstar.

    TolaniBaj made the disclosure on the latest episode of the Bahd and Boujee Podcast, hosted by her and actress Moet Abebe.

    TolaniBaj believes that if her father and mother were still together, she would have pursued her studies to the highest degree and secured a post in the civil service.

    Her father, she claims, was not a lover of show business and would not have allowed her to participate in a reality TV show.

    “If my parents were together, I don’t think I would be a celebrity. Because my dad was so anti-entertainment.

    “I would just do master’s, Ph.D. My dad would even look for a job in the government for me. There’s nothing he would not do for me,” TolaniBaj said.

  • I can’t date a man without international passport – Tolanibaj

    I can’t date a man without international passport – Tolanibaj

    Tolanibanj, a former Big Brother Naija housemate, has said she can’t date a man that has no international passport.
    The self-styled DJ emphasized that she requires a partner with an international passport and the ability to easily obtain a travel visa.
    Tolanibaj also changed her mind about guys who dance, stating she doesn’t want a man who dances on social media, and she finds it more annoying when a guy does dance challenges on the video-sharing app TikTok.

    During her recently released podcast, Bahd and Boujee, with co-host and Video Jockey, Moet Abebe, the Disc Jockey expressed her preference.

    When Moet asked if she could make an exception for a TikTok influencer, she declared she would never be with a social media influencer.

  • I can’t date someone that resides on the mainland – Moet Abebe

    I can’t date someone that resides on the mainland – Moet Abebe

    A popular Nigerian video jockey, Laura Monyeazo Abebe, fondly called Moet Abebe, said that she cannot date a man who resides on Lagos mainland.

    The media personality on the first episode of the Bahd and Boujee podcast, which she co-hosted with reality TV star Tolanibaj noted that she doesn’t mind if her partner lives on the mainland as long as she phones him by 11 p.m. and he is on his way to her house.

    Moet stated that she would not want to be in a relationship with someone who would make excuses about being late or passing through police checkpoints if she wanted to see him at night.

    She said “I’ve always said this thing, I can’t necessarily date someone that lives on the mainland. I feel like if I call him at night he’ll probably give me some story like ‘It’s too late, there’s police on the street. I can’t come.”

     

  • BBNaija All Stars: Neo reveals best kept secret with Tolanibaj

    BBNaija All Stars: Neo reveals best kept secret with Tolanibaj

    Big Brother Naija All Stars housemate, Neo Akpofure, aka Neo Energy, has made some clarifications on his relationship status with lover Tolanibaj.

    According to him, both lovebirds have an understanding between them.

    He stated this during his diary session on Sunday.

    Neo said: “People think that Tolani and I are in a relationship but we are not. We have an understanding.”

    On many occassions Tolanibaj, admitted that he’s attracted to Neo.

    Speaking shortly after her eviction on Sunday, Tolanibaj said she became attracted to Neo after seeing “things others don’t see in him.”