Tag: WISDOM

  • [Devotional] IN HIS PRESENCE: Wisdom for living a more fulfilling life (2)

    [Devotional] IN HIS PRESENCE: Wisdom for living a more fulfilling life (2)

    By Oke Chinye

    Read: Proverbs 1:1-7

    Meditation verse:

    “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom  and instruction (Proverbs 1:7).

    • It is okay to fail sometimes. When this happens, learn your lessons and move on (Proverbs 24:16). 
    • Learn to appreciate others more, even for little gestures (Philippians 4:18-19). 
    • Listen to your heart when making decisions, but use your head also (Proverbs 16:19) 
    • Listen twice as much as you speak. If you can’t improve on the silence,  don’t speak (James 1:19). 
    • Live is a lively process of becoming. Have a plan for your life, but be open  to new experiences (Eccl 11:1-6) 
    • Make integrity and consistency your watchword. Let your word be your  bond (Mathew 5:37). 
    • Never give in to pressures, simply because the majority is asking (Proverbs  1:10). 
    • Never take any relationship for granted. You do not know who God has  positioned in your life to help you succeed. (Proverbs 17:17, Luke 6:31). 
    • Project yourself, as you would like to be perceived and addressed (Esther  2, Daniel 6:3) 
    • Reach out to others and be friendly, no one is an island (Ecclesiastes 4:9- 12).
    • Strive to maintain a balance in your life. Take responsibility for every  aspect of your life (Ecclesiastes 3:1-9). 
    • Success has many friends, but failure is a loner. Work hard to succeed.  (Proverbs 14:20, 19:4). 
    • There is joy in being content with what you have (1Timothy 6:6). 
    • You can’t always have what you want. Be willing to let go every now and then (Philippians 4:12). 
    • Why worry when you can pray (Philippians 4:6).

     

    IN HIS PRESENCE is written by Pst (Mrs) Oke Chinye, Founder of The Rock Teaching Ministry (TRTM).

    For Prayers and Counseling email rockteachingministry@gmail.com

    or call +2348155525555

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  • [Devotional] IN HIS PRESENCE: Wisdom for living a more fulfilling life (1)

    [Devotional] IN HIS PRESENCE: Wisdom for living a more fulfilling life (1)

    By Oke Chinye

    Read: Proverbs 1:1-7

    Meditation verse:

    “A wise man will hear and increase learning, and a man of understanding will  attain wise counsel” (Proverbs 2:5).

    • Be true to yourself always. Believe in who you are and act confidently  (Joshua 1:9, Philippians 4:13). 
    • Be competitive but avoid comparing yourself with others or judging  yourself by their standards (2 Corinthians 10:12). 
    • Being overly sensitive or touchy puts you in a vulnerable position  (Ecclesiastes 7:21-22). Do not take everything personal. 
    • Change what you don’t like about yourself, but accept what you can’t  change (Psalm 139:14, Romans 9:20) 
    • Commit your plans to God, do your best and you will succeed (Proverbs  16:3). 
    • Do not despise the day of small beginnings. Start from where you are and  make use of what you have, no matter how insignificant it may seem  (Zechariah 4:10). 
    • Do not take yourself too seriously all the time. Ease up and learn to laugh  at yourself sometimes. (Proverbs 17:22). 
    • Do not bottle-up issues. Politely let others know if you find their actions  offensive (Mathew 18:15). 
    • Don’t sweat the small the small stuff. Be willing to let go of little things  and forgive easily (Colossians 3:13, James 1:19). 
    • Do what you are passionate about or love what you do, and you won’t  have to work too hard (Proverbs 22:29, Ecclesiastes 3:13).
    • Each day is a gift from God. Be grateful to Him, engage the day fully and  expect the best (Psalm 118:24). 
    • Endeavour to give to others, especially the less privileged (Proverbs  28:27). 
    • Have a mentor and be a mentor (Proverbs 11:14, 15:22, 24:6). 
    • Have a short/medium/long term financial plan. Save for a rainy day (Proverbs 6:6-8, 13:16) 
    • Humility will attract God’s favor, so be humble. (Proverbs 3:34, 22:4).

     

    IN HIS PRESENCE is written by Pst (Mrs) Oke Chinye, Founder of The Rock Teaching Ministry (TRTM).

    For Prayers and Counseling email rockteachingministry@gmail.com

    or call +2348155525555

    For more enquiries, visit: www.rockteachingministry.org.

  • Bola Tinubu and the Chaos of Wisdom – By Lexzy Ochibejivwie

    Bola Tinubu and the Chaos of Wisdom – By Lexzy Ochibejivwie

    Bola Tinubu is old. It is no news anymore that his age is one of his biggest challenges to achieving his dreams as Nigeria’s next president. His supporters will say otherwise, and would argue that this is a non-factor, and that, if for anything, it is an advantage to him, since old age naturally translates to experience, and counts for something in being a good leader.

    Such is the appeal of views, intelligently cancelling out themselves and, in so doing, establishing an enduring ideology. To people who don’t drool over Tinubu, his age is a huge turn off. Many young Nigerians have asked him to tend to his health and attend to his grandchildren who need him more now than Nigerians.

    There are equally many senior citizens who believe that Tinubu should not be president because he is too old. They may be right or wrong in their own ways — after all we live in a world of different strokes for different folks, and where variety makes the world go merry, ain’t that what they say?

    The world over, old age has come to be associated with wisdom — the natural capacity to sit down and see what young people wouldn’t, should they even climb atop Mountain Everest or even Burj Khalifa.

    But old age itself deprives, it weakens and incapacitates. It could strip one off things one could easily have done, and may compel artlessness. Old age can strip one off the touch of time, and may even cast the well lettered as technologically amateurish. Old age embodies wisdom in the same way that it dispels capacity.

    Tinubu himself is not oblivious of this literal truth. This Iragbiji-born old man is at once a searing example of one who has completely lost touch with posterity and suffers from a chaos of wisdom.

    Burgeoning Nigerian blogger, Kofoworola Omoshalewa, posted a very informing video on her blog recently. The video originated in 2012, when Goodluck Jonathan called the shot as Nigeria’s president.

    The video prominently featured a younger and far agile Bola Tinubu on the lectern at a certain event. As he spoke, he made jest of the disingenuousness of a youngman like Jonathan in appointing an eighty-three year old (he meant to say 79) Edo-born politician, Tony Anenih, as Chairman, Board of Trustees of the Nigerian Ports Authority (NPA).

    In the mode of a jester, Tinubu questioned the capacity of oldman Anenih to oversee the board of an agency that is highly tech-based, especially in this 21st-century, when modern technology is needed to drive innovation and whereas Anenih cannot even identify the keyboard of a desktop computer. Tinubu said this with no iota of thought whatsoever about the future.

    A point is clear from the video, and from what he said: the old is not fit to lead. It was right to him at the time he made this point. Tinubu has since shown in Lagos that he does not believe in the capacity of old people to govern. Babatunde Fashola, Akinwumi Ambode and Babajide Sanwo-Olu, all sired by Tinubu, are young people. Ebullient, tech-savvy too.

    So, why does Tinubu believe that what he barely believes or what he does not wish for Lagos, should be accommodated by Nigerians? This is hardly statemanship. Among many others, the video’s merit is in two ways.

    Firstly, it confirms what many Nigerians have been saying in the build up to next year’s election, which is that old people should not rule Nigeria of the now. Secondly, Tinubu suffers from a chaos of wisdom.

    Earlier in the year, there was also a video which surfaced in which Bola Tinubu declared himself a youth. Tinubu made this declaration, not just because he wanted to endear himself to Nigerian youths, not just because he wants to win election, but because he knows full well that he is too old to lead Nigeria. He declared himself a youth because he wanted to make a bold statement that though he appears frail and shaky, he still has the capacity to do what the young do.

    Here is a man who loathes old age and seems to feel ashamed about it, which is probably why till this day, his real age is a doubt and seems prepared to continue to lodge this in his heart as top secret. Here is a man, acting averse to his wit, while unfortunately positioning himself somewhat as an apostate of his peers — talking down on the old and loathing the very status that divine fortune has thrust upon him.

    He once stoked derision and even attempted to incense young Nigerians during the Jonathan-era, when he queried the capacity of a man as old as Anenih to sit as Chair of board in one of Nigeria’s most prestigious agencies.

    Today, it appears that time has vanquished desire in the way that oldman Tinubu aspires to president a big and multiculturally complex nation like Nigeria. Oldman Anenih could not be fit as a board Chairman of an agency, but oldman Tinubu is fit to govern a larger and more demanding space as Nigeria. Posterity is indeed a reality.

    Now that he has decided to dance naked on Nigeria’s political stage, it is only normal that the eyes he used in looking at others’ nakedness while they danced should be used in looking at his’.

    And so, I was embarrassed when some rebuked people who mocked the very age and health status of Tinubu. Not that it makes it right, even in the US, the health status of Presidential candidates have come under fiery scorn, just to score some political points. It happened to once US Democratic Presidential hopeful Hilary Clinton in 2016, and eventual winner, President Joseph Biden in 2020. It is all part of the campaign trail to blaze.

    Only last April during the French Presdential election, incumbent President Emmanuel Macron was mocked by his political opponents and even some French, for having a wife much older than him. It is that bizzare, but this is all part of the campaign thrills and frills of any election anywhere in the world. If you’re vying for the highest position in the land, you ought to have thick skin.

    You should be ready to tolerate the messiest and most repelling of outcomes. You should be ready to see yourself as a garbage site, where everyone throws what they will at you. We are approaching a general national election, and so every trash thrown at any aspirant or supporter should be worn as perfume.

    And so, it is my candid opinion that members of the Pirate Confraternity who composed a song to mock the entitlement mentality of Tinubu, his ill-health, his shaky hands, his shaky legs, should not be totally blamed. This is totally my opinion.

    I do not support washing one’s hand with glee, but the cup one has used to serve others to drink will also be used to serve him. What, instead, should be the fad in the song composed by the Pirates is an unequivocal message, which is that Tinubu is not fit to rule Nigeria, because he is an old war horse.

    Tinubu cannot detest gerontocracy — rule by the old — while claiming to appreciate the ingenuity and enterprise of the Nigerian youth. This is terribly misleading. If Tinubu should tell a lie at all, let it be an excusable lie.

    Let him not attempt to reverse the time by claiming to be a youth. An old man cannot at the same time be a youth. That would be bravely misleading and fiercely contradicting.

    All said, Nigerians must be weary of a two-faced figure — half-old, half-young — aspiring to become Nigeria’s president. We cannot afford a president that is not only old, but also suffers from a chaos of wisdom.

     

    Mr Ochibejivwie writes in from Warri

  • [Devotional] IN HIS PRESENCE: Count every day as significant

    [Devotional] IN HIS PRESENCE: Count every day as significant

    By Oke Chinye

    Read: Romans 14:5-10

    Meditation verse:

    “One person esteems one day above another; another esteems everyday alike.  Let each be fully convinced. In his own mind” (Romans 14:5).

    Psalm 118:24 says, “this is the day that the Lord has made; we will rejoice and  be glad in it”. Ecclesiastes 11: 5-6 (NLT) says “just as you cannot understand the  path of the wind or the mystery of a tiny baby growing in its mother’s womb, so you cannot understand the activity of God who does all things. Plant your seed  in the morning and keep busy all afternoon, for you don’t know if profit will  come from one activity or another, or maybe both”. Jeremiah 10:23 says “O  Lord, I now the way of man is not in himself; it is not in man who walks to direct  his own steps. Proverbs 16:1 says, “the preparations of the heart belong to man,  but the answer of the tongue is from the Lord”. What do the above scriptures tell us?

    Each day you wake up alive, be grateful to God. Count it as significant because  God created it to be, and then expect the best from it. You do not know how the  day will turn out. It is not yours to understand. What is expected of you is to give  yourself fully to it, toiling from morning to evening in whatever tasks your hands  have found to do. Make plans for the day but remember that the final outcomes  of the plans you make is determined by God, so be sure to commit your plans to  Him and keep an open mind.

    God’s word is full of wisdom and life transforming insights for daily living. I have  learnt to esteem everyday as important to my existence here on earth. I have  learnt to esteem everyone that God sends to me as significant to the accomplishment of my assignment on earth. I have learnt not to label any event  in my life as a coincidence or happenstance. I have learnt to esteem every  experience in my life as working together for my good and a significant part of  where God is taking me to. I have learnt that destination is more important than  the journey. Ecclesiastes 7:8-9 says, “the end of a thing is better than the  beginning”. I am therefore persuaded that everything will be alright in the end.  If it is not alright now, then it is not the end.

     

    IN HIS PRESENCE is written by Dcns Oke Chinye, Founder of The Rock Teaching Ministry (TRTM).

    For Prayers and Counseling email rockteachingministry@gmail.com

    or call +2348155525555

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  • ‘You are lying’, Annie Responds to brother’s  drug accusation

    ‘You are lying’, Annie Responds to brother’s drug accusation

    Nollywood actress and Tuface Idibia’s wife Annie Idibia has responded to allegations raised against her by elder brother Wisdom.

    Wisdom lamented that he always got peanut from sister Annie after working for her on her project.

    He claimed that Annie was still threatening his life and introduced him to hard drugs.

    “Annie took everything away from me. She took away the job and the car she gave me. I’ve been begging my sister for a car to do Uber for many years now so I can at least on my own provide for my family, provide for my wife and my three children, my sister has never responded to me

    “I came back to beg her to continue with the manager job that she offered me but she turned me to a slave and doesn’t want me to stand on my own,” Wisdom said.

    Responding to the allegations, Annie revealed how she took care of her brother’s needs and his family despite his lazy and irresponsible attitude.

    According to her, Wisdom was upset and went on a rant in the viral video because she failed to hire him as her manager.

    Annie accused Wisdom of suffering from entitlement mentality, she added that Wisdom is doing this because she didnt hire him as her manager.

    “You live in a bedroom flat fully furnished with everything you need for you and kids.

    “Wisdom you have three kids, have you ever paid for their school fees since they were born? For nine years since your wife started making babies.

    “Have you ever paid hospital bills for any of your kids? Have you ever paid school fees?

    “I hate all these lies why! I am at the peak of my career, Please bro why all these lies just because I said you cannot be my manager.

    “I have so many voice notes from your wife but I won’t disgrace you and put it out here! I am tired! Do as you like! The universe will protect me, my hard work, my kids, my family.

    “Let the world believe anything! My name is Annie! I am not the lies you are saying! I work damn hard not lazy!

    “This Entitlement! Wow bro! I wish you well”.

  • My brother is threatening to kill me-BBNaija’s Princess laments

    My brother is threatening to kill me-BBNaija’s Princess laments

    BBNaija 2021 housemate, Princess has raised alarm over threats to her life.

    A demoralized Princess took to her Instagram page on Wednesday opening up on threats issued to her by her elder brother identified as Wisdom.

    She said Wisdom threatened to kill her if she didn’t appear at his office for an ambassadorship deal she had earlier rejected.

     

    “I want to let Nigerians know that my life is in danger, my life has been threatened by Mr Wisdom my supposed elder brother, popularly known as Wisdom generator or dollarpoint,” she wrote.

    “Fast forward to Two days ago he called me and asked me to be the brand ambassador for his business dollapoint, I told him that I am not interested.

     

    “This is coming from someone that never cared for me, my siblings and my mom, someone that said I will never amount to anything good.

    “I confronted him about an issue that happened 13yrs ago and he threatened to kill me if I don’t come to his office before Friday. I am here to tell Nigerians that if anything happens to me, Wisdom should be held responsible.”