Tag: Women

  • Until a man has married you, he is not obligated to be responsible for you- Doyin advises Women

    Until a man has married you, he is not obligated to be responsible for you- Doyin advises Women

    Controversial reality TV star, Doyin David has advised women to wait until marriage before putting their responsibilities on men.

    The outspoken podcaster, while replying to a fan who came to seek advice after her boyfriend left her for calling him stingy believes that any act of kindness a man performs for his partner in a relationship is an act of generosity.

    Doyin stressed that until a man and his partner walk down the aisle, he is not required to be responsible for a woman’s expenses.

    In her words:

    “I don’t think he’s stingy because he doesn’t randomly give you money. If you have a man that gives to you when you ask then you’re lucky to have a responsible man, but he doesn’t owe you random money just because you are his girlfriend. [sic].

    “Until a man has married you, he is not obligated to be responsible for you…. whatever he does is out of the generosity of his heart, but you should never feel entitled to his money.

    “Don’t let the internet deceive you, it’s nice to have a man who is intentional with his generosity but it’s not your birthright. There is nothing genetically programmed in a man that makes it easier for him to make money than a woman.

    “It’s not easy to make money, so no one wants to keep spending ‘randomly’. If you need random money, please get a job.”

  • Women cheat more than men in marriage – Seun Kuti

    Women cheat more than men in marriage – Seun Kuti

    Controversial Afrobeat musician, Seun Kuti has noted that women are more unfaithful in relationships and marriages than men.

    According to him, the notion that men cheat more than women was a propaganda.

    The maverick singer spoke on the ‘Bahd & Boujee’ Podcast co-hosted by reality star Tolanibaj and actress Moet Abebe.

    “The society made it seem like it’s only men that cheat. Women cheat more than men,” he said.

    The hosts: “We don’t agree!”

    Kuti, “Okay, this propaganda out there… The truth is that women cheat more than men. Even in the bible, Joseph’s master’s wife tried to cheat on her husband with him and because he refused, she framed him for rape.

    “Which man did they write in the bible that he cheated on his wife?

    “We [men and women] are all equally bad. Let’s just accept that. And men that are out there thinking that you are the only unfaithful one in your marriage or relationship, you are living in a fantasy.

    “If she is not stepping out of the house, you’re sure she is in that compound 24 hours, start looking at everybody in the compound.”

  • ‘Bring your husband to daddy,’ Ooni of Ife tells daughter at 30

    ‘Bring your husband to daddy,’ Ooni of Ife tells daughter at 30

    The Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi, has taken to social media to celebrate his daughter, Adeola, who turns 30 on May 20.

    Ogunwusi, in his post on Monday, prayed to God to be with his daughter and asked her to bring a man home for marriage because she was ripe for it.

    The revered monarch reeled out his expectations to her every 10 years, saying that when she was 10, he spoke to her about school and the future, and when she turned 20, it was about listening and understanding the importance of morals and well-being. But now that she is 30, she should bring a man home for marriage.

    He wrote, “Princess Adeola, Aanuoluwapo, Atutunini, Bamdefe Ogunwusi, Omo Ojaja II. I am truly grateful for the fulfilling life you have lived. May God Almighty continue to be with you in all your endeavours. Amen!

    “When you turned 10, your father would talk to you about school and your future. At 20, he encouraged you to listen and understand the importance of morals and well-being, even as you sought independence.

    “Now that you are 30, you are a grown woman. Your father senses that you no longer wish to be advised as independence has finally set in.

    “I talked 10 to you and got your subtle independent behaviour in return. I talked 20 to you, and I still got your near-obvious independence behaviour in return. Now I’m talking 30 to a grown woman, so go and bring husband to daddy. With love from the throne of Oduduwa.

  • Women are being pitted against each other in music industry – Simi   

    Women are being pitted against each other in music industry – Simi  

    Nigerian singer, Simisola Kosoko popularly known as  Simi has reveal why ladies are not cooperating in the music industry.

    According to her, the reason is because they are often pitted against each other.

    In a recent interview with Angela Yee, the she  admitted that fans pitting female artists against each other put pressure on their relationship.

     “Fans pit women against each other in the music industry. It’s so intense sometimes. Sometimes it can be really distracting because there are not as many of us in the [music] industry compared to the guys.

    “When a new female artist breaks into the industry, they [fans] just pit her against us with all forms of comparisons.

    “We can all thrive. I have spoken about women several times even in my songs. But because I’m an artist people assume that the only way my talking about women can be valid is by featuring women in my songs. It’s just so weird because there are women in different walks of life.

    “They do pit us against each other a lot and I think sometimes that puts some pressure on the kind of relationship that we would have otherwise.”

     

     

  • I have dated over 100 women – Skales

    I have dated over 100 women – Skales

    Afrobeats singer, Raoul John Njeng-Njeng, popularly known as Skales, revealed that he has dated over 100 women.

    The ‘Shake Body’ crooner disclosed this in a recent episode of Drip Check.

    He said, “I feel like I’ve been a dad all my life. I’ve been taking care of women all my life [laughs].

    “I have dated over 100 women.”

    Skales explained that he was a toxic boyfriend to most of the women he dated earlier in his career because he was young and reckless.

    “I did a lot of childish things. What do you expect from a teenager who is famous and has access to everything including women? There are a lot of good women that I have lost because of my childish behaviour. But because of experience, I’m becoming a better man now.”

  • Heat wave: Abuja women abandon wigs for low cut hair

    Heat wave: Abuja women abandon wigs for low cut hair

    By Folasade Akpan,

    As the weather condition gets harsher with the temperature going as high as 40 degrees Celsius sometimes, many women in Abuja have abandoned their wigs and opt for low cut hair.

    For some of them, wigs remain fashion items that should be seasonal and so they can do without them for now in order to cope with the very hot weather occasioned by climate change.

    Mrs Titilope Ariyo, a businesswoman, said that though her husband forbade her from cutting her hair, she had to do it to brace the present weather condition.

    “He actually threatened to send me back to my parents’ house if I cut my hair because he does not believe women should cut their hair, but I had to because I need to be pouring water on this head.

    “I promised to grow the hair back when the weather condition improves but I seriously do not know if I will be able to keep that promise.

    “However, it’s a really good experience just pouring water on my head whenever I want to because I feel it in the whole body”, she added.

    As for Mrs Joy Kaka, a journalist, being on low cut was because she was losing her hair and needed to cut it to treat it.

    However, cutting it during the heat season was a very good decision as it aligned with her need to cope with the weather.

    “I went on low-cut because I was seriously losing the hair and decided to start over again but now I don’t think I will grow the hair again because I’m enjoying it.

    “I bath and pour water on my head now and it’s a beautiful feeling because the heat is terrible. Not forgetting that it’s cheap. Usually I love using wigs so I make corn rows frequently and use my wigs.

    “However, lately even the corn rows aren’t cheap and I use to make them weekly before I cut my hair.”

    The Nigerian Meteorological Agency (NiMet) had since February predicted a prolonged heat wave across the country.

    In some periodic weather outlook releases, the agency had said that air temperatures in the Northern part of the country would climb to as high as 41°C and 39°C in the South, indicating a significant increase in heatwave.

    It had warned that the high level of heat could cause dehydration, heat-related illnesses and respiratory issues, among other chronic conditions.

    It also forecast that residents of some states were likely to experience sunstroke, muscle cramps and heat exhaustion.

    The agency emphasised the importance of staying well-hydrated and avoiding strenuous physical activities, especially between the hours of noon and 4pm.

    It also advised the public to stay well hydrated and reduce strenuous physical activities during the peak hours.

    Speaking the impact of the heat wave on health, Dr Henry Ewunonu, a physician and health advocate, blamed the situation on climate change.

    This, he said, was because humans have damaged the ozone layer which now has holes which allows more radiation from the sun to penetrate the earth.

    He said that humans continue to do so through burning of fossil fuels and other unwholesome anti-climate activities such as deforestation and generation of biologic wastes.

    However, excessive hot weather is antithetical to health.

    According to him, an overheated body can be likened to any overheated gadget or device such as car, mobile phones or computer.

    “It is either they are immediately cooled to salvage some functionality or they get permanently damaged. Likewise all living organisms suffer motor-cognitive, multi-systemic impairments due to excessive hot weather.

    “This excessive heat according to the World Health Organisation (WHO) is above 35°C and when above 42°C, life may no longer be guaranteed.

    “Excessive hot temperature which leads to overheating of the body systems including the human brain may account for abnormal behaviour among the most vulnerable populations who work under very strenuous environmental conditions.

    “Such conditions include transport workers, petty traders, even the traffic/law enforcement agents.

    “When people say “him head dey hot”, it refers to abnormal behaviour occasioned by heat under the circumstance”, he added.

    Ewunonu also said that excessive hot weather adversely affects those with preexisting cardiovascular conditions such as hypertension and other heart diseases, respiratory illness such as bronchial asthma, renal diseases and metabolic diseases such as diabetes.

    He said that this happens due to excessive water loss from the body making the blood to be thicker, exerting a burden on the heart and reducing the elimination of wastes through urine as the body struggles to conserve available water.

    According to him, such a situation puts extra load on the kidney.

    “Hot environmental temperature leads to what they call higher insensible water loss through the airways and skin.

    “The body is however equipped with a great thermostat system but which functions at a temperature range of around 37°C.

    “This thermostat fails in the face of excessive hot weather and the consequences such as heat exhaustion, heat stroke and death may ensue”, he said.

    He said solution to heat wave starts with humans reducing the production of carbon dioxide gas which is the main culprit.

    This, he said, could be done through alternative energy sources aside hydrocarbons, use of solar inverter batteries rather than fuel generators, avoiding bush burning and curbing felling of trees.

    As for the roles of individuals, families, communities, the society and government at all levels, he said that a whole-of-society approach was much needed to save humanity.

    “Individuals should avoid the direct effects of the sun hitting their skins and entering their homes during the day and let air in at night, save for insecurity.

    “Heat stroke will kill faster than malaria, so families are encouraged to open their windows to allow cooler air to aerate their homes.

    “They shouldn’t cook inside their living rooms and if possible not sleep where there are many heat generating household equipment such as refrigerators.

    “People should endeavour to begin their days earlier as situations permit so as to be under the cover of a shade and not under the scorching sun of the daytime, while those living in rocky mountain environments should take extra care.”

    Ewunonu said that the rocks absorb the heat in the day and release to them through convection currents and radiation at night so people should use water either for bathing or drinking very generously.

    He advised that people should continue pouring water on their bodies to remain cooler.

    Also, that the government should be more frontal in confronting the energy crises because as long as everyone is operating their generator sets, the environmental temperature would remain high.

    “The above has also explained why some ladies are cutting their hair and abandoning wigs. It’s a natural adaptation or conditioning response to the hot weather

    “There is one junk being posted that pouring water on the head or starting to bath from the head region causes stroke. That has been debunked.

    “Now, because people are not the same and what works for one does not work for another, every adult should study his or her body to know how best to keep the body cooler during those hot afternoons and nights’’, he said.

    While women cut their hair to beat heat Dr Ezekiel Edino, Medical Director, General Hospital, Igbokoda, Ondo state also advises them to take other measures.

    “It’s important to stay hydrated by drinking plenty of water, especially when exercising or spending time in hot weather. If you’re experiencing any of the symptoms of dehydration, it’s important to seek medical help as soon as possible.

    “To remain hydrated this time, it is important we do more fruits and vegetables intake, wear light clothing, avoid overcrowded and congested environment” he said.

    NAN

  • How to know if a woman genuinely likes you – Joeboy

    How to know if a woman genuinely likes you – Joeboy

    Popular Nigerian singer, Joseph Akinfenwa Donus, fondly called Joeboy has shared some relationship tips with men.

    According to him, the easiest way for a man to know if a woman genuinely likes him is if she is ready to spend on him.

    Speaking in a recent episode of Madame Joyce’s ‘Cocktails & Takeaways’ podcast, Joeboy said “the easiest way to know if a woman genuinely likes you is if she’s ready to spend on you.

    “It doesn’t have to be anything crazy [expensive]. It can be just a situation of ‘Oh! I saw this shirt that I really like and I think it will look good on you.

    “Three months into a relationship, you can start expecting gifts from your partner. It doesn’t have to be something expensive, just little things.

    “A lot of people don’t understand that men are not used to getting gifts so whenever they get a gift even if it’s socks, we appreciate it a lot.”

    Joeboy also said he is open to marrying his current girlfriend.

    He described his current relationship as “pure intense helpless love”.

     

     

  • BBNaija Rachel knocks those asking their women for DNA test

    BBNaija Rachel knocks those asking their women for DNA test

    Ex Big Brother Naija housemate, Rachel Edward has bashed those asking their women for DNA test.

    Nigerians online have been advocating that DNA tests be made compulsory given the recent cases of paternity fraud.
    However, in a reaction on her X handle, Rachel suggested that demanding a DNA test from a spouse should be considered a criminal offence.
    According to the reality star, demanding a DNA test showed that the couple does not trust themselves and should not have been married in the first place.
    She wrote,
    “Asking your wife for a DNA test should be a criminal offence. If you don’t trust her, why marry her in the first place?”

  • Appointments: FEC approves 10% youth, women quota

    Appointments: FEC approves 10% youth, women quota

    The Federal Executive Council has approved the institutionalisation of 10 per cent youth quota in all government appointments and an equitable young women representation.

    Dr Jamila Ibrahim, Minister of Youths, disclosed this at the end of the 4th FEC meeting, on Monday in Abuja.

    She said that council also approved the restructure of the Nigerian Youth Investment Fund and the revamping of the Youth Investment Fund.

    The minister said that the quota would encourage young people to participate in decision making processes and in civic engagements.

    “This will in turn lead to young people’s contributing tremendously to national development agenda.

    “I’m also pleased to announce the second council approval to restructure and institutionalise the Nigerian Youth Investment Fund.

    “This is a fund that was approved in 2020 and on assumption of Office of this administration, we commissioned a technical committee to review this fund and restructure it with the aim of institutionalising it through a legal framework, which will lead to the establishment of the Nigerian Youth Fund.

    “We have secured council approval for the immediate release of N25 billion from the 2023 supplementary Appropriation Act and an additional N25 billion from the 2024 Appropriation Act under the Youth Development Fund for Development provision in the budget.

    “We also received an additional approval from council for a N60 billion release from the Central Bank of Nigeria through the agric. investment of small medium enterprises,” she said.

    Ibrahim said that these schemes would support young businesses and bring a lot of succour to young persons in the country.

    She said that the commencement of the schemes would be done with collaboration from relevant agencies like agriculture and food security, creative economy as well as state governments among others.

  • I will never leave my husband for having a child outside our marriage – Blessing CEO

    I will never leave my husband for having a child outside our marriage – Blessing CEO

    Controversial relationship expert, Blessing CEO has said that she would never leave her husband if he had a baby with another a woman.

    Addressing the commonly held societal belief that infidelity is grounds for severing a relationship, Blessing CEO declared her support for polygamy, pointing out that it is more honorable and dignified.

    She claimed that women who oppose polygamy are selfish and only think about themselves.

    Blessing CEO stated that if she was married, she would not leave her husband for having a child outside of marriage.

    She said:

    “Polygamy is dignifying for me, it’s honorable for me. Many women are just selfish. I support polygamy 100 per cent. I will not leave my husband because he has a child outside.

    “I am a fan of Yul Edochie. I don’t see anything wrong in what he did by marrying two wives. He is an odogwu.”