When it comes to sex, being dynamic and unpredictable wins every time.You can rejuvenate your sex life this weekend by learning the 5 amazing bedroom styles your partner does not want you engaging in.
1.Sticking to one kissing style.
Some people are into deep, passionate kissing, others enjoy having their partner’s shove their tongues down their throats, and other people prefer light, sweet pecks. Whatever your or your partner’s style, you should take some time to figure it out.
A bad kisser is a big turn off in erotic encounters. It’s not to say you’re a bad kisser, but if you’re roughly kissing someone who prefers tenderness, it can be perceived this way.Therefore, you need to learn new kissing techniques in order to revive your sex life
2. Refusing to carry your partner along
Sex is a team sport.It takes two to enjoy sexual pleasure.Wehn trying a new style during sex, It is important to carry your partner along.If you’re not taking your partner’s comfort into consideration, you could be pissing them off without realizing it.
That being said, you don’t need to ask your partner if everything is alright every second—it kinda kills the mood (if that’s something you’re worried about).Just say in a sexy voice, “Does this feel good?” or “Are you liking this,” or “Is this too much?” It shows that you care and are thinking about your partner’s feelings.
3.The 69 position
According to Wikipedia, 69 is a group of sex positions in which two people align themselves so that each person’s mouth is near the other’s genitals, each simultaneously performing oral sex on the other.The participants are thus mutually inverted like the numerals 6 and 9 in the number 69, hence the name.This position can involve any combination of sexes.
Before you simply go for the 69 every time you get naked, ask your partner if this is a position they’re interested in. If they are not, perhaps you can compromise and only do it on special occasions.
When it comes to sex positions in general, you need to talk about the things that turn you on, and the things that do not.
4.Unprompted dirty talk.
One of the most nerve-wracking things during sex is working up the nerve to talk dirty. Though it can be super hot, one of the things that causes dirty talk to go awry is forgetting to prepare your partner beforehand or not starting slowly.
Some people are very turned on by filthy, dirty, raunchy dirty talk; others find it highly unappealing. Start by asking your partner if they enjoy talking dirty and let them know your feelings on the subject.
5.Skipping foreplay.
“It’s particularly important for women to have successful foreplay because it takes a woman a longer time [than a man] to get up to the level of arousal needed to orgasm,” says “Dr. Ruth” Westheimer, EdD, a psychosexual therapist, professor at New York University, and lecturer at Yale and Princeton universities.
If you’re letting your mind run away with you and are jumping right into sex, you could wind up with some tearing and discomfort during penetrative sex.
Lubrication is the key to pleasure for many women. Focus on the clitoris. Take the time to warm your partner up, and let your partner know what you need to be ready for sex. Don’t push foreplay aside. It is the key to satisfying sexual experiences. If done with care instead of rushed annoyance, it can be the hottest part of sex.