Most women place less importance on looks than men realize, good looks don’t automatically make you good with women.
Thanks to the media, most guys these days think that if they are good looking, women are going to line up to be with them.
Yet, in reality, that isn’t what happens at all.
To show you what I mean, here are 10 traits you are a boring guy.
- Don’t mind waiting… and waiting…
In dating, this manifests in things like spending months gearing up the nerves to ask a girl out or spending even longer than that chasing after women who aren’t being responsive.
And it can mean things like pining after that one special girl even though she’s out dating other guys and they’re just patiently waiting for her to break up with her current boyfriend(s) and realize their inner beauty… however long that takes to happen.
Nice guys end up in the friend zone because they are fine with waiting, comfortable with it, and complain not when women shunt them into their man-queue… no matter whether they’re 2 men deep in that queue, or 20. After all, they have time…
- You are boring as hell
Most guys that women see as losers are often thought of as being too boring and the woman you like does not like boring.
Boring turns her off and kills attraction faster than firecrackers kills spiders.
Being boring around women is like taking them to a restaurant and not buying them food, what’s the point anyway….
When you are too boring when you are around her she’s thinking “what’s the point of even hanging out with this dude? I’m wasting my time because he’s too boring”.
Women need a little excitement and stuff to keep them on their toes, they need to have fun.
- Want points for being “Nice”
“I don’t understand why she doesn’t like me,” thinks the average nice guy; “after all – I’m nice!”
What most nice guys usually don’t realize is that this is the same exact thing morbidly obese women with legs that look like sacks of flour stacked one atop the other say about themselves in relation to their lack of dating options too: “Why don’t men want to date me? I’m so nice! Clearly, men are just shallow pigs.”
Nice is the lowest common denominator. Almost everybody is “nice.”
Saying that someone should like you because you’re “nice” is like saying that someone should like you because you have two lungs and breathe air. Well, yeah – if you’re a fish and breathe water, you’re automatically out of the running for a human female as a mate. Same deal if you’re antisocial, mean-spirited, and bitter. Being nice is a bare minimum requirement, NOT a shining, redeeming, rare, heroic quality.
- Get upset when the world doesn’t play fair
If you’re a more normal kind of guy, and you spend time around cool/strong/sexy guys who do well with women and run their own businesses and generally are likable, self-possessed people, you’ll notice that these men tend to take everything in stride: when encountering adversity, neither do they start yelling or pouting about how unfair it is, nor do they bend and yield and break and let the world steamroll them.
Instead, they sigh, shake their heads at having to handle yet ANOTHER annoying problem, then roll up their sleeves and get to work.
That’s another way of saying that all boring, unsexy nice guys have a penchant for victim mentality. When life hands them lemons, they throw the lemons on the ground and scream at them.
- You are way too serious
If you occasionally wear a frown when others feel you should be smiling, this is a sign you are boring. So hear me out… there are plenty of girls in the world who enjoy dancing naked in front of mirrors singing and dancing to Wizkid’s song.
Sometimes a wild, fancy-free girl like this will find herself tethered to a man who is very grounded in his ways, a man who simply cannot understand how anyone derives satisfaction from spontaneity.
This type of man is showing symptoms of what most doctors call the Mr. Grumpy Gills syndrome. This simply means “For the love of god LAUGH. A man with Mr. Grumpy Gill’s syndrome (MGGS) feels tired, annoyed, stressed, doesn’t have fun (parties, movies, etc) and frustrated during times when normal, unaffected people feel gleeful and happy.
I know what you are thinking. MGGS sounds terrifying and completely incurable. That’s because it is.
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